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Tomorrow Will Make It My 40th Birthday With No Single Achievement by Mrkc(op): 3:57pm On Sep 22, 2025

No wife.
No kids.
No helper.
No inheritance.
No connection.
No friends.
No skill.
All I have is just HND ...
I am a weakling and i feel so defeated.
My world is crumbling

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Re: Tomorrow Will Make It My 40th Birthday With No Single Achievement by RealityKings1: 4:05pm On Sep 22, 2025

It's because you want to live long that's why it's like that.
When there is life and food there is hope.
You can plan gradually.

There is only problem when there is no food

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Re: Tomorrow Will Make It My 40th Birthday With No Single Achievement by Nnamdipapa(m): 4:11pm On Sep 22, 2025

Mrkc:
No wife.
No kids.
No helper.
No inheritance.
No connection.
No friends.
No skill.
All I have is just HND ...
I am a weakling and i feel so defeated.
My world is crumbling

No wife - Not an aceivemnent
No kids-Not an aceivemnent
No helper - You don't need a helper.
No inheritance - Your father's fault, and still, most of us get by without an inheritance.
No connection - You will go out and create for yourself
No friends - Same as above
No skill - This is on you to leaarn a skill. It won't fall from heaven. Use your time wisely
All I have is just HND ... This is good
I am a weakling, and i feel so defeated. You can start by reading good books to build your mental acuity and toughness.
My world is crumbling - No, it is not, you have to get yourself up and get to work on yourself, the world will not pity you, my friend.

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Re: Tomorrow Will Make It My 40th Birthday With No Single Achievement by Stephen0mozzy: 4:34pm On Sep 22, 2025

Here's a birthday gift.
Take responsibility.

You mentioned a lot of things which is like blaming the absence of what others could have provided, but you didn't see how important it is that you have gone out to make those things for yourself.

There's no need regretting anything. Some of us knew at a very early age, that there won't be helpers, no connections, no free money, and I'm talking VERY YOUNG AGE... Did we give up? Nope, it made us self-sufficient and hardworking.

You can start a new chapter today.

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Re: Tomorrow Will Make It My 40th Birthday With No Single Achievement by manuelkel(m): 4:41pm On Sep 22, 2025*

The sad truth my friend is, ‘Life will not always favor everyone.’
My Dad always said “Ta bu gboo,” today is same as ages ago. If you start today you can still meet up with ages ago.
Don't loose hope and find yourself becoming hypertensive.
At this age you feel torn apart and you see the world ageing and crumbling with zero achievements, you have to make a stand, get something doing......
Learn a skill either physical or technical skills, you start from there first.
I learnt a skill from someone 9years younger than me after working with Mikano company for 3years with my Bsc, coupled with the insults and humiliation involved, I still persisted.....it was very very very difficult for me to sacrifice 1year for the learning, I had one short, 3 boxers for 1year and barely ate every 48hours.....I turned wild with my outlook, people laughed only family stood up for me.
With a bad month of work, I can make over 800-900k per month just from handwork, fixing automated doors and water connector, condict plumbing installations.
It's never too late to say never!!

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Re: Tomorrow Will Make It My 40th Birthday With No Single Achievement by DonBenny77(m): 4:41pm On Sep 22, 2025

But you're alive
You're using a smartphone
You're sane and smart enough to realize something is wrong..
You still got time
Use it wisely ....

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Re: Tomorrow Will Make It My 40th Birthday With No Single Achievement by Cum4me(m): 4:49pm On Sep 22, 2025

Bro take it easy you're not alone on this we are many here in this Nigeria. Since I finished HND I found out that Nigerian politicians are the real enemies of our destiny. I face the street with full chest and I'm getting better now getting to 40 in 3 years from now. It's not a joke anymore if you're not doing well at your late 30s run from religion and face reality it's a surviver to the fittest when you wake up late. embarassed

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Re: Tomorrow Will Make It My 40th Birthday With No Single Achievement by budaatum: 4:58pm On Sep 22, 2025

Cum4me:
Bro take it easy you're not alone on this we are many here in this Nigeria. Since I finished HND I found out that Nigerian politicians .......

I hope it's your birthday too, so you can share in Stephen0mozzy birthday gift to the op.

Stephen0mozzy:
Here's a birthday gift.
Take responsibility.

