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I have a single mother I am befriending at my workplace. This lady has a personal business she's running. Recently, she got a business proposal from one of the companies she sells their product. The business proposal has the capability of giving her a breakthrough in the sales business, because if her turnover is seen to be impressive, the company will make her the sole distributor of the product in her locality. However, She's required to commit about N4m into the business according to the proposal.

Now, the challenge is that, she ain't got the dough; and she's been singing it to my hearing cos she knows I have the money. How did she know I have the money? I did a transaction a certain night; I then mistakenly sent the debit alert to her as a proof of payment for the transaction before editing the balance.

I do not plan to marry this lady, neither do I plan to be with her for long. I am only using her to cure konji until I finally get the girl I want to settle with. Besides, I have other plans for the money she saw in my account. Now, how do I convince her that she's NEVER in my plans with respect to that money she saw? This is a lady who thinks because she's single and I am also single, and that we are 'chopping' each other, it automatically means she's my woman. In fact, she'd once asked me about my plans of wife-ing her.

Hemanwel:
I have a single mother I am befriending at my workplace. This lady has a personal business she's running. Recently, she got a business proposal from one of the companies she sells their product. The business proposal has the capability of giving her a breakthrough in the sales business, because if her turnover is seen to be impressive, the company will make her the sole distributor of the product in her locality. However, She's required to commit about N4m into the business according to the proposal.

Now, the challenge is that, she ain't got the dough; and she's been singing it to my hearing cos she knows I have the money. How did she know I have the money? I did a transaction a certain night; I then mistakenly sent the debit alert to her as a proof of payment for the transaction before editing the balance.

I do not plan to marry this lady, neither do I plan to be with her for long. I am only using her to cure konji until I finally get the girl I want to settle with. Besides, I have other plans for the money she saw in my account. Now, how do I convince her that she's NEVER in my plans with respect to that money she saw? This is a lady who thinks because she's single and I am also single, and that we are 'chopping' each other, it automatically means she's my woman. In fact, she'd once asked me about my plans of wife-ing her.

Don't embark on that journey if you don't have capacity to overlook the funds

You wan borrow woman wey you dey chop money? Congrats in advance ...

Btw, stop giving her false hope, let her know your intention about her, don't joke with what a scorned woman can do o....

Cold141114:
Don't embark on that journey if you don't have capacity to overlook the funds

hehe. I just dey look OP. Tell her hoha say you no get the funds to give am. No give am hope. Single mother? Don't let her use you oh.

Clairvoyancy:
You wan borrow woman wey you dey chop money? Congrats in advance ...

Btw, stop giving her false hope, let her know your intention about her, don't joke with what a scorned woman can do o....

He dey type "cute konji" with smirk on him face. If that woman deal with am. Lol. I just dey laugh. oP dey play with fire.

Hemanwel:
I have a single mother I am befriending at my workplace. This lady has a personal business she's running. Recently, she got a business proposal from one of the companies she sells their product. The business proposal has the capability of giving her a breakthrough in the sales business, because if her turnover is seen to be impressive, the company will make her the sole distributor of the product in her locality. However, She's required to commit about N4m into the business according to the proposal.

Now, the challenge is that, she ain't got the dough; and she's been singing it to my hearing cos she knows I have the money. How did she know I have the money? I did a transaction a certain night; I then mistakenly sent the debit alert to her as a proof of payment for the transaction before editing the balance.

I do not plan to marry this lady, neither do I plan to be with her for long. I am only using her to cure konji until I finally get the girl I want to settle with. Besides, I have other plans for the money she saw in my account. Now, how do I convince her that she's NEVER in my plans with respect to that money she saw? This is a lady who thinks because she's single and I am also single, and that we are 'chopping' each other, it automatically means she's my woman. In fact, she'd once asked me about my plans of wife-ing her.

don't ever lend money to a woman u are fvckiπg.. u will not get it back ,...

