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monerozi5590:
In this economy, 2k can't feed you for a day.

Sir, it depends on location, and most importantly the eating place.

Feeding on buker in Nasarrawa state can't give you same value or cost with someone eating in 2 star restaurant in Abuja.

bigpicture001:
Even your classy girl with high income will change if u stop ur income that gives u that class...

Women are same , dnt deceive yourself...

But that's exactly why you go for the best moneywise - because they all the same but one has money and one does not

Op is very reasonable but let me tell you a bit about mine that I had to walk out.
I earn totally around 300k monthly or more but no little less but I really can't calculate her income but then she will call me sometimes that she's hungry..I will be like call your parent nau,, I have witnessed her dad hanging up call on her because she asked for money....
On this particular day, she told me she's hungry,I said call your dad..she then hung up the call, the next day she was not online so when she came online, the voice note she sent had her crying, I asked her what..she said she was hungry and hadn't eaten since yesterday, so I sent her 5k then when we started talking, I chipped in that her parents no really try for starving her as a lady, no matter what they should have sent something...she hung the call on me, sent me bull crap messages that I use to speak to her rudely, thank God I wasn't God, I use to insult her parents bla bla bla,infact what have I done for her....

Ahh me that paid her rent when they almost threw her out of her house,,it's not a big amount like that oh, if she's sick I know how much I use to spend, she usually force me to opueh her but I told her i don't want to go that route yet..yes she's a virgin,,I know what I am saying...

I have really done a lot, not to even think of how whenever she comes to my place, it's to raid some of my clothes and my perfume collections...how about data nko..

This was someone who was humble two years ago when I met her, she's the one asking me all these things...hmm case closed..I blocked her and moved on..since then my life have become more productive than ever...

Most women these days no dey appreciate oh...forget all those bull craps that we deceive ourselves with..

I learnt the hard way...that's why I need to hit the bag,,I will never marry a broke lady that can't sort her bills without me but me I will be 80% providing for her and the family but not 100%..she seff must be productive....opueh no be gift

Legendguy:
Rather than giving her money, why not encourage her to work?

Depending on her qualifications, let's assume she's SSCE, there are some SSCE A jobs that pays up to minimum wage, if less, like 40-60k.
This money helps her get basic things like data, pad, toiletries, tissue and clothing then he can decide to complement it with any amount he can offer rather than place her on monthly salary as if she's working for him.
All this things he's doing is the responsibilities of her family, he's just enabling her to be entitled to his money.
Assuming the guy can't meet up to particular month due to one challenge or the other, that's how she will be feeling entitled as if it's a right.

Na men dey spoil these girls and you are also encouraging it, if you are a man

Didn't you read where he said that the girl earns 55k a month and that goes to her feeding??

Secondly, all these "responsibilities of her family" you people are capping sounds like something else to me.
But let's hold it there sha.

Which hospital collected 12k for 1 month

bigpicture001:
... first and foremost, I cut my clothe according to my size... I dnt go after ladies with very high maintainance or unending list of demands...I specifically go after moderate ladies, also, I made my gf understand I am not a rich guy, but we can work thing out standing by ourselves...

But nomata how u do it, ladies will always be demanding of u to spend and spend..since that is the only way to show love by a guy in this part of the world .
.
I am a mid range earner...sh also works but in low income...as usual once a while there are stylish demand for u to assist financially so inorder not to embarrass her or annoy me or come at a time I am broke...I created a plan...

I noted issues which usually need my financial assistance more often...

Data, sickness, credit, and sometimes direct financial support...

For the data..I migrated her to glo, ND did an Always ON plan for her..one of 5k for one month which gives her 1G everyday...l continually subscribe it for her . If sh use all watch sabinus lafter zone, na she sabi. nomata what, sh must wait for tomorrow to get another.. data problem solved..I warned her not to b calling with that data..and buy credit instead...

On credit.. sh buys it herself... And I dnt tolerate it when sh need to call me and didn't cuz sh don't HV credit...


On health.. I used 12k to register her for health insurance for a year at the nearest hospital closest to her.. that way.. whenever sh tells me I am not feeling fine.. I simply reply, go to the hospital na.. it's free... Sh no dey bring that talk come again, but honestly, it helps her alot...

