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A man who is my friend always says he has something to tell me. Whenever we meet, he will say the venue wasn't conducive. Three days ago, in my car I asked him about what he wants to tell me and he said I should visit him and he would tell me. I said no, I don't visit men. I was angry but he still didn't say anything. I said if he was into me, I would be disappointed because he should know I am his friend but he said , he was not going to say anything until we meet in a conducive place. I was angry and he left my car.

Is he into me?
Has he proposed love?
Did I overreact?

Nicenancy:
A man who is my friend always says he has something to tell me. Whenever we meet, he will say the venue wasn't conducive. Three days ago, in my car I asked him about what he wants to tell me and he said I should visit him and he would tell me. I said no, I don't visit men. I was angry but he still didn't say anything. I said if he was into me, I would be disappointed because he should know I am his friend but he said , he was not going to say anything until we meet in a conducive place. I was angry and he left my car.

Is he into me?
Has he proposed love?
Did I overreact?

I swear to swear for you just dey hungry Me. I mean wtf is this?

Tenrack:
I swear to swear for you just dey hungry Me. I mean wtf is this?

U cannot read?
How do you mean what is the meaning of this?

I said if he was into me, I would be disappointed because he should know I am his friend

Seen your other topics and I sincerely hope you're not trolling. But then you shouldn't have said that na. No man is truly just close friends with the opposite gender let's be honest. It's either you're blood relatives or he's riskyBob's brother, bidding his time to hit which is the style of most like this your so called friend.

The guy will no longer be free with you again since you mentioned that. How and why will you be disappointed? So you ladies really do not know as in seriously or you love to pretend not to know just so when you both smash you will call it a mistake? Cos in reality before coming here you know what he wants. There's always signals and our senses as humans perceive things even before they become obvious. The above quote made me laugh so much 😂

Nicenancy:
U cannot read?
How do you mean what is the meaning of this?

don't be flooding this place with unnecessary thread please.

Seems he knows you are married...

Or in a relationship. That's why you told him you would be disappointed.

It's right for you to feel disappointed in him if that's the case.

And it seems he wants to propose his love for you. But skeptical also because of what he knows about your relationship status.


It's possible he also felt you were giving him some green light.

Make it clear you are not into him.


He would stay on his lane!

Nicenancy:
➜A man who is my friend always says he has something to tell me. Whenever we meet, he will say the venue wasn't conducive. Three days ago, in my car I asked him about what he wants to tell me and he said I should visit him and he would tell me. I said no, I don't visit men. I was angry but he still didn't say anything. I said if he was into me, I would be disappointed because he should know I am his friend but he said , he was not going to say anything until we meet in a conducive place. I was angry and he left my car. Is he into me? Has he proposed love? Did I overreact?

Maybe you should spend a lot more of your time learning what it means to love yourself, know how to, and actually love yourself. Then you would be able to not get yourself into these situation-ships where it is literally your mind playing games on you.