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Bemden:
I . Reason why I decided to continue the relationship was because she felt remorse that night and the statement she altered got into me.

.she felt remorse?? Can u still see the remorse now?? Or u just choose to deceive yourself like last time?
......baba....you are just a captain save a skirt....

Bemden:
Three years after our marriage, I caught her chatting with her ex about how he made her squirt while licking her kitty. She promised not to chat him again and I told her to block him. 3 years after that time, she confessed to me again that she had sex with him 3 times after we got married. I still love her, how can I stop her from still going back to her ex?

It's a Lie.

You are lying.
Telling lies

I asked her why she decided to tell me? She said guilt. She had sex with the so called ex thrice after we got married according to her. I believe it would be more than that. She said we were not having long conversations at home and she needed someone to talk to and I've always been working so hard for us to live the standard life I've always wanted but there she was frolicking around. Is thunderbolt a criminal offense in Nigeria?

advanceDNA:
.she felt remorse?? Can u still see the remorse now?? Or u just choose to deceive yourself like last time?
......baba....you are just a captain save a skirt....

Why will I lie? Why? I'm saying the truth pls

sacajawea:
It's a Lie.

Pls believe me. I'm saying the truth

sacajawea:
You are lying.
Telling lies

Bemden:
I . Is thunderbolt a criminal offense in Nigeria?

U are asking for thunderbolt because u think your wife is a victim that u need to eliminate who's sleeping with her ....she will just find another person And the same thing will continue

The thunderbolt will still work for another person that tresspass

advanceDNA:
U are asking for thunderbolt because u think your wife is a victim that u need to eliminate who's sleeping with her ....she will just find another person And the same thing will continue

Fling her away! She will cheat again

That's why I'm asking if thunderbolt is a criminal offense in Nigeria

Judybash93:
Fling her away! She will cheat again

Bemden:
The thunderbolt will still work for another person that tresspass

It will work for you too......a serial cheat doesn't change.....give u self peace of mind.. unless u just dey catch cruise

Not catching cruise sir. It's my life story. You mean the thunderbolt will affect me too?

advanceDNA:
It will work for you too......a serial cheat doesn't change.....give u self peace of mind.. unless u just dey catch cruise

Bemden:
Not catching cruise sir. It's my life story. You mean the thunderbolt will affect me too?

U refuse to leave her naaa.... If she's in your house u will sleep with her one day

Bemden:
Licking kitty isn't my thing, how do I cope?

I don't know how you are going to do it, but maybe you should learn it.
Women really love and long for it, if not for self-discipline many women will not let go of anyone who is licking their kitty.

Sophiemama:
I don't know how you are going to do it, but maybe you should learn it.
Women really love and long for it, if not for self-discipline many women will not let go of anyone who is licking their kitty.

You this woooooooman

Yes, it can't affect me because it's designed to affect only another man who engages in sexual intercourse with her

advanceDNA:
U refuse to leave her naaa.... If she's in your house u will sleep with her one day

I'm worried about how licking it will make me feel, the taste etc and not the learning. I do make her c*m from licking and sucking her oranges.

Sophiemama:
I don't know how you are going to do it, but maybe you should learn it.
Women really love and long for it, if not for self-discipline many women will not let go of anyone who is licking their kitty.

Bemden:
I'm worried about how licking it will make me feel, the taste etc and not the learning. I do make her c*m from licking and sucking her oranges.

Get ice cream or condensed milk and rub while licking it. That will kill every unpleasant taste.

Thanks ma. I'll try this

Sophiemama:
Get ice cream or condensed milk and rub while licking it. That will kill every unpleasant taste.

You need to start licking her honey pot too

advanceDNA:
.she felt remorse?? Can u still see the remorse now?? Or u just choose to deceive yourself like last time?
......baba....you are just a captain save a skirt....

What's amusing is he thinks he can deceive all of us here too, just like he is deceiving himself. lol.

Bemden, you must keep us updated please. We'd like to hear how this plays out in 2, 5, and 10 years time.

Ok, I'll do that. She said we should start all over, so I'm hopeful she won't do that again.

budaatum:
What's amusing is he thinks he can deceive all of us here too, just like he is deceiving himself. lol.

Bemden, you must keep us updated please. We'd like to hear how this plays out in 2, 5, and 10 years time.

Sophiemama:
Get ice cream or condensed milk and rub while licking it. That will kill every unpleasant taste.

ice cream, condensed milk, chocolate 🍫, honey, yogurt, hahaha, una go kill person with laugh 😂 for Nairaland, hahaha mucheche Hahaha 😂

budaatum:
Have you tried putting chains around her legs and tying her to yourself so she can't go see her ex-husband?

Seriously, I think your supposed love is turning your brain to mush, and it indicates a low self esteem in yourself, or you'd be asking us how to stop yourself receiving the abuse she's giving you.

Abuse? Where the abuse here? His wife simply enjoy having sex with her ex and not him. Where the abuse here? Rather he should work on making her happy and ask the other man what he’s doing better so he can start doing it too. Maybe with time she will stop going to her ex

isyourboy:
Abuse? Where the abuse here? His wife simply enjoy having sex with her ex and not him. Where the abuse here? Rather he should work on making her happy and ask the other man what he’s doing better so he can start doing it too. Maybe with time she will stop going to her ex

Its just sex, you said. So why should he concern himself with his wife's happiness?

I think you should introduce him to the women you just have sex with so he can stop worrying his head.

budaatum:
Its just sex, you said. So why should he concern himself with his wife's happiness?

I think you should introduce him to the women you just have sex with so he can stop worrying his head.

My statement here simply validate what I said in the other thread “it’s just sex” and it really is. Stop attaching importance to it. Most women have no use or value beyond that. Imaging letting the fact that another man is piping ur wife wore you down? Sounds absurd right? That’s it.

Bemden:
Thanks ma. I'll try this

You are welcome, and good luck.

Bemden:
Three years after our marriage, I caught her chatting with her ex about how he made her squirt while licking her kitty. She promised not to chat him again and I told her to block him. 3 years after that time, she confessed to me again that she had sex with him 3 times after we got married. I still love her, how can I stop her from still going back to her ex?

Cock and bull story

It's actually a true life story

DenreleDave:
Cock and bull story