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Re: 7 Reasons A Husband Might Lose Interest In His Wife by DrAda(f): 6:55am On Sep 24, 2025
LeeSmart:
Nice write up OP, but let me tell you something, nothing is going to make me lose interest in my wife (mommy marvis). Lol i know she's seeing this😍
I see what you did there. Well done.

@Mummy Marvis, please don't read anything into my statement.
Re: 7 Reasons A Husband Might Lose Interest In His Wife by b0rn2fuck(m): 7:05am On Sep 24, 2025
Jennyclay:
Did she put a gun in your head before you married her?? undecided

You men should understand that your wife and children are your full responsibilities. If you are not capable of taking care of your home 100% then allow her find a man that's capable to take care of her.it’s as simple as ABC undecided

Marriage is not for poor and broke men. undecided
that's why we are called Men. We still find a way to make ourselves happy, thank God for football weekend, ps games and bar joints, after all na bills , we go still flirt sometimes with one bottle. We die hard and we won't give up, with deeps and sorry, we still smile and says everything is okay
Re: 7 Reasons A Husband Might Lose Interest In His Wife by Starzdavid247(m): 7:09am On Sep 24, 2025
Zionmdde:
If you can't lose interest in your own life, then nothing like loosing interest inzx
b0rn2fuck post=136901118:
that's why we are called Men. We still find a way to make ourselves happy, thank God for football weekend, ps games and bar joints, after all na bills , we go still flirt sometimes with one bo32ttle. We die hard 3wwand we won't give up, with deeps and sorry, we still smile and says evgeerything is okay
g5 your wife
E3ew2
This is e institution and not a play matter. In this generation we now trivialize the seriousness of marriage and this one is here writing 7 reasons husbands lose interest, you can imagine

You enter university, through rain and storm u reamain there till youth finish but once its marriage you start hearing childish things
Re: 7 Reasons A Husband Might Lose Interest In His Wife by Pasako(m): 7:11am On Sep 24, 2025
givedemwotowoto:
#1 up there should be disrespect. Most men can take a lot of things but that one.
You are right sir
Re: 7 Reasons A Husband Might Lose Interest In His Wife by Gotocourt: 7:16am On Sep 24, 2025
Just say bad behavior in christian marriages. Watch them become miserable when divorced or being a widow.
Adding another wife messes with their self-esteem
Re: 7 Reasons A Husband Might Lose Interest In His Wife by jamafa: 7:16am On Sep 24, 2025
Sonofgod1990:
The only thing that will make me lose interest in a woman is when I chop her opueh. If you mistakenly give me your opueh and i chop then I no go get your time again
How U go marry with this??
Re: 7 Reasons A Husband Might Lose Interest In His Wife by stormborn28(m): 7:18am On Sep 24, 2025
b0rn2fuck:
Nepal bills, electricity bills, baby foods as finished, Pampers has finished, text books and School fees for the elder one, external pressures from parents ,uncle and he reach some stage, we dont have choice than quit extra martial affairs, too much pressure no dey make penis rise, the life of a man, everyday come with a bills and task and a sudden surprise big bills in a week or two.. I tire ja re...na person wey never get responsibility or dey inside marriage go think say small change wey him dey see, him sabbi save ham
B0rn2fuck you make sense die.
I no know say nacking still dey make you reason well well
Re: 7 Reasons A Husband Might Lose Interest In His Wife by jamafa: 7:19am On Sep 24, 2025
Jennyclay:
Did she put a gun in your head before you married her?? undecided

You men should understand that your wife and children are your full responsibilities. If you are not capable of taking care of your home 100% then allow her find a man that's capable to take care of her.it’s as simple as ABC undecided

