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How Do I Handle This Situation by igatit(op): 8:08am On Sep 14, 2025
My elder brother tried to push me to a man in his office. I visited him once at the office and the man saw me and somehow expressed his interest to my brother. My brother spoke to me about it before giving my number to him.

He called and we met. His age didn't do it for me and, judging from the few encounters I had with him, I realized he could be controlling. He liked referring to my age anytime I tried to have an opinion. I knew he wasn't for me, but my brother was so keen on getting me to say yes to this man. Maybe it was because of his money or the fact that he was a ranking executive where he worked.

Long story short, I cut this man off. My brother wasn't happy but hey, I'm not living my life to make him happy. From there, he became interested in how I lived my life but, like I said, I didn't mind.

Days ago, I was in my room quietly having a moment with my 'toy' when he walked in. I was too far gone, I didn't notice him quickly enough. By the time I saw him, he was stepping out of my room. I don't even know how long he stood there.

I was so ashamed I didn't know how to leave my room. I had to sleep, wake up late at night to go to the hall only to see him and my dad sitting there. They both didn't say anything but their eyes said it all. I was like, "Ah, he told my dad too?"

Next morning when I stepped out of my room my mom said, "They are giving you a man God has created, you say no. Not knowing you've created your own man. Akos, change ooo. Hell is real and that thing won't marry you."

Now I'm no longer happy in this house. My dad looks at me some way. My brother doesn't talk to me, which I even like that way. My mom sees me and starts singing a concocted song that talks about a girl who doesn't like what God has created.

I'll leave this house for them if that's what they want. I was only trying to take care of myself while waiting for the right man to come, or they'd rather I changed men the way I change my brief?
Re: How Do I Handle This Situation by Sonnobax15(m):
lipsrsealed
Whether good or bad,that toy won't marry you my sister.......God created and placed that thing in a man for a reasonundecided

No just make me vex this morning undecided
Re: How Do I Handle This Situation by Tenrack: 9:58am On Sep 14, 2025
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Whether good or bad,that toy won't marry you my sister.......God created and placed that thing in a man for a real undecided

No just make me vex this morning undecided
no mind am she dey expect me to advise am. OP keep waiting for the perfect man, okay.
Re: How Do I Handle This Situation by AffiliateGuruNG(m):
huh

So how old are you?

If you must do something that requires privacy shouldn't you have locked your door?

You really messed up big time and if I were you I will be so ashamed of myself.

Do you have any relations better go there and cool off.

Your home right now isn't really your home
Re: How Do I Handle This Situation by marlow1962(m): 12:19pm On Sep 14, 2025
Only you dy show your husband pepper, na still the same only you dy get quiet time with your toy.

Lol nairaland sha grin

Happy toy day.
Re: How Do I Handle This Situation by Ibkay32(m): 12:29pm On Sep 14, 2025
See this one 😅, which advice you dey look for ?
Imagine satisfying yourself with an inanimate object, is that not madness? If I'm your brother I will wipe you oraimo cord unnoticed.
Re: How Do I Handle This Situation by Houseofglam7(f): 3:59pm On Sep 14, 2025
Did this happen before or after you showed your husband pepperhuh



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Re: How Do I Handle This Situation by Baronthecelebri(m): 5:47am On Sep 15, 2025
The best thing is to leave the house for good
Re: How Do I Handle This Situation by Openair: 10:44am On Sep 15, 2025
Houseofglam7:
Did this happen before or after you showed your husband pepperhuh



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I was about to say that too😄😄.. fake stories
Re: How Do I Handle This Situation by headbasher96(m): 1:02am On Sep 16, 2025
Aunty any lady that has money to afford a toy can rent an apartment story is so lame
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