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Hello Nairaland people, please i need your advise, my girfriend has a app lock to all our phone application (including phone setting) and she is not always convenient and okay anytime i pick up her phone. She only disclose the password to unlock the phone and every other apps is locked with a different password not known to me. I'm a type of person that cherish transparency in relationship alot. The action is hitting me up and I'm worried and started to distrust her. What should I do?

Move on.

That's all I have to type and no more character to give

So what do you want us to do about your distrust...?


Okay. Break up with her!

Your replacement is around the corner bruh....

You don't even need to check her phone first before realizing you've be dumped codedly and just waiting for the right time to say it to your face

In the words of Metuselah in 1963, "Either you grow a pair of big ballz and confront her about it (restate your terms of the relationship - transparency - of which if she's not okay to remove all the stuff or let you have access, then stop the relationship) or you just accept her like that - she after is just a girlfriend and has a right to not let you have access to her "stuff".

Either way grow some steel ballz.

Might be saving her noodles there. Mr man do you want to cast her hustle?

Your play here is not to demand codes or app locks.

What you need to do is to sit her down, not accusing, but stating clearly:

“I value openness.

The way your phone is set up with codes and password makes me uneasy.

If this is how you need to keep things, we may be a mismatch.”

Whatever her response determines your next play.


Either way, you need to take stock. What do you want in this relationship because you have lost respect and control.....

adex4real90:
Hello Nairaland people, please i need your advise, my girfriend has a app lock to all our phone application (including phone setting) and she is not always convenient and okay anytime i pick up her phone. She only disclose the password to unlock the phone and every other apps is locked with a different password not known to me. I'm a type of person that cherish transparency in relationship alot. The action is hitting me up and I'm worried and started to distrust her. What should I do?

Bro once a woman start doing like that, it's a clear sign that she has seen someone better than you which is why you need to act fast by dumping her as she's is just for a mistake to take the opportunity as if you hurt her while she leaves not knowing she intentionally leaves, that's the way women do so the ball is in your count, women r selfish and never think of sacrifices you have done for them

Bro maybe she's just a private person , nothing serious pls don't break up with her , marry her if u can , she's your dream come true.

adex4real90:
Hello Nairaland people, please i need your advise, my girfriend has a app lock to all our phone application (including phone setting) and she is not always convenient and okay anytime i pick up her phone. She only disclose the password to unlock the phone and every other apps is locked with a different password not known to me. I'm a type of person that cherish transparency in relationship alot. The action is hitting me up and I'm worried and started to distrust her. What should I do?

Any thing that is fishy is fishy. You're not the only one she's dating that's why she's locking you out.

adex4real90:
Hello Nairaland people, please i need your advise, my girfriend has a app lock to all our phone application (including phone setting) and she is not always convenient and okay anytime i pick up her phone. She only disclose the password to unlock the phone and every other apps is locked with a different password not known to me. I'm a type of person that cherish transparency in relationship alot. The action is hitting me up and I'm worried and started to distrust her. What should I do?

Communicate your issues and concerns with her while realizing that your insecurities are yours and not hers. You are a boyfriend and not a husband to her; there is no obligation that she let you pick up her phone or even have access to anything on it. 😏😏

If she's not with the program then replace her. Why create a topic on such trivial things?

adex4real90:
Hello Nairaland people, please i need your advise, my girfriend has a app lock to all our phone application (including phone setting) and she is not always convenient and okay anytime i pick up her phone. She only disclose the password to unlock the phone and every other apps is locked with a different password not known to me. I'm a type of person that cherish transparency in relationship alot. The action is hitting me up and I'm worried and started to distrust her. What should I do?

The right word is our Girl

She’s into hook up
Any girls who hide her phone or password from anyone their claim they love is into hook up full time .

Especially if she’s using iPhone and from poor background.

move on g

learn to stay away from things that makes you feel uneasy.

trust there are a lot of girls out there willing to go out with you if you ask.

always be talking to girls less you’re married.

Leave her na