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How Long Should Couples Wait To Have Sex After Childbirth? - Family (2) - Nairaland

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Re: How Long Should Couples Wait To Have Sex After Childbirth? by Denalarian: 12:10pm On Sep 30, 2025
Some women suffer postpartum trauma either psychologically or emotionally.. women dey suffer sometimes shaa
Re: How Long Should Couples Wait To Have Sex After Childbirth? by rapheal5(m): 12:11pm On Sep 30, 2025
IMPARTIAL:
You wey dey complain, check out your grammar and punctuation!
We need people like you at the top to take nigeria economy and insecurity serious.
Your seriousness won't let you see that I did copy and paste of NL rules to book a space in absence of something tangible to comment.
Re: How Long Should Couples Wait To Have Sex After Childbirth? by MartinCorridon: 12:12pm On Sep 30, 2025
As soon as she heals and wants it.

In the meantime, go build poultry.....



































For your side chicks grin grin grin
Re: How Long Should Couples Wait To Have Sex After Childbirth? by Elliotwaveforec: 12:30pm On Sep 30, 2025
A nation with sex obsession hardly progresses!
Re: How Long Should Couples Wait To Have Sex After Childbirth? by olaztek(m): 12:32pm On Sep 30, 2025
If you're desperate to cum,ask your wife to give you handjob/Mouth Gig.
Re: How Long Should Couples Wait To Have Sex After Childbirth? by doncartel: 12:41pm On Sep 30, 2025
As a real man, na until my wife kneel down beg me before I resume. It took 6 months last time.
Re: How Long Should Couples Wait To Have Sex After Childbirth? by 82man: 12:41pm On Sep 30, 2025
3 month
Re: How Long Should Couples Wait To Have Sex After Childbirth? by cyberbro: 12:43pm On Sep 30, 2025
3 months is adequate.

-First month is required for basic healing down there and internally.
-Second month is for full recovery.
-Third month for her fitness and mental wellness.

In all of these 3 months, as a man, your focus should be on making sure she feels loved and helping her out as much as you can. The rest will happen naturally.
Re: How Long Should Couples Wait To Have Sex After Childbirth? by femmycharles(m): 12:59pm On Sep 30, 2025
What about the woman put to bed via CS?
Re: How Long Should Couples Wait To Have Sex After Childbirth? by Exceed15: 1:02pm On Sep 30, 2025
I will wait till when she's totally healed.. but omo I go help myself too o
Re: How Long Should Couples Wait To Have Sex After Childbirth? by 2cribz: 1:09pm On Sep 30, 2025
Arrhhh
Nal
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Dia
Re: How Long Should Couples Wait To Have Sex After Childbirth? by RedpillAnalyst: 1:12pm On Sep 30, 2025
Polygamy solves this waiting game nonsense haja
Re: How Long Should Couples Wait To Have Sex After Childbirth? by Lanre1st(m): 1:27pm On Sep 30, 2025
brain54:
I'm not sure I will go anywhere near there for a long time... undecided

Place where full human being pass come outside. shocked shocked

Especially, if she was operated on for the baby to pass through! lipsrsealed
It's obvious you never marry
Re: How Long Should Couples Wait To Have Sex After Childbirth? by Cajal(m): 1:41pm On Sep 30, 2025
NowisGod109:
Some men no get chill at all. My first baby, I had tear and sewn and my husband managed for 1 month before sex and still open the place dem patch grin grin grin grin

I don suffer no be small, can't wait to japa and be free shocked shocked
Free from your husband or Nigeria
Which one?
Re: How Long Should Couples Wait To Have Sex After Childbirth? by tenpipsperday: 1:42pm On Sep 30, 2025
Twenty four hours
Re: How Long Should Couples Wait To Have Sex After Childbirth? by Sneaktee2: 1:42pm On Sep 30, 2025
In Islam, resuming vaginal intercourse is prohibited for a maximum of 40 days after childbirth, although intercourse is allowed before this time as long as there is no blood discharge.
Re: How Long Should Couples Wait To Have Sex After Childbirth? by IMPARTIAL: 1:45pm On Sep 30, 2025
I don't know why a small question that calls for responses that will benefit everyone is now trivialized!
Re: How Long Should Couples Wait To Have Sex After Childbirth? by lightwind(m): 1:47pm On Sep 30, 2025
Me i no go touch or get close to her till she asks and begs me to.
Re: How Long Should Couples Wait To Have Sex After Childbirth? by DixseenMktPlace(m): 2:05pm On Sep 30, 2025
Whois:
Depends on her. But the sex won't be enjoyable anyways cus noting like sucking breast since she's breastfeeding
Gbam
Re: How Long Should Couples Wait To Have Sex After Childbirth? by Gotocourt: 2:11pm On Sep 30, 2025
NowisGod109:
Some men no get chill at all. My first baby, I had tear and sewn and my husband managed for 1 month before sex and still open the place dem patch grin grin grin grin

