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Good evening, I'm a single young lady , i have suitors coming my way, i don't smoke but the three guys that I like smokes, I don't know to accept them or not, I'm tired of being single, what should I do?

Liliantalks:
➜Good evening, I'm a single young lady , i have suitors coming my way, i don't smoke but the three guys that I like smokes, I don't know to accept them or not,
➜I'm tired of being single, what should I do?

If you have a no-smoking boundary, why would you think to consider smokers then? Do the many bad/toxic relationships that surround you there in Nigeria not give you all the motivation you need to do better— never settle for less— for your own self or what?

2. Why do you, in the year 2025, think it makes sense to treat your single life as some placeholder for relationships/marriage? Why not invest your time and effort in discovering who you are, learning to love yourself — self-care and self-love —, working on your career and finances to be sure that you do not ever have to depend on anyone else in that area, etc., before considering finding someone else to love?

Why are Nigerian girls, in this information age we now live in, still in some sort of rush to find boys when they have a lot of growing up to do?

Liliantalks:
Good evening, I'm a single young lady , i have suitors coming my way, i don't smoke but the three guys that I like smokes, I don't know to accept them or not, I'm tired of being single, what should I do?

check me out you might love me

But I am a Gold digger 🙈🙈🙈

Olachase:
check me out you might love me

But I am a Gold digger 🙈🙈🙈

are you yoruba or Igbo , If you drop a picture , that would be nice

Liliantalks:
are you yoruba or Igbo , If you drop a picture , that would be nice

Yoruba
I can't drop my picture because I am wanted here on nairaland

Can we move to a self-contain where it's just you and me

What's your age and what tribe are you from? I don't smoke and neither do l drink

Does tribe matters?

Pupanchie:
What's your age and what tribe are you from? I don't smoke and neither do l drink

Pupanchie:
What's your age and what tribe are you from? I don't smoke and neither do l drink

28 and Anioma

Liliantalks:
Good evening, I'm a single young lady , i have suitors coming my way, i don't smoke but the three guys that I like smokes, I don't know to accept them or not, I'm tired of being single, what should I do?

Op, please smoking doesn't make man irresponsible. If it's not good for you just quit it.

I smoke but not addicted, for two months now i have not smoked and will still smoke when i want to catch cruise.

My oga at office smokes and i know a lot of big men that smokes.

Some lawyers, Engineers, Lecturers/Teachers smokes as well.

Are the men that doesn't smoke better than them?

Some people don't smoke yet never achieve anything in their life.

Samantha125:
Does tribe matters?

Samantha howfar

Another big head Igbo guy just won Mister International 2025

Liliantalks:
28 and Anioma

Whats your FB ID ? I want to have a conversation with you

Samantha125:
Does tribe matters?

Yes it does but l don't you needed to know that for asking

Samantha125:
Does tribe matters?

Yes it does but l don't think you needed to know for asking

What’s wrong been a smoker? What has smoking got to do with love?

Snow2six:
What’s wrong been a smoker? What has smoking got to do with love?

When it comes to dating or love, people have a right to their preferences, and they do not owe you any explanations— no shalaye-ing necessary—for any of what they deem red flags.

If you cannot respect a person's preference, then you should not even bother trying to enter their social space.

Pupanchie:
Whats your FB ID ? I want to have a conversation with you

drop your FB ID will chat you up

Kobojunkie:
When it comes to dating or love, people have a right to their preferences, and they do not owe you any explanations— no shalaye-ing necessary—for any of what they deem red flags.

If you cannot respect a person's preference, then you should not even bother trying to enter their social space.

The guy just said his mind as well.

He simply asked the op "what's wrong with smoking" ?

You're here writing epistle

Bendeco02:
The guy just said his mind as well. He simply asked the op "what's wrong with smoking" ? You're here writing epistle

I said my mind as well. So, what gives? If you can't stomach the responses, don't bother commenting at all.

[quote author=Liliantalks post=136899974]drop your FB ID will chat you up [/quot

Forget it if you can't send it

Liliantalks:
Good evening, I'm a single young lady , i have suitors coming my way, i don't smoke but the three guys that I like smokes, I don't know to accept them or not, I'm tired of being single, what should I do?

If you can't beat them, you ____ them

What's this one saying? You want to accept 3guys at once? You're below 25.

