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See, let's forget about the 101 criteria we use to hunt for spec. Oga forget about stressing yourself about her being this, being that, being smart, educated, beautiful, God fearing, humble, nice, generous, respectful, and sexy.
Oga the only most important criteria you need first in this century before thinking of other factor is to find out if she consistently dresses well.
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Yes I mean it, that's the only thing you need if at all you still have to consider other factors. And what I mean by dressing well is being intentional about covering all her sensitive body parts, and being very choosy to pick clothes that will do just that.
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This may sound shallow or being too simplistic, but I tell you the truth, the way a woman dresses in public speaks so much in fact it's a louder judge of her inner mind, better judge of her sexual values and self esteem.
Now a days, have you not noticed it's such a whole luxury to find a lady who has a value for covering her body consistently? Even in church they still strive to dressing seductively. For what?

Out of the heart the mouth speak, out of the heart flows what you see a woman cover her body with.
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See how Westerners dress.... And it's exactly enough to tell you why their marriage won't last and why they don't value their body or sex....
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It's just a discovery. Today our women have almost copied everything about the fashion dress and taste of the Westerners, now olosho is everywhere, now, people don't respect marriage vows just like Westerners.
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Oga forget about other factors, first look at her sense of dressing. In fact that's the first most important thing to judge a woman without saying hi or talking to her. DOES she always cover?
Forget about the ones that will tell u u can't judge a book by its cover or dressing, tell me why oyinbo wey dey expose theirself dey quick divorce and cheat on their partner even in relationship. And tell me why marriage last and had more value in those era when Europe use to dress prim and proper. Their shift in dressing is also a reflection of a mind shifted towards Libertinous values
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Her intention to cover her body and herself respectfully is the first thing you need to know a lot about her mindset, feminine values and self esteem.
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I mean, if a woman have big yansh, how intentional does she dress to cover it? Does she get so zealous and self conscious about exposing it and making it centre of attraction and attention?
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If a woman have big boobs, does she always dress to show her cleavage.
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If a woman has long legs... Does she always dress to show her laps and expose her thigh.
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I mean, I'm tired of seeing women flaunt their bodies to our eyes. I'm tired, their should be treated with value, it should be sacred not common being tossed to the gaze of every pervert.
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A woman who understand this principle and strive to cover her body is different and a gem in our present world.
And I'm not talking about Muslims that are forced to dress that way... Because when many of them leave islam the first thing they do is start exposing their body.
Talk about Muslims who truly imbibe that value... and are sincere about their feminie value of body covering, they are also good women

Dey play. Those when don over use bleaching cream,dey cover head to toes.. Some go come use something like ijab cover face join..

Dressing can be deceptive,e get one secret when I no fit disclose.. make e no cast..

Date them for a while and test them round. Who pass the test ,still get you for mind pass who dey wear tapolin like you pointed out..

You wan use dressing choose wife? Abrosky no go that route o..

Myrepublic:
Dey play. Those when don over use bleaching cream,dey cover head to toes.. Some go come use something like ijab cover face join..

Dressing can be deceptive,e get one secret when I no fit disclose.. make e no cast..

Date them for a while and test them round. Who pass the test ,still get you for mind pass who dey wear tapolin like you pointed out..

You wan use dressing choose wife? Abrosky no go that route o..

How you dress in public is my first criteria to determine if I will even approach or have anything to do with u. Make she Pass the test first... Then other test will follow.
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U never tire to dey see both fine and ugly gals make exposing their body the most important thing in life?

NiRfreak:
How you dress in public is my first criteria to determine if I will even approach or have anything to do with u. Make she Pass the test first... Then other test will follow.
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U never tire to dey see both fine and ugly gals make exposing their body the most important thing in life?

I agree with you.

And you are right.

The lady that I got married too had big ass back then but she went the extra mile to cover herself

She still covers herself till date.

Here's is the thing...

If you are married and your wife is dressed skimpy....

