He's 12 years older than I am and we've been seeing for about 2months. He shared his concern with me about the age, that he has never done this young but he's really attracted and has feelings for me. I assured him that it is not a problem but he said it was for him, that could I cope with it, if he still has that concern at the back of his mind?

Please people how do I relieve him from this concern? or what is best for me to do?

Tell him that love is not about age.

Age is just a number.

let me guess, you're below 21 ,

thats why he's concerned

^^^ i suspect same

U nid 2 mak it work, buh i tel ya it aint gona last .

Do you love him?
does he love you?
Then ignore the age thing and fire down.

Area_boy:

let me guess, you're below 21 ,

thats why he's concerned

why would you think I'm below 21? I'm not below 21.

daduke2k:

U nid 2 mak it work, buh i tel ya it aint gona last .

why do you think iy would not last?

Since he is the guy it wont matter now but later when he is getting OLDER and u are getting OLDER too,
when u will need things he can't provide,
I think that's what he is bordered about.
But if u can cope assure him that no matter what u will always be there.
Cos dating an older guy is kind of interesting,

Area_boy:

let me guess, you're below 21 ,

thats why he's concerned

very funny. That means her boyfriend should be 9.
@poster
Don't lie to yourself age does matter. Maybe not to you, but to his/your family and friends its gonna be a big deal. I can't imagine taking a girl I'm 12 years younger than to see my mum cos she will go into dry fasting for a month asking that I be delivered from the juju.

^^^can't get my hands on it but something is making me trip for you.

Convice him by fu*king hell out of him.

You just told us the age difference but didn't mention his worries. So what if you're 22 and he's 34? What's he worried about? That he "hasn't done this young" is a flimsy excuse as long as you're old enough and ain't a virgin. You sure say the guy serious?