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I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by streetsoldier1(m): 10:30pm On Jan 10, 2020
I tried all I could to save face, just have to end it all after discovering that the single mother I married still contacts her ex regularly...

Despite forgiving her several errors even while we got engaged, she still has the guts under my roof to mess up.

Warning guys, never ever marry a single mother that has been messed up!!!
6 years was messed up!!!

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Froshloaded: 10:33pm On Jan 10, 2020
streetsoldier1:
I tried all I could to save face , just have to end it all after discovering that the single mother I married still contact her ex regularly...
Despite forgiving her several errors even while we got engaged, she still have the guts under my roof to mess up.
Warning guys, never ever marry a single mother that has been messed up!!!
6years was messed up!!!

Sorry bout that broda

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Nobody: 10:36pm On Jan 10, 2020
streetsoldier1:
I tried all I could to save face , just have to end it all after discovering that the single mother I married still contact her ex regularly...
Despite forgiving her several errors even while we got engaged, she still have the guts under my roof to mess up.
Warning guys, never ever marry a single mother that has been messed up!!!
6years was messed up!!!
Sorry
When shibaraba talks children go dey advise me like I be their mate. The other thread them insult I just dey look. Wetin my eye Don see!!!!!
Single mothers.... Japa. I say one so called ex waylay me wan kill me. Make I no talk. Once they leave the house their head Don dey messed up. I feel for them but for your own life, just bang if you want bang and japa.

Sorry bros. Chassis cha cha full outside. Grab your copy.... Now

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Tekzyflex(m): 10:38pm On Jan 10, 2020
Painful... So sorry

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by oyoolima: 10:42pm On Jan 10, 2020
streetsoldier1:
I tried all I could to save face , just have to end it all after discovering that the single mother I married still contact her ex regularly...
Despite forgiving her several errors even while we got engaged, she still have the guts under my roof to mess up.
Warning guys, never ever marry a single mother that has been messed up!!!
6years was messed up!!!

You still sound pained.
The Lod is your Sheppard.
Maybe your gbola is bitter.
Pele my buroda.
Time to move on.

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Nobody: 10:52pm On Jan 10, 2020
Mehn! I just dey pity youths wey dey rush enter marriage these days.

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by streetsoldier1(m): 10:55pm On Jan 10, 2020
oyoolima:


You still sound pained.
The Lod is your Sheppard.
Maybe your gbola is bitter.
Pele my buroda.
Time to move on.

BroZ, no matter how sweet your gbola is, someone who is messed up will always mess up. Never should any guy think he is going to make any messed up woman change and behave better!!!

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by psalmsmiles(m): 11:00pm On Jan 10, 2020
nawa o
some women taste a di.ck and they never get over it. They keep cuming back for more their whole lives. The power of the rod!

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by thorpido(m): 11:05pm On Jan 10, 2020
Marriages fail even when she is not a single mother.
The key is not to rush into marriage but study each other very well while dating and see that you can really work together and there are no baggages.
A lot of single mothers will really try to make the marriage work with the benefit of hindsight.This one just didn't work.

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Youngsage: 11:07pm On Jan 10, 2020
Too bad.
You saw the signs during the engagement. Big red flag

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Blakjewelry(m): 11:13pm On Jan 10, 2020
Sorry bro but it's not about single mother, shit always happen it's like a flip coin some people are lucky while some are not

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Ladylite: 11:26pm On Jan 10, 2020
streetsoldier1:
I tried all I could to save face , just have to end it all after discovering that the single mother I married still contact her ex regularly...
Despite forgiving her several errors even while we got engaged, she still have the guts under my roof to mess up.
Warning guys, never ever marry a single mother that has been messed up!!!
6years was messed up!!!

You are a true hero. She was not deserving of you. So simply move on, she may learn bitterly though. It's really sad

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Nobody: 11:33pm On Jan 10, 2020
grin grin


Here’s my plan. I’ll date you, we’ll have kids and live like married couples. When we get to 60s, 70s, and I discover you are indeed a wife material and you did not mess up, I’ll go pay your bride price and we do our marriage officially. In a grand style. By then sef money go boku. All my friends go don turn politicians and CEOs by then. Enough money to steal and spray at our grand style wedding.

