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Re: I Want My Wife To Sleep With Another Man by haykes(m): 8:16am On Sep 03, 2025
You need problem in your life and it shall be given to you
Nonsense
Re: I Want My Wife To Sleep With Another Man by Kaido: 9:05am On Sep 03, 2025
illicit:
I am available

Is she pretty and std free, I can come on your head too if u like...
Craze mangrin grin
Re: I Want My Wife To Sleep With Another Man by Mariangeles(f): 9:47am On Sep 03, 2025
PantShifter:
Your analogy no follow at all.

His fantasy is about his I've having sex with a man, not a fellow woman.

Why then are using instance of gay sex to compare?

What you should have said is what if his wife fantasizes about him having sex with another woman
Who are you, and who gets to decide what his wife's "fantasy" will be like?
Does his own "fantasy" determine his wife's fantasy?
Is the op's "fantasy" a template for creating fantasies?

"What you should have said" ko, "what you should have said" ni!
Re: I Want My Wife To Sleep With Another Man by dgitrader(m): 10:02am On Sep 03, 2025
It's better you wrap a bomb around your chest, and help us kpai the drug baron ontop the rock in Aso.

Man, too much porn do see you finish.
Perish such thoughts, you wife Don tell you. God forbid!
Re: I Want My Wife To Sleep With Another Man by dederocs(m): 10:31am On Sep 03, 2025
Your mind is weak and childish...you are just fantasizing over somethings you watched or heard.
Re: I Want My Wife To Sleep With Another Man by Rexymania(m): 1:56pm On Sep 03, 2025
TheWebbers:
I no kolo bro. I dey normal. I just won fulfil this fantasy. If you get idea on how to convince my wife to accept it, please share.
Let me do it for you.
I will be riding your wife, and you will just bang in and tell us to continue while you video the whole thing. It's gonna be between us, your wife should not necessarily know about it


You will pay me sha ooo
Re: I Want My Wife To Sleep With Another Man by bdon123(m): 3:07pm On Sep 03, 2025
I tink say na only me
Re: I Want My Wife To Sleep With Another Man by bdon123(m): 3:08pm On Sep 03, 2025
TheWebbers:
I have this weird sexual fantasy. I want my wife to sleep with another man while I watch them. The idea has been with me even before marriage. My wife is very fine and have a banging body even after two kids and I would love the idea of another man enjoying her.

The man must not be a friend or someone I know from anywhere, just a new random guy and must be cute. I want them to make a video of their sex and then I can watch anytime I like. I believe I would love it and will arouse me a lot. And I wouldn't judge her at all with this. The only condition is that the relationship should only be sexual alone and I will know about it.

Another funny angle is that I am a very jealous husband. I dont want my wife to cheat and if she does, it could break our marriage, but if its a sexual relationship I know about and I approve, i wont consider it cheating.

I once stylishly tried to mention something like that using someone else as example and she was like, "Jesus, God forbid. How can people be thinking rubbish"

Now, how do I tell her about this weird fantasy? How do I get her to accept it? I want this really bad.
Ask ur wife she might want that too....i will like to know wat she says.Tins like this dey swit me
Re: I Want My Wife To Sleep With Another Man by bdon123(m): 3:11pm On Sep 03, 2025
ufy4success:
This man clearly is done with his wife because no man that claims to love a woman would fancy seeing another man have sex with her.

Chai, poor woman thinks she's still married..the perfect way to end the marriage..Mr man set that woman free and stop playing with her life.

Or except you created this post for just the fun, or engagement. Oga you no love your wife period.
U are vwry wrong
Re: I Want My Wife To Sleep With Another Man by franchasng: 4:16pm On Sep 03, 2025
StPete:
Op, this your fantasy is common and a lot of men secretly wish for it. Some women also crave their husbands fucking other women in their presence. Your fantasy is perfectly normal
No mind the pretenders, I was just laughing out loud reading the Op's write up cos I use to have that thinking while single and I have more than 3 friends with same thought, so its normal.


