₦airaland Forum

No body is praying for such a misfortune to come upon him but life can be unfortunate sometimes.

Imagine inviting your girlfriend to spend the weekend with you, at your place and she died in her sleep. You as the boyfriend is innocent but it just happened that death came to her at that unplanned time. What is the best way to approach this–in accordance with the law?

I'm asking this question not because of yinka's fate in the image attached below but I have had an experience where the lady I invited over was rubbed while going back from my place. I use to ask myself those times "what if this girl died from this experience?" what would have happened to me?

So, after seeing this news by punch newspaper, it reminded me of my experience and I want to ask the best move to make in a case like yinka's.

A very important question
First rush down to the police station

In US, UK, etc you do nothing - the police will quickly find out you had nothing to do with it.
In Nigeria start looking for bail money because no matter what, you're getting locked up until you cough up some serious money - if not, you'd be forced to sign confession!

Best is to pray not to have such experience. With ritual stories flying around, it would be hard for one to prove his innocent in this

I think the best thing is to plan ahead. That means buying a cheap CCTV camera and installing in your living room and bedroom. So when such issues come up, you have video evidence instantly that proves you're innocent and you won't even need anything else to get away with it.

Do not panic, do not run, call your friends or family member, if you have a lawyer call one and then report yourself to the police

Do not tamper with the body in any way., the girl has family members, they will look for her. if you do that, you have worsen your situation

Tell your lawyer to get a doctor to do an autopsy as they move you to jail. be prepared to be accused of being a ritual killer and a kidnapper and be prepared to be on blogs, which will destroy your reputation, only after the police have done their investigation will they release you.

And hope you dont live in the ghetto or low to middle income home or you might be lynched.

after you have been released, quickly go online and clear your name by giving interviews to known bloggers, if you have money buy spaces on newspapers to clear your name. if possible visit the girl family to also clear your name, move on with your life or change location.

The simple solution, No Allow Any Girl sleep for your house... Even if na midnight, make she dey go...

In ideal situation, the law is blind. The law wasn't there with you to witness whatever happened. So, you'll have to prove beyond reasonable doubt that you're not guilty of murder. If you were married, it becomes less a problem but when you are not married and sh!t happens, you're in trouble, especially when your innocence can't be ascertained.

I'd advise that if you guys are in love, go and see her parents and do the preliminaries if you don't have money to satisfy everything. Let her family know you for real. That can lessen your troubles if anything happens while she's with you. Otherwise, don't let her sleep over in your house and pray nothing happens while she's there—whether she slept over or just visiting.

Worst nightmare. Wouldn't even wish such for a foe. It will be a case against u and the world cos nobody will blif ur own side of the story.

The media will be like: breaking news Yahoo boy kills girlfriend for money ritual

You can't deal with anything.
You are done for!!!

There is nothing you can explain, na you keel am

Here in Nigeria? Just know that it is finished cos you will be held responsible for the death irrespective of contrary evidence

In Nigeria pray that it doesn't happen to you. If this happens, then you are a goner.

I no fit advice you for this one o, this na your cross.
Carry it alone, I no wan become accomplice.
You'd better turn yourself in to the police.
Instead of life...you will get 10 to 15 years.
Before you know you are out.

May this not be our portion. If na Muslim lady you no go too worry once the family no see any foul play because everyone believe our death is following us around.

But if na that region, you must do wedding with dead body, sleep same room with her over night and still drink water dey use take bath am.

TheOldGods:
I think the best thing is to plan ahead. That means buying a cheap CCTV camera and installing in your living room and bedroom. So when such issues come up, you have video evidence instantly that proves you're innocent and you won't even need anything else to get away with it.

Cctv in your bedroom ?
Are you serious.

Are you doing poorn audition?

Itzzorite

The best thing is to report to the nearest police station, also inform your friends and family about it and do not tamper with the corpse.

Important questions to ask

What if her family are not aware she’s coming to your place?
What if her family is not aware she’s dating you?

That’s why it’s important to know the family of the person you’re dating and to also have a good relationship with them just in case and also ask your gf if she has any underlying health issues.

Op what if na hook up girl die for your house?? lol

Let’s be careful of who will bring to spend the night in our house, friend or gf , be very careful.

Personally I don’t like people spending nights in my place , just visit and go.

Oh, I thought is the one that even happened in kwankwashi -suleja LGA in Niger state.

As for me, I believe in complete truth, (which is the only thing I can die for)

So, i wl go to the police and report the issue.... And carry my cross .. i .e whatever the outcome may be

The best way to deal with it is to be bornagain.
As a bornagain, you don't need girl friend, you only need a wife.
So there is no way a lady can come alone into your room/house not to talk of sleeping over.

Best is to do an autopsy,
If the lady has an ungoing problem, he’s save. But if it just started. Otilor

If not for high decay in morals, why should you go and spend the night in guy's house?
A guy that is not your relation nor your husband.

I don't pity all these OS getting used at all, when you play stupid games, you'll definitely get stupid results.
That's how some of them will be cohabiting in schools too without their parents knowing.

This is the type of thing that made iyabo Ojo's daughter to give birth just 4 months after weddings.

To see girl marry as virgin in this unfortunate generation now is by DIVINE INTERVENTION.

Why are you people giving birth 4-7 months now after weddings?

Is the new pregnancy period now 4-7 months?

After, you'll wonder why the society decaying every day, when we have numerous ILLEGITIMATE CHILDREN (BAS*****) IN THE SOCIETY.

Habba..

I'm watching a movie and that just happened

Nah to rush the babe to hospital immediately

In a sane country, there should be no issue as long as autopsy is done and the guy is proven innocent.. But in a jungle like Nigeria, the guy may rot in jail even without getting prosecuted.

helinues:
Best is to pray not to have such experience. With ritual stories flying around, it would be hard for one to prove his innocent in this

Is here in Nija oh.
Police go use you make money like mad

Hellisreal70:
The best way to deal with it is to be bornagain.
As a bornagain, you don't need girl friend, you only need a wife.
So there is no way a lady can come alone into your room/house not to talk of sleeping over.

Dey play.
You have not seen a case of wife death while with his husband.
Why do You this people do paint life as if being born again doesn’t mean life can not happen to you?
That’s why some people accept Christ. They think when you have Christ you must be rich, healthy etc.

otherway:
Habba..

I'm watching a movie and that just happened

Nah to rush the babe to hospital immediately

Hospital go reject am! Claiming BID- Brought In Dead!

You kill am finish you come use scope bring am hospital!

AntiChristian:
Hospital go reject am! Claiming BID- Brought In Dead!

You kill am finish you come use scope bring am hospital!

Yes in a jungle like Naija, not in a sane country with sound justice system.

If he's a married man and the girlfriend died in his custody, he's doomed for life except he's super rich in this country ... (That's the biggest fear of every married OLOSHO MAN)

Before it happens start preparing mock-up questions and answers with detailed explanations. Because you will have to explain taya to her family and the police.


And before that ask yourself if it were your sister or daughter that left home telling you she is going to say a market and few hours later you receive a call from a man that claims he is her boyfriend explaining that she died in his house, how will you receive and respond to the news? Will you ask him for explanation or you do what a responsible father and brother do