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BRATISLAVA:
You were right, until your penultimate sentence.

What would you say to "Men generally are greedy". Men want a home body and still want the person to bring them money, because the only thing men bring is getting money, but they can't even do that alone so create unrealistic expectations to make women fulfill their responsibilities for them and keep wanting more.
It's why a supposedly thinking man will want the body and full services of a teenager in university and still want her to give him money.

Then shame her publicly without addressing his greed. And get support from other dunderheads.

I have addressed the bold in a series of comments on Nairaland.

Today's women aren't like yesteryear's women because they earn their own money, can independently control the childbearing process, and have so much freedom to decide what they want for themselves. Most importantly, as these women now earn their money, they become assertive, which is a normal trait for humans. A woman who earns her money, can decide how many children she wants and knows the freedom she has today isn't necessarily going to be as "submissive" as her mother.

The summary is that women have changed, but men have yet to realise this profound change.

Gerrard59:
I have addressed the bold in a series of comments on Nairaland.

Today's women aren't like yesteryear's women because they earn their own money, can independently control the childbearing process, and have so much freedom to decide what they want for themselves. Most importantly, as these women now earn their money, they become assertive, which is a normal trait for humans. A woman who earns her money, can decide how many children she wants and knows the freedom she has today isn't necessarily going to be as "submissive" as her mother.

The summary is that women have changed, but men have yet to realise this profound change.

Then why call women billers?

Pompoma:
We bring only pussiii and bweast. That's all. Anyone who don't like it should remain celibate.

I like honest people like you. Just like the poster's girl.😂😂😂😂

You all keep judging the girl the topic is about but did any of you even care to ask or consider what she is studying before debating her value as a human or wife or her further?

Chilipepper:
Man shares a lady's response after asking what she would bring to his life if they dated.

Honestly I like that girl and her response. She's a wife material and you can easily mould this one into a very productive woman. If I see her, I'd wife her.

Chilipepper:
Man shares a lady's response after asking what she would bring to his life if they dated.

He said "say something more intelligent" yet he wasn't intelligent enough to ask what she is studying just immediately looking down on her

lawani:
I am telling you as a Yoruba man that there can be a second wedding for a woman and the groom would still be expected to prostrate. There is no big deal in prostration to the Yoruba. As a young man the normal way to greet your in law is by prostrating

Then yoruba families should only expect it from yoruba men since you are so willing to do it so freely for anyone one even those your ancestors said traditionally dont deserve it

lawani:
I am telling you as a Yoruba man that there can be a second wedding for a woman and the groom would still be expected to prostrate. There is no big deal in prostration to the Yoruba. As a young man the normal way to greet your in law is by prostrating

You can tell a man like you an absolute truth like "there is no such thing as a circular square" and even with evidence you are the type that will argue "yes there is, its called a triangle"

Fenrir:
You can tell a man like you an absolute truth like "there is no such thing as a circular square" and even with evidence you are the type that will argue "yes there is, its called a triangle"

You have formed your opinion. It is OK but there is nothing special in prostrating for any elder in Yoruba land especially an in law and it was not reserved for virgin brides though brides were expected to be virgins in the past

lawani:
You have formed your opinion. It is OK but there is nothing special in prostrating for any elder in Yoruba land especially an in law and it was not reserved for virgin brides though brides were expected to be virgins in the past

Yes it was fella, get off your backside and actually research it yourself and good for you if you think its not a big deal, you obviously just lack the self respect to actually verify what the corrupt older generations tell you

lawani:
You have formed your opinion. It is OK but there is nothing special in prostrating for any elder in Yoruba land especially an in law and it was not reserved for virgin brides though brides were expected to be virgins in the past

Under your logic your 14th century ancestors made a tradition where a whole village of men can run a train on a woman, she has 10 kids outside marriage and your ancestors would have been proud of that? And said "that family is the pride of our tribe and they deserve worship"

Your ancestors had a specific ritual traditionally to restore a woman after divorce or pre marita lsex or sexual assault, you dont practice that tradition anymore or the white cloth tradition

You have a very funny definition of being proud of your culture and history when you hide most of it from the world

lawani:
You have formed your opinion. It is OK but there is nothing special in prostrating for any elder in Yoruba land especially an in law and it was not reserved for virgin brides though brides were expected to be virgins in the past

IRB – Immigration and Refugee Board of Canada (Autor): „Existence among the Yoruba of a ritual done to women to restore the virginity they would have lost prior to marriage; if so, a description and the state protection available to those who refuse to perform this ritual (February 2004) [NGA42319.E]“, Dokument #1069612 - ecoi.net https://share.google/n4v1Nt8yzbGRqITOX

lawani:
You have formed your opinion. It is OK but there is nothing special in prostrating for any elder in Yoruba land especially an in law and it was not reserved for virgin brides though brides were expected to be virgins in the past

