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This one don go buy liability put for house...God go help u and wetin u go carry with ur own hands......

Abeg, mk i dey here dey face my wahala jeje

osazsky:
are u her dad?

Exactly what I will say or her elder brother.
How many of his sister's is he doing that for or his parents

bigpicture001:
I Bleep her , her dad don't.... We share most period together less than sh do with her dad

So you fuyck her, she doesn't focuk you?

brain54:
Any woman working...

And can't take care of herself and still demands the most little and basic necessities like data is a liability!

Honestly a huge liability

bigpicture001:
... first and foremost, I cut my clothe according to my size... I dnt go after ladies with very high maintainance or unending list of demands...I specifically go after moderate ladies, also, I made my gf understand I am not a rich guy, but we can work thing out standing by ourselves...

But nomata how u do it, ladies will always be demanding of u to spend and spend..since that is the only way to show love by a guy in this part of the world .
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I am a mid range earner...sh also works but in low income...as usual once a while there are stylish demand for u to assist financially so inorder not to embarrass her or annoy me or come at a time I am broke...I created a plan...

I noted issues which usually need my financial assistance more often...

Data, sickness, credit, and sometimes direct financial support...

For the data..I migrated her to glo, ND did an Always ON plan for her..one of 5k for one month which gives her 1G everyday...l continually subscribe it for her . If sh use all watch sabinus lafter zone, na she sabi. nomata what, sh must wait for tomorrow to get another.. data problem solved..I warned her not to b calling with that data..and buy credit instead...

On credit.. sh buys it herself... And I dnt tolerate it when sh need to call me and didn't cuz sh don't HV credit...


On health.. I used 12k to register her for health insurance for a year at the nearest hospital closest to her.. that way.. whenever sh tells me I am not feeling fine.. I simply reply, go to the hospital na.. it's free... Sh no dey bring that talk come again, but honestly, it helps her alot...

On financial support.. I gift her 25k monthly... But sh doesn't know... Sh believes my giving are endless..... Before the end of first week of the month, I send her money... Sometimes, 5k. Next month might be 15k, another might b 8k,10, as the spirit moves me... And in the third week I send the rest Wich must total 25k..

And if I send her sometimes 8k ND maybe forgot the rest when the month is almost spent, I buy her gift with the rest or take her out entirely... All within the 25k...

That way I satify all my supposed gifting requirements in a relationship...

Guyz how do u see this my method...

Dnt mind those that will rush to thread to shout simp, simp, na them do pass self...


I believe in plans, I believe if u dnt plan, u waste money

Me, I don overspoil my babe...

This boy, so upon all gehgeh teachings you still no get sense. Well om a more serious not, do what makes you happy. Never give her shishi unless you feel like giving her. How can you be paying salary abi you call am allowance. If she dey your position I bet she won't be doing such for you.

ezewealth:
Now your wife earns more than you, will she support one of your family member, with 500k when they needed it, if u don't have enough. Sincerely answer this question

No doubt in my mind whatsoever, yes. If there's expenses I cannot chest, she always chips in if I ask.

bigpicture001:
No wahala, not all liabilities stays like that for long...

Ur asset ladies are full of shit.... Mostly arroangant and entitled ...

As a man, there comes a time u relaized peace of mind is worth more than even a zenith bank manager wife.. who gives u shit and makes u restless... Relationship is not a competition boy!

If she gives you peace of mind, marry am

bigpicture001:
... first and foremost, I cut my clothe according to my size... I dnt go after ladies with very high maintainance or unending list of demands...I specifically go after moderate ladies, also, I made my gf understand I am not a rich guy, but we can work thing out standing by ourselves...

But nomata how u do it, ladies will always be demanding of u to spend and spend..since that is the only way to show love by a guy in this part of the world .
.
I am a mid range earner...sh also works but in low income...as usual once a while there are stylish demand for u to assist financially so inorder not to embarrass her or annoy me or come at a time I am broke...I created a plan...

I noted issues which usually need my financial assistance more often...

Data, sickness, credit, and sometimes direct financial support...

For the data..I migrated her to glo, ND did an Always ON plan for her..one of 5k for one month which gives her 1G everyday...l continually subscribe it for her . If sh use all watch sabinus lafter zone, na she sabi. nomata what, sh must wait for tomorrow to get another.. data problem solved..I warned her not to b calling with that data..and buy credit instead...

On credit.. sh buys it herself... And I dnt tolerate it when sh need to call me and didn't cuz sh don't HV credit...


On health.. I used 12k to register her for health insurance for a year at the nearest hospital closest to her.. that way.. whenever sh tells me I am not feeling fine.. I simply reply, go to the hospital na.. it's free... Sh no dey bring that talk come again, but honestly, it helps her alot...

On financial support.. I gift her 25k monthly... But sh doesn't know... Sh believes my giving are endless..... Before the end of first week of the month, I send her money... Sometimes, 5k. Next month might be 15k, another might b 8k,10, as the spirit moves me... And in the third week I send the rest Wich must total 25k..