On financial support.. I gift her 25k monthly... But sh doesn't know... Sh believes my giving are endless..... Before the end of first week of the month, I send her money... Sometimes, 5k. Next month might be 15k, another might b 8k,10, as the spirit moves me... And in the third week I send the rest Wich must total 25k..

And if I send her sometimes 8k ND maybe forgot the rest when the month is almost spent, I buy her gift with the rest or take her out entirely... All within the 25k...

That way I satify all my supposed gifting requirements in a relationship...

Guyz how do u see this my method...

Dnt mind those that will rush to thread to shout simp, simp, na them do pass self...


I believe in plans, I believe if u dnt plan, u waste money

interesting, how do you handle other financial obligations from immediate family members like moms/pops/ siblings et al?

You're micromanaging your gf. Make sure you hide her from ballerz.

Blitzking:
pekus 4 times a month.

u mean u pay for sex ? Is she a prostitute

This your method make too much sense. I will adopt it for my wife.

1solution:
Which hospital collected 12k for 1 month

It's an insurance.

The rate at which all these "take care of women" posts are posted on Nairaland recently is suspicious.

One says men don't understand what women go through in a bid to justify waywardness. Another talked about gehgeh and why men should remain men and take care of women. Now this one talks about taking care of a girlfriend.

Girls don’t appreciate bro, they never appreciate.
Don’t be shocked if another man is hitting it without dropping a dime.

bigpicture001:
... first and foremost, I cut my clothe according to my size... I dnt go after ladies with very high maintainance or unending list of demands...I specifically go after moderate ladies, also, I made my gf understand I am not a rich guy, but we can work thing out standing by ourselves...

But nomata how u do it, ladies will always be demanding of u to spend and spend..since that is the only way to show love by a guy in this part of the world .
.
I am a mid range earner...sh also works but in low income...as usual once a while there are stylish demand for u to assist financially so inorder not to embarrass her or annoy me or come at a time I am broke...I created a plan...

I noted issues which usually need my financial assistance more often...

Data, sickness, credit, and sometimes direct financial support...

For the data..I migrated her to glo, ND did an Always ON plan for her..one of 5k for one month which gives her 1G everyday...l continually subscribe it for her . If sh use all watch sabinus lafter zone, na she sabi. nomata what, sh must wait for tomorrow to get another.. data problem solved..I warned her not to b calling with that data..and buy credit instead...

On credit.. sh buys it herself... And I dnt tolerate it when sh need to call me and didn't cuz sh don't HV credit...


On health.. I used 12k to register her for health insurance for a year at the nearest hospital closest to her.. that way.. whenever sh tells me I am not feeling fine.. I simply reply, go to the hospital na.. it's free... Sh no dey bring that talk come again, but honestly, it helps her alot...

On financial support.. I gift her 25k monthly... But sh doesn't know... Sh believes my giving are endless..... Before the end of first week of the month, I send her money... Sometimes, 5k. Next month might be 15k, another might b 8k,10, as the spirit moves me... And in the third week I send the rest Wich must total 25k..

And if I send her sometimes 8k ND maybe forgot the rest when the month is almost spent, I buy her gift with the rest or take her out entirely... All within the 25k...

That way I satify all my supposed gifting requirements in a relationship...

Guyz how do u see this my method...

Dnt mind those that will rush to thread to shout simp, simp, na them do pass self...


I believe in plans, I believe if u dnt plan, u waste money

Hi,

Good one.

Aside the fact that you both are knacking yourselves, does she also Gift you?

One doesn't have to make 3m monthly to gift those they love.

You should put that into perspective. Let the giving feeling be mutual.

Trust me, women forget things in a twinkle of an eye. Especially things they didn't invest their time and money to.

Meanwhile, please, I am interested in the medical insurance part. Can you guide me on how you did it.

Weldone.

Chubhie:
What's in it for you at the end of the month? 7 more characters needed

Menstrual pains I guess 😆

Lets see the plans for your parents

Na people like you dey self delete when served breakie

Even if you were supporting her, it shouldn't be on a plan. It should be casual.

bigpicture001:
... first and foremost, I cut my clothe according to my size... I dnt go after ladies with very high maintainance or unending list of demands...I specifically go after moderate ladies, also, I made my gf understand I am not a rich guy, but we can work thing out standing by ourselves...

