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Lisa has very fine fingers

If this man who wrote this list was a woman and somebody's wife, can he keep to these rules?

He will stay single for forever.

It's the man's money talking ...

It's very achievable...

Never a big deal

pocohantas:
Now I see why my grandaunty married a wife for herself. 🙌🙌🙌

no wonder u dey as u dey

PerfectStranger:
Stop acting like those requirements ain't achievable for a full time house wife.

Our parents in those days did even way more and still kept the family in order.

Y'all Gen z's see everything as slavery.

Shey na Kobojunkie wey be iya agba you dey call Gen Z?

Kobojunkie:
Full time house husbands can do it too.

2. You saw your mother slaving away like a slave, losing herself in the process, and it never touched your heart that you should demand better for your daughter and sisters? You must be a real child of your mother.

3. I am glad Gen Zs see slavery for what it is, and are, en masse, abandoning the romanticization of that atrocity that was their ancestors.

Are u a girl? Am asking for a friend,

pocohantas:
Now I see why my grandaunty married a wife for herself. 🙌🙌🙌

Ewww lesbian? That's disgusting

stealmatic:
➜Are u a girl? Am asking for a friend,

Your friend has nothing to do with me. 🥱🥱🥱

Warrior99:
So what's bad in the list?

The only thing missing there is a handsome monthly salary/allowance for the wife to flex and take care of herself.

A good number of well-trained women will do everything on the list if the husband takes care of the CORE financial side of things.

Thats just it for me. In as much as the man is demanding such things, he should ensure he takes care of his wife.

jimi4us:
Ewww lesbian? That's disgusting

No, not lesbianism. It was a thing in the old for women who couldn't conceive (a particular gender or number of kids). Rather than have the husband take a second wife, they marry the wife for themselves and she will do her bidding _including procreation.

tunapawizzy:
no wonder u dey as u dey

Enough to keep you on your toes.
Yea, I dey as I dey.

The man must be giving #5m weekly as upkeep to keep this kind of wife.

tunapawizzy:
no wonder u dey as u dey

There is always a history and a pattern. Nothing happens by chance.

Kobojunkie:
When the supposed wife is done playing slave to a grown-arsed man—foregoing her autonomy for a life of slavery— who does not pay her enough for all of her labor, no one will tell her to get out of those self-imposed shackles to find herself happiness and peace of mind elsewhere.

Why are you making an unproven assumption again? Who told you the wife is not getting paid enough? Later on you will go back and modify the post and insert the words "may not be".

Kobojunkie:
Abeg, go make your noise elsewhere and get off my mention today!

Have you told her? Make sure you tell her. You owe her the truth. She needs to see right into your soul, if what you carry can be called that. Let her know what she birthed.

Nefort:
➜Why are you making an unproven assumption again? Who told you the wife is not getting paid enough? Later on you will go back and modify the post and insert the words "may not be".

It isn't an assumption as she made clear that she is a wife and not hired help.

Kobojunkie:
It isn't an assumption as she made clear that she is a wife and not hired help.

How does being a wife mean she doesn't earn benefits that worths her contributions to the family upkeep?

Where is the most important thing, sex?
Fake list without sex!

EmmyMaestro:
The list a Nigerian man made for his wife that has got people talking 👀

At least they removed financial contribution, child bearing and conjugal dance from her activities.....hello Obiangeli

pocohantas:
Enough to keep you on your toes.
Yea, I dey as I dey.

DDDMY

tunapawizzy:
DDDMY

OASGKYM 💕

With a very fat pay, 4 helps , 2 chefs and a flexible remote role, this can be achieved.

pocohantas:
OKYM 💕

But wait make we talk man-to-man, are you happy? Just asking genuinely

pocohantas:
OASGKYM 💕

pick a struggle

Nonexisting1:
There is always a history and a pattern. Nothing happens by chance.