Who is she dressing for?

Some married men think is been fashionable but these things sends the wrong message. If the right guy approaches her. She go succumb.

Funny thing is that married women these days are even easier....

Disclaimer....

I had to vet my wife over and over again

Because men nor dey let women with big bum bum rest.

Bro, sex only happens when the woman wants it to.

If you are blessed with a godly woman, you are blessed o.

Anyway, these days to see watch old school women Na by connection.

Come to think about it, Na connection these days.

Don't thank me...

I don't accept such

I can also say, one ear ring on each earlobe is enough and no nose ring if it is not your culture or religion.

AffiliateGuruNG:
I agree with you.

And you are right.

The lady that I got married too had big ass back then but she went the extra mile to cover herself

She still covers herself till date.

Here's is the thing...

If you are married and your wife is dressed skimpy....

Who is she dressing for?

Some married men think is been fashionable but these things sends the wrong message. If the right guy approaches her. She go succumb.

Funny thing is that married women these days are even easier....

Disclaimer....

I had to vet my wife over and over again

Because men nor dey let women with big bum bum rest.

Bro, sex only happens when the woman wants it to.

If you are blessed with a godly woman, you are blessed o.

Anyway, these days to see watch old school women Na by connection.

Come to think about it, Na connection these days.

Don't thank me...

I don't accept such

Brooo.
E be like say one person just understoodd my perspective.
Just imagine married women these days, competing with desperate singles on who exposes their body the most. It's always sad to watch. Like who is their husband?
A married woman going out exposing her body in any guise is a shame to her children and her husband
And that habit usually start while still single, and if the man is not firm while he's married to her, that wrong attitude will continue

The OP isn't far from the truth!

How a woman dresses in public tells a lot about her character.

Is she decent? Does she have any iota of shame in her? Does she see herself as a commodity that needs to be exhibited?

That right there is where I'll forever respect my wife. Hanty has never for once worn any outfit that will show her cleavage or expose any sensitive part of her body.

Although some wires dey touch for her head, but when it comes to decency, I can vouch for her.

NiRfreak:
How you dress in public is my first criteria to determine if I will even approach or have anything to do with u. Make she Pass the test first... Then other test will follow.
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U never tire to dey see both fine and ugly gals make exposing their body the most important thing in life?

Yes,but for me that alone won't do it.

Of course if she exposes the vital parts,it means she is for the street. And if under her feet is dark (dirty) ,it means to me that she is bad with hygiene

I put a lot of things in consideration actually,and not dressing alone.

NiRfreak:
See, let's forget about the 101 criteria we use to hunt for spec. Oga forget about stressing yourself about her being this, being that, being smart, educated, beautiful, God fearing, humble, nice, generous, respectful, and sexy.
Oga the only most important criteria you need first in this century before thinking of other factor is to find out if she consistently dresses well.
.
Yes I mean it, that's the only thing you need if at all you still have to consider other factors. And what I mean by dressing well is being intentional about covering all her sensitive body parts, and being very choosy to pick clothes that will do just that.
..
This may sound shallow or being too simplistic, but I tell you the truth, the way a woman dresses in public speaks so much in fact it's a louder judge of her inner mind, better judge of her sexual values and self esteem.
Now a days, have you not noticed it's such a whole luxury to find a lady who has a value for covering her body consistently? Even in church they still strive to dressing seductively. For what?

Out of the heart the mouth speak, out of the heart flows what you see a woman cover her body with.
..
See how Westerners dress.... And it's exactly enough to tell you why their marriage won't last and why they don't value their body or sex....
.
It's just a discovery. Today our women have almost copied everything about the fashion dress and taste of the Westerners, now olosho is everywhere, now, people don't respect marriage vows just like Westerners.
..
Oga forget about other factors, first look at her sense of dressing. In fact that's the first most important thing to judge a woman without saying hi or talking to her. DOES she always cover?
Forget about the ones that will tell u u can't judge a book by its cover or dressing, tell me why oyinbo wey dey expose theirself dey quick divorce and cheat on their partner even in relationship. And tell me why marriage last and had more value in those era when Europe use to dress prim and proper. Their shift in dressing is also a reflection of a mind shifted towards Libertinous values
.
Her intention to cover her body and herself respectfully is the first thing you need to know a lot about her mindset, feminine values and self esteem.
.

