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Nonexisting1:
Their trademark is always to insult your mother. Even here in nairaland, once she insults your mother, na them.

Nonexisting1:
Their trademark is always to insult your mother. Even here in nairaland, once she insults your mother, na them. See her mouth like 200k for short time. She wants to make almost x4 of monthly minimum wage in just 30minutes.

stainzvill:
See her mileaged thing like 200k
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Adexgentle005:
why are guys patronising OS in the first place ?

advanceDNA:
It's the same reason pple drink coke, alcohol, eat what they don't really need, go to clubs and dance..the human mind and body is wired to seek pleasure .....once it's it's easily available , and discipline is not in place....nothing can stop indulgence

HeatSeeker:
I never expected such wisdom from you.

brain54:
They is no pleasure there jare...

Having sex with a random stranger. Emotionless sex.

Where is the fun in that? Even the bargaining process will put me off like I'm pricing a piece of meat!

brain54:
They is no pleasure there jare...

Having sex with a random stranger. Emotionless sex.

Where is the fun in that? Even the bargaining process will put me off like I'm pricing a piece of meat!

advanceDNA:
Early morning iπsult.?? ….today na sunday..i nor go indulge you...

.It's now wisdom because u agree.....once u don't agree it becomes something else...

Nairalanders and not being able to objectively relate with other pple's opinion.... May God forgive una....

HeatSeeker:
It is far easier to cut ties with a random stranger than with someone you know and have built a relationship with.

That is the real benefit of this type of transaction.

Besides, it is better to know the real cost of what you are paying for upfront than for it to come in the form of unquantifiable time, emotions, sacrifices, and love. Every man pays for sex.

Globad:
Of course it's like pricing a piece of meat or a commodity

It's not love. It's not emotional. It's not lovemaking. It's just sex at its most base animal level. It's to relieve an urge. No connections. No emotions. No nothing. Just fffk and go.

It dehumanizes. It is dehumanizing.

brain54:
Why would I prefer to cut ties with people...

Rather than building sound and sustainable relationships with people?

HeatSeeker:
Detached sex is not dehumanising. The attachments that come as a result of sex are very problematic and difficult to get rid of.

Globad:
It doesn't dehumanise the woman you're buying sex from? Is it dignifying?

HeatSeeker:
Sex only dehumanizes once it is forced and done without consent.

Once both parties agree (even for a price) the it edifies both. The lady gets the financial empowerment she needs and the man gets the dopamine hit from orgasm he craves. Both are served and none is dehumanized.

HeatSeeker:
Why wouldn't you cut ties with people?!

If you find a relationship unproductive and heavy resource consuming, wouldn't you want it to end?

It is not every relationship you invest in that will yield good returns. Once you notice it is not going to give you the intended results, abandon ship!

Nonexisting1:
Their trademark is always to insult your mother. Even here in nairaland, once she insults your mother, na them. See her mouth like 200k for short time. She wants to make almost x4 of monthly minimum wage in just 30minutes.

advanceDNA:
It's the same reason pple drink coke, alcohol, eat what they don't really need, go to clubs and dance..the human mind and body is wired to seek pleasure .....once it's it's easily available , and discipline is not in place....nothing can stop indulgence

HeatSeeker:
Why don't you take it as a compliment 😏😏😜😜

advanceDNA:
What would I take an insult as a compliment ??

Adexgentle005:
Are you being serious right now ? So you prefer transactional sex to normal sex ?

HeatSeeker:
Sex only dehumanizes once it is forced and done without consent.

Once both parties agree (even for a price) the it edifies both. The lady gets the financial empowerment she needs and the man gets the dopamine hit from orgasm he craves. Both are served and none is dehumanized.

HeatSeeker:
I never expected such wisdom from you.

HeatSeeker:
Sex only dehumanizes once it is forced and done without consent.

Once both parties agree (even for a price) the it edifies both. The lady gets the financial empowerment she needs and the man gets the dopamine hit from orgasm he craves. Both are served and none is dehumanized.

brain54:
Having sex with someone...

Who normally wouldn't have nothing to do with you.

No feelings whatsoever. Just because of the financial or whatever benefits she would get from the 'activity' whereby if she had a choice wouldn't, seems dehumanizing to me.

Even the process of bargaining like it's a piece of meat, pizza, or wrapper one is buying is dehumanizing.

It feels almost like rape to me. That's my personal opinion!

brain54:
Of course it's wise to cut off unproductive relationships...

But no one goes into any relationship investing at their emotions at a go. That's why I used the word building which suggests a gradual and steady growth.

Not every relationship will yield good results... but these processes are part of life. It's full of ups and downs.

And they really are no short cuts in the school of life.

These things are what makes us humans and not animals. We can't reduce our emotions(what makes us human) and reduce our selfs to the base.

An emotionless person isn't too different from a basic animal surviving through natural instincts!