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Good evening, I'm a single young lady , i have suitors coming my way, i don't smoke but the three guys that I like smokes, I don't know to accept them or not, I'm tired of being single, what should I do?

Everyone get wetin dey do am for this life true true

Liliantalks:
➜Good evening, I'm a single young lady , i have suitors coming my way, i don't smoke but the three guys that I like smokes, I don't know to accept them or not,
➜I'm tired of being single, what should I do?

If you have a no-smoking boundary, why would you think to consider smokers then? Do the many bad/toxic relationships that surround you there in Nigeria not give you all the motivation you need to do better— never settle for less— for your own self or what?

2. Why do you, in the year 2025, think it makes sense to treat your single life as some placeholder for relationships/marriage? Why not invest your time and effort in discovering who you are, learning to love yourself — self-care and self-love —, working on your career and finances to be sure that you do not ever have to depend on anyone else in that area, etc., before considering finding someone else to love?

Why are Nigerian girls, in this information age we now live in, still in some sort of rush to find boys when they have a lot of growing up to do?

As a lady, knowing what you really want and sticking to it is what makes you stand out in the midst of your mates......

..something is attracting them to you..
Maybe u have nicotine in your DNA

Benoxvals:
..something is attracting them to you.. Maybe u have nicotine in your DNA

Nonsense!

We both know that, typically, men can be attracted to different types of women just because they are women and possibly available. They are human beings after all.

Liliantalks:
Good evening, I'm a single young lady , i have suitors coming my way, i don't smoke but the three guys that I like smokes, I don't know to accept them or not, I'm tired of being single, what should I do?

Dem be bad guys ooo
Dey will knack u finish n convert u to single mother

Liliantalks:
Good evening, I'm a single young lady , i have suitors coming my way, i don't smoke but the three guys that I like smokes, I don't know to accept them or not, I'm tired of being single, what should I do?

What are the qualities you like about them?

Mariangeles:
What are the qualities you like about them?

I just met them online, we talk well on phone

Mariangeles:
What are the qualities you like about them?

I just met them online, we talk well on phone they are funny and keep me engaged

Maybe you are meeting them on Tinder and you registered on those meet me now site/apps. Guys like that plenty there. Change the sites or just meet people in person.

That's because over 70 percent of Nigeria youth/men smokes.. awon science students. 🙂

Women love bad guys, not nice guys.
She is attracted to bad guys and she is loving it.
No amount of advice una go fit give am to change her mind😁

You don’t know what you want in life..

Would you rather have you a man who don't smoke but womanize? Coz most smokers dont cheat.

Xboss1:
✓ Women love bad guys, not nice guys. She is attracted to bad guys and she is loving it. No amount of advice una go fit give am to change her mind😁

When will your type quit with the inane generalizations, for Pete's sake? 😏😏

Women do not live bad guys; rather, guys who assume themselves the good guys notoriously play the victim card, accusing women of wanting bad guys for not choosing them. They do this primarily out of spite and ignorance of their obvious flaws. A lot of these sorts of guys are not even self-aware, and self-reflection is a concept so far away from them.

Kobojunkie:
When will your type quit with the inane generalizations? Women do not live bad guys; rather guys who assume themselves the good guys notoriously play the victim card accusing women of wanting bad guys for not choosing them. This they majorly do out of spite and refusal to self reflect and maybe consider they aren't as good as they assume to such women.

Dey play