'[A]nd when I came to her I found she was not a virgin': A contextual re-reading of Deuteronomy 22:13-21 among Nigerian Christians https://share.google/UWdK4qWZF8y6A3r8G

Fenrir:
Under your logic your 14th century ancestors made a tradition where a whole village of men can run a train on a woman, she has 10 kids outside marriage and your ancestors would have been proud of that? And said "that family is the pride of our tribe and they deserve worship"

Your ancestors had a specific ritual traditionally to restore a woman after divorce or pre marita lsex or sexual assault, you dont practice that tradition anymore or the white cloth tradition

You have a very funny definition of being proud of your culture and history when you hide most of it from the world

I know of the white cloth tradition. There is nothing like restoring a woman to virginity. It is just basic common sense that prostration is a part of Yoruba marriage rite since it is part of the culture

naijapikin2:
➜Your implications do not tilt at the truth... Your ways are and thoughts are a reflection of a failed upbringing. Of course they are true men of God and the fake ones also, in addition to the ones who vainly try to usurp the gospel in all of these God still reigns supreme.
2.if you choose to be unenlightened about such things as movies then sorry to say, your life must be one compendium of boring sequences.
😛😛😛
3 millions... Nay billions of people globally attest to the omnipotence... To the omniscience.. to the omnipresence.. to the all power.. all sufficient God. Your minute knowledge about God not withstanding.
PS: you and I have been through this road before, and trust me I've got the sounds in my trunk to last the whole 9 yards... So keep shooting your rubber pellets. 😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁

1. Here's how the game has almost always been for you religious folks.... one man's god of man is another man's charlatan. That is the reason why there are over 46,000 different kinds of gods of men in the religion of Christianity alone, all of them "true gods of men" only to those who subscribe to their own brand of bullsheet... the same kind that has kept women and children existing as subdued individuals in the eyes of their gods.

2. Unenlightened about movies that were meant not to be taken seriously by the entertainers who made them? WOW....🥱🥱🥱

3. They attest, yet to this day not a single one of those billions can be considered any different from those who don't even have a god to attest to. That billions subscribe to a delusion DOES NOT make said delusion of truth or of value, not even to the human race. A delusion remains just that... a delusion/lie!

Kobojunkie:
1. Here's how the game has almost always been for you religious folks.... one man's god of man is another man's charlatan. That is the reason why there are over 46,000 different kinds of gods of men in the religion of Christianity alone, all of them "true gods of men" only to those who subscribe to their own brand of bullsheet... the same kind that has kept women and children existing as subdued individuals in the eyes of their gods.

2. Unenlightened about movies that were meant not to be taken seriously by the entertainers who made them? WOW....🥱🥱🥱

3. They attest, yet to this day not a single one of those billions can be considered any different from those who don't even have a god to attest to. That billions subscribe to a delusion DOES NOT make said delusion of truth or of value, not even to the human race. A delusion remains just that... a delusion/lie!

For 1. I volunteer 🙋‍♂️ ill be the new god Nigerians can worship and praise

The atheistic god, has quite a ring to it but be careful im very very wrathful and my 1st almighty decree is that.......

There is to be complete role reversal in all homes between Nigerian men and women so henceforth all naija queens now wear the trousers in all relationships and marriages since they make better man than Nigerian man and all Nigerian men shall become the submissive women of the house. The almighty norse nutter god commands it, I shall come up with 9 more commandments in the near future and a wacky biblical book shortly after but I feel a few commandments like dont lie, cheat or steal can be lumped together into one like dont be a dick

Oh and from now on prostration is punishable by the culprit being tarred and feathered everyday for 20 years

Kobojunkie:
1. Here's how the game has almost always been for you religious folks.... one man's god of man is another man's charlatan. That is the reason why there are over 46,000 different kinds of gods of men in the religion of Christianity alone, all of them "true gods of men" only to those who subscribe to their own brand of bullsheet... the same kind that has kept women and children existing as subdued individuals in the eyes of their gods.

2. Unenlightened about movies that were meant not to be taken seriously by the entertainers who made them? WOW....🥱🥱🥱

3. They attest, yet to this day not a single one of those billions can be considered any different from those who don't even have a god to attest to. That billions subscribe to a delusion DOES NOT make said delusion of truth or of value, not even to the human race. A delusion remains just that... a delusion/lie!

Hahaha I'm having you where I want.