But nomata how u do it, ladies will always be demanding of u to spend and spend..since that is the only way to show love by a guy in this part of the world .
.
I am a mid range earner...sh also works but in low income...as usual once a while there are stylish demand for u to assist financially so inorder not to embarrass her or annoy me or come at a time I am broke...I created a plan...

I noted issues which usually need my financial assistance more often...

Data, sickness, credit, and sometimes direct financial support...

For the data..I migrated her to glo, ND did an Always ON plan for her..one of 5k for one month which gives her 1G everyday...l continually subscribe it for her . If sh use all watch sabinus lafter zone, na she sabi. nomata what, sh must wait for tomorrow to get another.. data problem solved..I warned her not to b calling with that data..and buy credit instead...

On credit.. sh buys it herself... And I dnt tolerate it when sh need to call me and didn't cuz sh don't HV credit...


On health.. I used 12k to register her for health insurance for a year at the nearest hospital closest to her.. that way.. whenever sh tells me I am not feeling fine.. I simply reply, go to the hospital na.. it's free... Sh no dey bring that talk come again, but honestly, it helps her alot...

On financial support.. I gift her 25k monthly... But sh doesn't know... Sh believes my giving are endless..... Before the end of first week of the month, I send her money... Sometimes, 5k. Next month might be 15k, another might b 8k,10, as the spirit moves me... And in the third week I send the rest Wich must total 25k..

And if I send her sometimes 8k ND maybe forgot the rest when the month is almost spent, I buy her gift with the rest or take her out entirely... All within the 25k...

That way I satify all my supposed gifting requirements in a relationship...

Guyz how do u see this my method...

Dnt mind those that will rush to thread to shout simp, simp, na them do pass self...


I believe in plans, I believe if u dnt plan, u waste money

Don't be duprise she can still dump you 4 someone better. U are doing 4 FF wat ubshould do 4 wife. Grow up mam

If I ask what u do for ur mother or sisters now u will tell me its not my business or u don't need to say it hear but here u are exhibiting ur public yamyampu.
Odikwa egwu ooo

Hampers001:
Op is very reasonable but let me tell you a bit about mine that I had to walk out.
I earn totally around 300k monthly or more but no little less but I really can't calculate her income but then she will call me sometimes that she's hungry..I will be like call your parent nau,, I have witnessed her dad hanging up call on her because she asked for money....
On this particular day, she told me she's hungry,I said call your dad..she then hung up the call, the next day she was not online so when she came online, the voice note she sent had her crying, I asked her what..she said she was hungry and hadn't eaten since yesterday, so I sent her 5k then when we started talking, I chipped in that her parents no really try for starving her as a lady, no matter what they should have sent something...she hung the call on me, sent me bull crap messages that I use to speak to her rudely, thank God I wasn't God, I use to insult her parents bla bla bla,infact what have I done for her....

Ahh me that paid her rent when they almost threw her out of her house,,it's not a big amount like that oh, if she's sick I know how much I use to spend, she usually force me to opueh her but I told her i don't want to go that route yet..yes she's a virgin,,I know what I am saying...

I have really done a lot, not to even think of how whenever she comes to my place, it's to raid some of my clothes and my perfume collections...how about data nko..

This was someone who was humble two years ago when I met her, she's the one asking me all these things...hmm case closed..I blocked her and moved on..since then my life have become more productive than ever...

Most women these days no dey appreciate oh...forget all those bull craps that we deceive ourselves with..

I learnt the hard way...that's why I need to hit the bag,,I will never marry a broke lady that can't sort her bills without me but me I will be 80% providing for her and the family but not 100%..she seff must be productive....opueh no be gift

Experience is the best teacher. OP have our blessings to walk his path.

Oga, unless you want to marry, if not it will be better to have like 5 chicks, not commited in anyway. When you need female company you pick one, do the needful, sort her some cash let her go, block her number on call and WhatsApp. The next time you need company you unblock and invite her.
Oga that saves you money and stress in the long run.
Nb: na so I read an somewhere say guys weh sabi de do nowadays.

