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S£x is sweet. But responsibility is sweeter.

Recently, I witnessed a young girl barely twenty undergo an emergency caesarean section. She came from a humble background. Her “baby daddy” appeared to have nothing except an erection.

Labour stalled. Both mother and child were in danger. Thankfully, the hospital manager prioritised saving lives over money. The CS was done. Mother and child survived.

Then reality struck. They had no essentials. Even ordinary spirit and cotton wool had to be borrowed from other patients.

The baby daddy went out to fetch hot water and pap, promising to return in a few hours. Ten hours later, he was nowhere to be found.

The baby, unable to latch, was given water and glucose. But hunger cannot be deceived. She cried uncontrollably. The mother, who was fit enough to take pap, had nothing to eat. She wept, not from joy, but from hunger.

It took the compassion of strangers to buy a tin of NAN milk for ₦11,500 and food for the mother. That was what kept both alive while waiting for the “Messiah”-the baby daddy.

The lesson is simple:
S£x comes with responsibility. “I love you” does not pay hospital bills.

Ladies, before you spread your legs, ensure there is something in your account. Do not assume the man is capable. Appearance can be deceitful.

To married women, pregnancy is not just about emotions. It is about finances. Do not wait until you are reduced to a welfare case before realising that preparation is key.

I chose to address my gender because we bear the burden of child delivery. But men, do not let erection be your compass. Erection comes with responsibility. I need not say more.

I hope I have spoken to someone.
Have a thoughtful day.

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Good post. Nlfpmod



DiarisGodooo!!! (In Mama Peace voice), my famous moniker

Sex is sweet, but responsibility is bitter.


Knack responsibily.

Nice write up.
How many more characters are remaining

Apt!

Everything you said here is pure truth. Most times it's better to masturbate as a man and face you life. A man without money or stable source of income has nothing to do with a woman that's the fact.

Any reasonable mortal should be able to define , what he /she wants in this life..

That you are married is not enough reasons to born every 3 month, that's a sign of irresponsibility...

Then as a young teenager, what business are you doing with teenage pregnancy?

Wetin I hear!!!
Responsibility is sweater or sweeter

But from the beginning it was not so. This is not how it was planned to be

This is the great tribulation. A rogue leadership that prioritises pain over peace, anarchy is their legitimacy. This must end! This evil sun must set!

This will end and all the wicked shall be taken away

RollinTNDApost=136689936:
Recently, I witnessed a young girl barely twenty undergo an emergency caesarean section. She came from a humble background.

Recently I saw the boy that impregnated that girl you're talking about. He came from a humble background.

fitinwell:
Any reasonable mortal should be able to define , what he /she wants in this life..

They you are married is not enough reasons to born every 3 month, that's a sign of irresponsibility...

Then as a young teenager, what business are you doing with teenage pregnancy?

God bless you.
That's why we're closing our legs and they're saying we're stingy.

It's not as though the baby pops out immediately after sex. There was 9 months to gather at least some change.

Indeed sex is sweet but responsibility is sweeter

Men should normalize getting vasectomy, e go cure alot of stress. If you no get money, your mind go rest, at least no mouth to feed

If you tell young girls to close their legs they will insult a hell out of you.

Its very foolish to sleep with a man who you are not married to. The guy can wake up and leave, but you the girl can't.

Teenage pregnancy spoils a girl's present and future:

1. Automatic hardship
2. Almost impossible to get married in future
3. Stigma in the society
4. People will avoid you. You are judged everywhere by everybody. Even your destiny helpers if you even get any
5. Your standard will be lowered to zero (0)
6. Your future ambition and growth is cut short and stops
And many more...

In this life, nobody cares truly. Don't ever be in a bad position

This is pure facts and they said the truth is bitter

A 500 naira condom could have avoided the werey from running from responsibility.

EponObi:


Youth wey never start family or even think or capable enough to start one should get a vasectomy? You don wake so?

No time bro, if i don know tey tey i go don do am since i dey like 15

Her “baby daddy” appeared to have nothing except an erection.

Having an erection is not as easy as you make it sound. Many homes have been destroyed just because erection could not be achieved or sustained.
I come in peace.
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Cum4me:
Everything you said here is pure truth. Most times it's better to masturbate as a man and face you life. A man without money or stable source of income has nothing to do with a woman that's the fact.

When i see people painting masturbating doom and gloom makes me ask which is better; As a man which is better (I) masturbate and maintain control or (ii) get a girl pregnant when you're not ready and put her at risk of abortion and potential lose of her life

iammolise:
When i see people painting masturbating doom and gloom makes me ask which is bette; As a man which is better (I) masturbate and maintain control or (ii) get a girl pregnant when you're not ready and put her at risk of abortion and potential lose of life

Or go knack carry disease, soappy dey solve many problems. Aje!

