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Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by Peacecore: 2:59pm On Aug 25, 2025
DoctorStanley:
Not if you pay up well. They'll release you. But if you don't pay up they'll draft a confession for you to sign. End of "investigation". Case closed. (Even if you're shouting at top of your voice that the girl had asthma grin)
Sure grin

Nigeria police is a shame to the whole country grin

My bother had told a story a man that got hit down by a driver at Night in Lagos. The police happened to catch the man. They told the driver to pay them #500k for them to carry the man and throw him away in the lagoon because it was already very late night, the load was already deserted. The man was bargaining the price when the man recovered full consciousness, and the driver zoomed immediately, and the police also didn't wait, they took off. The man told the story himself.
Is that not an evil of the highest order?
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by Lamasta(m): 3:00pm On Aug 25, 2025
May1st:
You can't deal with anything.
You are done for!!!

There is nothing you can explain, na you keel am
What kind of mindset is thishuh Pray not to find yourself in this unfortunate incident you are typing anyhow to especially when you're Innocent
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by nwirinedu(m): 3:06pm On Aug 25, 2025
Always verify the health status of these girls, many are carrying parasites and viruses like the walking dead.
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by DoctorStanley: 3:07pm On Aug 25, 2025
Peacecore:
Sure grin

Nigeria police is a shame to the whole country grin

My bother had told a story a man that got hit down by a driver at Night in Lagos. The police happened to catch the man. They told the driver to pay them #500k for them to carry the man and throw him away in the lagoon because it was already very late night, the load was already deserted. The man was bargaining the price when the man recovered full consciousness, and the driver zoomed immediately, and the police also didn't wait, they took off. The man told the story himself.
Is that not an evil of the highest order?
Can you just imagine??! Evils that Nigerian Police have done that no one ever heard about would fill an encyclopedia. A totally EVIL organization indeed!!
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by DoctorStanley: 3:10pm On Aug 25, 2025
nwirinedu:
Always verify the health status of these girls, many are carrying parasites and viruses like the walking dead.
Funny talk. As conji dey deal with you where you go get time to be checking health status
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by May1st: 3:33pm On Aug 25, 2025
Lamasta:
What kind of mindset is thishuh Pray not to find yourself in this unfortunate incident you are typing anyhow to especially when you're Innocent
You realize this is a rubbish statement right? I once had an asthmatic girl over the night in school back then. When she had the attack I panicked to high heavens, Please tell me who I could have told I wasn't responsible. The NPF abi?

You are asking me to not pray for such when doom is imminent if it happens. Shy away from reality all you want you hear
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by 24SEVEN: 3:50pm On Aug 25, 2025
NNtv:
No body is praying for such a misfortune to come upon him but life can be unfortunate sometimes.

Imagine inviting your girlfriend to spend the weekend with you, at your place and she died in her sleep. You as the boyfriend is innocent but it just happened that death came to her at that unplanned time. What is the best way to approach this–in accordance with the law?

I'm asking this question not because of yinka's fate in the image attached below but I have had an experience where the lady I invited over was rubbed while going back from my place. I use to ask myself those times "what if this girl died from this experience?" what would have happened to me?

So, after seeing this news by punch newspaper, it reminded me of my experience and I want to ask the best move to make in a case like yinka's.
FYI, there is nothing you can explain to Nigerian police that will make you go scot free.

Infact, let Jesus christ personally tell Nigerian police you're innocent, they will not free you.

Just pray it doesn't happen to you.
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by Hellisreal70: 3:54pm On Aug 25, 2025
Tohsynetita1:
Dey play.
You have not seen a case of wife death while with his husband.
Why do You this people do paint life as if being born again doesn’t mean life can not happen to you?
That’s why some people accept Christ. They think when you have Christ you must be rich, healthy etc.
Case of premature wife's death is not the portion of a genuine born again.
Life only happens to the people that are not covered by the blood of Jesus. You can read psalm 91

Yes when you are genuinely born again you will be rich in all good things. You can read Mathew 6:28-33

If you need help you can contact the nearest deeper life, Christ chosen or any genuine holy living bible believing church nearest to your place.
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by Lamasta(m): 4:00pm On Aug 25, 2025
May1st:
You realize this is a rubbish statement right? I once had an asthmatic girl over the night in school back then. When she had the attack I panicked to high heavens, Please tell me who I could have told I wasn't responsible. The NPF abi?