OP is just being honest and natural, which the world of Nigerians don't fancy or condone lol
Re: I Want My Wife To Sleep With Another Man by franchasng: 4:17pm On Sep 03, 2025
Foodqueen:
Some fetish should go with you to the grave, this is one of them.
that's it lolz cheesy
Re: I Want My Wife To Sleep With Another Man by franchasng: 4:19pm On Sep 03, 2025
ufy4success:
This man clearly is done with his wife because no man that claims to love a woman would fancy seeing another man have sex with her.

Chai, poor woman thinks she's still married..the perfect way to end the marriage..Mr man set that woman free and stop playing with her life.

Or except you created this post for just the fun, or engagement. Oga you no love your wife period.
You are wrong. There are weird people, and there are perfect humans who reason differently from how everyone else reasons.


Not everybody take this una love too serious like its acted on movies and told on novels lolz



Life is funny, the diversity of humans on earth are too many to define all humans with one narrative
Re: I Want My Wife To Sleep With Another Man by SamuraiXXX: 7:24pm On Sep 03, 2025
bdon123:
I tink say na only me
So una plenty shocked
Re: I Want My Wife To Sleep With Another Man by ItisWell22(f): 7:31pm On Sep 03, 2025
This is really 😨

Kutunban:
How Yusuf Knacked Malam Idris Woman in Kaduna.

It started with an invitation Yusuf could not explain.

Malam Idris, a trader Yusuf barely knew from Kaduna Central Market, sent him a message one evening:

“Come to my house tonight. My wife is waiting for you.”

Yusuf laughed nervously when he read it. It had to be a mistake. But the message came again, sharper this time, followed by the address in Unguwan Rimi. Against all reason, Yusuf went.

Idris received him with silence. He was tall, broad, his face unreadable, his white kaftan glowing faintly in the dim light. Without a word, he led Yusuf to a bedroom where Zainab, Idris’s wife, sat quietly on the bed, her eyes downcast.

Something was wrong, Yusuf felt it. But Idris stood in the corner, arms folded, his gaze like a nail pinning Yusuf to the ground. Yusuf could not resist. That night, Yusuf did what Idris had invited him to do.

When it was over, Idris opened the door without speaking. Yusuf left, feeling he had walked into a trap.

The next day, Yusuf saw him.

Idris stood across the road from his shop in Tudun Wada, eyes fixed on him. He didn’t greet, didn’t move just stared until Yusuf closed the door.

At Kawo park, Idris was there again, standing beside the buses, his face turned toward Yusuf.

At Sultan Bello Mosque, as Yusuf bowed his head in prayer, he lifted it to see Idris standing at the back, eyes burning into him.

No one else seemed to notice. When Yusuf asked a friend if he could see Idris, the man squinted and shook his head. “Wallahi, there’s nobody there.”

But Yusuf knew. Idris was everywhere.

Soon, Yusuf could not sleep. He heard slow footsteps pacing outside his compound in Unguwan Dosa. His door creaked open at night though he locked it with a chain. Sometimes he woke to find damp footprints on the floor, leading from the window to his bed.

One night, while drinking water, he glanced through the window and dropped the cup in terror.

Idris stood outside in the rain, kaftan dripping, eyes glowing faintly in the dark. He was smiling now.

The torment deepened. His phone rang at midnight, carrying only the sound of breathing. Steam appeared on his mirror, words etched across it:

NAWA NE — Mine.

At times, Yusuf heard a whisper in his ear, cold and sharp:

“You touched what belongs to me.”

His friends thought he was losing his mind. His mother urged him to seek ruqya, Quranic healing. But when Yusuf visited a mallam in Rigasa, the man paled as soon as Yusuf described Idris.

“You should not have gone to that house,” the mallam muttered. “Idris died five years ago. He was buried in Unguwan Sarki.”

Yusuf’s heart froze. He remembered the weight of Idris’s hand when he opened the door, the glare of his eyes. Dead? How could a dead man have stood before him?

The mallam gave him verses to recite, amulets to wear, but nothing helped. Wherever Yusuf went—Barnawa, Kakuri, even when he tried to escape to Zaria—Idris was there. Waiting. Watching.

