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Just said I should inform you guy on daily basics that this is the new pattern the women use now day when time is no longer on their side, so beware

You guy seriously need to buck up or become surplus to requirements!

I don’t think it’s a bad idea if both teams signs an MOU before a legal practitioner or a very strong deity before the match begins to avoid fielding an ineligible player during and after the match.

Omo is it my eyes or nairaland buttons has improved

Instead of marrying the guy and then join hands with him to start a business and make money, she's there talking about getting pregnant out of wedlock..

budaatum:
You guy seriously need to buck up or become surplus to requirements!

Holy batman!!! So you is a woman!

Justiceleague1:
Holy batman!!! So you is a woman!

Is I?

She neeeds a child
The guy is not financially strong

Now
If the guy wants to help by providing the child
She should b ready to help the guy financially

Deal sealed. Else, she's a fraud

Make sure he has something doing and he is not lazy. A small salary is better than none, a handiwork is better than begging and depending on anyone. Give him a chance like two to three years, if he is hardworking, is story may change for good

Omo na this kind girl I dey fin now, I go even support her financially,

Maybe she's ready to not see me again

I did this and I regret it till this day

A girl in Europe I had one night stand with
She got pregnant and didn't tell me until i left Europe before COVID 2020
This wereh born my pikin and lock up
Until the baby turn 4 yrs

The worst part it is a baby girl and she looks like a mixed version of me very well.

Since we are apart, the highest I have done is zoom call with them.
And after each call, I start drinking to remove the sorrow. The sorrow of having a child that you won't be able to properly father.

Looking at her I just feel overwhelmed with regret. It tormented me for months to know I have a daughter I might never see physically again. Her mother vowed to never visit Nigeria due to bad news she hears about Nigeria

So my brother please don't do it
If you want to do it
Make sure she will not carry the child and run.
Make sure you are present in the baby life
Or else
You will regret it very well just like I did

Edit:

I have been receiving backlash for not going to Europe to see them. Funds bro , funds
And I'm in Nigeria where simple things like visa processing are made difficult

When we had those video calls she was a single mother. Now she married again and the man is playing stepdad to my girl.

The pain is seeing my daughter a cabon copy of me living her best life without me.

It's been 3 years since we had video call.
She has moved on with her new man.

So it's not easy to go back and

Natbrowny:
She neeeds a child
The guy is not financially strong

Now
If the guy wants to help by providing the child
She should b ready to help the guy financially

Deal sealed. Else, she's a fraud

So, basically, she should just buy him and own him? After all, he must be doing something apart from donating sperm, right?

Except, help the guy small now and he'd start to form the boss, yet I should serve him while his brat is bitting my tïts.

Yuk!

I don't really think this story is true, to get pregnant out of wedlock, women would rather find someone who is financially buoyant but that does not like them for marriage

Anytime you see a women getting pregnant for a broke man, it's always by mistake even if they are married to the broke make.

koladata:
I don't really think this story is true, to get pregnant out of wedlock, women would rather find someone who is financially buoyant but that does not like them for marriage

Anytime you see a women getting pregnant for a broke man, it's always by mistake even if they are married to the broke make.

That's not true. There are desperate people everywhere especially women. Don't you see the growing number of single mothers out there.?

To a woman that earn 40k monthly , a man that earn 60k is not broke. But to you and I, 60k a month might be broke.

Predictor3:
That's not true. There are desperate people everywhere especially women. Don't you see the growing number of single mothers out there.?

I'm available,if she someone

koladata:
To a woman that earn 40k monthly , a man that earn 60k is not broke. But to you and I, 60k a month might be broke.

True sha

A married guy I know in my former estate, assisted an old lady to father a child. Though the guy (married) was her boyfriend for many years and the lady was already 41 at the time, had no suitor and the man can't marry 2 wives, the only option available to her was to beg the guy to help her father a child and she promised not to bother the man about parenting.

RollinTNDA:
I did this and I regret it till this day

A girl in Europe I had one night stand with
She got pregnant and didn't tell me until i left Europe before COVID 2020
This wereh born my pikin and lock up
Until the baby turn 4 yrs

The worst part it is a baby girl and she looks like a mixed version of me very well.

Since we are apart, the highest I have done is zoom call with them.
And after each call, I start drinking to remove the sorrow. The sorrow of having a child that you won't be able to properly father.

