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If that's what you got from my post, Kudos

Fenrir:
So, basically you just told told the world you cant get laid so you are going to wait until an advance talking toaster that you can have sex with is invented

Kobojunkie:
Men did that to themselves! 🥱🥱🥱

Na... The society does. And it is not right

What’s bad about her response ?

I am a man and that’s the duty of a woman to give you a good home and good kids..
men really underestimate these things… why no go marry man or stay single and be doing soapy

naijapikin2:
This girl seriously needs to be GEH-GEHRIZED😃😃😃

She needs orientation sharperly what manner of girl reasons like this. Her fellow girls should borrow her brain.

lol! she take one month senior fowl

Ashawoman82:
mentality of a simp, she contributes, does it mean she does 50:50? Why then shouldn't she submit..

Why would a woman want to submit to a man that throws a tantrum and demands it?

Or do you think a woman will naturally submit to a man that makes her feel safe and secure?

Men like get cheated on because your head isnt screwed on right

Where as my and my Mrs are perfect for each other, we do alot of swinging

Lovelyperson:
➜Na... The society does. And it is not right

Society ruled by men — men— came up with that idea.

Fenrir:
There is no such as 50/50 one is always making more effort for the other

And there is literally no such as a gold digger or greedy woman ive said it before

All women cost money, even a woman YOU consider low maintenance is expensive to some men

Just be quiet, pick one in your price range that can live within your means, be happy and do right by each other

Not my fault you're broke fella

Oga shutup with ur loweself esteem, using money to lure women is not the right way to get a woman... Stop sounding archaic, we are in the era where an average woman has more privilege to be more successful than u as a man... Look arround u, same way there is no excuse for a man to be poor, it also apllies to women, I will never settle for less or lure women with my money, shows u are not confident of yourself... I will marry a woman my level. And build life, it's that simple, we must both support each other, the era of house wife is totally gone, even billionares marry fellow billionaire woman... Look arround u, no man wants a liability but a partner...

Pompoma:
We bring only pussiii and bweast. That's all. Anyone who don't like it should remain celibate.

Funny thing is , women are into sex more. Married women basically beg there husbands for sex so what u r saying is, you have nothing

She is a very honest person

Very honest

However, the man didn't ask the girl about business ideas, probably this girl could turn out to be better than every other.

Again, I see pride on the side of the guy

You should be grateful she outlined all she has to offer, you may think its little but you see that peace, comfort and respect she mentioned is the best you probably will ever get. Its downhill from there onwards. If what you are expecting to hear is she giving you money, open doors, connections etc you will will wait for long.

Ashawoman82:
Oga it depends on her age... If an under 25 year old tells me this I'll understand, but a 27 +year old woman talking like this is a disaster waiting to happen..

Brother, there are points I picked from that chat. What most men lack in marriage is peace and this girl promised him that. From the chat, she was willing to be a good wife and mother. I will prefer a woman who will just be loyal as wife and give me peace than the one that will bring something to the table and gives shege daily. I'm just chosing the lesser evil which I don't see much as evil because naturally, we are providers. I'm talking about marriage now, not about relationship.

If no be say country don hard now,na em make man dey ask woman what are you bringing to the table.

I dey very sure say Ned no ask Regina what are you bringing to the table.
I'm very sure that if it is possible,most men will prefer their wife to be a sit at home mum but omo life don hard to live comfortably na war so woman got work too.

Clairvoyancy:
From the screenshot, it shows this one is still naive and innocent (not vouching for her tho)... It's understandable if she begs for money, cos she's a student, not all students have legit side hustles...

This girl have potential of becoming a good wife, girls like this can turn 100k capital to 300k in short period.. forget the fact that she said she has nothing else to offer, her honesty alone is an asset, she just needs someone to guide her...

For me, for the fact that she begs from family and friends alone, I can risk it all and marry her and then change her orientation.... Her peers probably have side hustle (olosho), begs from their sugar daddies, or date multiple men to earn a living an live large in school.... For me oo, I still fit risk this kain girl if all is in that SS is true...

She sounds like a good child though even as we can't vouch for her. She has family kind of orientation someone that would want to play that role of a wife. With proper guidance she can bring out her potential. Probably she is still in her earliest 20's.
She was honest. For the facts that she began by saying as a girlfriend or a wife speaks of who truly she is. She was looking or picturing the end game.

Zonefree:
I love her honesty.


"I don't have anything else to offer"

The first woman to attest she has nothing to offer humanity.

This guy🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Nonexisting1:
Brother, there are points I picked from that chat. What most men lack in marriage is peace and this girl promised him that. From the chat, she was willing to be a good wife and mother. I will prefer a woman who will just be loyal as wife and give me peace than the one that will bring something to the table and gives shege daily. I'm just chosing the lesser evil which I don't see much as evil because naturally, we are providers. I'm talking about marriage now, not about relationship.

I like your comment. Woman wasn't original created to be competitive but to be a home builder. That is why we men should pray for God's blessings to have a good home without stressing our wives.

Zonefree:
@bolded

This "change her orientation" is the major reason many men are suffering in marriage.

No matter what or who you are, you can NEVER change a female adult.

