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So, my younger brothers girlfriend whom he's being dating for almost two years now cheated on him and my brother being a smart guy caught her when he checked her chats on Whatsapp and Facebook.
The girl asked and pleaded for mercy, she asked me to beg my brother on her behalf, but right in my mind, I knew it was over cos my brother would never take her back. This is a girl that we all know and are familiar with o. This girl had been dating the guy he cheated with, for five months plus now. I refused to beg my brother, I don't indulge in relationship matters, let him decide as a man and adult. I trust his sense of judgement.
This girl later sent a msg to my brother that she will soon breakup with the guy and he should give her some time. My brother saw the text and was really furious. He wants to go to the girl's house to beat her but I warned him not to dare it.
Just this morning, she still sent another message that she has finally broken up with the guy and that it's been three days since she formally ended things with him and she didn't want to tell my kid brother now because she's still HEALING from breaking up with the other guy. This is a girl who always claims to love my brother. How do you heal from breaking up with another guy whom you said you didn't have feelings or love for?. She had told my brother that she doesn't love the other guy, so where is the HEALING now coming from again? 😂😂
This message almost caused a war between them. He threatened to mess the girl up if she ever comes close to him again.
Like WTF, how do you tell a guy you've dated for two years that he should give u time to formally end things with a guy you cheated on him with?
Again, how do you tell a guy you've dated for two years that you've finally broken up with the guy you cheated with and that you're still Healing that's why you haven't informed him so that he can now accept u back?

Omorr, things dey occur abeg.

My brother hasn't been able to talk to anyone since this incident. As far as I am concerned, I have never seen my brother with any other lady since he started dating this girl. My brother helps her a lot. And I can't understand why she had to cheat. And they even intended getting married next year.

Nlfpmod

I say 2+2 no be 4 for some people side


Some people no normal....forget looks and fashion....

Many are mad bro

Starz825:
I say 2+2 no be 4 for some people side


Some people no normal....forget looks and fashion....

Many are mad bro

How do you mean cos I don't understand?

How is your comment related to the subject?

I hope your bro is taking good care of her financially cos that's the excuse they will give. I went to the oda guy for help

I don commot hand for relationship matter tey-tey!

When we tell youngies to be careful when they're dealing with these brainless genz bannies,they call us all sort of abusive names......

As for the native hen whom your brother has been dating, please nothing on earth should make him forgive her......

Sonnobax15:

When we tell youngies to be careful when they're dealing with these brainless genz bannies,they call us all sort of abusive names......

As for the native hen whom your brother has been dating, please nothing on earth should make him forgive her......

I will disown him if he tries it.

How many times will l tell you people that girls or women don't love me but it's the cash in your pocket that will determine if they should call you their love or or one wehrey nicknames, it's obvious that the other guy is better than your brother and l will like you to advice your brother to fling her away, it's a breakthrough for your brother cos he won't knows he's getting married to a harlot

The side guy must obviously be doing something that your brother wasn't doing and she was obviously in love with the dude

This girl would definitely cheat in marriage because those she "broke up" with him, he is still in love and would go back to the side dude when the slightest rift happens in their relationship

Na so paternity fraud dey happen. She fit carry belle give ur bro

Another of my issue with cheating is the health risk the cheating partner puts on the other, so automatically all the people that girls the side dude has been with without protection, ur brother has also been with by proxy

The relationship/marriage pool is so messed up. Don’t be surprised the side dude might probably have a serious relationship with someone else (another girl) and that someone else might also be having another relationship with another guy…then it becomes a loop

Your brother should forget about her, and move on

MistyDense:
How do you mean cos I don't understand?

How is your comment related to the subject?

I doubt if the babe is in a right frame of mind with her actions/decision making patterns..

Mentally, a lot of people in Nigeria ain't there... forget looks and fashion

Starz825:
I doubt if the babe is in a right frame of mind with her actions/decision making patterns..

Mentally, a lot of people in Nigeria ain't there... forget looks and fashion

Same thing I asked myself. God bless you for this comment honestly. I wish I could shake hands with you seriously. I was just asking myself if this lady was ok. You can imagine such nonsense o

Baronthecelebri:
Your brother should forget about her, and move on

I've warned my bro, if he ever reconciles with that girl again, he should never see me as his elder sister

OlaOfLagos:
The relationship/marriage pool is so messed up. Don’t be surprised the side dude might probably have a serious relationship with someone else (another girl) and that someone else might also be having another relationship with another guy…then it becomes a loop

It's really messed up bro.

Your bro no observe him relationship well

Starz825:
I say 2+2 no be 4 for some people side


Some people no normal....forget looks and fashion....

Many are mad bro

MistyDense:
Same thing I asked myself. God bless you for this comment honestly. I wish I could shake hands with you seriously. I was just asking myself if this lady was ok. You can imagine such nonsense o

It's actually more rampant than you think. It's more of a psychosocial issue in the society today.

