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“if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga - Romance (5) - Nairaland

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Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by 7demons: 1:16pm On Sep 13, 2025
spiceadole:
It's a man that decides if a marriage holds or not.
Women can only fantasize,wait and pray .
If the man doesn't marry them,their loss.

Some of them spend their youthfulness, waiting on their boyfriends, while forsaking serious men who could have long married them.

After all the wait, boyfriend disappoints
Society will judge them harshly for being single into their 30s.

Date but don't allow boyfriend make you miss your husband.

Wisdom is profitable to direct
What's your point here??
You guys are bunch confused lots.

How does this make sense to you: "Date but don't allow your boyfriend make you miss your husband".
So you're encouraging women to double date and sleep randomly until they manage to tie a man they can call husband?
Oga, life is not a one way traffic. Have that in mind.
Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by Nobody: 1:23pm On Sep 13, 2025
7demons:
What's your point here??
You guys are bunch confused lots.

How does this make sense to you: "Date but don't allow your boyfriend make you miss your husband".
So you're encouraging women to double date and sleep randomly until they manage to tie a man they can call husband?
Oga, life is not a one way traffic. Have that in mind.
They want to eat their cake and have it😂😂. Women are still the cause of the rise of single mothers in Nigeria. I was chatting a 17 years old girl yesterday and found out she’s a single mother. So they can keep acting smart.

Las las na Shiloh dem Dey go😂😂
Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by tunde1200(m): 2:06pm On Sep 13, 2025
Kobicove:
You're still a kid in reasoning

As you become more mature you'll see things differently
See how u failed simple question.
Since you can't make any sentence without insulting
Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by Kobojunkie: 2:18pm On Sep 13, 2025
omooba969:
✓ I haven't mentioned that both of them don’t do it. I'm all about the drivers, and I noted that it is mostly business for most of you women (for material gains).
You are obviously trolling!😩😩😩
Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by Kobicove(m): 5:52pm On Sep 13, 2025
tunde1200:
See how u failed simple question.
Since you can't make any sentence without insulting
Where is the insult in the comment I made?

You called me a woman because my comment did not align with yours but you did not see what you said as an insult.

I now called you a kid and suddenly it's an insult to you? WTF! angry

With every comment you make you keep proving that you're a kid in reasoning undecided
Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by Villa12(m): 6:10pm On Sep 13, 2025
Qatar2022:
According to them, they left their options open but Reality they're prostituting
who are they prostituting with?
Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by Villa12(m): 6:11pm On Sep 13, 2025
Myrepublic:
If she can't commit to me,then it's not worth it marrying her.. After all,I am doing her a favor,even considering her at all..
marry your fellow men so that you won't do her a favour
Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by Villa12(m): 6:13pm On Sep 13, 2025
advanceDNA:
So a lady is free to cheat until the Saturday y'all get married.......?? Lol...y'all are too funny .

Faithfulness is a habit ooo ....a ring on the finger doesn't manufacture faithfulness out of thin air...
... If loyalty is not there during dating then don't expect loyalty inside the marriage....
So loyalty are meant for only ladies?
Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by Villa12(m): 6:14pm On Sep 13, 2025
highness25:
What about the ones in their husband's house that still bleeps outside?
what about married men that still sleep around??
Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by Villa12(m): 6:17pm On Sep 13, 2025
spiceadole:
It's a man that decides if a marriage holds or not.
Women can only fantasize,wait and pray .
If the man doesn't marry them,their loss.

Some of them spend their youthfulness, waiting on their boyfriends, while forsaking serious men who could have long married them.

After all the wait, boyfriend disappoints
Society will judge them harshly for being single into their 30s.

Date but don't allow boyfriend make you miss your husband.

Wisdom is profitable to direct
still ladies that will decide to accept or reject a man's proposal. The fact that you asked a lady to marry you doesn't mean she will accept. It takes two to tango
Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by Villa12(m): 6:19pm On Sep 13, 2025
advanceDNA:
We are talking about expecting loyalty from who u want to marry,...... U are jumping to length of court ship.....
If u like marry a woman u met 30 days ago... How can u say a woman can cheat until they get married....

Don't women themselves expect loyalty from the man they want to marry....??

