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A video of a beautiful Nigerian lady advising her fellow women not to allow Nigerian men turn them into single mothers has gone viral, sparking various reactions, with many—both men and women—fully in support.

In the video, she stressed that men often refuse to settle down with single mothers, yet they are the same ones who push women into that situation. According to her, many men turn young women into baby mamas, only to later abandon them and go in search of fresh, younger girls to marry when they are finally ready to settle down.

She firmly warned young ladies never to give in to becoming single mothers.

Watch the video and share your thoughts in the comments.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8okVS8irYtE?si=p18JNuVmZVCrpfLd

Too LATE!

You can't swing a flaccid diccccck without hitting a single mother.

This advice is useless. A lot of Nigerian ladies aim for the single mom status on their own. Especially when it's a yahoo boy or Odogwu involved.

The women are actually the cause. Don't pin the blame on men.

Why I like Nairaland be say plenty good comments go come from people way no watch the content.

Eeee Dey mind,or Wetin make I talk again ooooooooooo

Single mothers everywhere nowadays. Maybe it's caused by d economic situation

They can never take accountability in one way or the other they must blame the man.

Ok Noted.

She firmly warned young ladies never to give in to becoming single mothers.

Someone that needs advise is giving advise. We witness Linda Ikeji saying same thing then.

One is on her way to get piped. But they are allowed to bill men for money and won't work their asses

oyeb15:
Single mothers everywhere nowadays. Maybe it's caused by d economic situation

That is a huge factor as there is also poor reproductive health choices.

Is it men that are making them single mothers or they are the ones making themselves single mothers

Mitsurugi:
This advice is useless. A lot of Nigerian ladies aim for the single mom status on their own. Especially when it's a yahoo boy or Odogwu involved.

They end up with regrets when reality sets in. I don't pity them. The economy has made more single mums miserable

just say don't let southern nigerian men make you a single mother, because we northers take good care of our wives

When there are millions of well to do women ready to become single mothers and dispense with man-headship

You cannot advise that gender o. They no go hear word

Nonsense. Just imagine.

So not getting pregnant outside marriage is now the yardstick. It is no more not sleeping around with men until you are married.

There are many views to avoid pregnancy but those who engage in those ways will keep messing themselves around, sleeping with any man that show them small change.


What nonsense are you preaching?

Foolish gender ….. always spewing trash … how does a man make you a single mother…. Are you too young to know that if you have unprotected sex, you might get pregnant, all of a sudden, it’s now the man’s fault that you cannot close your legs, use protection or abort it ( this may sound cruel but women will not think twice about removing a pregnancy they don’t want to keep).
What men should understand is that women loves sex a lot and cannot keep their legs shut… but when any thing happens, then it’s the man’s fault…
Ladies , pls always take responsibility for your actions…Nobody can make you a single mom if you don’t want to…

Men always running away from RESPONSIBILITY! That is the single reason why the society if filled with their own creation called single women.

We have very few RESPONSIBLE men this days.

According to her, many men turn young women into baby mamas, only to later abandon them and go in search of fresh, younger girls to marry when they are finally ready to settle down.

I love the word fresh 😉, succulent, standard, perky, presentable 😎

Dem go hear?
As long as the guy get money, those bedtobed midfielders will always open legs for them

Namaster:
Too LATE!

You can't swing a flaccid diccccck without hitting a single mother.

True true... Na -u be -Master

A fine African adage

njikoka:
Foolish gender ….. always spewing trash … how does a man make you a single mother…. Are you too young to know that if you have unprotected sex, you might get pregnant, all of a sudden, it’s now the man’s fault that you cannot close your legs, use protection or abort it ( this may sound cruel but women will not think twice about removing a pregnancy they don’t want to keep).
What men should understand is that women loves sex a lot and cannot keep their legs shut… but when any thing happens, then it’s the man’s fault…
Ladies , pls always take responsibility for your actions…Nobody can make you a single mom if you don’t want to…

I wonder o.

An adult female open her legs waaaa to collect opueh without protection and you want to shift the blame on men. Why do women never own up to their misdeeds?

She's not actually advising

She's advertising..


Advising was a decoy

A very good advice. Single mothers find it difficult to get married no matter how nice or beautiful they are. Women close your legs. Your boyfriend can romance you but don't allow him plug that charger there unless he has paid your dowry.

njikoka:
Foolish gender ….. always spewing trash … how does a man make you a single mother…. Are you too young to know that if you have unprotected sex, you might get pregnant, all of a sudden, it’s now the man’s fault that you cannot close your legs, use protection or abort it ( this may sound cruel but women will not think twice about removing a pregnancy they don’t want to keep).
What men should understand is that women loves sex a lot and cannot keep their legs shut… but when any thing happens, then it’s the man’s fault…
Ladies , pls always take responsibility for your actions…Nobody can make you a single mom if you don’t want to…

You too Sabi, Barman give him a chilled bottle of orijin 🍻🙌. I lived in Enugu-ukwu between 1996-1998

[quote author= post=136764472]They can never take accountability in one way or the other they must blame the man.[/quote]lol
It takes a sperm to fertilize an egg.
Let the men leave their sperm in the testicular gland , believe me we won’t have single mom’s

Akalia:
The women are actually the cause. Don't pin the blame on men.

It's supply and demand, men created the market for it. Testosterone is our strength but also our greatest weakness

Namaster:
Too LATE!

You can't swing a flaccid diccccck without hitting a single mother.

You have started again ooooooooo with your savage response