MistyDense:
So, my younger brothers girlfriend whom he's being dating for almost two years now cheated on him and my brother being a smart guy caught her when he checked her chats on Whatsapp and Facebook.
The girl asked and pleaded for mercy, she asked me to beg my brother on her behalf, but right in my mind, I knew it was over cos my brother would never take her back. This is a girl that we all know and are familiar with o. This girl had been dating the guy he cheated with, for five months plus now. I refused to beg my brother, I don't indulge in relationship matters, let him decide as a man and adult. I trust his sense of judgement.
This girl later sent a msg to my brother that she will soon breakup with the guy and he should give her some time. My brother saw the text and was really furious. He wants to go to the girl's house to beat her but I warned him not to dare it.
Just this morning, she still sent another message that she has finally broken up with the guy and that it's been three days since she formally ended things with him and she didn't want to tell my kid brother now because she's still HEALING from breaking up with the other guy. This is a girl who always claims to love my brother. How do you heal from breaking up with another guy whom you said you didn't have feelings or love for?. She had told my brother that she doesn't love the other guy, so where is the HEALING now coming from again? 😂😂
This message almost caused a war between them. He threatened to mess the girl up if she ever comes close to him again.
Like WTF, how do you tell a guy you've dated for two years that he should give u time to formally end things with a guy you cheated on him with?
Again, how do you tell a guy you've dated for two years that you've finally broken up with the guy you cheated with and that you're still Healing that's why you haven't informed him so that he can now accept u back?

Omorr, things dey occur abeg.

My brother hasn't been able to talk to anyone since this incident. As far as I am concerned, I have never seen my brother with any other lady since he started dating this girl. My brother helps her a lot. And I can't understand why she had to cheat. And they even intended getting married next year.

Nlfpmod

The mistake your brother made was to be too available and exclusive to the girl.
I have not seen any woman that would not Bleep up if you make them your all. Their brain cannot take it if you completely focus on them. Especially if you are in love with them. They will see you finish and that other guy who forms for them and treats them like ordinary will become extremely attractive to them.

As a man you must be composed with any woman even the one you love and marry. Dont allow yourself to love a woman 100%.

You would lose your edge as a man and become too submissive to her and no woman looks up to a man who is submissive to her. She will automatically be open to other guys who she looks up to because they dont looks up to her but see her as ordinary.
I advice every man, have options, even if you are not dating them, talk to multiple girls. It would keep your game sharp and you would have them eating outta your hands.

Its surprising that he didnt even block her. Why does she even have access to him. Why is he triggered any time she texts to the extent he wants to beat her. It is because he still has feelings for her and she knows she can get him back anytime she likes.

Girls would always keep a simp like him on standby whilst they knack all the bad boys who treat them like shit.

RENTED GIRLFRIEND

Same thing happened to my guy yesterday, he called me and was complaining that a girl we were with on Saturday here has been cheating on him, relationship of 1 year. Girl wey we don dey plan to go see her family by December.

Fear catch me, I related it to my own girlfriend last night cos both of them are in the same school.

My girlfriend condemned the girls actions but made a very bad comment that made me to be thinking twice now.

Bonjovi13:
The mistake your brother made was to be too available and exclusive to the girl.
I have not seen any woman that would not Bleep up if you make them your all. Their brain cannot take it if you completely focus on them. Especially if you are in love with them. They will see you finish and that other guy who forms for them and treats them like ordinary will become extremely attractive to them.

As a man you must be composed with any woman even the one you love and marry. Dont allow yourself to love a woman 100%.

You would lose your edge as a man and become too submissive to her and no woman looks up to a man who is submissive to her. She will automatically be open to other guys who she looks up to because they dont looks up to her but see her as ordinary.
I advice every man, have options, even if you are not dating them, talk to multiple girls. It would keep your game sharp and you would have them eating outta your hands.

Its surprising that he didnt even block her. Why does she even have access to him. Why is he triggered any time she texts to the extent he wants to beat her. It is because he still has feelings for her and she knows she can get him back anytime she likes.

Girls would always keep a simp like him on standby whilst they knack all the bad boys who treat them like shit.

I'm telling him same. Truth is, my kid bro loves the girl a lot and had invested heavily on her for a very long time. He's really disappointed

Homeboiy:
Same thing happened to my guy yesterday, he called me and was complaining that a girl we were with on Saturday here has been cheating on him, relationship of 1 year. Girl wey we don dey plan to go see her family by December.

Fear catch me, I related it to my own girlfriend last night cos both of them are in the same school.

My girlfriend condemned the girls actions but made a very bad comment that made me to be thinking twice now.

You had better be smart, cos sooner or later, this ur girl will dump u

MistyDense:
You had better be smart, cos sooner or later, this ur girl will dump u

Na why I de apply sense for the relationship

What right does your Younger Brother have over a lady he has not paid her bride price?
The effrontery with which people take ordinary relationship is unbecoming.

Just imagine ordering the steps and redirecting the future of a young girl whom you haven't sought for her hand in marriage officially
Isn't that madness?

Homeboiy:
Na why I de apply sense for the relationship

Better o

APOPTOSIS:
What right does your Younger Brother have over a lady he has not paid her bride price?
The effrontery with which people take ordinary relationship is unbecoming.

Just imagine ordering the steps and redirecting the future of a young girl whom you haven't sought for her hand in marriage officially
Isn't that madness?

Who is this one again?
Tueh..

what on earth do you want us to do with this unnecessary information now