Marriage is not for poor and broke men. undecided
If people should follow your advise, how many women go dey men house??
Re: 7 Reasons A Husband Might Lose Interest In His Wife by stormborn28(m): 7:21am On Sep 24, 2025
jamafa:
If people should follow your advise, how many women go dey men house??
You dey mind that one . She no dey reason. She go just open mouth waaaaah
Re: 7 Reasons A Husband Might Lose Interest In His Wife by MVLOX(m): 7:24am On Sep 24, 2025
This truth loud pass Canadian loud
Re: 7 Reasons A Husband Might Lose Interest In His Wife by GenFunction: 7:30am On Sep 24, 2025
ademasta:
Do also for " 7 common reasons a wife might lose interest in her husband "

It's very necessary to educate the men too

Well done
Atleast make the update go round
Re: 7 Reasons A Husband Might Lose Interest In His Wife by ARISHEM: 7:37am On Sep 24, 2025
Woman wahala
Re: 7 Reasons A Husband Might Lose Interest In His Wife by Asaainc(m): 8:07am On Sep 24, 2025
alphonsoolajide:
https://eyesoflagos.com/7-reasons-a-husband-might-lose-interest-in-his-wife/
I think the post title should read more of how couples loss interest not to make it only about husband. Bro what responsible women go through is alot, being a wife, mother and also an employee or boss. She is wearing many caps and still expected to do alot at home. So I think its important for couples do build a relationship together and not one sided. Where a woman is lacking, husband should compliment the wife. Having regular talks etc.
Meanwhile, I am not saying the things mentioned in your post are not true, but if you are trying to make a point and make corrections, its better talk in the positive light.
Re: 7 Reasons A Husband Might Lose Interest In His Wife by Pacyrus(m): 8:13am On Sep 24, 2025
Fiscus105:
Number 4. Constant criticism and nagging, I think that one is most significant among the list, and 90% of women do that, they must nag and criticize hubby on every little issue, and it seems they don't know how nagging irritate men.
If wife can take note of this and change for good, Its not every you nag or criticize your husband, 30% of marriages that failed will succeed.
I'm a victim of circumstance.


My so-called Bini wife can nag for a living.

Whenever she loses her mind she eventually begins to scream, all in the name of nagging.



She go expose you, tell the whole world ah never buy motor, house, etc.
Narrating my family private life to the public.

She occasionally even fights with me right in the presence of our children.


I feel like giving up now. angry angry
Re: 7 Reasons A Husband Might Lose Interest In His Wife by Fiscus105(m): 8:29am On Sep 24, 2025
Pacyrus:
I'm a victim of circumstance.


My so-called Bini wife can nag for a living.

Whenever she loses her mind she eventually begins to scream, all in the name of nagging.



She go expose you, tell the whole world ah never buy motor, house, etc.
Narrating my family private life to the public.

She occasionally even fights with me right in the presence of our children.


I feel like giving up now. angry angry
Telling your life issues to the public is becoming abnormal and it's dangerous, not only for your marriage,but also for your own life, I think you need to report her to either your family or her family, the person you know she has high regards for.
Re: 7 Reasons A Husband Might Lose Interest In His Wife by kpankpangolo: 8:30am On Sep 24, 2025
Beyoncé got cheated on. Nino B got divorced. Mofe Duncan got divorced. Fine face dey expire.
Re: 7 Reasons A Husband Might Lose Interest In His Wife by yemmit90: 8:37am On Sep 24, 2025
Jennyclay:
Did she put a gun in your head before you married her?? undecided

You men should understand that your wife and children are your full responsibilities. If you are not capable of taking care of your home 100% then allow her find a man that's capable to take care of her.it’s as simple as ABC undecided

Marriage is not for poor and broke men. undecided
Who tell you a man cannot marry as rich and become broke in marriage due to the piling up responsibilities he highlighted up there. You can't know a rich man until he has alot of responsibilities like an average man in Nigeria and still stayed rich.
Re: 7 Reasons A Husband Might Lose Interest In His Wife by daben1(m): 8:38am On Sep 24, 2025
Pacyrus:
I'm a victim of circumstance.


My so-called Bini wife can nag for a living.

Whenever she loses her mind she eventually begins to scream, all in the name of nagging.