So so true

tunapawizzy:
But wait make we talk man-to-man, are you happy? Just asking genuinely

AWRYCUAM

incogni2o:
Unfortunately the world has turned to a Place where Females see these above as Slavery, The deceit of Education and Civilization has thrown the word into confusion. . .
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the content of your mind plenty oo. But it's all good. You made alot of sense 😊

incogni2o:
Unfortunately the world has turned to a Place where Females see these above as Slavery, The deceit of Education and Civilization has thrown the word into confusion.

Women and Men now compete in the Household for who is the most buzy.

Waking up early to shout over the Kids to get ready for school fast. Even Kids now have a taste of the rat race from when they are toddlers.
Abandoning Kids in school amd daycare in the morning and rushing from work to pick then up at Night with no Quality time to share knowledge, experience, home training and slow paced care.

The only free time is spent at shop rite, amusement parks and on TV.

Today, I learnt that one of Bola and Remi Tinubu's child is gay and pro LGBTQ rights and that's what made it occur to me about how virtually most mordern Families are failing with Parenting. Same with most Nigerian Parents where most are running up and down servicing the MACHINA of a failed country(self deceit) while abandoning what matters most - The Family.

A lot of Boys become hooked on Drugs, Porn and other indulgences just cos they never had that emotional connection, time and care from the Parents, most especially the Mothers.
Girls on the other hand find meaning and value in sensuality even before becoming teenagers, engaging in sex before 18, having failed relationships before 20 and more and more getting into hookup when they should have married, The married ones getting more and more chronically selfish, with getting hooked on thier Job's, Social media, Makeup and sensuality, buzy bodying and other vices wrapped up with a cloak of NORMALITY.

And the Men also becoming more and more WEAK, Before I got married, I believed in this idea of the two working to compensate the family income, but I end up discovering it makes you less of a Man. Once you buy that idea, you quit being a Leader, The Head, A Visionier, everything natural a Man should be , No wonder a lot of Men end up begging thier Wives for Sex nowadays, Very Shameful. I have learnt that it inherently doesn't seem bad, but women naturally might end up not taking you as serious with the direction you feel the family should head.


Even ask yourself, what does it truly mean to become a Man, Nowadays, it's just a fine line, we now live at the edge of what a Man can do a Woman can do better.

And I totally understand why most of is cannot recon, we all have female siblings, and sat together in same classes through Primary to Unversity, our Brains seem to have been desensitised that there is not much of a difference between what it means to be a Man and also a Woman. Right now Education and "Civilization" beats Cultural values , hands down.

But unfortunately, the new generation are really suffering it, the lack of purpose, crave for societal defined comfort and confusion is eating us all from the Inside.

The Mental compensation in the household is no more there, mordern Men now take the compromise of taking every BS how the wife wants to run the Household.

For normality sake, what's wrong with a Woman aiming for these above listed as a personal goal to be an Home Keeper.

1. Waking up early to prepare the Breakfast on time
2. Bating fr the Kids Exercising
3. Cleaning the House
4. Preparing the Afternoon meals on time
5. Preparing Dinner on time
6. Taking the Kids to Bed on time.

So called educated Women see the above as Slavery and would rather pride in waking up to run to the office and bow to thier bosses struggling to climb up the corporate ladder.

The Devil has to propagandad our Mindset nowadays especially with the advent of social media in this POST-TRUTH age that a lot of mistruths and lived as life goals.

You even see some Parents share this pseudotruths as rhetorics on WhatsApp due to thier brainwashed minds.

It's just so scary where the World is moving towards, Redemption doesnt seem apparent, but one thing.

TRUTH PREVAILS in the end, Lies and Mistruths and Pseudotruths will not stand the test of time.

Personally, I'm trying to take the road less travelled, although difficult, with God's help, definitely It'll be worth taking.

Sorry for the long comment, just pouring my mind out.

God Bless you bro

Social media has turned this generation of families to something else

I guess it's one of the signs of the end times

My kind of person.

Every party to my marriage must be up and doing. Lest, stay out of my way.

tunapawizzy:
pick a struggle

Lol! Y'all have an argument with a lady here and next thing you do is start trolling her. Maybe you should ask Nonexisting1 why he has been hiding inside drum to fire shots. You will probably stay traumatised like him when all this is over. Goodnight.