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brain54:
Having sex with someone...

Who normally wouldn't have nothing to do with you.

No feelings whatsoever. Just because of the financial or whatever benefits she would get from the 'activity' whereby if she had a choice wouldn't, seems dehumanizing to me.

Even the process of bargaining like it's a piece of meat, pizza, or wrapper one is buying is dehumanizing.

It feels almost like rape to me. That's my personal opinion!

There is always a choice! There is always an alternative! Even though it might not be apparent to the participants of such acts.

You need to understand that people trade sex for favours and financial gains of their own free will.

Except in cases of slavery (in all its forms) and the battle for survival, nobody is being forced or dehumanized.

Globad:
It's not as simple as that

Buying and selling of sex is anything but dignifying.

A number of studies have established that prostitution is intrinsically traumatizing to the person being prostituted.

Also, a majority of prostitutes suffer from post-traumatic stress disorder -- the same malady that affects combat veterans and victims of sexual abuse. PTSD leads to various forms of personal dysfunction.

You might need to broaden your knowledge of what prostitution is. Your mind is gravitating towards ladies in brothels. This thread isn't about that

brain54:
Having sex with someone...

Who normally wouldn't have nothing to do with you.

No feelings whatsoever. Just because of the financial or whatever benefits she would get from the 'activity' whereby if she had a choice wouldn't, seems dehumanizing to me.

Even the process of bargaining like it's a piece of meat, pizza, or wrapper one is buying is dehumanizing.

It feels almost like rape to me. That's my personal opinion!

I’d rather give the person that’s in love with me that 50k than to pay OS for knack.

I thought I'm the only one always baffled with this. Imagine paying such money for a public puuu-ccc-i. Lady that don't have any source of income and some of them are not even sure of their source of meal in the next 3 days except a man shows up to them.

Na men dey make low life OS get levels I swear. Better hunger knack that same OS she go rush all night for 15k I swear

brain54:
They is no pleasure there jare...

Having sex with a random stranger. Emotionless sex.

Where is the fun in that? The act of sex alone sef is a boring task to me. Personally is the build up to the sex itself that gives me the thrill.

Even the bargaining process will put me off like I'm pricing a piece of meat!

wow

Until you understand that black men(enablers) are the cause of these menaces. You will keep getting frustrated and going round in circles.

These stuffs happens in other climes too but it is not as worse as it is in Nigeria. Besides those countries aren't suffering and experiencing Poverty like Nigerians.

I have seen and understood lot of things in this world. I hardly advice blavk people. When people are ready to make things work and have decorum, they will, but for now, let them immerse themselves in madddness.

Besides, This Whatsapp Open Once always amuse me. If the person you sent pictures to with this feature has Two Camera Phones, You are only wasting your time using the feature🤣

I pay 2k

The first,last and only time I patronised the ladies of the night was in the late 90s when economy never too scatter compared to now. And I must confess, it was money truly wasted. Rationally speaking there is absolutely no sense in "paying" for sex.

Every guy are not the same, some cant even cope with congee

Shmex is profitable not just for women , even guys are doing gei sjit for pay.


Most nigerian girls these days are liabilities, they only care about money and when you will marry her.


To find girl way get sense hard like f maths, some of the ones way get sense some guys don damage them beyond repair.

HeatSeeker:
You might need to broaden your knowledge of what prostitution is. Your mind is gravitating towards ladies in brothels. This thread isn't about that

You have only assumed what my knowledge is.

Why are you restricting it to physical location? I mentioned buying and selling of sex. Even at that, will the effect on the people doing it be different regardless of location?

brain54:
Having sex with someone who normally wouldn't have nothing to do with you.

Having sex with random people.

Comrade please leave them.

Most of them do not know how sacred seex is to both gender.

Sex is a gateway and portal in both gender.

I was ignorant of these important informations in my teenage years but not anymore.

Afterall, Everybody learns in the end!

LIVINGICONREBOR:
The first,last and only time I patronised the ladies of the night was in the late 90s when economy never too scatter compared to now. And I must confess, it was money truly wasted. Rationally speaking there is absolutely no sense in "paying" for sex.

Exactly 💯

I don't think the men who do it are genuinely happy not to talk of the women

I can't fathom...If you ask me na who I go ask

Adexgentle005:
why should a guy even pay 50k to knack ?

Nonexisting1:
Their trademark is always to insult your mother. Even here in nairaland, once she insults your mother, na them. See her mouth like 200k for short time. She wants to make almost x4 of monthly minimum wage in just 30minutes.

I don’t how how a human can interact with these kinda people.

I am already irritated. Plus lacking home training on top, i can’t be in proximity of such a human.

Adexgentle005:
Why do some guys do this thing? Like paying 50k, 70k,100k etc to knack OS just for a night ? I can’t wrap my head around that disgusting behaviour.

