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I fell in love with a single mom but she had greater worries as touching our 3yrs age difference and my stability (she's doing better), but I'm not doing that bad either. I earn 6figures monthly.. About her concerns of our age and what society would say, I had allay those fears by letting her know that I don't care and my mom is also supportive of my decisions. She's hot tempered and I'm very calm
We discussed our differences in character and age before agreeing to date. She's never been with a younger guy and she's been through a couple of heart breaks , hence making it difficult to trust me and my motives. She's unsure of me as I'm in my late 20's . But my intentions are true.

The problem we face now is that, she's mostly unforgiving and everytime there's a conflict she avoids talking about it . She's not expressive and shuts down mostly when I get angry or probably complain about some stuffs. We had a misunderstanding and I kinda accused her of being with someone else, she shut down and went ghost. Right now, what she's holding against me is that I wrongly accused her because she let her guard and walls down for me. t's been 6days of her ignoring my calls and texts. I've done everything I could to let her know I was sorry . My last card is to go see her which I know is a dangerous mission.

But honestly I dunno what to do. I feel like letting go at this point. Pls naira landers, what would u have me do in a case like this? I love this woman.

Everrich96:
I fell in love with a single mom but she had greater worries as touching our 3yrs age difference and my stability (she's doing better), but I'm not doing that bad either. I earn 6figures monthly.. About her concerns of our age and what society would say, I had allay those fears by letting her know that I don't care and my mom is also supportive of my decisions. She's hot tempered and I'm very calm
We discussed our differences in character and age before agreeing to date. She's never been with a younger guy and she's been through a couple of heart breaks , hence making it difficult to trust me and my motives. She's unsure of me as I'm in my late 20's . But my intentions are true.

The problem we face now is that, she's mostly unforgiving and everytime there's a conflict she avoids talking about it . She's not expressive and shuts down mostly when I get angry or probably complain about some stuffs. We had a misunderstanding and I kinda accused her of being with someone else, she shut down and went ghost. Right now, what she's holding against me is that I wrongly accused her because she let her guard and walls down for me. t's been 6days of her ignoring my calls and texts. I've done everything I could to let her know I was sorry . My last card is to go see her which I know is a dangerous mission.

But honestly I dunno what to do. I feel like letting go at this point. Pls naira landers, what would u have me do in a case like this? I love this woman.

Person wey you suppose block. Anybody that can go a week without chatting his or her partner is not ready. Just imagine marrying her😳

How can you even have true intentions about a single mom, be like you want to hurt yourself.

Sometimes we men allow the “sweetness” to becloud our judgement and start thinking with our “third leg”

Look for someone younger, you deserve the best.

Everrich96:
I fell in love with a single mom but she had greater worries as touching our 3yrs age difference and my stability (she's doing better), but I'm not doing that bad either. I earn 6figures monthly.. About her concerns of our age and what society would say, I had allay those fears by letting her know that I don't care and my mom is also supportive of my decisions. She's hot tempered and I'm very calm
We discussed our differences in character and age before agreeing to date. She's never been with a younger guy and she's been through a couple of heart breaks , hence making it difficult to trust me and my motives. She's unsure of me as I'm in my late 20's . But my intentions are true.

The problem we face now is that, she's mostly unforgiving and everytime there's a conflict she avoids talking about it . She's not expressive and shuts down mostly when I get angry or probably complain about some stuffs. We had a misunderstanding and I kinda accused her of being with someone else, she shut down and went ghost. Right now, what she's holding against me is that I wrongly accused her because she let her guard and walls down for me. t's been 6days of her ignoring my calls and texts. I've done everything I could to let her know I was sorry . My last card is to go see her which I know is a dangerous mission.

But honestly I dunno what to do. I feel like letting go at this point. Pls naira landers, what would u have me do in a case like this? I love this woman.

bro you didn't learn anything from me? Bro single moms are for single fathers. No go give yourself BP for woman wey no fit ever love you. Why men no dey hear word?

Single mom? The father of the kid dumped her. She's had other relationships and they all dumped her and walked away.
You now, want to carry iron condemn and put on your head and they are still giving you attitude on top. Why are you disgracing the mother who gave birth to you? Why?
Nothing good ever comes from dating a single mother. Nothing.

Stop deceiving yourself, you don't love her you love her money that's why you're ready to ignore all the red flags flashing before you!

You earn six figures monthly and you’re in this kind of situationship? Issokay…

Everrich96:
I fell in love with a single mom but she had greater worries as touching our 3yrs age difference and my stability (she's doing better), but I'm not doing that bad either. I earn 6figures monthly.. About her concerns of our age and what society would say, I had allay those fears by letting her know that I don't care and my mom is also supportive of my decisions. She's hot tempered and I'm very calm
We discussed our differences in character and age before agreeing to date. She's never been with a younger guy and she's been through a couple of heart breaks , hence making it difficult to trust me and my motives. She's unsure of me as I'm in my late 20's . But my intentions are true.

The problem we face now is that, she's mostly unforgiving and everytime there's a conflict she avoids talking about it . She's not expressive and shuts down mostly when I get angry or probably complain about some stuffs. We had a misunderstanding and I kinda accused her of being with someone else, she shut down and went ghost. Right now, what she's holding against me is that I wrongly accused her because she let her guard and walls down for me. t's been 6days of her ignoring my calls and texts. I've done everything I could to let her know I was sorry . My last card is to go see her which I know is a dangerous mission.

But honestly I dunno what to do. I feel like letting go at this point. Pls naira landers, what would u have me do in a case like this? I love this woman.

Na you be Woman. Na she be Man. You just read wetin you type here. E show say na she be the Man and na you be Woman na. You are still calling, texting, probably begging and she is ingoring. And you are still doing it.

The dynamic you have painted, she is the Man and you are the Woman. That is the dynamic. You are the one begging and explaining and convincing her how ''age is just a number''. You dey allow used old model car disturb your life when you get opportunity to work and save to get newer brands.

The value you carry is below hers, and you are replaceable. Easily. She know say you go beg and fret and fear once she lock up. E good to get value o. Haha.

See, ehn, I fit no stop you from cheating o, as a woman. Women among everything you do for them, you can hardly give them MORE every time, and you will never ever be able to give them DIFFERENT. So to me, na your Toto, use am do wetin you wan use am do. But you see direct Disrespect, Disloyalty and Challenge of my Leadership, naaah. And as per the cheating sef once I sense am or know, nothing will change the outcome!

Lol, so what else is there again to do na?

1. Tell her you do not like her attitude whenever you have issues, and mean it. Have a meaningful discussion with her and let her know (that is if fear no go kill you). Next time she does this, walk away from her and give her room. If she moves on, then move on. Una umbilical cord no dey tied together. If she ghosts you, face your life. NOTE: Dont go quarrelling and shouting and fighting with her. Once you tell her you don't like it. Say no more. Learn the power of silence.

2. Do nothing, manage and suffer/wonder/worry in silence.

3. Realize she will/might never respect you and walk away now with Dignity and Self Respect Intact.

You treated her like the prize. You have to risk changing this; or loosing her; or suffer it in silence.

Tenrack:
bro you didn't learn anything from me? Bro single moms are for single fathers. No go give yourself BP for woman wey no fit ever love you. Why men no dey hear word?

Mehnnnn

Dogalmighty17:
Single mom? The father of the kid dumped her. She's had other relationships and they all dumped her and walked away.
You now, want to carry iron condemn and put on your head and they are still giving you attitude on top. Why are you disgracing the mother who gave birth to you? Why?
Nothing good ever comes from dating a single mother. Nothing.

I might have to reconsider my steps. I'm discouraged at this point.