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Re: Tomorrow Will Make It My 40th Birthday With No Single Achievement by Kobojunkie: 5:10pm On Sep 22, 2025

Mrkc:
No wife.
No kids.
No helper.
No inheritance.
No connection.
No friends.
No skill.
All I have is just HND ...
I am a weakling and i feel so defeated.
My world is crumbling

You have an HND but no skill? What did you spend the last 40 years doing? undecided

I suggest you begin now learning basic skills such as cooking, cleaning, and other skills that can help in the house at least. sad

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Re: Tomorrow Will Make It My 40th Birthday With No Single Achievement by Houseofglam7(f): 5:13pm On Sep 22, 2025

Even being gay didn’t help?
Dayummmm

Re: Tomorrow Will Make It My 40th Birthday With No Single Achievement by KingDashx(m): 5:32pm On Sep 22, 2025

Life is hard

Re: Tomorrow Will Make It My 40th Birthday With No Single Achievement by AllBlack: 6:43pm On Sep 22, 2025

Mrkc:
No wife.
No kids.
No helper.
No inheritance.
No connection.
No friends.
No skill.
All I have is just HND ...
I am a weakling and i feel so defeated.
My world is crumbling

You better sharrap therrrrr.
A living dog is better than a dead lion.
Live your life even if it is just one day left.

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Re: Tomorrow Will Make It My 40th Birthday With No Single Achievement by AllBlack: 6:45pm On Sep 22, 2025

KingDashx:
Life is hard

Life no hard oh.

This one dey cry say he no get money,
me dey here dey cry say I dey owe over 6 million naira but I siddon here with beer and one soft boooory.
Life goes on.
We MIGHT cry later but for now, let's enjoy the laughter.

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Re: Tomorrow Will Make It My 40th Birthday With No Single Achievement by AkhereOkaka(m): 6:49pm On Sep 22, 2025

Stephen0mozzy:
Here's a birthday gift.
Take responsibility.

You mentioned a lot of things which is like blaming the absence of what others could have provided, but you didn't see how important it is that you have gone out to make those things for yourself.

There's no need regretting anything. Some of us knew at a very early age, that there won't be helpers, no connections, no free money, and I'm talking VERY YOUNG AGE... Did we give up? Nope, it made us self-sufficient and hardworking.

You can start a new chapter today.

You've said it all, in my dialect(Esan) they say whenever you wake up is your morning. Wake up young man and take responsibility for your life.

Some of us started from the scratch, I took an internship that was paying 10k, immediately after NYSC in 2012, which was far less than the 19,800 been paid by the federal government as at then but I was looking at the bigger picture.

Thank God today got married at 39 a year ago and I'mblessed with a daughter and doing well for myself. I spend a minimum of 300k to run my home on a monthly basis.

Please don't give up and despise not the days of little beginning. I hope my story will inspire you a little. Get up man no one is coming to save you.

Happy birthday in advance

We rise by lifting others
We rise by lifting others

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Re: Tomorrow Will Make It My 40th Birthday With No Single Achievement by columbus007(m): 7:12pm On Sep 22, 2025

We plenty for inside my guy..

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Re: Tomorrow Will Make It My 40th Birthday With No Single Achievement by KingDashx(m): 7:43pm On Sep 22, 2025

AllBlack:
Life no hard oh.

This one dey cry say he no get money,
me dey here dey cry say I dey owe over 6 million naira but I siddon here with beer and one soft boooory.
Life goes on.
We MIGHT cry later but for now, let's enjoy the laughter.

6M baba wetin you buy with this kind money

Re: Tomorrow Will Make It My 40th Birthday With No Single Achievement by Karleb(m): 7:47pm On Sep 22, 2025

This is sad. cry

Re: Tomorrow Will Make It My 40th Birthday With No Single Achievement by AllBlack: 7:50pm On Sep 22, 2025*

KingDashx:
6M baba wetin you buy with this kind money

Bros na business. No be once e happen. Na small small... plus and minus... but na just one RIGHT transaction go reset the whole thing and if the debt gets bigger, life goes on.

The important thing na to wake up everyday with agenda and HOPE.

Some days e go be like make man no wake from sleep for one full week but we must keep pushing but finally weda you owe money or you be Dangote, the world will keep rotating.

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Re: Tomorrow Will Make It My 40th Birthday With No Single Achievement by KingDashx(m): 8:10pm On Sep 22, 2025

AllBlack:
Bros na business. No be once e happen. Na small small... plus and minus... but na just one RIGHT transaction go reset the whole thing and if the debt gets bigger, life goes on.