One of the things Women know how to do best is equate money and sex in their head.....even if it's a 100milion dollars ...they will just assume the money is for the sex u have been having

Cold141114:
Don't embark on that journey if you don't have capacity to overlook the funds

Alright. I dig.

This seem like a scam to me. I may be wrong though, but just avoid her.

Please also protect yourself o. Make she no send guys cum do you strong thing for night

Clairvoyancy:
You wan borrow woman wey you dey chop money? Congrats in advance ...

Btw, stop giving her false hope, let her know your intention about her, don't joke with what a scorned woman can do o....

Make she carry her kukunase go dash another person to devour? Something wen I dey chow tweleh tweleh. You try. Lolss. On a serious note, I have never initiated nor uttered marriage discussions with her before

Tenrack:
hehe. I just dey look OP. Tell her hoha say you no get the funds to give am. No give am hope. Single mother? Don't let her use you oh.

She nor reach! Although she's been having this feeling of entitlement over my funds because we dey lash each other. And to be truthful, she hasn't asked me directly for money, but she's kept sounding it to me how she is in dire need of money to take her business to the next level.

Tenrack:
He dey type "cute konji" with smirk on him face. If that woman deal with am. Lol. I just dey laugh. oP dey play with fire.

She can't do nada!

advanceDNA:
don't ever lend money to a woman u are fvckiπg.. u will not get it back ,...

Women know how to equate money and sex in their head.....if if it's a 100milion dollars ...they will just assume the money is for the sex u have been having

Alright. Thanks for the advice!

I like your confidence. When she shows you, you will know "Fear women" no be ordinary joke. Best of luck, sir.

Hemanwel:
She can't do nada!

Hemanwel:
She can't do nada!

They are advising you and you're forming Van Damme. By the time it gets over you, maybe you will become wise. Some of you like hardship

advanceDNA:
don't ever lend money to a woman u are fvckiπg.. u will not get it back ,...

Women know how to equate money and sex in their head.....if if it's a 100milion dollars ...they will just assume the money is for the sex u have been having

OP,

Go with this advice. As a starter, don't transact any business with someone you have sexual intercourse with who is not your married partner. It is why it is unethical to have sex with your female employees. Sex distorts the conditions of that transaction. Our women would believe any money given to them, even when sex is not involved, is theirs to spend anyhow. After all, Ashmusy, the social media influencer, did not fulfill her part of an ad deal with the talk "can't you leave money for fine girl?" Until the man in question complained to VDM, who called her out, and she returned the money afterwards.

When you are transacting business with a woman, see her as a man. Don't allow breasts and yansh to becloud your thought process.

Hemanwel:
She nor reach! Although she's been having this feeling of entitlement over my funds because we dey lash each other. And to be truthful, she hasn't asked me directly for money, but she's kept sounding it to me how she is in dire need of money to take her business to the next level.

no mind am she won cash out. No gree o

Now, the challenge is that, she ain't got the dough; and she's been singing it to my hearing cos she knows I have the money. How did she know I have the money? I did a transaction a certain night; I then mistakenly sent the debit alert to her as a proof of payment for the transaction before editing the balance.

Nah here you set yourself up. You wan show her say money dey your hand & as she don see ham now, she quickly cook up a billing story for you

Nah why sometimes I no dey blame all these girls!

You're the one to be blamed here.

She has no fault.

Hmmmm single mothers😂😂😂😂
Lemme pass in peace 😂😂😂😂

Hemanwel:
I have a single mother I am befriending at my workplace. This lady has a personal business she's running. Recently, she got a business proposal from one of the companies she sells their product. The business proposal has the capability of giving her a breakthrough in the sales business, because if her turnover is seen to be impressive, the company will make her the sole distributor of the product in her locality. However, She's required to commit about N4m into the business according to the proposal.