Everywhere good grin

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by LyfeJennings(m): 11:45pm On Jan 10, 2020
streetsoldier1:
I tried all I could to save face , just have to end it all after discovering that the single mother I married still contact her ex regularly...
Despite forgiving her several errors even while we got engaged, she still have the guts under my roof to mess up.
Warning guys, never ever marry a single mother that has been messed up!!!
6years was messed up!!!

Take heart bro
Every go bam
Sorry!!!!

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by CAPSLOCKED: 12:09am On Jan 11, 2020
streetsoldier1:
I tried all I could to save face , just have to end it all after discovering that the single mother I married still contact her ex regularly...
Despite forgiving her several errors even while we got engaged, she still have the guts under my roof to mess up.

Warning guys, never ever marry a single mother that has been messed up!

MARRIAGES FAIL. RELATIONSHIPS FAIL.... WHETHER SINGLE MOM OR NOT.

FROM YOUR NOTE, I'VE CONCLUDED THAT YOU WERE THE PROBLEM IN YOUR MARRIAGE.
WITH THE AUTHORITATIVENESS IN YOUR WRITING, THERE'S A CHANCE YOU KEPT MISTREATING HER, EXPECTING HER TO WORSHIP YOU BECAUSE YOU BELIEVE IT'S A FAVOUR YOU'RE DOING HER BY BEING WITH HER.

I'M HAPPY FOR HER WHOEVER SHE IS. PEOPLE DESERVE BETTER THAN PEOPLE LIKE YOU.

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by streetsoldier1(m): 12:16am On Jan 11, 2020
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MARRIAGES FAIL WHETHER SINGLE MOM OR NOT.

FROM YOUR NOTE I'VE CONCLUDED THAT YOU WERE THE PROBLEM IN YOUR MARRIAGE. THERE'S A CHANCE YOU KEPT DOING THE UNTHINKABLE, EXPECTING HER TO WORSHIP YOU BECAUSE YOU BELIEVE IT'S A FAVOUR YOU'RE DOING HER BY BEING WITH HER.

I'M HAPPY FOR HER WHOEVER SHE IS. PEOPLE DESERVE BETTER THAN PEOPLE LIKE YOU.


It's a wrong reasoning to conclude on what you know nothing about. I did no one favour and never acted like god. Can't you just keep shut if you have nothing to say

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by CodeTemplar: 1:36am On Jan 11, 2020
Sorry bro...
Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by johnkey: 2:09am On Jan 11, 2020
Foolish man. See your face as you be like opor. Na your type dey make girls sleep around because they know there is always one mumu that will put them in his house.

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by piippa(m): 6:14am On Jan 11, 2020
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MARRIAGES FAIL WHETHER SINGLE MOM OR NOT.

FROM YOUR NOTE I'VE CONCLUDED THAT YOU WERE THE PROBLEM IN YOUR MARRIAGE. THERE'S A CHANCE YOU KEPT DOING THE UNTHINKABLE, EXPECTING HER TO WORSHIP YOU BECAUSE YOU BELIEVE IT'S A FAVOUR YOU'RE DOING HER BY BEING WITH HER.

I'M HAPPY FOR HER WHOEVER SHE IS. PEOPLE DESERVE BETTER THAN PEOPLE LIKE YOU.

I think you typed this from a beer parlour.

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by mcdokwe(m): 7:01am On Jan 11, 2020
Shibaraba:

Sorry
When shibaraba talks children go dey advise me like I be their mate. The other thread them insult I just dey look. Wetin my eye Don see!!!!!
Single mothers.... Japa. I say one so called ex waylay me wan kill me. Make I no talk. Once they leave the house their head Don dey messed up. I feel for them but for your own life, just bang if you want bang and japa.

Sorry bros. Chassis cha cha full outside. Grab your copy.... Now
their stories are different , so will their attitudes be.

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by crackhaus: 7:07am On Jan 11, 2020
streetsoldier1:
I tried all I could to save face , just have to end it all after discovering that the single mother I married still contact her ex regularly...
Despite forgiving her several errors even while we got engaged, she still have the guts under my roof to mess up.
Warning guys, never ever marry a single mother that has been messed up!!!
6years was messed up!!!
Sorry bro, you had to learn the hard way.

Single mothers who are still in contact with the father of their child or have shared custody, are ticking time bombs.

One must be careful with such ladies.