Indeed you are shallow minded, or you just want to attract attentions.

Your wife dress well but not submissive.

Your wife dress well, yet can fornicate for African, or you think by dressing well, deter girl not to fornicate? Go and study northerner ladies for that.

Your wife dress well, but not support your goals in life.

Dressing well is good, but not the only factor.

Fiscus105:
Indeed you are shallow minded, or you just want to attract attentions.

You wife dress well but not submissive.

Your wife dress well, yet can fornicate for African, or you think by dressing well, deter girl not to fornicate? Go and study northerner ladies for that.

Your wife dress well, but not support your goals in life.

Dressing well is good, but not the only factor.

I dint actually say it's the only factor if you read the post, though the caption might seem so.
Maybe I should change the caption from: The Only Single Criterion You Now Need To Pick A Girl For Marriage
To : The most important criterion to consider when selecting a girl for marriage in 2025

Bro I go need that secret. Let's stop hiding updates, men really need help in this aspect. Do I dm you or you quote me in a dead thread ?

Myrepublic:
Dey play. Those when don over use bleaching cream,dey cover head to toes.. Some go come use something like ijab cover face join..

Dressing can be deceptive,e get one secret when I no fit disclose.. make e no cast..

Date them for a while and test them round. Who pass the test ,still get you for mind pass who dey wear tapolin like you pointed out..

You wan use dressing choose wife? Abrosky no go that route o..

NiRfreak:
I dint actually say it's the only factor if you read the post, though the caption might seem so.
Maybe I should change the caption from: The Only Single Criterion You Now Need To Pick A Girl For Marriage
To : The most important criterion to consider when selecting a girl for marriage in 2025

The most important is submissive, whe she submissive, she will dress the way you want.

Fiscus105:
The most important is submissive, whe she submissive, she will dress the way you want.

It's not easy to know a woman that is submissive..... Checking how she dresses is way too easy cos she can't hide it..... Anybody can pretend to be submissive......

How to get a better girl for marriage...

I'm not going to explain why but just follow it through
1) Find out if she is closer to her father than her mother or Make she get breast, even moderate. Girls with oranges dey heart for back
2) Approach her first but make sure she loves you first
3) She is not too religious. Going to church is different.
4) She has never at a point worked or own a bar.
5) Finally and most importantly, if your relationship start going to 'so if I don't call you, you will not call me abi'. Start looking for another one.

NiRfreak:
It's not easy to know a woman that is submissive..... Checking how she dresses is way too easy cos she can't hide it..... Anybody can pretend to be submissive......

Especially when she’s young and body is still attractive..

Remijuice:
How to get a better girl for marriage...

I'm not going to explain why but just follow it through
1) Find out if she is closer to her father than her mother or Make she get breast, even moderate. Girls with oranges dey heart for back
2) Approach her first but make sure she loves you first
3) She is not too religious. Going to church is different.
4) She has never at a point worked or own a bar.
5) Finally and most importantly, if your relationship start going to 'so if I don't call you, you will not call me abi'. Start looking for another one.

All these point is good, But I'm not interested in them until she first passes the dressing test. The dressing test is my first most important test. If she passes my Almighty WAEC test, then we can go to JAMB test, and then proceed to POST-UTME test...
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One step at a time.... person no pass WAEC, u one give am JAMB test?

NiRfreak:
It's not easy to know a woman that is submissive..... Checking how she dresses is way too easy cos she can't hide it..... Anybody can pretend to be submissive......

All will be well in the end.

The kind of lady a man marries determines how responsible or how fuuulish the man is.