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Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by Peacecore: 8:58pm On Aug 25, 2025
DoctorStanley:
I don't think it is possible. Believe me Nigerian Police is beyond just wicked, it is demonic grin
grin grin
Nor bi small demonic o

This is one of the reasons I always believe that no president can singlehandedly change this country because evil people are far more in number than the good ones.
Police will be the last to change if it's ever possible.
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by kushme: 10:09pm On Aug 25, 2025
KobolanderSegun:
DeeperLife Brother. My take is be a gentleman and angel to women so if she dies through fate she would have sang your praises to her parents and her friends who will vouch for you in case of mishap. " He is a wonderful person he could not have done it "they might even contribute to the bail money. That's why eloping is risky if something goes wrong family will put the blame on the living partner
Yes, he is a wonderful person and couldn't have done it, but yes he did it. He is a snake... You would start hearing different negative things thereafter, peoples emotionz could be so fickle and judgmental when they are hurt..
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by Odebayo4010(m): 1:03am On Aug 26, 2025
emmamajesty:
Something similar had happened to me, a girl I was planning to marry died in my hand two months before the fixed date. Na that time u go know say no matter how good or innocent u may be do not pray for such situations to happen to u cos people u may not expect will talk to u wrongly
How did you overcome the situation?
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by jossytech(m): 9:25am On Aug 26, 2025
If na bf dies inside gf nko
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by TheOldGods: 11:12am On Aug 26, 2025
yahoodetector:
Plot twist: you have a camera which records the whole incident of her duration in your house including the bedroom activities and let's say something happens and the videos are spotted by law enforcement, na another problem for you!
there is no law in Nigeria that says you can't record your bedroom activities. It may only be illegal if you violate the person's right by posting online
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by emmamajesty: 11:53am On Aug 26, 2025
Odebayo4010:
How did you overcome the situation?
Already I have made up my mind to face whatever the outcome would be coupled with the support I got from my family and friends. The girl is from Nsukka village in Enugu State and am from Orlu Imo state so before the burial I traveled to their village with some elders to discuss about her death and burial as well which spent almost three days due to so many agreements and disagreements and at the end they concluded that am to marry her on death and they gave me the list of their burial requirements and other expenses which they put in monetary form (3.5m) and ask me to pay . So on that burial day we first reported to Nsukka police division and they assign about three policemen to us due to perceived tension in the atmosphere and again my brothers came with about three 18 seater buses loaded with family and friends as we took her dead body to their village and that alone we thought it will minimise the tension. Burial that suppose not to take much time we ended up spending more than 10hrs because the youths from their village stop everything insisted we explain to them what killed their sister, even the youths president tell some guys to go and cover the already prepared ground where she will be buried demanding till we settled before any burial activities will take place Omo come see problem. After they took me to different places to swear if my hands are clean they still demanded 500k before she dem go burry her finally .and after some series of negotiations we settled those youths and finally we buried her. Omo our mind still no settle till we left the village
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by maasoap(m):
900warriorz:
Forensic Autopsy will tell you when the poison was ingested and what exactly killed her..
grin grin
I take your matter laugh, the approximately exact time would still fall within the time she was with you because autopsy wouldn't say 2.30pm or 8pm
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by xcitedjay(m): 1:54pm On Aug 26, 2025
emmamajesty:
Already I have made up my mind to face whatever the outcome would be coupled with the support I got from my family and friends. The girl is from Nsukka village in Enugu State and am from Orlu Imo state so before the burial I traveled to their village with some elders to discuss about her death and burial as well which spent almost three days due to so many agreements and disagreements and at the end they concluded that am to marry her on death and they gave me the list of their burial requirements and other expenses which they put in monetary form (3.5m) and ask me to pay . So on that burial day we first reported to Nsukka police division and they assign about three policemen to us due to perceived tension in the atmosphere and again my brothers came with about three 18 seater buses loaded with family and friends as we took her dead body to their village and that alone we thought it will minimise the tension. Burial that suppose not to take much time we ended up spending more than 10hrs because the youths from their village stop everything insisted we explain to them what killed their sister, even the youths president tell some guys to go and cover the already prepared ground where she will be buried demanding till we settled before any burial activities will take place Omo come see problem. After they took me to different places to swear if my hands are clean they still demanded 500k before she dem go burry her finally .and after some series of negotiations we settled those youths and finally we buried her. Omo our mind still no settle till we left the village
So her parent couldn't bury their daughter, and the whole situation turned into a series of extortion activities. If they really wanted to be sure of the circumstances of her death, they wouldn't be collecting money left and right.