You are asking me to not pray for such when doom is imminent if it happens. Shy away from reality all you want you hear
Be careful what you wish for
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by Tohsynetita1(m): 4:15pm On Aug 25, 2025
Hellisreal70:
Case of premature wife's death is not the portion of a genuine born again.
Life only happens to the people that are not covered by the blood of Jesus. You can read psalm 91

Yes when you are genuinely born again you will be rich in all good things. You can read Mathew 6:28-33

If you need help you can contact the nearest deeper life, Christ chosen or any genuine holy living bible believing church nearest to your place.
Are you saying there are no genuine born again people that has died?
You can be born again and still die, the most important thing is not to die the second death.
Because you are born again doesn’t mean if God want to stop you working, he will not. It’s just that God will be involved because he identify you.
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by 900warriorz: 4:16pm On Aug 25, 2025
maasoap:
You don't want that to be the case. How would you prove that you are not the one who poisoned her? It is better to be natural cause
Forensic Autopsy will tell you when the poison was ingested and what exactly killed her..
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by AntiChristian: 4:25pm On Aug 25, 2025
einsteine:
There is no interrogation when there is no OBVIOUS cause of death. You call the hospital. The hospital calls the family. Only upon a suspicious autopsy result, will the police INVITE you for an interrogation.

If there were no signs of injury, nobody is arresting anybody immediately.

In Nigeria, not only would you be arrested, if you have co tenants they will be arrested immediately. If you don't part with serious money, you will be paraded and may even be remanded in prison. Even the autopsy, you will have to pay money for it to be done.
These your statement has many untruths!
No Police officer will convict you without clear evidence. But you may be detained.

I have witnessed a Brought in dead of a child where the mum was crying profusely before. Though the mum was at fault for the child's death, no one did call any police to arrest her.

In saner climes as well as here you won't be arrested but detained!
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by Hellisreal70: 4:32pm On Aug 25, 2025
Tohsynetita1:
Are you saying there are no genuine born again people that has died?
You can be born again and still die, the most important thing is not to die the second death.
Because you are born again doesn’t mean if God want to stop you working, he will not. It’s just that God will be involved because he identify you.
God will not do anything that is against his words.
There is the word of God for every individuals, which some interpret as the will of God.
Every child of God has a mission and a purpose in life which must be accomplished.
I don't want to talk too much, but what I can tell you is that you need to know God intimately as a child to father. You need to know his words and his will for you.
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by May1st: 4:42pm On Aug 25, 2025
Lamasta:
Be careful what you wish for
Keep that for your brother(s)
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by Tohsynetita1(m): 4:42pm On Aug 25, 2025
Hellisreal70:
God will not do anything that is against his words.
There is the word of God for every individuals, which some interpret as the will of God.
Every child of God has a mission and a purpose in life which must be accomplished.
I don't want to talk too much, but what I can tell you is that you need to know God intimately as a child to father. You need to know his words and his will for you.
So, those that know God intimately can’t die prematurely?
Premature death that I mean is death at tender age.
There are so many believers that lived a purpose life but died at younger age.
So, knowing God intimately doesn’t mean God can not take you anytime he wants.
What you just need to pray for is grace and mercy.
Not all those that are born again lived long.
What we need is grace.
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by Dijita: 4:46pm On Aug 25, 2025
motymop:
Do not panic, do not run, call your friends or family member, if you have a lawyer call one and then report yourself to the police

Do not tamper with the body in any way., the girl has family members, they will look for her. if you do that, you have worsen your situation

Tell your lawyer to get a doctor to do an autopsy as they move you to jail. be prepared to be accused of being a ritual killer and a kidnapper and be prepared to be on blogs, which will destroy your reputation, only after the police have done their investigation will they release you.

And hope you dont live in the ghetto or low to middle income home or you might be lynched.

