₦airaland Forum

Liliantalks:
Good evening, I'm a single young lady , i have suitors coming my way, i don't smoke but the three guys that I like smokes, I don't know to accept them or not, I'm tired of being single, what should I do?

I don't smoke. But you don't like me?
I don't know how to help, as it stands.

Snow2six:
What’s wrong been a smoker? What has smoking got to do with love?

Let a smoker love a smoker. It's that simple

TonyBankz:
So far so good, the only reason comment I have seen and read so far in nairaland...thank you.

How is his claim of being married to a smoker reasonable?

Liliantalks:
Good evening, I'm a single young lady , i have suitors coming my way, i don't smoke but the three guys that I like smokes, I don't know to accept them or not, I'm tired of being single, what should I do?

Go ask your father or family for husband like it was done back in the days, if you can’t take the leap like foreign chicks do
They’d be better at networking
I hate the smell of cigarettes, weeed or smoke from exhaust pipes, bush burning etc
Instant headaches
Good luck though

PulaPower:
Smokers are one of the best man you can ever find anywhere as they’re always blunt and straight forward..

Stop lying! 😩😩😩

Smoking has nothing to do with characteristics that qualify the behavior of a human being. It is usually an act most adopt to ease nerves or anxieties, while others do it strictly for pleasure...nothing more🥱🥱🥱.

Kobojunkie:
Stop lying! 😩😩😩

Smoking has nothing to do with characteristics that qualify the behavior of a human being. It is usually an act most adopt to ease nerves or anxieties, while others do it strictly for pleasure...nothing more🥱🥱🥱.

And what I’m saying is that most smokers have good character..

marlow1962:
✓ You be smoker= problem
You be drinker= problem
You be womanizer= problem
You no be any of the 3= problem
You text her good morning= problem
You no text her good morning= problem
You buy data for her= problem
You no buy data for her= problem
You talk to her= problem
You no talk to her= problem
You refuse manipulation= problem
You no refuse manipulation= problem
You love her back= problem
You no lover her back= problem
You agree see her family= problem
You no gree see her parents= problem

It's so unfortunate

Stop painting your insecurities as all oher the place! As though you are owed a like by every woman you meet. 😩😩😩!

Go after only those women who don't think you are a problem and leave those who do not like you alone. 😩😩😩😩

PulaPower:
✓ And what I’m saying is that most smokers have good character..

That means absolutely nothing here since what OP wants are men who don't smoke.🥱🥱🥱

Learn to respect her red flags!

Luckysbab:
✓ I don't smoke. But you don't like me?
I don't know how to help, as it stands.

She tell you say she dey look for helper?

Kobojunkie:
If you have a no-smoking boundary, why would you think to consider smokers then? Do the many bad/toxic relationships that surround you there in Nigeria not give you all the motivation you need to do better— never settle for less— for your own self or what?

2. Why do you, in the year 2025, think it makes sense to treat your single life as some placeholder for relationships/marriage? Why not invest your time and effort in discovering who you are, learning to love yourself — self-care and self-love —, working on your career and finances to be sure that you do not ever have to depend on anyone else in that area, etc., before considering finding someone else to love?

Why are Nigerian girls, in this information age we now live in, still in some sort of rush to find boys when they have a lot of growing up to do?

Never settle for less when in actual sense you guys that say this are actually the less is very amusing hearing this.

Liliantalks:
Good evening, I'm a single young lady , i have suitors coming my way, i don't smoke but the three guys that I like smokes, I don't know to accept them or not, I'm tired of being single, what should I do?

If you don't want to be single forever, join them. Dem go stop las las.

Everybody get last bus stop, including the driver(you).

Elect1neAtegun:
✓ f you don't want to be single forever, join them. Dem go stop las las.
@✓ Everybody get last bus stop, including the driver(you).

what is so wrong with being single forever that you are afraid of and think of as the worst thing that could happen to you?

2. Everybody get last bus stop doesn't imply everybody dates or marries. For centuries nuns and monks have successfully lived and died celibate, lives more fulfilling than that of majority of the dating and married men out there. So what are you so afraid of in your own life that you need to try to manipulate the OP insto lowering her standards for?

Kobojunkie:
She tell you say she dey look for helper?

That's what I infer. She's looking for who to help with her love life. You're welcome dear