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Drama As Lady Rejects Plumber Boyfriend’s Proposal On Sign-out Day After Sponsor by alphonsojaybaz(op): 5:59am On Sep 11, 2025
A university campus was thrown into chaos after a young lady rejected her plumber boyfriend’s marriage proposal on her sign-out day — despite claims that he had sponsored her education for the past five years. Eyes Of Lagos reports,

The emotional incident, captured on video, quickly went viral and drew reactions from students, eyewitnesses, and netizens. According to reports, the hardworking plumber had supported the lady financially throughout her academic journey, hoping to seal their love with marriage after her graduation.

However, to the shock of many, the lady publicly turned him down, insisting she had no intention of marrying him. The rejection left the boyfriend visibly heartbroken, sparking heated debates online about love, loyalty, and sacrifice.
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The video stirred a storm of mixed opinions:

@Ms_adjoa: “You should have taken the ring, saved him the embarrassment, and later explained privately why you’re not ready to marry now.”

@Achinwee✨: “So if a man trains you in school, you must marry him? I for don marry my bro.”

@爱你: “A plumber, uneducated, sacrificed for five years to give her a future, but she embarrassed him publicly. If it was a rich man with car keys and money after 6 months, she would have said yes. Ladies, don’t take from a man if you know you won’t marry him.”

@LIZZY LOVE 🌹🌹: “Just sue her so she refunds everything you spent on her.”

The heartbreaking scene has since become one of the most talked-about stories online, raising questions about relationships, expectations, and fairness when financial sacrifices are involved.
http://eyesoflagos.com/drama-as-lady-rejects-plumber-boyfriends-proposal-on-sign-out-day-after-sponsorship/

Re: Drama As Lady Rejects Plumber Boyfriend’s Proposal On Sign-out Day After Sponsor by SadiqBabaSani: 6:02am On Sep 11, 2025
Simpleton, I wish him quick recovery from the emotional trauma this wold bring
Re: Drama As Lady Rejects Plumber Boyfriend’s Proposal On Sign-out Day After Sponsor by SmartPolician: 6:18am On Sep 11, 2025
If this is not a skit, I must say that this guy is funny. If you want to marry a grajet (in Odumeje's voice), why not marry your own wife, get her to have your first child and insist she must go to school?

The funny thing is that despite this trend going south, you will still see thousands of young guys doing it.
Re: Drama As Lady Rejects Plumber Boyfriend’s Proposal On Sign-out Day After Sponsor by Chinjo2: 6:22am On Sep 11, 2025
This is exactly what Geh Geh has been advising men against.
Re: Drama As Lady Rejects Plumber Boyfriend’s Proposal On Sign-out Day After Sponsor by AntiChristian: 6:35am On Sep 11, 2025
Some men will never learn! At least let there be a written document that's enforceable!

Human mind dey too dynamic!
Re: Drama As Lady Rejects Plumber Boyfriend’s Proposal On Sign-out Day After Sponsor by Caramia2020(m): 6:42am On Sep 11, 2025
He failed to invest in himself n he went ahead to invest in someone else, I won't blame or bash the girl because the guy is foolish n he should lick his wound. Mugu.
Re: Drama As Lady Rejects Plumber Boyfriend’s Proposal On Sign-out Day After Sponsor by Mabuggi88: 6:51am On Sep 11, 2025
Gehgeh being justified each passing day
Re: Drama As Lady Rejects Plumber Boyfriend’s Proposal On Sign-out Day After Sponsor by franchasng: 8:05am On Sep 11, 2025
Must you propose to her in public? angry
Re: Drama As Lady Rejects Plumber Boyfriend’s Proposal On Sign-out Day After Sponsor by columbus007(m): 8:21am On Sep 11, 2025
By now she go don collect for my hand I nor dey waste time kpa.
Re: Drama As Lady Rejects Plumber Boyfriend’s Proposal On Sign-out Day After Sponsor by blesdman(m): 8:25am On Sep 11, 2025
Chinjo2:
This is exactly what Geh Geh has been advising men against.
This must be a skit. It is not in a Nigerians place to kneel to ask a woman to marry u. Why we de borrow culture wey no be our own. Education is indeed colonisation. We no gree colonised technologies, na culture we de collect. Nonsense
Re: Drama As Lady Rejects Plumber Boyfriend’s Proposal On Sign-out Day After Sponsor by kelechi50: 8:43am On Sep 11, 2025
This guy should just leave her alone and move on with his life, it's a question of time the law of karma will catch up with her.

I have not seen any lady that go scot-free after rejecting the proposal from the man that trained her.
Re: Drama As Lady Rejects Plumber Boyfriend’s Proposal On Sign-out Day After Sponsor by hoygift(m): 8:48am On Sep 11, 2025
Na why them de ask us for school which class you de ?
Re: Drama As Lady Rejects Plumber Boyfriend’s Proposal On Sign-out Day After Sponsor by Bahamas95(m):
These simps don't ever learn.




Skit or not one thing I know is that these things do happen. But what I don't understand is this public proposal some guys won't stop doing, the annoying thing about it is kneeling to propose to a woman that's not even a virgin.

Common sense should tell you your girlfriend will or will not accept to marry you if you wanna take the relationship to the next level. Guys should learn to read women's body language from day1. Women are very good at it, a woman that won't marry you already knows the moment she decided to date you.

She only accepted to date you because of what she would benefit from the relationship for a period of time.