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Kendumazy(m): 7:16am On Jan 11, 2020
Sorry bro. You have taken the right decision. Don't be sad about it. Just be happy that you took the right decision. May God strengthen you this period.

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by StPete: 7:22am On Jan 11, 2020
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MARRIAGES FAIL WHETHER SINGLE MOM OR NOT.

FROM YOUR NOTE I'VE CONCLUDED THAT YOU WERE THE PROBLEM IN YOUR MARRIAGE. THERE'S A CHANCE YOU KEPT DOING THE UNTHINKABLE, EXPECTING HER TO WORSHIP YOU BECAUSE YOU BELIEVE IT'S A FAVOUR YOU'RE DOING HER BY BEING WITH HER.

I'M HAPPY FOR HER WHOEVER SHE IS. PEOPLE DESERVE BETTER THAN PEOPLE LIKE YOU.

See how you just hurriedly jumped to conclusion. I hope you end up marrying a baby mama so you can make your own impressions

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by faithfull18(f): 7:38am On Jan 11, 2020
stupidity:
grin grin


Here’s my plan. I’ll date you, we’ll have kids and live like married couples. When we get to 60s, 70s, and I discover you are indeed a wife material and you did not mess up, I’ll go pay your bride price and we do our marriage officially. In a grand style. By then sef money go boku. Everywhere good grin
Any lady who accepts such definitely doesn't know her worth. Nonsense and stupidity.

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by We4all: 7:43am On Jan 11, 2020
streetsoldier1:
I tried all I could to save face , just have to end it all after discovering that the single mother I married still contact her ex regularly...
Despite forgiving her several errors even while we got engaged, she still have the guts under my roof to mess up.
Warning guys, never ever marry a single mother that has been messed up!!!
6years was messed up!!!

I presume the ex she was always in touch with fathered her child. If that was the case, then you should have anticipated that, and figured out how to deal with it before hand.

A single mother/father will always have something to say to their ex cos a child is involved. I think your relationship crashed cos boundaries were not set from the outset.

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Nobody: 7:44am On Jan 11, 2020
faithfull18:

Any lady who accepts such definitely doesn't know her worth. Nonsense and stupidity.
any man who marries a woman and accept to be tormented doesn’t know his worth. Nonsense and unfaithfulness angry

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by LadySarah: 7:51am On Jan 11, 2020
R

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by cococandy(f): 8:04am On Jan 11, 2020
In contact with the ex who fathered her child or some other ex? What kind of things did they discuss?

Per comments on the post: So, I suppose a single mom should deny the father of her child access to the children in order for the new man to like her? Ever heard of co parenting?

If you have a child and end up not marrying the woman who bore the child , do you deserve to loose that child so that she can move on to the next man? Or is a civil arrangement where you both can have your separate relationships and still be in your child’s life not a good option.

Na una dey do una self..

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by kongolo(m): 8:55am On Jan 11, 2020
Shaking my head at men
They will see a woman with crystal clear red flags,still enter into a romantic relationship with the woman,get burned by thesame woman and start wondering why they got burned.Some of them even transfer the aggression they had for the woman who burned them onto other non-red flag women who had nothing to do with their nasty experience.Thereby,indirectly creating a circle of hurt

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by crackhaus: 9:20am On Jan 11, 2020
stupidity:
grin grin
Here’s my plan. I’ll date you, we’ll have kids and live like married couples. When we get to 60s, 70s, and I discover you are indeed a wife material and you did not mess up, I’ll go pay your bride price and we do our marriage officially. In a grand style. By then sef money go boku. Everywhere good grin
I heard this is a common thing among Isoko people of Delta State. You are not doing something new.

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Amanee(f): 9:38am On Jan 11, 2020
Sad one but you saw the signs op

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Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by cerpvad(m): 9:48am On Jan 11, 2020
Sorry for this bruh.
However, go back and modify the last paragraph of your post. That's a sort of poor generalization. There are still sane single mothers out there. Let's learn how not to dent general images just because of an isolated case
streetsoldier1:
I tried all I could to save face , just have to end it all after discovering that the single mother I married still contact her ex regularly...
Despite forgiving her several errors even while we got engaged, she still have the guts under my roof to mess up.
Warning guys, never ever marry a single mother that has been messed up!!!
6years was messed up!!!

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