Understand that people can be groomed, guided and trained. It's about a willing heart. Some people have not had the privilege to be coached, to be helped to be directed in life. They are ladies that are willing and not all girls have been damaged.

Zonefree:
A SIMPle man would try to upgrade the girl, thereby bringing chaos into his life.

Yeah a SIMPle man would TRY to, but a proper WILL definitely see this as a keeper.

I mean she Already knows the basics, there will be nothing wrong in fine tuning this one

Pompoma:
We bring only pussiii and bweast. That's all. Anyone who don't like it should remain celibate.

this boy

What do u gain from creating account on nairaland everyday?

Nonexisting1:
I don't know why you are complaining. If I see a Nigerian girl that will give me all she promised you, I will marry her. She said she will bring you joy and peace, give you children, be a good wife, do her rites and obligations as wife. What else do you want a woman to offer you? Men are providers so don't expect a woman to give you money but if she does, it is okay too. Brother, if she can do all that she said, then I don't see the need for your complaint.

I seconded your post.

Whoever that guy is has shown that he is proud and just full of himself. Who the hell does he think he is? Date the girl first, get to know her instead of all this jamb questions you are asking the poor girl.

Fenrir:
Thats how i know my wife married me because she loves me

I met her my country being beaten by a Nigerian man, I beat him and she just stayed with me

She has a bank card linked to my accounts to use freely with no permission needed at all and she chooses never to use it, she hasn't used it once in the whole relationship or marriage

She makes her own money from some computer wizardry that I dont understand, she only works 5 hours a week and the rest of the time shes a housewife and mother to my daughter because she wants to be and she loves me for me because the second i said I wont do igbo traditions she said "ok, dont" she didn't even want a bride paid and I had to behind her back to pay it to save hassle

Ashawoman82

Im a different race
Im a different nationality
Im a different ethnicity

I didn't flash the cash to get my wifes gash
I used brains and brawn and beat the beta beating her and she followed me around like a love sick puppy everyday after

My own be say, let every man treats any woman the way they would like their own daughter to be treated. Do unto others as you would like for them to do unto you.

Chilipepper:
Man shares a lady's response after asking what she would bring to his life if they dated.

Small boys always thinking that been good at answering questions like someone in a job interview is what makes a good partner.The best way to know the right partner is studying the person not interviewing the person, even if you have to interview , it should always come like a friendly discussion not job interview. Relationship and Marriage is not Job

Clairvoyancy:
I do not understand your comment, but it's more reasonable to judge someone from what they say than to judge from how they look....

That's how men miss dia destiny helpers actually ....most guys just want a beautiful woman with bwess n backside....sadly, after some years, they want another.....very sad!

As a man if you are not engaging in a transactional marriage, then you are lost.
Something must go for something.
NCNC.....No Contribution No Chopping.
In diaspora 95% of the marriages are transactional. Something must be earned.
You don't go to bed with someone who has nothing to lose, else you're doomed

Ashawoman82:
Oga shutup with ur loweself esteem, using money to lure women is not the right way to get a woman... Stop sounding archaic, we are in the era where an average woman has more privilege to be more successful than u as a man... Look arround u, same way there is no excuse for a man to be poor, it also apllies to women, I will never settle for less or lure women with my money, shows u are not confident of yourself... I will marry a woman my level. And build life, it's that simple, we must both support each other, the era of house wife is totally gone, even billionares marry fellow billionaire woman... Look arround u, no man wants a liability but a partner...

Im not a gen z simp

Im a 40 year old millennial that was that grew the gen x way

Check my other topics, if I wont grovel and stroke the ego of a womans family in traditions do you really think id put up with a woman that only saw me an atm?

When I met her I was a 35 year old single dad, ex military and grieving my wifes loss

I saw a 30 year old gym muscle for show Nigerian guy bullying a 22 year old woman so I showed him what 5 years of pent up rage will do to a man like him, a little bully boy

It took me 12 years to make the millions ive got and 5 years shes already made half of what im worth and she really doesn't need me for money

Don't be so silly to mistake old school for simping

Nonexisting1:
I don't know why you are complaining. If I see a Nigerian girl that will give me all she promised you, I will marry her. She said she will bring you joy and peace, give you children, be a good wife, do her rites and obligations as wife. What else do you want a woman to offer you? Men are providers so don't expect a woman to give you money but if she does, it is okay too. Brother, if she can do all that she said, then I don't see the need for your complaint.

Men are becoming lazy, the only thing I need from a woman is honesty and contentment. Any woman who chases money like a man is already damaged. They will eventually go into competition with the man and push for gender equality.

Any woman who gives you peace of mind and very content with whatever she has is gold

Please leave the poor girl. No be everything we go carry alpha male enter. In fact the most dominant trait of an alpha male is that he must know when to be flexible. Abi you wan see baby dey do alpha male. The girl seems straightforward.

occfx:
Men are becoming lazy, the only thing I need from a woman is honesty and contentment. Any woman who chases money like a man is already damaged. They will eventually go into competition with the man and push for gender equality.

Any woman who gives you peace of mind and very content with whatever she has is gold

Nope
Black men and African men, some American men are asking what women bring to the relationship

Not European men
Not Australian men
Not Asian men

But ask around Africa, Nigerians are more American now than you are African today