Be like ur babe or wife dey read ur comment on nairaland. grin grin.
are you loyal?
Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by Villa12(m): 6:21pm On Sep 13, 2025
Dshocker:
I don't know if you are a guy, but if you are, i want to ask you a question.

When dating a girl, and you found out she is dating another guy, so will you go ahead and take her serious, by engaging her to marry you?
can a lady also continue dating a guy if she found out he's also dating another girl?
Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by Villa12(m): 6:23pm On Sep 13, 2025
VaginaAcademic:
just dey play dey form woke it's a man's world. In the past men used to marry multiple women but that has changed in recent time.
it's man's world yet men cannot live or survive without women unlike women. Even at old age
Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by Villa12(m): 6:24pm On Sep 13, 2025
ekitimanalways:
Married women are not left out!
is married men left out?
Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by Villa12(m): 6:25pm On Sep 13, 2025
omooba969:
Between the man and the woman, who is more likely or well known to use diversification as a means for material gains?

Be honest. 🥱 🥱🥱
This is actually not the topic. Stick to the topic
Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by Villa12(m): 6:28pm On Sep 13, 2025
Saybal:
Is laziness,they now see relationship as a full time job.

Men should go for quality women rather than all these lazy and hungry ones
lol
How many quality men even dey in the first place??
Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by Villa12(m): 6:29pm On Sep 13, 2025
SpencerForbes:
Thanks. It’s just really funny they don’t have conscience and can never appreciate. Let’s be clear, women never love. So when it’s time, just look for one virgin above 17 and marry. Cos the ones we have now are already gone.
Are you a virgin??
Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by advanceDNA: 6:31pm On Sep 13, 2025
Villa12:
So loyalty are meant for only ladies?
If u read my comment and the get the context u shouldn't be asking me this off point question....
Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by Nobody: 6:45pm On Sep 13, 2025
Villa12:
Are you a virgin??
Lolz 😂😂😂😂 comparing a man to a lady. Men are captains of the ship. Do you expect the captain to be inexperienced. When the passenger is more experienced than the captain, there’s bound to be chaos. Never compare a guy sexual life to a lady. That’s why you’ll always hear that a man of 25 years and a lady of 18 years aren’t mate sexually. So as a man you need the experience or that your experienced wife will “monkey branch” (kobojunkie don teach me English 😂) to a guy more experienced than you. That’s the major cause of paternity fraud in the world.
Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by Nobody: 6:48pm On Sep 13, 2025
Villa12:
who are they prostituting with?
Men were always created to be polygamous bro. Check history and the Bible. Even some wives encouraged their men to get married to more wives like Sarah. Just that now, we can’t manage it any longer.

Just imagine if a husband and a wife cheats, who will get disgraced the morehuh Women can’t and weren’t created to compete with men.
Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by Kobojunkie: 6:48pm On Sep 13, 2025
Villa12:
So loyalty are meant for only ladies?
You dey mind dem?🥱🥱🥱

Na only when for ladies dem dey brandish loyalty as a weapon against. For a man, loyalty is not even celebrated. Imagine these tiny-brained elements attempting to force rules on women that make no sense or benefit them in the long run, and then get angered when they realize women aren't eejits who would live their lives by the brain farts of immature and incompetent humans. 🙄🙄
Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by HAICHCONCEPTZZ(m): 6:49pm On Sep 13, 2025
Collecting contacts to invite them to my wedding
Abiiii naaaa only me go chop my wedding rice alone ?
Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by Nobody: 6:51pm On Sep 13, 2025
HAICHCONCEPTZZ:
Collecting contacts to invite them to my wedding
Abiiii naaaa only me go chop my wedding rice alone ?
Not until you hear from friends that 6 of the invited guests are your wife’s ex and they don’t know the remaining ones😂😂😂 I Thought I saw something like that on twitter last month😅
Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by Kobojunkie: 6:54pm On Sep 13, 2025
SpencerForbes:
➜Men were always created to be polygamous bro.
➜ Check history and the Bible. Even some wives encouraged their men to get married to more wives like Sarah. Just that now, we can’t manage it any longer.
➜ Just imagine if a husband and a wife cheats, who will get disgraced the morehuh Women can’t and weren’t created to compete with men.
The sad part of all of this is that the book, the bible, says absolutely nothing of what you lot go around accusing it of. undecided