I go to work everyday and see many ladies everywhere, why can’t guys pick from one of these girls and start dating ? I saw this chat online lol very funny

U are probably broke.Bt for me i dont do OS,i pick smallies earliy twenty n spoil dem wit small money like 30k .Omo u go knack tire on top d 30k

bdon123:
U are probably broke.Bt for me i dont do OS,i pick smallies earliy twenty n spoil dem wit small money like 30k .Omo u go knack tire on top d 30k

And you will be looking for a virtuous woman to wife tomorrow 👍.

Softmirror:
That wasn't an insult. That was an advice.

So if you are selling something to your customers and during bargaining a customer tells you he is ready to pay you 25% of your ridiculous asking price you will reply him in such manner and then say it's an advice isn't it? Do you know the difference between an advice and an insult?

“Honestly, I used to think differently before, but once I started making some money, my mindset changed. I now believe I can make that money back quickly, so spending doesn’t really bother me as long as I’m satisfied—especially if she’s my spec. Just the other day, I spent over 60k and I was happy doing it.”

bdon123:
U are probably broke.Bt for me i dont do OS,i pick smallies earliy twenty n spoil dem wit small money like 30k .Omo u go knack tire on top d 30k

Did I say I do OS?

Richarlison640:
“Honestly, I used to think differently before, but once I started making some money, my mindset changed. I now believe I can make that money back quickly, so spending doesn’t really bother me as long as I’m satisfied—especially if she’s my spec. Just the other day, I spent over 60k and I was happy doing it.”

60k for OS?

Globad:
Exactly 💯

I don't if the men who do it are genuinely happy not to talk of the women

You can say that again.

Some showoffs mofos started this trend.

Street babes wey we dey slam with Indomie n egg plus 500 tfare.

The bois came and offered doze same babes for same services or even less for 10k.

U knw its logic. Next tym wey we wan straff. D said gals feels they are now upgraded and cant accept indomie again. Now chargin 5k and above.

Then the same boiz after enabling doze OS will now complain when same OS he gave 10k last tym now wants 40k. And he be like na gold dey inside.

Mf no remember say his showoffs will affect lots of shits

advanceDNA:
It's the same reason pple drink coke, alcohol, eat what they don't really need, go to clubs and dance..the human mind and body is wired to seek pleasure .....once it's it's easily available , and discipline is not in place....nothing can stop indulgence

It is a lie from the pit of hell. Only one system is guaranteed to stop indulgence and that system has never failed. What system?

THE TRUSTED, ANCIENT SYSTEM OF THE HOLY GHOST.

SeraphicWind:
It is a lie from the pit of hell. Only one system is guaranteed to stop indulgence and that system has never failed. What system?

THE TRUSTED, ANCIENT SYSTEM OF THE HOLY GHOST.

Lol...... Is it not the same discipline the holy Spirit will help you with...... Guy if u nor understand English .u better ask

Wetin de pain me no be OS amount, na op go find am go dm or online, even for ShopRite Asaba girls de bill close to 300k no doubt, call girls for away de charge not less than 2k dollars, local okpo de charge 2k naira now, as bible put am no give olosho pass one loaf of bread, my major pain be say one girl say I go put am on monthly salary before she date me. What is this world turning into.

brain54:
They is no pleasure there jare...

Having sex with a random stranger. Emotionless sex.

Where is the fun in that? The act of sex alone sef is a boring task to me. Personally is the build up to the sex itself that gives me the thrill.

Even the bargaining process will put me off like I'm pricing a piece of meat!

u want to hook every girl emotionally? You cant be serious. U are a serious problem

Jeon:
Can we also put nairaland men in this?.
Because they are also quick to insult your mother too .

everybody for naira land na man even females na emeka
Respect men😎
Or we go remind you of your gender 😩😩😩

Richarlison640:
“Honestly, I used to think differently before, but once I started making some money, my mindset changed. I now believe I can make that money back quickly, so spending doesn’t really bother me as long as I’m satisfied—especially if she’s my spec. Just the other day, I spent over 60k and I was happy doing it.”

How you make your money, also determine how you spend it..

Manculated:
Comrade please leave them.

Most of them do not know how sacred seex is to both gender.

Sex is a gateway and portal in both gender.

I was ignorant of these important informations in my teenage years but not anymore.

Afterall, Everybody learns in the end!

senior man abed educate your younger ones make we learn from you. portal as how na?

Badmashii:
senior man abed educate your younger ones make we learn from you. portal as how na?

The only portal is the wickedness in the heart of men.

Adexgentle005:
60k for OS?

“Life is too short—whatever it costs to be happy, even if it only lasts for two minutes, it’s worth it.”

ucheagu:
How you make your money, also determine how you spend it..

Sure