I met my wife a virgin (if you like don't believe me that's your business) and didn't kneel to propose let alone kneeling to propose to one borehole. The fact that I didn't kneel doesn't make me unromantic .......I just told her one-day it was time to see her parents and she was excited. We did our marriage without noise and we have a baby now.

..................................................................................

I do my things privately, I don't need people to tell her "say yes, say yes" while kneeling on the road and embarrassing my ancestors.
Re: Drama As Lady Rejects Plumber Boyfriend’s Proposal On Sign-out Day After Sponsor by saphiere(f): 8:50am On Sep 11, 2025
Can men normalize the fact that help doesn't translate to owning?

You help doesn't give you a direct ticket to own her. She has a free will to choose or not choose you.
Re: Drama As Lady Rejects Plumber Boyfriend’s Proposal On Sign-out Day After Sponsor by saphiere(f):
Some men think they can tie a woman to them with money.
correctyourself:
You're not a sincere person!

If it's true that guy actually sponsored her, it means the lady knew the guy's plan and where the relationship is going, but she decided to play along, got all the support, deceived the guy and because she has completed her education now has the mind to reject him.

This is the truth! Unfortunately for her, if the guy decide to press charges she would be suprise about the outcome. While we wait to see an organization that would employ somebody who once had a cout case for betrayal.
The lady must be a seerer to know the guy plans. Don't tell a woman your intention u hear? Stay there and think that she knows your plans because say she be mind reader ok.
Re: Drama As Lady Rejects Plumber Boyfriend’s Proposal On Sign-out Day After Sponsor by atobs4real(m): 8:51am On Sep 11, 2025
Nemesis will definitely catch up with any body guilty of their actions.
Re: Drama As Lady Rejects Plumber Boyfriend’s Proposal On Sign-out Day After Sponsor by Wisewriter: 8:51am On Sep 11, 2025
There is nothing bad here.

He trained her and so what?

WAS there any agree?


If the gal should charge him for the amount of knsa`cking she will be s billionaire upon graduation
Re: Drama As Lady Rejects Plumber Boyfriend’s Proposal On Sign-out Day After Sponsor by saphiere(f):
Always make your intentions known from onset. Not after spending money and I don't open my legs you tell me to refund your money.
latiephwald:
Before a man can go as far as this, there must have been so many greenlight from the lady, or should we say she has been collecting money from him under pretence?
Was there any agreement?
Most of you men the moment a lady is closer to you or kind to you, you'd start thinking she's into you.
Re: Drama As Lady Rejects Plumber Boyfriend’s Proposal On Sign-out Day After Sponsor by atobs4real(m): 8:52am On Sep 11, 2025
Nemesis will definitely catch up with any body guilty of their actions.
I don't have much to say.
Re: Drama As Lady Rejects Plumber Boyfriend’s Proposal On Sign-out Day After Sponsor by tim1256(m): 8:52am On Sep 11, 2025
This is sheer wickedness.
Why would you even sponsor a lady's education because you want to marry her?
Re: Drama As Lady Rejects Plumber Boyfriend’s Proposal On Sign-out Day After Sponsor by TOPCRUISE(m):
Plumbers, mechanic, carpenters, bricklayers should learn from this.
I am not insulting the profession o
Re: Drama As Lady Rejects Plumber Boyfriend’s Proposal On Sign-out Day After Sponsor by Justiceleague1: 8:53am On Sep 11, 2025
Made in china mugu men simps..

They keep disgracing themselves grin
Btw,see the mama sef 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Re: Drama As Lady Rejects Plumber Boyfriend’s Proposal On Sign-out Day After Sponsor by redsquare(m): 8:54am On Sep 11, 2025
When will some of these guys have sense? Training a girl who you are not yet married to in the university is foolishness. Why not invest the money in yourself instead? Mumu.
Re: Drama As Lady Rejects Plumber Boyfriend’s Proposal On Sign-out Day After Sponsor by Aydot99(m): 8:56am On Sep 11, 2025
Me I think say guys don wise up. This matter no suppose to dey come up again. It didn't work out for those before you what made you think your own love is special.
Re: Drama As Lady Rejects Plumber Boyfriend’s Proposal On Sign-out Day After Sponsor by guass(m): 8:56am On Sep 11, 2025
Yeye man that refused to learn from Gehgeh. If u are here watching and u are currently training a girl in school pls stop now. It's the duty of her parents to train her.
Re: Drama As Lady Rejects Plumber Boyfriend’s Proposal On Sign-out Day After Sponsor by eventainment(m): 9:04am On Sep 11, 2025
Lol sometimes I wonder how people do this. Build yourself first, if you have done so and you feel you want to build something or someone else build your sibling. If you feel your siblings are already okay and don't need building commence to build another stream of income. If you want to build at all it must be your wife not a girlfriend. Women can easily justify wrongs and not be remoseful of any mishaps they executed on anyone.
Re: Drama As Lady Rejects Plumber Boyfriend’s Proposal On Sign-out Day After Sponsor by Rindo69: 9:04am On Sep 11, 2025
My first reaction was to call him a simp but being in this same position apart from proposing oooo...I would be a hypocrite.

Gentlemen, if you have and you truly love her, do your best for her but expect nothing in return not even her marrying you!

You are better off her saying yes out of genuine love than out of pity or feeling indebted for what you have done for her.

Stand up, dust your knees and move on. You dodged a bullet. Learn from it, improve yourself and you'll find the right one for you...or you'd live a lonely existence broken hearted from the experience. Your choice
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