1. What you so strongly believe in is obviously a mirage for some others. Many will see your views as warped (I do).. something that works for over half the population of the world cannot be lies or fabricated gimmicks you wouldn't know that you are too braindead to fathom.
2. Your online rantings have just revealed their origin. An uncanny unwillingness to see the comic side of life. (This is pitiable). Where you birthed and groomed in a chemical lab? 😁

3. The evidence of the power of our God is people like you. Can't you see that you unwittingly outsource your intelligence to the FACT that God is.. reigns... And ever will be? Let me tell you how... The presence of FAKES is a validation that ORIGINAL EXISTS... I mean if nothing, this should hit home. Hahaha.

I'd be honoured to meet you in person one day to really have a healthy convo on this twisted line of your postulations.

STILL WAITING FOR YOUR RUBBER PELLETS 😁😁😁

naijapikin2:
➜Hahaha I'm having you where I want.
1. What you so strongly believe in is obviously a mirage for some others. Many will see your views as warped (I do).. something that works for over half the population of the world cannot be lies or fabricated gimmicks you wouldn't know that you are too braindead to fathom.
2. Your online rantings have just revealed their origin. An uncanny unwillingness to see the comic side of life. (This is pitiable). Where you birthed and groomed in a chemical lab? 😁
3. The evidence of the power of our God is people like you. Can't you see that you unwittingly outsource your intelligence to the FACT that God is.. reigns... And ever will be? Let me tell you how... The presence of FAKES is a validation that ORIGINAL EXISTS... I mean if nothing, this should hit home. Hahaha.
I'd be honoured to meet you in person one day to really have a healthy convo on this twisted line of your postulations.
STILL WAITING FOR YOUR RUBBER PELLETS 😁😁😁

1. That only holds true if there exists no verifiable evidence—again, not delusions— for that which I supposedly strongly believe in, right? Well, no religion or tradition— and their numerous subdivisions/interpretations/mini gods/idols— has been able to present tangible evidence for any of their many claims.

So, how can someone be said to work for half the world when there exists to date no tangible evidence that that thing in fact works for the people in question? No be fraud dem dey call that one? 😏😏

2. Whatever it was, it helps me see through the bullsheet that is you and other religious nutjobs. That is more than enough.

3. There are over 4000 different deities/gods out there. So, which of them do you claim has this intelligence you speak of? (I believe this happens to be the exact same argument that many others out there have for their own gods, too.) Sheeesh! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

BRATISLAVA:
Then why call women billers?

Women across all economic classes are hypergamous. They seek men who are financially higher than they. It is natural for a woman. Billing here means a woman desires her man or a man spends on her in one way or the other.
Do women earn their money? Yes.
Do they spend this money on themselves? Yes.
Do they still wish/want/desire their men or men to spend on them? Yes. This spending comes in many ways, but men have to spend. That is just the koko.

Clairvoyancy:
From the screenshot, it shows this one is still naive and innocent (not vouching for her tho)... It's understandable if she begs for money, cos she's a student, not all students have legit side hustles...

This girl have potential of becoming a good wife, girls like this can turn 100k capital to 300k in short period.. forget the fact that she said she has nothing else to offer, her honesty alone is an asset, she just needs someone to guide her...

For me, for the fact that she begs from family and friends alone, I can risk it all and marry her and then change her orientation.... Her peers probably have side hustle (olosho), begs from their sugar daddies, or date multiple men to earn a living an live large in school.... For me oo, I still fit risk this kain girl if all is in that SS is true...

That's already simping.

It is never your duty to change the orientation of a girl. Women knows exactly what they're doing and when to change their orientation if they desire to.

This is exactly why a lady of 30+ suddenly changes her orientation because at that stage she's desperately looking for a man to settle down with.

You probably won't understand what I'm saying but understand that it isn't your duty as a man to change the orientation of any girl. Let her do it herself that's if she even wants to.

Gerrard59:
Women across all economic classes are hypergamous. They seek men who are financially higher than they. It is natural for a woman. Billing here means a woman desires her man or a man spends on her in one way or the other.
Do women earn their money? Yes.
Do they spend this money on themselves? Yes.
Do they still wish/want/desire their men or men to spend on them? Yes. This spending comes in many ways, but men have to spend. That is just the koko.

Men are hypergamous, otherwise we wouldn't have this thread.

BRATISLAVA:
Men are hypergamous, otherwise we wouldn't have this thread.

Because women have taken up 50% of the jobs in the labour market, yet women have maintained their hypergamy. So men are now playing in women's fields. Just as women are now being polygamous in nature.

May the best gender win.

Gerrard59:
Because women have taken up 50% of the jobs in the labour market, yet women have maintained their hypergamy. So men are now playing in women's fields. Just as women are now being polygamous in nature.