2. History has it instead that women have equally been polyamorous, the same as men. Homosexuality has also always been around in most civilizations. undecided

3. So, because man-centered societies tend to pour out venom on women, that means women are not polygamous? 😏😏😏😏

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Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by AfDapone: 6:57pm On Sep 13, 2025
SpencerForbes:
Very confused gender😂😂😂
If God that created them will not argue against this assertion!
Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by Kobojunkie: 6:58pm On Sep 13, 2025
SpencerForbes:
➜Lolz 😂😂😂😂 comparing a man to a lady. Men are captains of the ship. Do you expect the captain to be inexperienced. When the passenger is more experienced than the captain, there’s bound to be chaos. Never compare a guy sexual life to a lady. That’s why you’ll always hear that a man of 25 years and a lady of 18 years aren’t mate sexually. So as a man you need the experience or that your experienced wife will “monkey branch” (...don teach me English 😂) to a guy more experienced than you. That’s the major cause of paternity fraud in the world.
Women, whom you lot like to brandish loyalty against, are not the ones complaining of paternity fraud? Have you noticed that at all? It's the loyalty squad that has been wailing up and down about women having their inexperienced women raise another man's— possibly another man of the loyalty squad too— child. What do you think that means? 🤔

You claim it is OK for a man to monkey branch but not OK for a woman to do it. However, reality keeps pushing in your face that both men and women can do it the same. What does that tell you about the ideas you continue to hold to? undecided
Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by Nobody: 6:59pm On Sep 13, 2025
Kobojunkie:
The sad part of all of this is that the book, the bible, says absolutely nothing of what you lot go around accusing it of. undecided

2. History has it instead that women have equally been polyamorous, the same as men. Homosexuality has also always been around in most civilizations. undecided

3. So, because man-centered societies tend to pour out venom on women, that means women are not polygamous? 😏😏😏😏


There is a free 11-week course on Mathematics and Logic(a total of 9.5 hours in length). I suggest you sign up today and begin your journey towards learning how to reason like an intelligent human being should.
https://online.hillsdale.edu/courses/promo/mathematics-and-logic-from-euclid-to-modern-geometry
Very funny😂😂😂 so cause a few of them did it means they all do it right?😂😂😂 check your statistics bro. The gender that had been polygamous overtly and covertly has been men. Just because a few women had the chance doesn’t mean it is acceptable anywhere. So I think you really need the class than I do
Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by Nobody: 7:00pm On Sep 13, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Women, whom you lot like to brandish loyalty against, are not the ones complaining of paternity fraud? Have you noticed that at all? It's the loyalty squad that has been wailing up and down about women having their inexperienced women raise another man's— possibly another man of the loyalty squad too— child. What do you think that means? 🤔
With this your mentality, it’s either you ain’t gonna get married or you’ll be the submissive one in the relationship. No offense bro.
Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by omooba969(m): 7:02pm On Sep 13, 2025
Villa12:
This is actually not the topic. Stick to the topic
So what would drive a lady in a relationship to give her number out?
Re: “if You Have A Boyfriend, Why Are You Still Collecting Contacts”- Erigga by Nobody: 7:04pm On Sep 13, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Women, whom you lot like to brandish loyalty against, are not the ones complaining of paternity fraud? Have you noticed that at all? It's the loyalty squad that has been wailing up and down about women having their inexperienced women raise another man's— possibly another man of the loyalty squad too— child. What do you think that means? 🤔

You claim it is OK for a man to monkey branch but not OK for a woman to do it. However, reality keeps pushing in your face that both men and women can do it the same. What does that tell you about the ideas you continue to hold to? undecided
Why will they complain. When a man has a child, he openly tells his wife he has a child and if he doesn’t, the lady will maltreat the hell out of the child. She will even see the child as a competitor.

But if a lady should have a child outside the marriage, she can keep the secret till her death and the man will have to find other means to get the truth. She might even end up blaming the man.

So in your own thought, who’s more dangerous??
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