Looking at her I just feel overwhelmed with regret. It tormented me for months to know I have a daughter I might never see physically again. Her mother vowed to never visit Nigeria due to bad news she hears about Nigeria

So my brother please don't do it
If you want to do it
Make sure she will not carry the child and run.
Make sure you are present in the baby life
Or else
You will regret it very well just like I did

If you can’t go to Europe to see your daughter,
can't you guys arrange to meet elsewhere like China or Dubai even South Africa.
Maybe the child is not as important to you as you cla*med

How is that a trick?

Pupanchie:
Just said I should inform you guy on daily basics that this is the new pattern the women use now day when time is no longer on their side, so beware

Omo e never too Tay way one 41 year old woman, bring this idea of giving her a child, I was like fully in for it , the rate of single ladies now for Naija is something else bro 😔, I I've not even told my brothers about it.

You're obviously not serious about being present in the child's life, what's stopping you from going back to Europe and co-parent the child from there?

I know one lady who's living in Germany due to co-parenting, but you're here drinking alcohol for something that could easily be resolved.

RollinTNDA:
I did this and I regret it till this day

A girl in Europe I had one night stand with
She got pregnant and didn't tell me until i left Europe before COVID 2020
This wereh born my pikin and lock up
Until the baby turn 4 yrs

The worst part it is a baby girl and she looks like a mixed version of me very well.

Since we are apart, the highest I have done is zoom call with them.
And after each call, I start drinking to remove the sorrow. The sorrow of having a child that you won't be able to properly father.

Looking at her I just feel overwhelmed with regret. It tormented me for months to know I have a daughter I might never see physically again. Her mother vowed to never visit Nigeria due to bad news she hears about Nigeria

So my brother please don't do it
If you want to do it
Make sure she will not carry the child and run.
Make sure you are present in the baby life
Or else
You will regret it very well just like I did

What is the trick?


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Marriage is just a scam, married men are really seeing shege with people they call life partners.

Just imagine what this one is saying up there, when you thought you have seen so much horror in relationships and marriages, one new one just pops up.

Pupanchie:
Just said I should inform you guy on daily basics that this is the new pattern the women use now day when time is no longer on their side, so beware

the message you shared is just what one said she desires.

how is it now "the new pattern the women use now day when time is no longer on their side"?

LoneSoldier:
Marriage is just a scam, married men are really seeing shege with people they call life partners.

was marriage a scam to you?

Don't use alternate accounts to access

All the native fowls you don impregnate for here, your mind never bother you. My friend, carry your cross.

RollinTNDA:
I did this and I regret it till this day

A girl in Europe I had one night stand with
She got pregnant and didn't tell me until i left Europe before COVID 2020
This wereh born my pikin and lock up
Until the baby turn 4 yrs

The worst part it is a baby girl and she looks like a mixed version of me very well.

Since we are apart, the highest I have done is zoom call with them.
And after each call, I start drinking to remove the sorrow. The sorrow of having a child that you won't be able to properly father.

Looking at her I just feel overwhelmed with regret. It tormented me for months to know I have a daughter I might never see physically again. Her mother vowed to never visit Nigeria due to bad news she hears about Nigeria

So my brother please don't do it
If you want to do it
Make sure she will not carry the child and run.
Make sure you are present in the baby life
Or else
You will regret it very well just like I did

uchman:
If you can’t go to Europe to see your daughter,
can't you guys arrange to meet elsewhere like China or Dubai even South Africa.
Maybe the child is not as important to you as you cla*med

you certainly do not comprehend the situation enough. It's a question of if the mother is willing to let him meet his daughter.

floss:
I don’t think it’s a bad idea if both teams signs an MOU before a legal practitioner or a very strong deity before the match begins to avoid fielding an ineligible player during and after the match.

Any MOU that doesn't benefits or serves the interest of the baby is nul and void. Lawyers in the house can tell you more.

Finally, somebody with common sense. I believe this forum is full of children who always took last position in school.

koladata:
I don't really think this story is true, to get pregnant out of wedlock, women would rather find someone who is financially buoyant but that does not like them for marriage

Anytime you see a women getting pregnant for a broke man, it's always by mistake even if they are married to the broke make.