May the best gender win.

50%?

Where? Worldwide?

Men are hypergamous, otherwise we wouldn't have this thread.

Pompoma:
We bring only pussiii and bweast. That's all. Anyone who don't like it should remain celibate.

add prink to it spicy it up

You better they plan how to look in to his business for your children seek

Meeting your parents send you school for

naijapikin2:
Your implications do not tilt at the truth... Your ways are and thoughts are a reflection of a failed upbringing. Of course they are true men of God and the fake ones also, in addition to the ones who vainly try to usurp the gospel in all of these God still reigns supreme.

2.if you choose to be unenlightened about such things as movies then sorry to say, your life must be one compendium of boring sequences.
😛😛😛

3 millions... Nay billions of people globally attest to the omnipotence... To the omniscience.. to the omnipresence.. to the all power.. all sufficient God. Your minute knowledge about God not withstanding.

PS: you and I have been through this road before, and trust me I've got the sounds in my trunk to last the whole 9 yards... So keep shooting your rubber pellets. 😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁

Applies to almost all gods


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6FfYPh144UQ?si=eUEjKQubLv4WyMIj

Especially the 3 Abrahamic gods

BRATISLAVA:
50%?

Where? Worldwide?

Men are hypergamous, otherwise we wouldn't have this thread.

In most liberal parts of the world, women have equalled the employment rate. For instance, in Nigeria, Zenith Bank employs more women than men. Today's women have more opportunities than their forebearers. In some industries, women constitute over 70% of the employees. Women have so much freedom, money and opportunities today than ever before.

The bold is untrue, and you know it. Women are hypergamous. It's innate and this applies across all cultures, racial groups, religions and counties. If men are hypergamous, it's because men are now playing in women's fields. Two can play the game.

Gerrard59:
In most liberal parts of the world, women have equalled the employment rate. For instance, in Nigeria, Zenith Bank employs more women than men. Today's women have more opportunities than their forebearers. In some industries, women constitute over 70% of the employees. Women have so much freedom, money and opportunities today than ever before.

The bold is untrue, and you know it. Women are hypergamous. It's innate and this applies across all cultures, racial groups, religions and counties. If men are hypergamous, it's because men are now playing in women's fields. Two can play the game.

Men are hypergamous, otherwise we wouldn't have this thread.

[quote author=Kobojunkie post=136637442]1. That only holds true if there exists no verifiable evidence—again, not delusions— for that which I supposedly strongly believe in, right? Well, no religion or tradition— and their numerous subdivisions/interpretations/mini gods/idols— has been able to present tangible evidence for any of their many claims.

So, how can someone be said to work for half the world when there exists to date no tangible evidence that that thing in fact works for the people in question? No be fraud dem dey call that one? 😏😏

2. Whatever it was, it helps me see through the bullsheet that is you and other religious nutjobs. That is more than enough.

3. There are over 4000 different deities/gods out there. So, which of them do you claim has this intelligence you speak of? (I believe this happens to be the exact same argument that many others out there have for their own gods, too.) Sheeesh! 🙄🙄🙄🙄[/quotes]



1. The first verifiable evidence about the existence of the supreme being God almighty is.....(Wait for it).....

YOU...Yes you...the same you created in the express image of the almighty God. Now...if you think the world was framed or evolved from nothing into it's present for without the creative hands of the almighty then it shows that your rational level of reasoning is highly flawed. You just basically refuse to use your God given cognitive dissonance to good use. We pray and receive answers to our supplications.. surely low thinking neanderthals such as you would believe it was a coincidence. Hahahaha c'mon. Your brain can do better...

2. They say beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder..but there are verifiable indices that can be used to adjudicate beauty. So if what you see on movies are not enough to elicit beauty..then your cognitive handicaps extend to the aesthetics as well.on that even God cannot help you. Hahaha 😃😃

3. In answer to your question: I AM A CHRISTIAN. A PENTECOSTAL. And proudly so. I profess Jesus Christ..I am not perfect..no one is..but I endeavor to live by the dictates of the bible. That's who I am..... question is...who are you?..well you gave flawed identity.

See ehn l... whether you believe in God or not... whether you accept him or not... whether you adore him or not...

IT DOESN'T MAKE HIM LESS OF HIMSELF.

Your accepting or not does not change a thing

Fenrir:
Applies to almost all gods


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6FfYPh144UQ?si=eUEjKQubLv4WyMIj

Especially the 3 Abrahamic gods

A person's beliefs should bring good results to him.. otherwise his beliefs will be questioned.. results matter when it comes to what you believe in...

Go and find out the life of george carlin and how his life ended.

You wouldn't want to tow that line.