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incogni2o:
Personally, I'm trying to take the road less travelled, although difficult, with God's help, definitely It'll be worth taking.

Sorry for the long comment, just pouring out my mind.

Hmmmm...been a while I read a comprehensive meaningful post like urs.

But the sad truth is, women (and I'm not describing the whole species) will always have an argument to be the:
Boss of the house
Control the man
Satisfy themselves regardless of what the man does or bring to the table
Pretend to be godly (if they are the churchy or the Moon-worshippers type) yet have an unholy mindset that even devil can't comprehend (exaggerating here but u gerrit)
While seeking to be relieved of any financial burden.

The truth is Cultural values has faded in the very country it was supposed to make most senses (Nigeria)

So what's left is a black market of taking any woman you see and dealing with the consequences as a man.

Mind you I don't argue that men are always innocent but the architect of any doom can be traced to women or tied to them. It's just a matter of decision-making, men are logical, women are emotional.

May God help the men in this our generation (if it's possible)

marlow1962:
✓ It is slavery when a woman is told to be feminine and submissive. If your duty as a wife is now called self imposed shackles, I wonder ur duties as a unmarried woman will be called.

She was most likely dong exactly the same things the unmarried man was doing.

I really don't follow your logic at all. 🥱

Tonygeesm:
✓ Slave or no slave you will still grow old and die madam

Men and women alike grow old. So what has that go do with this thread or topic? 🥱🥱🥱

PerfectStranger:
Quiet your mouth oga. What do you mean by servitude? Taking care of the house and doing what a woman should do in a home is servitude to you?

The problem with the black man is he loves being Narcissistic without any tangible achievement to show for it.
The black man's overbloated ego is too big for his own neck to carry. He has achieved nothing, built no civilisation for his woman and children to proudly inherit; yet he's the first one to force his woman to carry mount Everest on her shoulders just because nature fortunately made him the head of the house.

Since it's just house chores and should be easy, how about U do it yourself. If U are able to do it without feeling the stress, I believe your wife would also learn not to complain.

What happened to her welfare and career? So my friends cannot eat snacks from outside or what? What kind of crude mentality is this?

This husband must be an Igala man that was raised in the village.

SIRTee15:
The problem with the black man is he loves being Narcissistic without any tangible achievement to show for it.
The black man's overbloated ego is too big for his own neck to carry. He has achieved nothing, built no civilisation for his woman and children to proudly inherit; yet he's the first one to force his woman to carry mount Everest on her shoulders just because nature fortunately made him the head of the house.

Since it's just house chores and should be easy, how about U do it yourself. If U are able to do it without feeling the stress, I believe your wife would also learn not to complain.

Long epistle no point. He should do house chores while the woman go fend for food.

PerfectStranger:
Stop acting like those requirements ain't achievable for a full time house wife.

Our parents in those days did even way more and still kept the family in order.

Y'all Gen z's see everything as slavery.

So she should not have a life for herself, so what it's the husband work

Blaqroman0000:
Non virgins can't do this..

More characters needed

Do your think it's about being a virgin, pray for all of that for your sisters and daughters

If he’s paying me $150k a year then this is a job I could do well with a smile because this is a job! It’s 17hrs a day is no joke so I think I’m selling myself short at that price.

Double0h7:
If he’s paying me $150k a year then this is a job I could do well with a smile because this is a job! It’s 17hrs a day is no joke so I think I’m selling myself short at that price.

Abi o! I know many women who would opt for such an arrangement if it were the case.

Rich men dey literally pay their wives salaries to stick to routines and schedules. But see as poor men, wey no fit pay to have their laundry washed outside, dey try pretend say dem fit live rich life on poverty budget.

PerfectStranger:
Long epistle no point. He should do house chores while the woman go fend for food.

Mr man swerve.

As if most women don't contribute significantly to household expenses despite shouldering all the domestic responsibilities.

So what does the man do? Contribute half of household expenses and then what?

Let's reverse the role, women should go out, bring half of household expenses and then do nothing; while men should do all house chores but also contribute 1/3rd of home expenses.

Now does above seem fair to u? I guess not. That's exactly how women feel with your selfish and irrational demands U place on them.

It's obvious some of U don't think things thru before vomiting it out.

Jamsam:
So she should not have a life for herself, so what it's the husband work

That's strictly for a full time house wife.

Kobojunkie:
How many high earning men in Nigeria or anywhere in the world do you know of that stoop so low as to give their wives such a list as the one posted in the OP? 🥱🥱🥱

Abeg, make una stop this incessant act of shifting goal posts. 🥱🥱🥱

oge,my problem with you is that you argue unnecessarily.
Where is this argument coming from? I said a high earning man not the typical bums that will make their wives pound pepper with mortar.
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PerfectStranger:
That's strictly for a full time house wife.

The full house wife can go to occasions