How do you stifle a biological instinct because of 'responsibility'? What is this responsibility? Sex and reproduction is part of MR NIGER, the characteristics of ALL living things can you stop yourself from breathing, or eating? Can you breath responsibly? Can you be responsible in your growth?

So, only Nigerians have to be 'responsible'? How about Japanese or Chinese or Russians who are facing negative population growth? Do they have to be responsible too? Governments world over are telling their peoples to have more sex and have more children, you're pushing 'responsibility' to Nigerians!

You have destroyed the economics but can do nothing against the biology, so you preach 'responsibility'. What s t u p I d responsibility?

satanic

Goodlady:
God bless you.
That's why we're closing our legs and they're saying we're stingy.

Well not everyone , can close there legs but at least prevent unwanted pregnancy from happening, is that too much to ask?

fitinwell:
Well not everyone , can close there legs but at least prevent unwanted pregnancy from happening, is that too much to ask?

Abstinence is key. Pregnancy should only occur in marriage.

LawWithEbele:
S£x is sweet. But responsibility is sweeter.

Recently, I witnessed a young girl barely twenty undergo an emergency caesarean section. She came from a humble background. Her “baby daddy” appeared to have nothing except an erection.

Labour stalled. Both mother and child were in danger. Thankfully, the hospital manager prioritised saving lives over money. The CS was done. Mother and child survived.

Then reality struck. They had no essentials. Even ordinary spirit and cotton wool had to be borrowed from other patients.

The baby daddy went out to fetch hot water and pap, promising to return in a few hours. Ten hours later, he was nowhere to be found.

The baby, unable to latch, was given water and glucose. But hunger cannot be deceived. She cried uncontrollably. The mother, who was fit enough to take pap, had nothing to eat. She wept, not from joy, but from hunger.

It took the compassion of strangers to buy a tin of NAN milk for ₦11,500 and food for the mother. That was what kept both alive while waiting for the “Messiah”-the baby daddy.

The lesson is simple:
S£x comes with responsibility. “I love you” does not pay hospital bills.

Ladies, before you spread your legs, ensure there is something in your account. Do not assume the man is capable. Appearance can be deceitful.

To married women, pregnancy is not just about emotions. It is about finances. Do not wait until you are reduced to a welfare case before realising that preparation is key.

I chose to address my gender because we bear the burden of child delivery. But men, do not let erection be your compass. Erection comes with responsibility. I need not say more.

I hope I have spoken to someone.
Have a thoughtful day.

#familylawattorney #familylawyer #arohnwokaebelechukwu #ebelechukwulawfirm

I don't know if this comic relief or just comedy. I commend the guy for even accepting the baby dad position. A normal urchin will run away even from day 1.

Other animals don't have money but they give birth in peace and still feed well. Only humans suffer unnecessarily for erection he did not create.

Sex is natural and there is nothing you can do about it. It's just like weewee or poopoo. You must excrete it.

However, I understand that even if you dont have a toilet, you can poopoo in the bush and not poopoo on the road or in public until you build a toilet.

If that baby daddy is determined, he can still make it and change there lives. Na things like this dey change mindset and makes and urchin determined.

Cum4me:
Everything you said here is pure truth. Most times it's better to masturbate as a man and face you life. A man without money or stable source of income has nothing to do with a woman that's the fact.

Though fornication is dangerous, but masturbation is also terrible. Both are harmful in their own right.

The best is for one to keep working and praying, then get married. Not saying marriage guarantees steady sex in every case, but it saves one from a whole lot of issues. Soon enough the novelty of sex wears off after marriage.

If not for porn in various forms, most people do not have outrageous sex drives. The current craze for sex is fueled by pornography.

Pick your "headache" wisely.

Will they hear not even 21st century teenagers, it seems, it their rod and controlling the better part of their brains, they think nothing but relationship and sex, as if they too things not come alongside heavy responsibilities.


Anyway, majority of teenage girls often learn their lessons after 1 kid as a single mother.

They mostly ended y as olosho in every club house and social media

Goodlady:
Abstinence is key. Pregnancy should only occur in marriage.

No matter how well you spell this truth, cannot control,sexual appetite among individuals... So the reality here is prevention against unwanted pregnancy...

Have your sex, use your Fxxking protection or calender if ya nigga-raw.

Sex is a necessity as food or air is, don't let nobody tell you otherwise.


Like every other thing, USE YOUR HEAD.