She go expose you, tell the whole world ah never buy motor, house, etc.
Narrating my family private life to the public.

She occasionally even fights with me right in the presence of our children.


I feel like giving up now. angry angry
and you're still married to her? Omo, una dey try dey take some shît o
Re: 7 Reasons A Husband Might Lose Interest In His Wife by pharmagba: 8:50am On Sep 24, 2025
pharmagba:
I disagree with the first 6.
Nagging and appreciation is still for the boyfriend and girlfriend level
The no 7 seems to be the closest
A woman who faisl to develop herself will likely lose her husband. Develop herself has to be in education, character,dressing and communication. It doesn't have to be formal education she just have to be improving.eg IT savvy
The number 2 reason is wife should never take their husband as equal. Wife can be richer,they may be times wife can get angry and reprimand their husband but let him see that you respect him in action and in words
Re: 7 Reasons A Husband Might Lose Interest In His Wife by Segzy19: 8:57am On Sep 24, 2025
Where is constant disrespect in your list?

Respect and submission are lovely languages to most men... Take those two out, especially respect, then the man starts losing interest.

Respect is key...
Re: 7 Reasons A Husband Might Lose Interest In His Wife by emmaodet: 9:36am On Sep 24, 2025
mysticwarrior:
when you are on leave from work, tell her that you have lost your job then come back here to tell us your experience after two months.
cheesy grin
Someone says his wife is here reading his comments and you expect him not to respect himself
Re: 7 Reasons A Husband Might Lose Interest In His Wife by jaxxy(m): 9:45am On Sep 24, 2025
Good points if only those women will take it and practice it. undecided
Re: 7 Reasons A Husband Might Lose Interest In His Wife by Advancedman(m): 10:07am On Sep 24, 2025
Lack of cogent and reasonable communication is the highest reason and most women are light quenchers instead of ember blower
Re: 7 Reasons A Husband Might Lose Interest In His Wife by Jman06(m): 10:16am On Sep 24, 2025
Most times men are forced by circumstances to marry who they don't love. In that case, losing interest in her becomes inevitable. If I marry my kind of lady, I would never lose interest in her.
Re: 7 Reasons A Husband Might Lose Interest In His Wife by Bukola94(m): 10:20am On Sep 24, 2025
Dirtiness
Re: 7 Reasons A Husband Might Lose Interest In His Wife by ademasta(m): 10:38am On Sep 24, 2025
GenFunction:
Atleast make the update go round
I swear
Re: 7 Reasons A Husband Might Lose Interest In His Wife by ademasta(m): 10:38am On Sep 24, 2025
mycar:
I believe they are almost the same thing, except financial setback. things like lies, laziness and dirtiness apply to both.
You are very correct
Re: 7 Reasons A Husband Might Lose Interest In His Wife by ademasta(m): 10:38am On Sep 24, 2025
marlow1962:
More like 7 common packing techniques a wife might use when she lose interests in her husband/marriage.

While what is good for the man is also good for the woman, this is Africa where a woman will never be equal with a man. She lost interest, then she should leave the man's house.
Agreed with you 100%
Re: 7 Reasons A Husband Might Lose Interest In His Wife by Jamesclooney: 10:59am On Sep 24, 2025
Sonofgod1990:
The only thing that will make me lose interest in a woman is when I chop her opueh. If you mistakenly give me your opueh and i chop then I no go get your time again
I think this is why some married men cheat. Boredom. They miss the chase.
Re: 7 Reasons A Husband Might Lose Interest In His Wife by Sonofgod1990(m): 1:08pm On Sep 24, 2025
jamafa:
How U go marry with this??
Thank God say my papa build an upstair. Plenty rooms dey. I no go Dey sleep in dsame room with my wife. She go always dey her room. If I wan check her opueh I go visit her room again
Re: 7 Reasons A Husband Might Lose Interest In His Wife by SweetDipBenny(m): 2:35pm On Sep 24, 2025
8. She got fat sad
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