The important thing na to wake up everyday with agenda and HOPE.

omo na wa oh
God go bring money come make you pay

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Re: Tomorrow Will Make It My 40th Birthday With No Single Achievement by Goodlyhrt(m): 8:18pm On Sep 22, 2025

KingDashx:
omo na wa oh
God go bring money come make you pay

pay keh

person wey go borrow another one if you give am chance grin

Abeg where dem dey borrow money? 🙏 Aswear I go pay

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Re: Tomorrow Will Make It My 40th Birthday With No Single Achievement by free2ryhme: 9:02pm On Sep 22, 2025

Mrkc:
No wife.
No kids.
No helper.
No inheritance.
No connection.
No friends.
No skill.
All I have is just HND ...
I am a weakling and i feel so defeated.
My world is crumbling

since you don give up on yourself nothing we fit do for you

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Re: Tomorrow Will Make It My 40th Birthday With No Single Achievement by frugal(m): 9:03pm On Sep 22, 2025

Mrkc:
No wife.
No kids.
No helper.
No inheritance.
No connection.
No friends.
No skill.
All I have is just HND ...
I am a weakling and i feel so defeated.
My world is crumbling

Keep pushing. It takes just one single year to completely turn your life around. Business, career, wife, kid, car, house, japa, etc can all happen in just one year. I’ve seen this happen over and over again. Just keep believing and striving. Happy birthday!

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Re: Tomorrow Will Make It My 40th Birthday With No Single Achievement by AllBlack: 9:09pm On Sep 22, 2025

KingDashx:
omo na wa oh
God go bring money come make you pay

Even Dangote dey owe money but business keeps moving.

I am not worried.

Re: Tomorrow Will Make It My 40th Birthday With No Single Achievement by bola4dprec(m): 9:10pm On Sep 22, 2025

Mrkc:
No wife.
No kids.
No helper.
No inheritance.
No connection.
No friends.
No skill.
All I have is just HND ...
I am a weakling and i feel so defeated.
My world is crumbling

Create your own empire

Age is just a number

Reason with me bros

Congratulations

Re: Tomorrow Will Make It My 40th Birthday With No Single Achievement by SeniorGee(m): 9:10pm On Sep 22, 2025

Reflect bro... You will surely see something to be thankful for...
Don't lose hope though. Your breakthrough might just be the next corner..

Re: Tomorrow Will Make It My 40th Birthday With No Single Achievement by weslay: 9:14pm On Sep 22, 2025

Be thankful for for your life. Some people that had all those things you listed are dead.

Be thankful

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Re: Tomorrow Will Make It My 40th Birthday With No Single Achievement by KingDashx(m): 9:14pm On Sep 22, 2025

AllBlack:
Even Dangote dey owe money but business keeps moving.

I am not worried.

oya na
Everywhere good🫡

Re: Tomorrow Will Make It My 40th Birthday With No Single Achievement by 1Alex: 9:17pm On Sep 22, 2025

Mrkc:
No wife.
No kids.
No helper.
No inheritance.
No connection.
No friends.
No skill.
All I have is just HND ...
I am a weakling and i feel so defeated.
My world is crumbling

No kill yourself with thoughts. 40 no mean say life don finish. Many people even start life after 40. The main thing be say you gats move out of your comfort zone.

Start small, no matter how e be. Even if na sales work, cleaning, delivery, or learn one simple skill online. From small hustle, bigger doors fit open.

Forget shame, forget age. Na action go change your story, no be worry. Just begin now, one step at a time.

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Re: Tomorrow Will Make It My 40th Birthday With No Single Achievement by brodalikeme(m): 9:24pm On Sep 22, 2025

If you read and take most of the advise already given you will be alright.
You have the most important thing which is life itself.
Renovate your mentality with positive and progressive teachings and you will be alright. The wrong mindset with money, wife, inheritance, friends, skills will be a wasteful chaotic life.
Guy you dey alright abeg, just develop your mentality beyond the present happenings around you and you will soar.

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Re: Tomorrow Will Make It My 40th Birthday With No Single Achievement by daguru001: 9:27pm On Sep 22, 2025

Nnamdipapa:
No wife - Not an aceivemnent
No kids-Not an aceivemnent
No helper - You don't need a helper.
No inheritance - Your father's fault, and still, most of us get by without an inheritance.
No connection - You will go out and create for yourself
No friends - Same as above
No skill - This is on you to leaarn a skill. It won't fall from heaven. Use your time wisely
All I have is just HND ... This is good
I am a weakling, and i feel so defeated. You can start by reading good books to build your mental acuity and toughness.
My world is crumbling - No, it is not, you have to get yourself up and get to work on yourself, the world will not pity you, my friend.

Seun should introduce LOVE button

Goodlyhrt:
pay keh person wey go borrow another one if you give am chance

Abeg where dem dey borrow money? 🙏 Aswear I go pay

SMILE button should be added too

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