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Jennyclay:
I have never for one day had such an ill mindset.

Me, suffer with a man? God forbid .

If you don’t have money to take care of me don’t even dare come close to me.

Team liability.

God forbid.

Only a foolish man dare poor lady.

They have nothing to offer.

Always believe on their Snail power

There is nothing wrong with a man spending for his girlfriend,I do spend for my girl too ,ig she is worth it we spend

Jennyclay:
I have never for one day had such an ill mindset.

Me, suffer with a man? God forbid .

If you don’t have money to take care of me don’t even dare come close to me.

Eeyaaaa! Handicap

Jennyclay:
I have never for one day had such an ill mindset.

Me, suffer with a man? God forbid .

If you don’t have money to take care of me don’t even dare come close to me.

So do you have anyone taking care of you now ?

Suffer with me? So that you can choke me to death afterwards 🙄🙄🙄🙄 I don't want any woman to suffer with me! It is a misconception!

I don’t even think men are willing to marry broke ladies these days.

Hhh4444:
bros na mostly low value women full street. Even the ones you think are high value got nothing to offer. Na men value dem dey use shine.where you want see high value woman for this Nigeria? Just give up on that wild goose chase.

Man no go come marry ni

Myrepublic:
He don make money from the guys angle,he is switching gear to ladies. Ghe ghe ladies college

..abi .he done make money from men angle and bought a Mercedes Benz and now switch to ladies angle and make money and inorder to buy mansion house

Lol, what about those who used to have and got broke later?
My brother ,the talk that na today you know , you no know tomorrow is real.

Hahahah. If you’re a broke man and you’re reading this today, please don’t give up.

First , count the cost around any major life decision. Feed on reality all the time. Go for value in whatever that you do rather than mere face value.

Choose your team wisely and be prayerful.

Those who left you because of your current situation when you’re building I know they will see you tomorrow and become surprised not because you’re bigger than they are or they are lesser. But because they never expected that life could switch gear in ways it did for you in a positive way.

Live not a life to impress anyone because we all have our own race to run.

And to all the gold diggers. There are many factors that can put a man in a humble position in life.

Some they have no one to support them. While some they have personal disability in one way or another.

When you meet anyone in such circumstance, be a source of encouragement to them as many men do this for a lot of ladies.

I don’t want to mention real life examples but I feel the generation of ladies we have today are far from a true companion.

Most have selfish intentions however men of this generation are mostly kind and always ready to help others especially women.

The reason behind this is simple. A lot of broke men have empathy on broke ladies because they can’t imagine her in her fragile nature coming under the pressure and unfairness they experience.

I have personally had to assist a lot of broke ladies out of this reason alone- paid for school fees and assisted them in my little way however not to my detriment.

If many broke ladies can think this way , we may end the circle of broken homes. Because when you genuinely build with a man, he values you. However not all men. At least those who are intentional.

And how do you know men who are intentional, they are not easily distracted. They have a focus and you can see it in action.

Stick with true love , work with him so the two of you can become one and you can look back and be proud of how much commitment that went into building your home.

This gives a woman peace of mind and ultimate fulfillment that what was jointly built are yours. Such a woman can never think of relationship fraud because she knows it all belongs to both of them.

But you see a lady who was married by a made man will forever be treated like a stooge. And her only way of getting her share is to find ways to plan relationship fraud by all means.

Don’t because of material thing force yourself into a place where you’re never accepted based on your status. Be the one to build up your own reputation from ground up with the right person.

Goodmarlian:
There is nothing wrong with a man spending for his girlfriend,I do spend for my girl too ,ig she is worth it we spend

.ok but has she given you a gift before?

Love and love relationship is not all about money..the rich also have issues, misunderstanding, fight, quarells, separation, divorce in their relationships..the rich also cry

Hhh4444:
these gals ain't even worth all this stress bro. Na you get time to dey borrow pose to impress woman. People that don't have any value to bring to the table.Na men dey put them on pedestals dey make dem feel on top of the world.

Men trap them with a show of being rich ... then use them for whatever was their agenda ... clean out their bank account.... turn them into prostitutes....even for rituals. Misery loves company.

Jennyclay:
I have never for one day had such an ill mindset.

Me, suffer with a man? God forbid .

If you don’t have money to take care of me don’t even dare come close to me.

How old are you now? Akwu*kwo mgbe*de

It takes one just one massive appointment to turn around the situation.
You won't even recognize the broke boy again.
Beware.

onyx1470:
Lol .. life can happen to anyone• Don't suffer with a Man, AbEg someone complete 40 Xters for Us

Nonsense! 🙄🙄

You should not even think of dating or marrying until you have sorted yourself out with life. It is simple! Nobody's daughter should have to put up with your whining. (As if life only happens to you and your kind.) 🙄

VeeVeeMyLuv:
It takes one just one massive appointment to turn around the situation.
You won't even recognize the broke boy again. Beware.

Many of your great-grandmothers, grandmothers, and mother's waited in vain for that massive appointment. No sane self-respecting woman should live and die for nothing like they did.

ufotunang:
Love and love relationship is not all about money..the rich also have issues, misunderstanding, fight, quarells, separation, divorce in their relationships..the rich also cry

The rich do not have poverty and lack to contend with..😏

ufotunang:
.ok but has she given you a gift before?

Why should she when the love bombing is meant to coax her into accepting what is possibly a life lived in servitude to his dreams -- she literally has to drop her life in order to live for his dreams and his life?