Now Yusuf avoids sleep. Because when he does, Idris no longer stands at a distance.

He sits at the foot of the bed, smiling in the darkness, whispering words Yusuf cannot repeat.

And in those moments, Yusuf understands the truth: Idris had never invited him out of kindness.

He had lured him. Offered his wife as bait.

So that Yusuf, too, would belong to him.

Forever.


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Kutunban
Re: I Want My Wife To Sleep With Another Man by bdon123(m): 5:48am On Sep 04, 2025
SamuraiXXX:
So una plenty shocked
😆 🤣
Re: I Want My Wife To Sleep With Another Man by TheWebbers(op): 8:13am On Sep 04, 2025
ufy4success:
This man clearly is done with his wife because no man that claims to love a woman would fancy seeing another man have sex with her.

Chai, poor woman thinks she's still married..the perfect way to end the marriage..Mr man set that woman free and stop playing with her life.

Or except you created this post for just the fun, or engagement. Oga you no love your wife period.
In fact I am doing this because I love her.

Saying I dont love my wife is so far from the trurth.

Na that love gangan be the reason I want this. Seeing someone I love so much moan for another cute man is my craving.
Re: I Want My Wife To Sleep With Another Man by TheWebbers(op): 8:15am On Sep 04, 2025
DaudaTheSexyGuy:
Introduce me to your wife and I promise I will bang her but I will not record a video.

I hope she's tight down there grin
The issue is not having you sleep with her. But convincing her to do it. I first need ideas on how to get her to accept first, and if she does, sure you can have her if you are handsome. And I'd tell you how she likes it....

And yeah, she is tight and beautiful. She has a very fine body, better body than most single girls.
Re: I Want My Wife To Sleep With Another Man by TheWebbers(op): 8:16am On Sep 04, 2025
ufy4success:
You know you are just lying to yourself. You too can never watch another man do such to your wife.
A marriage where u need to write an agreement that he chose such shows both parties are just passing time.
No man loves his wife and wants such fantasies. Love is beyond words, love is respect, love is value, love is not stained. The man and his wife are passing time for the sake of societal comments or backlash
I love her so so much and thats why I want this. In fact na the love dey drive me.
Re: I Want My Wife To Sleep With Another Man by TheWebbers(op): 8:19am On Sep 04, 2025
dgitrader:
It's better you wrap a bomb around your chest, and help us kpai the drug baron ontop the rock in Aso.

Man, too much porn do see you finish.
Perish such thoughts, you wife Don tell you. God forbid!
Porn? Lol. You funny me die. I hate porn with passion. I haven't watch porn in more than 25 years.
Re: I Want My Wife To Sleep With Another Man by TheWebbers(op): 8:20am On Sep 04, 2025
dederocs:
Your mind is weak and childish...you are just fantasizing over somethings you watched or heard.
I didn't watch or hear it, I developed it on my own. In fact, I was surprised to discover there are plenty other men like me when I started reaearching about it.
Re: I Want My Wife To Sleep With Another Man by MimiYeshua(f): 8:44am On Sep 04, 2025
This is why you need to pray hard before getting married. Just look at what someone's daughter got married to and she has absolutely no idea huh
God help us
Re: I Want My Wife To Sleep With Another Man by advanceDNA: 9:49am On Sep 04, 2025
TheWebbers:
I didn't watch or hear it, I developed it on my own. In fact, I was surprised to discover there are plenty other men like me when I started reaearching about it.
Baba...it is not all the cravings or desires of the flesh you must indulge in.....
.incase u haven't noticed.... The flesh often have high desire for what's not healthy for it.....if you don't build discipline, weda it's sexual desires, food, alcohol, drugs, you will eventually get a destructive path....