Why wouldn't he? He's a hard worker...😏😏😏

But this still doesn't change what I said last time, Northerners still take the trophy when it comes to good looks and they don't need any big international stage to justify it.

They also don't need to flaunt their good looks for people to notice them, they're just themselves and if you ask me, I think they should be colonizing Nigeria with their genes...🤭🤭🤭

Now let's not derail the op's thread.

Bendeco02:
Samantha howfar

Another big head Igbo guy just won Mister International 2025

Liliantalks:
Good evening, I'm a single young lady , i have suitors coming my way, i don't smoke but the three guys that I like smokes, I don't know to accept them or not, I'm tired of being single, what should I do?

there are two sets of single men right now


drug addicts and gamblers


they make up d majority. I thank God i don't smoke, don't drink and don't gamble. Bt am married to a woman that drinks sha.


u need to look beyond people's fault and focus on their other side. Stop judging people because dey smoke, bt instead judge them because they care for others or are hard working

Samantha125:
Why wouldn't he? He's a hard worker...😏😏😏

But this still doesn't change what I said last time, Northerners still take the trophy when it comes to good looks and they don't need any big international stage to justify it.

They also don't need to flaunt their good looks for people to notice them, they're just themselves and if you ask me, I think they should be colonizing Nigeria with their genes...🤭🤭🤭

Now let's not derail the op's thread.

Formal (2024) Mister International was also a big head guy.

How come they keep winning it back to back?

Northerners is a not a tribe, there are over 20 tribes in the North. Mention the tribe.

Hope you know the measure for men good look is not just facially but body stature as well?

I will keep disturbing you

adamkkk:
there are two sets of single men right now


drug addicts and gamblers


they make up d majority. I thank God i don't smoke, don't drink and don't gamble. Bt am married to a woman that drinks sha.


u need to look beyond people's fault and focus on their other side. Stop judging people because dey smoke, bt instead judge them because they care for others or are hard working

So far so good, the only reason comment I have seen and read so far in nairaland...thank you.

You be smoker= problem
You be drinker= problem
You be womanizer= problem
You no be any of the 3= problem
You text her good morning= problem
You no text her good morning= problem
You buy data for her= problem
You no buy data for her= problem
You talk to her= problem
You no talk to her= problem
You refuse manipulation= problem
You no refuse manipulation= problem
You love her back= problem
You no lover her back= problem
You agree see her family= problem
You no gree see her parents= problem

It's so unfortunate

Smokers are one of the best man you can ever find anywhere as they’re always blunt and straight forward..

I didn't know your people had big heads and I honestly don't care how many titles you guys are winning... You can win one million titles, I don't care.

I still stand by my word... So far all of those Northern Nigerian tribes that I've seen are good looking, both men and women... And last time I checked, beauty was in the eyes of the beholder, so I don't know why you're bothered with me complimenting your Northern brothers and sisters... You should be happy.

I have no issues with you disturbing me, but please, open a thread and mention me there so that we can stop derailing people's threads.

Bendeco02:
Formal (2024) Mister International was also a big head guy.

How come they keep winning it back to back?

Northerners is a not a tribe, there are over 20 tribes in the North. Mention the tribe.

Hope you know the measure for men good look is not just facially but body stature as well?

I will keep disturbing you

I don't care how many titles you guys win, I still stand by my word... And last time I checked, beauty was in the eyes of the beholder and so far, those Northern Nigerian tribes that I've seen are good looking, both men and women... You should be happy that I'm complimenting your Northern brothers and sisters.

And I have no issues with you disturbing me, but please open a thread and mention me there so that we can stop derailing people's threads.

Bendeco02:
Formal (2024) Mister International was also a big head guy.

How come they keep winning it back to back?

Northerners is a not a tribe, there are over 20 tribes in the North. Mention the tribe.

Hope you know the measure for men good look is not just facially but body stature as well?

I will keep disturbing you

Samantha125:
I don't care how many titles you guys win, I still stand by my word... And last time I checked, beauty was in the eyes on the beholder and so far, those Northern Nigerian tribes that I've seen are good looking, both men and women... You should be happy that I'm complimenting your Northern brothers and sisters.

And I have no issues with you disturbing me, but please open a thread and mention me there so that we can stop derailing people's threads.

Okay, Let me just allow you to rest