Now, the challenge is that, she ain't got the dough; and she's been singing it to my hearing cos she knows I have the money. How did she know I have the money? I did a transaction a certain night; I then mistakenly sent the debit alert to her as a proof of payment for the transaction before editing the balance.

I do not plan to marry this lady, neither do I plan to be with her for long. I am only using her to cure konji until I finally get the girl I want to settle with. Besides, I have other plans for the money she saw in my account. Now, how do I convince her that she's NEVER in my plans with respect to that money she saw? This is a lady who thinks because she's single and I am also single, and that we are 'chopping' each other, it automatically means she's my woman. In fact, she'd once asked me about my plans of wife-ing her.

Serves you right! This is what you get for venturing in a relationship without defining boundaries. I'm sure you over-promised. It is better for you to tell her the obvious. Tell her your resources are tied to a business you have in view.

Juliearth:
Serves you right! This is what you get for venturing in a relationship without defining boundaries. I'm sure you over-promised. It is better for you to tell her the obvious. Tell her your resources are tied to a business you have in view.

Well said.

Gerrard59:
OP,

Go with this advice. As a starter, don't transact any business with someone you have sexual intercourse with who is not your married partner. It is why it is unethical to have sex with your female employees. Sex distorts the conditions of that transaction. Our women would believe any money given to them, even when sex is not involved, is theirs to spend anyhow. After all, Ashmusy, the social media influencer, did not fulfill her part of an ad deal with the talk "can't you leave money for fine girl?" Until the man in question complained to VDM, who called her out, and she returned the money afterwards.

When you are transacting business with a woman, see her as a man. Don't allow breasts and yansh to becloud your thought process.

Thanks man!

PulaPower:
Now, the challenge is that, she ain't got the dough; and she's been singing it to my hearing cos she knows I have the money. How did she know I have the money? I did a transaction a certain night; I then mistakenly sent the debit alert to her as a proof of payment for the transaction before editing the balance.

Nah here you set yourself up. You wan show her say money dey your hand & as she don see ham now, she quickly cook up a billing story for you

Nah why sometimes I no dey blame all these girls!

You didn't see the part I wrote "mistakenly"?

Karlifate:
You're the one to be blamed here.

She has no fault.

How? I don't understand. I never promised her anything

SpencerForbes:
Hmmmm single mothers😂😂😂😂
Lemme pass in peace 😂😂😂😂

Na dem oh!

Juliearth:
Serves you right! This is what you get for venturing in a relationship without defining boundaries. I'm sure you over-promised. It is better for you to tell her the obvious. Tell her your resources are tied to a business you have in view.

Honestly, I never promised her anything... Anyways, thanks for the advice!

Hemanwel:
Na dem oh!

It never ends well. No love and commitment from them. They’re always feeling they don’t have the time again and every guy that ask them out is a potential boyfriend.

They’ll always love their kids than you and you’ll get stale or transactional love.

Best advise, if you have money date under 22 and experience love not the one that comes with pressure and please avoid single mothers or you’ll be paying for crimes you didn’t commit. A word is enough for the wise.

SpencerForbes:
It never ends well. No love and commitment from them. They’re always feeling they don’t have the time again and every guy that ask them out is a potential boyfriend.

They’ll always love their kids than you and you’ll get stale or transactional love.

Best advise, if you have money date under 22 and experience love not the one that comes with pressure and please avoid single mothers or you’ll be paying for crimes you didn’t commit. A word is enough for the wise.

Thanks man! I really appreciate.

@ bolded,

Where I wan for see them kwanu?

Hemanwel:
Thanks man! I really appreciate.

@ bolded,

Where I wan for see them kwanu?

You’ll see them everywhere. Go to churches, tertiary institutions and other youth social gatherings and you’ll see someone that truly loves you and will submit without fear of you marrying another lady.

SpencerForbes:
You’ll see them everywhere. Go to churches, tertiary institutions and other youth social gatherings and you’ll see someone that truly loves you and will submit without fear of you marrying another lady.

Alright man! Thanks!