I don suffer no be small, can't wait to japa and be free shocked shocked
Don't run with his money and children undecided
Re: How Long Should Couples Wait To Have Sex After Childbirth? by KefeeBRIGHT91(m):
Aify147:
As for me, 2 weeks is enough. Once I wait for 2 weeks, I resume activities, na me getam
…omo i used to think like that too until I witnessed what it feels like to take care of a new born. It’s consuming. Just wait for her oga. Even conscience go humble you when you see her weary and teary. Sha just dey assist in any way you can cos she need am
Re: How Long Should Couples Wait To Have Sex After Childbirth? by Gotocourt: 2:17pm On Sep 30, 2025
KefeeBRIGHT91:
…omo i used to think like that too until I witnessed what i feels like to take care of a new born. It’s consuming. Just wait for her oga. Even conscience go humble you when you see her weary and teary. Sha just dey assist in any way you can cos she need am
When fight start, woman no dey reason anything 🤷🏿. She's meant for that, hit it and cum like a Boss cool
Re: How Long Should Couples Wait To Have Sex After Childbirth? by IamMobisola(f): 2:19pm On Sep 30, 2025
oche2020:
Nigerians and sex, anything sex haba why not look for innovations to engage the minds in. This says alot about where we are now as a country
Lmao. The only thing they have as an achievement or bragging rights is how many wives and side chicks they have all to themselves.
Sex sex sex, that is their own innovation and contribution to the world.

The major reason Africa will always be backwards
Re: How Long Should Couples Wait To Have Sex After Childbirth? by Jozilinn: 2:23pm On Sep 30, 2025
Some men who feel childbirth is a normal thing in women wouldn't like this post,thank you op for bringing this informative post out... A lot of things happen during childbirth and before childbirth,it care is not taken the women might loose her life or even her baby even both in some cases... I have seen even heard of men wanting sex in a week after the woman gives birth, claiming it's what they paid for, endangering both the woman and her womb.

There's a neighbour who left his wife at home because she refused and she just gave birth, saying na him her house and no be today she don born two children before now and that's how he does his thing.

I know there are women who purposely use this to deny their husband sex,but in the hospital nurses would tell you if you use vagina then a period of three weeks to a month is Fyn depending on the woman's health.
Re: How Long Should Couples Wait To Have Sex After Childbirth? by Jozilinn: 2:25pm On Sep 30, 2025
tenpipsperday:
Twenty four hours
hmm I hope you're joking oh because make I close mouth.
Re: How Long Should Couples Wait To Have Sex After Childbirth? by ogbenimax007: 2:27pm On Sep 30, 2025
Whois:
Depends on her. But the sex won't be enjoyable anyways cus noting like sucking breast since she's breastfeeding
says who......... Sucking the milk from the direct source is very good for your health as a man.... I TRUST MYSELF....
Re: How Long Should Couples Wait To Have Sex After Childbirth? by NowisGod109(f): 2:28pm On Sep 30, 2025
Cajal:
Free from your husband or Nigeria
Which one?
Go where we will be seeing once in a year or 6-month o grin grin
Re: How Long Should Couples Wait To Have Sex After Childbirth? by openmyway: 2:45pm On Sep 30, 2025
Melonsmasher:
Real men will wait for their woman to make the first move
exactly what I was waiting to hear.
Re: How Long Should Couples Wait To Have Sex After Childbirth? by Bahamas95(m): 3:04pm On Sep 30, 2025
This is the period men should be very careful to avoid inviting trouble into your home.


Karashikas will be hovering around you because they know konji would soon hold you.
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