5 years after, the story will change to " I just need a man, I can take care of myself"

Jennyclay:
I have never for one day had such an ill mindset.

Me, suffer with a man? God forbid .

If you don’t have money to take care of me don’t even dare come close to me.

This get Gehgeh ehnn - I no even understand where him belong to. Tomorrow him go still come out tell us say, any woman when no suffer with you, no be your future wife. lol. Believe him at your own risk!

Jennyclay:
I have never for one day had such an ill mindset.

Me, suffer with a man? God forbid .

If you don’t have money to take care of me don’t even dare come close to me.

In your total understanding of what Love is, Na man wey "fit take care" of you. I hope say yahoo boys no go harvest your organs one dey sha. Because it's super dangerous to only understand love as what you can gain.
You never see woman wey boys buy eyephone for and remove her eyes?

Teejay13:
This get Gehgeh ehnn - I no even understand where him belong to. Tomorrow him go still come out tell us say, any woman when no suffer with you, no be your future wife. lol. Believe him at your own risk!

Any woman who suffers with a man is a woman the man most likely doesn't even love, to begin with. He may have the idea that since he possesses her, she is the one he loves at that moment, but that is not the same as loving a woman.

A man who loves a woman will want to give her the best of him, not put her through the worst with him. A man who wishes to possess a woman even when he has nothing to offer her is not a man in love but a man obsessed with the idea of having someone. And he will likely abandon any woman he sticks with in suffering — or find himself a better woman outside of the relationship, since he can hold on to the former for free labor —once he can escape the suffering. So, it does not benefit a woman to suffer with any man.

DyshApp:
A popular celebrity content creator, GehGeh, has advised ladies never to suffer with any man, stressing that ‘e go better’ may not come to pass.

In a viral video on social media, GehGeh said that the phrase “e go better“, usually used by men to make a lady stay during their broke stage, may never come to pass.

He said; “As a lady don’t suffer with man. You know why? That phrase ‘e go better, suffer with me’ don’t do it because if you date man with ‘e go better’, it means you are dating your imagination and the expectation where you dey create for your head might not come to pass.”

Speaking further, he said; “Date a man for who he is now, if you come date am for who you think say he go be tomorrow, that tomorrow might not come to pass.”

He added that it will only lead to worry, confusion, and misunderstanding if the expectation already created does not come to pass.

He concluded by stressing that ladies should date a man for who he is now, and that no lady should suffer with any man.

Has he forgotten that change is constant? If you date a man for who he is today and things later change and flip the other way tomorrow, what will happen to the relationship?

rolams:
Has he forgotten that change is constant? If you date a man for who he is today and things later change and flip the other way tomorrow, what will happen to the relationship?

Nonsense! 🙄🙄

When a man is unable to provide for a woman he promised to provide for, he should have no qualms with the woman leaving him to find herself a different man who is better able to keep his promise to provide.

DyshApp:
A popular celebrity content creator, GehGeh, has advised ladies never to suffer with any man, stressing that ‘e go better’ may not come to pass.

In a viral video on social media, GehGeh said that the phrase “e go better“, usually used by men to make a lady stay during their broke stage, may never come to pass.

He said; “As a lady don’t suffer with man. You know why? That phrase ‘e go better, suffer with me’ don’t do it because if you date man with ‘e go better’, it means you are dating your imagination and the expectation where you dey create for your head might not come to pass.”

Speaking further, he said; “Date a man for who he is now, if you come date am for who you think say he go be tomorrow, that tomorrow might not come to pass.”

He added that it will only lead to worry, confusion, and misunderstanding if the expectation already created does not come to pass.

He concluded by stressing that ladies should date a man for who he is now, and that no lady should suffer with any man.

Gehgeh wan capture female followers. Yeye boy. I won’t be surprised if he’s not what he preaches.

Jennyclay:
I have never for one day had such an ill mindset.

Me, suffer with a man? God forbid .

If you don’t have money to take care of me don’t even dare come close to me.

It is your opinion, but love, honesty, happiness does not really tie to money. Money is good, but have seen those that started with nothing, today they are super rich and happy.

Pray to meet the right person, that you will start life together, because that is the only person that will respect you. You see that man you want to meet because of his money, he knows why you stayed is because of his money, you might rarely find happiness in such relationship. You only be leaving a fake happy life by posting pictures of hubby on social media in various places, but in the real world, you are dying inside, and no one can help you. The choice is yours.

Na to suffer alone be dat

Kobojunkie:
Nonsense! 🙄🙄

When a man is unable to provide for a woman he promised to provide for, he should have no qualms with the woman leaving him to find herself a different man who is better able to keep his promise to provide.

Hmmm! You mean women should be jumping from one man to another when things change negatively for men? Remember, no condition is permanent either rich or poor.

kentycom:
It is your opinion, but love, honesty, happiness does not really tie to money. Money is good, but have seen those that started with nothing, today they are super rich and happy.

Pray to meet the right person, that you will start life together, because that is the only person that will respect you. You see that man you want to meet because of his money, he knows why you stayed is because of his money, you might rarely find happiness in such relationship. You only be leaving a fake happy life by posting pictures of hubby on social media in various places, but in the real world, you are dying inside, and no one can help you. The choice is yours.

On point!

Jennyclay:
I have never for one day had such an ill mindset.

Me, suffer with a man? God forbid .

If you don’t have money to take care of me don’t even dare come close to me.

You should take responsibility of taking care of yourself. Are a child, or a disabled person? If not, then quit the lazy mindset of irresponsibility and this country would be a better place...