Put that desire under check, nothing good can come out of it......
Re: I Want My Wife To Sleep With Another Man by Smithwilliams826: 9:58am On Sep 04, 2025
lipsrsealed you still dey watch porn.
Re: I Want My Wife To Sleep With Another Man by TheWebbers(op): 3:30pm On Sep 04, 2025
MimiYeshua:
This is why you need to pray hard before getting married. Just look at what someone's daughter got married to and she has absolutely no idea huh
God help us
You would be the luckiest woman on the surface of the earth to get married to someone like me. I'm the kindest and most loving man I know. If you judge me because of this craving, you are on your own.
Re: I Want My Wife To Sleep With Another Man by torqque7(m): 11:40pm On Sep 04, 2025
Emmy000seun:
What if you introduce her to such and she enjoyed it..now she will be craving more for it and when she now turns wayward..what will you do then..😂😂.na jeje wahala dey seat down and you go use your fantasy mindset take give your wife out .it is well
Leave that guy him brain don permanently go offline
Re: I Want My Wife To Sleep With Another Man by Dpharisee: 6:21pm On Sep 05, 2025
FitCorper:
Porn don format ur brain. The white man is evil and out on a mission to drain young men spiritually in Africa. This one cannot be normal again na Great Depression he de prepare by himself for himself.
Las las u go turn gay.
Anyone who doesn't watch Porn won't think like him truly. Watching porn makes one to start having weird fantasies which can be destructive
Re: I Want My Wife To Sleep With Another Man by MimiYeshua(f): 7:41pm On Sep 05, 2025
TheWebbers:
You would be the luckiest woman on the surface of the earth to get married to someone like me. I'm the kindest and most loving man I know. If you judge me because of this craving, you are on your own.
I'd rather become a nun than marry someone like you if he was the last man on earth. No self-respecting woman would choose that path, even if there were no other options
There’s no way you want to paint or sugarcoat such a disgusting act and call it “craving.” If everyone were to act out their cravings, do you know the world would have been far worse off than it already is? Please don't start entertaining darker, twisted cravings and refuse to admit anything is wrong with it simply because it’s a "craving"
That's how one human being will wake up one morning and fantasize about sleeping with an animal or watching his partner sleep with an animal and he’ll refuse to see anything wrong with it BECAUSE it’s a “craving"
I know you may not take this, but let me say it anyway: you don’t have to entertain every thought that pops into your head. Just because the mind is free to think of anything doesn’t mean you should use it to fantasize about unhealthy things and then try to call them “normal” just because it seems harmless. What happens to moral purity? What happens to decency? Please, if there’s anyone telling you it’s okay, it’s a lie. Marriage is supposed to be honorable and sacred, not a playground for perversions and selfish indulgence or misplaced desires. It was designed for love, trust, loyalty, and building a home that upholds dignity
Just a gentle reminder incase you forgot
Re: I Want My Wife To Sleep With Another Man by cocolacec(m): 7:49pm On Sep 05, 2025
TheWebbers:
I have this weird sexual fantasy. I want my wife to sleep with another man while I watch them. The idea has been with me even before marriage. My wife is very fine and have a banging body even after two kids and I would love the idea of another man enjoying her.

The man must not be a friend or someone I know from anywhere, just a new random guy and must be cute. I want them to make a video of their sex and then I can watch anytime I like. I believe I would love it and will arouse me a lot. And I wouldn't judge her at all with this. The only condition is that the relationship should only be sexual alone and I will know about it.

Another funny angle is that I am a very jealous husband. I dont want my wife to cheat and if she does, it could break our marriage, but if its a sexual relationship I know about and I approve, i wont consider it cheating.

I once stylishly tried to mention something like that using someone else as example and she was like, "Jesus, God forbid. How can people be thinking rubbish"

Now, how do I tell her about this weird fantasy? How do I get her to accept it? I want this really bad.
Mention it to your Junior sister, let her n,,with a srrange man and eecird it to aroise you.Narcissistic men see "other women" as sluts and their sister as "Saints"
Re: I Want My Wife To Sleep With Another Man by JobAndVacancies: 12:04am On Sep 28, 2025
kiddaz:
Time done reach for you and your wife to renew abi? You're looking for who to use sub.

Where's that Dauda guy that likes knacking people's wives? Job dey available ooh. Come and carry
cc DaudaTheSexyGuy
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