This is really unfortunate. Northerners don't behave this way to themselves.
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by Zanzibar1: 3:04pm On Aug 26, 2025
Kayluka100:
One girl de my side since Friday like this
Immediately I saw this News
She most go back today ASAP
😂😂
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by 900warriorz: 3:54pm On Aug 26, 2025
maasoap:
You don't want that to be the case. How would you prove that you are not the one who poisoned her? It is better to be natural cause
A forensic autopsy shows what the victim ingested in the case of poisoning, the time it was ingested and the time of death
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by KobolanderSegun: 8:23pm On Aug 26, 2025
kushme:
Yes, he is a wonderful person and couldn't have done it, but yes he did it. He is a snake... You would start hearing different negative things thereafter, peoples emotionz could be so fickle and judgmental when they are hurt..
Very true o....Ok how about the guy was buying the " mother in law ' and " father in law " birthday Presents, Easter Present, Christmas present. What do you think peoples emotions would be like ,?
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by EbizNazy(m): 8:24pm On Aug 26, 2025
Imagine working in a bank and this kind of thing happens to you. Before you sort yourself from the mess, you will be out of job.
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by kushme: 9:01pm On Aug 26, 2025
KobolanderSegun:
Very true o....Ok how about the guy was buying the " mother in law ' and " father in law " birthday Presents, Easter Present, Christmas present. What do you think peoples emotions would be like ,?
grin in such situation, it is hard to tell, the first thinking for one of the parents(a greedy one) who loved those gifts, maybe that, since our daughter is gone would these presents stop coming or it is the end,too?
i believe the mother and father would see things differently. Again, If they are more religious or even superstitous. Then their thinking would be that, they had received the devil's gift in exchange for the life of their precious daughter. So, basically, it is matter of beliefs, mindset and personality.
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by Odebayo4010(m): 9:25pm On Aug 26, 2025
emmamajesty:
Already I have made up my mind to face whatever the outcome would be coupled with the support I got from my family and friends. The girl is from Nsukka village in Enugu State and am from Orlu Imo state so before the burial I traveled to their village with some elders to discuss about her death and burial as well which spent almost three days due to so many agreements and disagreements and at the end they concluded that am to marry her on death and they gave me the list of their burial requirements and other expenses which they put in monetary form (3.5m) and ask me to pay . So on that burial day we first reported to Nsukka police division and they assign about three policemen to us due to perceived tension in the atmosphere and again my brothers came with about three 18 seater buses loaded with family and friends as we took her dead body to their village and that alone we thought it will minimise the tension. Burial that suppose not to take much time we ended up spending more than 10hrs because the youths from their village stop everything insisted we explain to them what killed their sister, even the youths president tell some guys to go and cover the already prepared ground where she will be buried demanding till we settled before any burial activities will take place Omo come see problem. After they took me to different places to swear if my hands are clean they still demanded 500k before she dem go burry her finally .and after some series of negotiations we settled those youths and finally we buried her. Omo our mind still no settle till we left the village
Hahh you really pass through a lot oh
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by maasoap(m): 1:59pm On Aug 27, 2025
900warriorz:
A forensic autopsy shows what the victim ingested in the case of poisoning, the time it was ingested and the time of death
Not the exact time. She injected around 5pm and got to your place around 7pm. Autopsy done 2 days or 15 days later would never exonerate you because of the time overlap
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by 900warriorz: 2:13pm On Aug 27, 2025
maasoap:
Not the exact time. She injected around 5pm and got to your place around 7pm. Autopsy done 2 days or 15 days later would never exonerate you because of the time overlap
There is a difference between Autopsy and Forensic autopsy....you can do more research to help yourself
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Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by Divaan: 12:16pm On Aug 28, 2025
We are in such times that one has to be very wise, smart and discerning to stay away from troubles. I remember someone said every person should try their best to have a personal lawyer and doctor. A lawyer you can be free to seek any legal counsel and a doctor who is a call away.

In my opinion, I don't see the need of inviting someone you're not married to spend days with you(especially the opposite sex) in your house/room. There are many ways to spend a date but if your lover comes visiting, please get atleast one person's contact from them to let know they're in your house. Speak with them if you could and if something like this happens, inform your lawyer, police, doctor. Allow investigations to go on. I believe with the right evidences, you'll come out clean.
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by aisha1314(f):
BodyCount:
If not for high decay in morals, why should you go and spend the night in guy's house?
A guy that is not your relation nor your husband.


I don't pity all these OS getting used at all, when you play stupid games, you'll definitely get stupid results.
That's how some of them will be cohabiting in schools too without their parents knowing.

This is the type of thing that made iyabo Ojo's daughter to give birth just 4 months after weddings.

To see girl marry as virgin in this unfortunate generation now is by DIVINE INTERVENTION.

Why are you people giving birth 4-7 months now after weddings?

Is the new pregnancy period now 4-7 months?

After, you'll wonder why the society decaying every day, when we have numerous ILLEGITIMATE CHILDREN (BAS*****) IN THE SOCIETY.
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