after you have been released, quickly go online and clear your name by giving interviews to known bloggers, if you have money buy spaces on newspapers to clear your name. if possible visit the girl family to also clear your name, move on with your life or change location.
It is not if you have lawyer. If you don't have Lawyer call one up and ask him to get to your apartment immediately. don't speak to police until lawyer is present.
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by michjunior: 4:59pm On Aug 25, 2025
TheOldGods:
I think the best thing is to plan ahead. That means buying a cheap CCTV camera and installing in your living room and bedroom. So when such issues come up, you have video evidence instantly that proves you're innocent and you won't even need anything else to get away with it.
Lol u funny bro...most niggas never chop na to buy CCTV for room for woman...lol
Get serious bro
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by Hellisreal70: 5:10pm On Aug 25, 2025
Tohsynetita1:
So, those that know God intimately can’t die prematurely?
Premature death that I mean is death at tender age.
There are so many believers that lived a purpose life but died at younger age.
So, knowing God intimately doesn’t mean God can not take you anytime he wants.
What you just need to pray for is grace and mercy.
Not all those that are born again lived long.
What we need is grace.
You can not continue to live in sin and be praying for the grace of God to abound.
You shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free.
Try to know the purpose of God for your life. If you do the will of God nothing can make you not to fulfill his purpose for your life.
Let me tell you that the bible is the word of God that is full of spirit and life, it is not just a text book, you serve God in spirit with your heart not just with your head. You know and believe God with your heart, not assume or calculate with your head.
The letter killeth but the spirit gives life.
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by Peacecore: 5:11pm On Aug 25, 2025
DoctorStanley:
Can you just imagine??! Evils that Nigerian Police have done that no one ever heard about would fill an encyclopedia. A totally EVIL organization indeed!!
My brother, I grew up to hate Nigerian police with passion. Everything about them stinks me to the bone marrow.

Can you imagine that police steal from accident victims? Especially if it's fatal, forget anything valuable if they're the first to reach there.
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by DoctorStanley: 6:07pm On Aug 25, 2025
Peacecore:
My brother, I grew up to hate Nigerian police with passion. Everything about them stinks me to the bone marrow.

Can you imagine that police steal from accident victims? Especially if it's fatal, forget anything valuable if they're the first to reach there.
Totally unbelievable unless you're from a country like ours. Totally unbelievable!
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by LOVEGINO(m): 6:20pm On Aug 25, 2025
DoctorStanley:
In US, UK, etc you do nothing - the police will quickly find out you had nothing to do with it.
In Nigeria start looking for bail money because no matter what, you're getting locked up until you cough up some serious money - if not, you'd be forced to sign confession!
you sabi your corntry finish.
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by Peacecore: 6:29pm On Aug 25, 2025
DoctorStanley:
Totally unbelievable unless you're from a country like ours. Totally unbelievable!
That's the sad truth, man!
See, Nigeria is far from being better
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by Tohsynetita1(m): 7:06pm On Aug 25, 2025
Hellisreal70:
You can not continue to live in sin and be praying for the grace of God to abound.
You shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free.
Try to know the purpose of God for your life. If you do the will of God nothing can make you not to fulfill his purpose for your life.
Let me tell you that the bible is the word of God that is full of spirit and life, it is not just a text book, you serve God in spirit with your heart not just with your head. You know and believe God with your heart, not assume or calculate with your head.
The letter killeth but the spirit gives life.
why do we do called Christian sometimes sound and behave dumb? What I am saying is not what you are saying, yet you don’t want to agree.
Okay . Answer this question, Is it all Born again Christian that died at old age?
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by Beefman90(f): 7:10pm On Aug 25, 2025
Zip up
Cos if U happen U fit promise to become born again for life.
But e no go be boys portion

Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by yahoodetector: 7:24pm On Aug 25, 2025
TheOldGods:
I think the best thing is to plan ahead. That means buying a cheap CCTV camera and installing in your living room and bedroom. So when such issues come up, you have video evidence instantly that proves you're innocent and you won't even need anything else to get away with it.
Plot twist: you have a camera which records the whole incident of her duration in your house including the bedroom activities and let's say something happens and the videos are spotted by law enforcement, na another problem for you!
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by DoctorStanley: 7:39pm On Aug 25, 2025
Peacecore:
That's the sad truth, man!
See, Nigeria is far from being better
Even if Nigeria gets better the Police won't. The ONLY solution is to scrap it and start from scratch
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by Breaker001: 8:32pm On Aug 25, 2025
Op, report yourself to the police 🚓

Me: Suddenly realizing that I am in Nigeria

Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by Emdebby2: 8:40pm On Aug 25, 2025
You go explain tire 🤣🤣🤣
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by Peacecore: 8:48pm On Aug 25, 2025
DoctorStanley:
Even if Nigeria gets better the Police won't. The ONLY solution is to scrap it and start from scratch
I'm telling you grin
If something bigger and more sustainable than EndSARS can happen, it'll at least curb their excesses.
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by DoctorStanley: 8:54pm On Aug 25, 2025
Peacecore:
I'm telling you grin
If something bigger and more sustainable than EndSARS can happen, it'll at least curb their excesses.
I don't think it is possible. Believe me Nigerian Police is beyond just wicked, it is demonic grin
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