Go to Gehgeh University to learn how to treat a girlfriend who is always demanding money from you.

franugo:
Ignore all these gehgeh boys... relationship is give and take. My wife out earns me currently but I paid over 200k for her sister's fashion design training when we were not even married. Imagine that I was tightfisted when she needed me, would we be where we are?...the main thing is finding that person you're compatible with and doing your best to lighten her burden while she does the same for you.

Now your wife earns more than you, will she support one of your family member, with 500k when they needed it, if u don't have enough. Sincerely answer this question

How much are you giving your parents and your siblings?

bigpicture001:
... first and foremost, I cut my clothe according to my size... I dnt go after ladies with very high maintainance or unending list of demands...I specifically go after moderate ladies, also, I made my gf understand I am not a rich guy, but we can work thing out standing by ourselves...

But nomata how u do it, ladies will always be demanding of u to spend and spend..since that is the only way to show love by a guy in this part of the world .
.
I am a mid range earner...sh also works but in low income...as usual once a while there are stylish demand for u to assist financially so inorder not to embarrass her or annoy me or come at a time I am broke...I created a plan...

I noted issues which usually need my financial assistance more often...

Data, sickness, credit, and sometimes direct financial support...

For the data..I migrated her to glo, ND did an Always ON plan for her..one of 5k for one month which gives her 1G everyday...l continually subscribe it for her . If sh use all watch sabinus lafter zone, na she sabi. nomata what, sh must wait for tomorrow to get another.. data problem solved..I warned her not to b calling with that data..and buy credit instead...

On credit.. sh buys it herself... And I dnt tolerate it when sh need to call me and didn't cuz sh don't HV credit...


On health.. I used 12k to register her for health insurance for a year at the nearest hospital closest to her.. that way.. whenever sh tells me I am not feeling fine.. I simply reply, go to the hospital na.. it's free... Sh no dey bring that talk come again, but honestly, it helps her alot...

On financial support.. I gift her 25k monthly... But sh doesn't know... Sh believes my giving are endless..... Before the end of first week of the month, I send her money... Sometimes, 5k. Next month might be 15k, another might b 8k,10, as the spirit moves me... And in the third week I send the rest Wich must total 25k..

And if I send her sometimes 8k ND maybe forgot the rest when the month is almost spent, I buy her gift with the rest or take her out entirely... All within the 25k...

That way I satify all my supposed gifting requirements in a relationship...

Guyz how do u see this my method...

Dnt mind those that will rush to thread to shout simp, simp, na them do pass self...


I believe in plans, I believe if u dnt plan, u waste money

If you be my brother I fit nod you for mouth.
Na una dey take breakup personally. How can you be doing this to yourself.
For your mind she love you.
Wait until one fine boy collect her number come do ₦1.5m transfer for upkeep she go leave you disappear

Thanks for sharing such great insight into your folly

If she no dey chop another man cock then it worth it. Take care of the meat to avoid flies

bigpicture001:
... first and foremost, I cut my clothe according to my size... I dnt go after ladies with very high maintainance or unending list of demands...I specifically go after moderate ladies, also, I made my gf understand I am not a rich guy, but we can work thing out standing by ourselves...

But nomata how u do it, ladies will always be demanding of u to spend and spend..since that is the only way to show love by a guy in this part of the world .
.
I am a mid range earner...sh also works but in low income...as usual once a while there are stylish demand for u to assist financially so inorder not to embarrass her or annoy me or come at a time I am broke...I created a plan...

I noted issues which usually need my financial assistance more often...

Data, sickness, credit, and sometimes direct financial support...

For the data..I migrated her to glo, ND did an Always ON plan for her..one of 5k for one month which gives her 1G everyday...l continually subscribe it for her . If sh use all watch sabinus lafter zone, na she sabi. nomata what, sh must wait for tomorrow to get another.. data problem solved..I warned her not to b calling with that data..and buy credit instead...

On credit.. sh buys it herself... And I dnt tolerate it when sh need to call me and didn't cuz sh don't HV credit...


