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These 4 Gehgeh Advise Will Ruin Your Relationship

These Geh Geh teachings will Ruin your Relationship If You adopt them:

1. “Your wife is only interested in your success. Don’t tell her your financial struggles else she will leave you for another man.”
Reality: This mindset is highly flawed. Many women gladly support their partners when there is openness and honest communication. Women have quietly helped their partners through difficult times without telling anyone.

2. “If you open a business for your wife, make sure it’s in your name and under your control. Once she becomes financially independent, she will leave you.”
Reality: This reflects selfishness and insecurity. A wife with her own income strengthens the family, especially in cases of unexpected challenges.

3. “Women should be the ones paying dowry for men, because they need more men.”
Reality: This is a shallow and unrealistic claim. Across all Nigerian cultures, men traditionally fulfill this role, it is a symbol of responsibility and honor. Reversing it is impractical and disregards deep-rooted cultural values.

4. “Have many girlfriends and make relationships purely transactional.”
Reality: This is morally wrong and destructive. Promiscuity destroys trust and values. True love thrives in loyalty, not in multiple transactional affairs.

Every relationship is unique and has its own issues, Don't apply these toxic generalizations to a healthy marriage, else you will destroy it.

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He is on point. Most ladies don't actually care about men

Have many girlfriends and make relationships purely transactional.”
Reality: This is morally wrong and destructive. Promiscuity destroys trust and values. True love thrives in loyalty, not in multiple transactional affairs.

Every relationship is unique and has its own issues, Don't apply these toxic generalizations to a healthy marriage, else you will destroy it.

The guy is actually right, Solomon had peace of mind for a reason.
The more of them you have, the more your Peace of mind.

If there is somebody who teaches values that contradict our common societal values, the onus is on Government to shut that person and his negative values down before it take roots. That's where National Orientation Agency comes in. GEH GEH shenanigans should be shut immediately for selfishly exploiting gullible menfolk to make money like the other Shola.

Afterall, critics of FG policies are invited and interrogated by DSS. Moreover, government of Obasanjo stopped Pastor Chris' Atmosphere for Miracles TV program because it was viewed as manipulative.

And so I maintain that GEH GEH shenanigans should be shut immediately.

Good advice all through but men never learn and there’s only a few exceptions

Gehgeh don give una serious headache

Chaiiiiiiiii

I wonder how people follow this nitwit in character of a person.

I agree with number 2 though. Most women just need a sponsor

Okay ooooo, geh geh this and that

Make una allow us rest abeg

Okay noted.

31 more characters needed. Up Chelsea.

Spicy girlfriend has told us her own part. Make we wait for pastor/imam

I wonder why you guys are dissecting Gehgeh's teachings. When Blessing CEO and Saidaboj been de advice una, shey una hail them. Na all the advice una follow?

Allow guys to follow the teachings of their fellow man. If e favour you after you apply the lessons, good and fine. If e no favour you... Well... Try another approach

Gehgeh maybe an adviser on women affairs but he may also be a simp to one lowkey woman out there

spicykev:
These 4 Gehgeh Advise Will Ruin Your Relationship


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No 3 is actually true in some cultures up north.
Its the wife that buys her goods and even pay a dowry to the man.

For every rule there is an exception

If you like blindly listen to online advise without considering your relationship peculiarities before applying them

Geh geh matter front page worthy?? Which way NL??


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Guys need to use their brain before taking everything they see online hook line and sinker.

Learn but don’t restrict your life entirely to advise from online influencers who get paid off your attention.

People will only identify with ideologies they are leaning towards already. Anyone who identifies with him already had it in him before.

Since I started worshipping Gehgeh online and offline my bank accounts savings just dey growing fat steadily and I give more to my mum and siblings.
No listen to Gehgeh at your own risks. All the I DEY HUNGRY girls should go and work. The earlier the better for them.

Gehgeh thank you ✌️

Why do you think his advice resonate with many MEN? Maybe that’s because It’s True. Relationships/Marriage are very complicated but lack of awareness is more dangerous and has a lasting effect. The bottom line is MEN should be careful of the partners they pick.

Geh geh university: a university like no other

A school where there's no need for diplomacy in saying it the way it is.

why not post the good advice too abi na bad things you dey look for always?

I pity guys who takes gehgeh's words serious.....He's my bro,from the same tribe and local government but the truth is that we all know the guy's only catching cruise......

But hey,who are those applying such doctrines into their lives when in actual sense,they are common things every sensible man ought to have known already.

Our women are seriously fighting back.

Geh geh don buy market...lol

Geh Geh’s teachings should only guide you on how not to be used by women. It doesn’t mean you should become toxic towards them.

When you meet a woman who genuinely loves you, reciprocate with the same energy.
His message also applies to women—don’t take advantage of men, treat them right. If you misinterpret his videos, you’re missing the point.

No matter how polluted love may seem these days, always experience people for yourself—
not based on public opinion or past relationships.

This geh geh and his redpiller advice. Well as a man just do u. U yourself will know wen u are simping and wen u are in control. The point is try your best to be in control and not act foolish in front of your girlfriend/wife. But that doesn't mean u should treat your woman like trash. We all have mothers, sisters, daughters, aunties...


Even the geh geh himself will he want any guy to treat his sister or daughter with some of his advice

Who dey listen to those jobless people before. They do anything for contact to get money even if to with thier own mothers. Gehgeh ko. Jaga ni. Only fool follow and listen to those people. That is how one neolife guy dey come borrow gas to cook o, but go dey shout money Na water in this company to fools who listen to him.

RealityKings1:
The guy is actually right, Solomon had peace of mind for a reason.
The more of them you have, the more your Peace of mind.

This is wrong

more women
more problems

this has been proven over time

His opinion might come from his experience in life, your opinion is also based on your experience or assumptions, the truth is he is correct and you are also correct but for me I go for his advice.