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ediko5:
You heard me, yes majority of single mothers are women who played gambling with men and lost out of the game.

There's a single mother of 3 I rolled with some years back and she was always telling me cock and bull story about how her ex husband was wicked, abusive and all that.

One day we had a deep conversation and she told me how her relationship with her ex husband started and she confessed it was all her fault.

She just met the man and in less than 2 months she got pregnant for him and they never dated, just once in a while intimacy which led to the pregnancy. According to her, the man clearly told her to abort the pregnancy that he's not ready to father a child with her nor marry her.

Instead of her to either abort the baby or make her choice to become a single mother, she jumped to the young man's family members, reported the pregnancy to his mum and older siblings.

Because the young man was doing well with a good paying job and has already built his own residential house, the man's family was eager for their son to settle down with a wife, they intervened and persuaded the young man to marry the lady out of his inner wish.

The union was filled with violence, malice and complete sadness from the beginning but one thing is certain, when two married adults sleep on the same bed for days, intimacy must surely take place irrespective of the level of their quarrel, that was how child number 2 and 3 came into the union filled with violence and sadness.

Here's the summary: she tried to play a smart game by using the man's family to manipulate him to marry her out of his wish and she lost the gamble because the man never wanted her as a wife.

Pupanchie:
She thought she will be able to use the kids to pin down the man so the man can marry her but it didn't work out and [b]again if she's married to someone else or she manage to find someone else to marry her, do you think she won't still go back to the baby daddy that she have kids with if intentionally the man said he needed to see her and they will still end up nacking? This is part of the reason why people should desist from single mothers as they are confusionist. [/b]Single mothers have damage many men and many r still trapped

Baronthecelebri:
Good for her.

Good morning sir how are you feeling today

Lifestone:
Why do people always blame the female when things like this happen. why would a guy have sex with a lady without protection and turn around to be surprised that the female got pregnant and request for an abortion? how about him using protective gears from the beginning. The two are equally responsible.
I wish the girls will recognize that the impact weighes heavily more on them and keep their pants up

ediko5:
A women is the gatekeeper of sex and pregnancy. Every lady will tell you this if they are sincere to you

erad:
You heard from one single mother and suddenly concluded that's how majority of single mothers are.

Lol... It's a 'you' problem bro. You've made up your mind even before you had any conversation with her. Whatever she might have said, you'll still twist it to suit your own narrative.

So on that note, all the best.

ediko5:
You heard me, yes majority of single mothers are women who played gambling with men and lost out of the game.

There's a single mother of 3 I rolled with some years back and she was always telling me cock and bull story about how her ex husband was wicked, abusive and all that.

One day we had a deep conversation and she told me how her relationship with her ex husband started and she confessed it was all her fault.

She just met the man and in less than 2 months she got pregnant for him and they never dated, just once in a while intimacy which led to the pregnancy. According to her, the man clearly told her to abort the pregnancy that he's not ready to father a child with her nor marry her.

Instead of her to either abort the baby or make her choice to become a single mother, she jumped to the young man's family members, reported the pregnancy to his mum and older siblings.

Because the young man was doing well with a good paying job and has already built his own residential house, the man's family was eager for their son to settle down with a wife, they intervened and persuaded the young man to marry the lady out of his inner wish.

The union was filled with violence, malice and complete sadness from the beginning but one thing is certain, when two married adults sleep on the same bed for days, intimacy must surely take place irrespective of the level of their quarrel, that was how child number 2 and 3 came into the union filled with violence and sadness.

Here's the summary: she tried to play a smart game by using the man's family to manipulate him to marry her out of his wish and she lost the gamble because the man never wanted her as a wife.

Lifestone:
Why do people always blame the female when things like this happen. why would a guy have sex with a lady without protection and turn around to be surprised that the female got pregnant and request for an abortion? how about him using protective gears from the beginning. The two are equally responsible.
I wish the girls will recognize that the impact weighes heavily more on them and keep their pants up

Tenrack:
I use to have this same kind of mindset, I thought she was different. Lol. In the end I learnt the hard way. Now no matter how innocent you look, or make yourself out to be, so long as you're a Single mom, I don't even want to have nothing to do with you. That's my principle going forward now. I don't have energy and resources to waste...the disadvantages far out weights whatever advantages that might be in the picture. I wouldn't advise my enemy to become entangled with a single mom. I'm sorry to say this. I've witnessed first hand the huge mistake that is.