On health.. I used 12k to register her for health insurance for a year at the nearest hospital closest to her.. that way.. whenever sh tells me I am not feeling fine.. I simply reply, go to the hospital na.. it's free... Sh no dey bring that talk come again, but honestly, it helps her alot...

On financial support.. I gift her 25k monthly... But sh doesn't know... Sh believes my giving are endless..... Before the end of first week of the month, I send her money... Sometimes, 5k. Next month might be 15k, another might b 8k,10, as the spirit moves me... And in the third week I send the rest Wich must total 25k..

And if I send her sometimes 8k ND maybe forgot the rest when the month is almost spent, I buy her gift with the rest or take her out entirely... All within the 25k...

That way I satify all my supposed gifting requirements in a relationship...

Guyz how do u see this my method...

Dnt mind those that will rush to thread to shout simp, simp, na them do pass self...


I believe in plans, I believe if u dnt plan, u waste money

I hope you are also spending on your mother and sisters

bigpicture001:
... first and foremost, I cut my clothe according to my size... I dnt go after ladies with very high maintainance or unending list of demands...I specifically go after moderate ladies, also, I made my gf understand I am not a rich guy, but we can work thing out standing by ourselves...

But nomata how u do it, ladies will always be demanding of u to spend and spend..since that is the only way to show love by a guy in this part of the world .
.
I am a mid range earner...sh also works but in low income...as usual once a while there are stylish demand for u to assist financially so inorder not to embarrass her or annoy me or come at a time I am broke...I created a plan...

I noted issues which usually need my financial assistance more often...

Data, sickness, credit, and sometimes direct financial support...

For the data..I migrated her to glo, ND did an Always ON plan for her..one of 5k for one month which gives her 1G everyday...l continually subscribe it for her . If sh use all watch sabinus lafter zone, na she sabi. nomata what, sh must wait for tomorrow to get another.. data problem solved..I warned her not to b calling with that data..and buy credit instead...

On credit.. sh buys it herself... And I dnt tolerate it when sh need to call me and didn't cuz sh don't HV credit...


On health.. I used 12k to register her for health insurance for a year at the nearest hospital closest to her.. that way.. whenever sh tells me I am not feeling fine.. I simply reply, go to the hospital na.. it's free... Sh no dey bring that talk come again, but honestly, it helps her alot...

On financial support.. I gift her 25k monthly... But sh doesn't know... Sh believes my giving are endless..... Before the end of first week of the month, I send her money... Sometimes, 5k. Next month might be 15k, another might b 8k,10, as the spirit moves me... And in the third week I send the rest Wich must total 25k..

And if I send her sometimes 8k ND maybe forgot the rest when the month is almost spent, I buy her gift with the rest or take her out entirely... All within the 25k...

That way I satify all my supposed gifting requirements in a relationship...

Guyz how do u see this my method...

Dnt mind those that will rush to thread to shout simp, simp, na them do pass self...


I believe in plans, I believe if u dnt plan, u waste money

Ignore all these bad Belle people

Na man you be

The million dollar question is what can she sacrifice for you apart from toto,think deeply about this question,she is testing you with billing,you should be able to stylishly return your own by billing her too,if she care about you she would sacrifice her money for you. Or else "had I known would be the last comment of a fool".

Test her loyalty bro to really know where you stand, women don't value what they don't work for.

bigpicture001:
... first and foremost, I cut my clothe according to my size... I dnt go after ladies with very high maintainance or unending list of demands...I specifically go after moderate ladies, also, I made my gf understand I am not a rich guy, but we can work thing out standing by ourselves...

But nomata how u do it, ladies will always be demanding of u to spend and spend..since that is the only way to show love by a guy in this part of the world .
.
I am a mid range earner...sh also works but in low income...as usual once a while there are stylish demand for u to assist financially so inorder not to embarrass her or annoy me or come at a time I am broke...I created a plan...

I noted issues which usually need my financial assistance more often...

Data, sickness, credit, and sometimes direct financial support...

For the data..I migrated her to glo, ND did an Always ON plan for her..one of 5k for one month which gives her 1G everyday...l continually subscribe it for her . If sh use all watch sabinus lafter zone, na she sabi. nomata what, sh must wait for tomorrow to get another.. data problem solved..I warned her not to b calling with that data..and buy credit instead...