And if I send her sometimes 8k ND maybe forgot the rest when the month is almost spent, I buy her gift with the rest or take her out entirely... All within the 25k...

That way I satify all my supposed gifting requirements in a relationship...

Guyz how do u see this my method...

Dnt mind those that will rush to thread to shout simp, simp, na them do pass self...


I believe in plans, I believe if u dnt plan, u waste money

M & W.
Modest and Wisdom....you have shown.

Bro listen to yourself.... U are paying to commit sinful act. Now I know commiting sin is expensive. Hope u give your mother some money every month for her maintenance?

bigpicture001:
I Bleep her , her dad don't.... We share most period together less than sh do with her dad

Dyfynezz12:
U re doing well for ur babe but my issue is will she remember this when 'God forbid' the going gets tough?

This is where things get real 😎. People are unpredictable, so he shouldn’t let love carry him away and he needs to do what’s best for himself.

bigpicture001:
No wahala, not all liabilities stays like that for long...

Ur asset ladies are full of shit.... Mostly arroangant and entitled ...

As a man, there comes a time u relaized peace of mind is worth more than even a zenith bank manager wife.. who gives u shit and makes u restless... Relationship is not a competition boy!

Don't mind all these people. They do more but they'll never admit it. What I find most admirable about your post is the careful planning.
When I was dating, I don't know how to ask a man for financial assistance. My mum taught us contentment and maybe because my first ever bf was dutiful, just like you. He'd just see a gap and fill it. And that was the pattern. Real men see gaps, and fill them.

If you find a woman who is contented, modest, and gives you peace, why not? I earn well but I still use my white powder, you'd never see me wear a ₦100k wig, say wetin?

While I was dating my husband, I was a student who had zero earnings. He was a civil servant then and didn't have much too. But he gave me everything within his power. I saw this and appreciated it. Till tomorrow, there's no extent I can't go for him and him for me too. If your gf is a good girl, you won't regret this.

Sheistoopretty:
Lol, I don't usually do this, but, You're very funny tbh.

So your girlfriend isn't "Working" to Atleast provide the littlest of things for herself?

Well, to each their own. Do whatever makes you happy

You've said it all.

Well, is that you on DP? Nice photo

Stop the whatever, go and get married.

Your plan is in order..... I like people that understand the importance of planning and rules.

As Warren Buffets would say... Rule No 1. Have rules.

And rule No 2... is Don't forget rule number 1.

(However here is a simple correction in btw; .... it is not she don't, but she doesn't..... it is not her dad don't, but her dad doesn't)

So taking care of girlfriend is now achievement?
This is the most useless thread I have come across here

I see a planner and husband material here. I just hope your girlfriend can reciprocate by giving things every once in a while. Let all this not fail.

She should also show she can manage what's given to her for the family's upkeep. Let her not be wasteful or bother you too much. It'll make you respect her even more.

On the side, just marry her. Or try to stop sleeping with each other, at least, until you are married. That's how things are done the right way.

May God guide you both.

Goodlyhrt:
Why are people so bitter about this guy's post

Make una free am na.. he no wan follow crowd.

Do your geh geh nonsense class in peace and allow him.. I believe he is an adult and decides what happens in his life and shouldn't be taking advise from faceless people online who could be even worse sef

Isn't the post online on the so called 'faceless forum '…?.

Oluwadare316:
This is where things get real 😎. People are unpredictable, so he shouldn’t let love carry him away and he needs to do what’s best for himself.

Swears,doing that for a girl is not the issue,where the issue lies is what if u can't do this again

franugo:
Ignore all these gehgeh boys... relationship is give and take. My wife out earns me currently but I paid over 200k for her sister's fashion design training when we were not even married. Imagine that I was tightfisted when she needed me, would we be where we are?...the main thing is finding that person you're compatible with and doing your best to lighten her burden while she does the same for you.

Mk table turned if she go pay for ur own brother stuff

Summer57:
Mk table turned if she go pay for ur own brother stuff

She already has done more than that, we're together in this life's race, we win together and fail together

On health.. I used 12k to register her for health insurance for a year at the nearest hospital closest to her.. that way.. whenever sh tells me I am not feeling fine.. I simply reply, go to the hospital na.. it's free... Sh no dey bring that talk come again, but honestly, it helps her alot...

This is quite thoughtful of you.

It touched me. May God bless the work of your hands.

Chubhie:
What's in it for you at the end of the month? 7 more characters needed

OP answer this question

bigpicture001:
I Bleep her , her dad don't.... We share most period together less than sh do with her dad

When you are broke you start telling her we need to take a break, when you equate sex to men it becomes prostitution. Aside sex you don't have anything that comes to your mind that she offers you?

franugo:
She already has done more than that, we're together in this life's race, we win together and fail together

Congratulations to u 👏 🙌

Go to Gehgeh University to learn how to treat women.