On credit.. sh buys it herself... And I dnt tolerate it when sh need to call me and didn't cuz sh don't HV credit...


On health.. I used 12k to register her for health insurance for a year at the nearest hospital closest to her.. that way.. whenever sh tells me I am not feeling fine.. I simply reply, go to the hospital na.. it's free... Sh no dey bring that talk come again, but honestly, it helps her alot...

On financial support.. I gift her 25k monthly... But sh doesn't know... Sh believes my giving are endless..... Before the end of first week of the month, I send her money... Sometimes, 5k. Next month might be 15k, another might b 8k,10, as the spirit moves me... And in the third week I send the rest Wich must total 25k..

And if I send her sometimes 8k ND maybe forgot the rest when the month is almost spent, I buy her gift with the rest or take her out entirely... All within the 25k...

That way I satify all my supposed gifting requirements in a relationship...

Guyz how do u see this my method...

Dnt mind those that will rush to thread to shout simp, simp, na them do pass self...


I believe in plans, I believe if u dnt plan, u waste money

I read most comments here, and I shake my head on the level of hypocrisy. Let every man do what's best for him, his relationship, and his peace of mind.

Most of you men here, especially those that don't have minds of their own. Won't show kind gestures towards your gfs that will cook, clean and bleep you whenever you want, yet you ain't married to her yet. But you feel, showing kind gestures towards her from time to time, would mean one is a simp, or the gf is a liability.

But when you want to cheat, you can easily pay an OS between 20k-50k for a sex escapade. The OS no be woman she be ba? Mtcheeeeeeeewww!

If as a man you have a good lady as a gf, treat her well. And as a lady, you have a good man who cares and loves you, treat him well, respect him, and don't cheat on him. Life no hard!

Omo, how much you have in your savings and investment account after ll these leakage? What happens the day you lose your job and unable to meet up those self-induced financial obligations? Will she still love and stay with you?

Where is the father and family members of that girl because I see you performing the role of her father.

25k every month is about 300k in a year, add compound intert on that amount in five years at a good rate of return and see what you are missing.

Anyways, wetin I know.

bigpicture001:
... first and foremost, I cut my clothe according to my size... I dnt go after ladies with very high maintainance or unending list of demands...I specifically go after moderate ladies, also, I made my gf understand I am not a rich guy, but we can work thing out standing by ourselves...

But nomata how u do it, ladies will always be demanding of u to spend and spend..since that is the only way to show love by a guy in this part of the world .
.
I am a mid range earner...sh also works but in low income...as usual once a while there are stylish demand for u to assist financially so inorder not to embarrass her or annoy me or come at a time I am broke...I created a plan...

I noted issues which usually need my financial assistance more often...

Data, sickness, credit, and sometimes direct financial support...

For the data..I migrated her to glo, ND did an Always ON plan for her..one of 5k for one month which gives her 1G everyday...l continually subscribe it for her . If sh use all watch sabinus lafter zone, na she sabi. nomata what, sh must wait for tomorrow to get another.. data problem solved..I warned her not to b calling with that data..and buy credit instead...

On credit.. sh buys it herself... And I dnt tolerate it when sh need to call me and didn't cuz sh don't HV credit...


On health.. I used 12k to register her for health insurance for a year at the nearest hospital closest to her.. that way.. whenever sh tells me I am not feeling fine.. I simply reply, go to the hospital na.. it's free... Sh no dey bring that talk come again, but honestly, it helps her alot...

On financial support.. I gift her 25k monthly... But sh doesn't know... Sh believes my giving are endless..... Before the end of first week of the month, I send her money... Sometimes, 5k. Next month might be 15k, another might b 8k,10, as the spirit moves me... And in the third week I send the rest Wich must total 25k..

And if I send her sometimes 8k ND maybe forgot the rest when the month is almost spent, I buy her gift with the rest or take her out entirely... All within the 25k...

That way I satify all my supposed gifting requirements in a relationship...

Guyz how do u see this my method...

Dnt mind those that will rush to thread to shout simp, simp, na them do pass self...


I believe in plans, I believe if u dnt plan, u waste money

Someone should hold this guy. The thingy is at the early stage, there is still a remedy before it boomerangs