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Most married women are in this boat currently.

I did not say divorced women o.

But women who are currently married. And they are considering divorcing their husbands.

Most women think because they are getting attention when married, they will easily replace their husbands.

For some the attention is from their ex. For others it's single men.

They forget that the garden is beautiful to people passing by because they don't know how much dirt they owner has to become to make it that way.

When a man is not paying your bills but getting your attention and sex on a platter, he'll definitely give you every attention.

Wait until you become his responsibility and see if he'll still be the same man.

Wait until he bear that responsibility for 1-5 years and see.

Host78:
➜Most married women are in this boat currently. I did not say divorced women o. But women who are currently married. And they are considering divorcing their husbands. Most women think because they are getting attention when married, they will easily replace their husbands.
For some the attention is from their ex. For others it's single men. They forget that the garden is beautiful to people passing by because they don't know how much dirt they owner has to become to make it that way. When a man is not paying your bills but getting your attention and sex on a platter, he'll definitely give you every attention. Wait until you become his responsibility and see if he'll still be the same man. Wait until he bear that responsibility for 1-5 years and see.

Na these useless stories dem use deceive your great-grandmothers, grandmothers, and mothers into engaging endurance mode in marriage instead of escaping for their lives from toxic/unfulfilling and unhappy marriages to embrace instead peace and contentment of being on their own. This is 2025, stop thinking that spewing the same ridiculous tales from delulu-land. Women are finally realizing that their lives are worth more than toxic, unfulfilling, and/or unhappy marriages.

Kobojunkie:
Na these useless stories dem use deceive your great-grandmothers, grandmothers, and mothers into engaging endurance mode in marriage instead of escaping for their lives from toxic/unfulfilling and unhappy marriages to embrace instead peace and contentment of being on their own. This is 2025, stop thinking that spreading the same ridiculous tales by delulu-light will work on women again.

oya na.

Your face show. Your shoe don shine. Hop to the next thread

Hmmmm.

So you divorce because you dey hope say world people go come dey cater for you and foot your bills Smh.

DanseMacabre:
Hmmmm.

So you divorce because you dey hope say world people go come dey cater for you and foot your bills Smh.

actually this is why most women file for divorce.

They feel they can do better based on the attention they are getting from outside.

And it's sad/funny because once they are out they start going after other married men.

Host78:
➜actually this is why most women file for divorce.
➜ They feel they can do better based on the attention they are getting from outside.
➜ And it's sad/funny because once they are out they start going after other married men.

O ni ro oshi le le yi! Which women out there file for divorce, hoping the world would then come take care of them? Nonsense!🙄🙄🙄🙄

2. I can almost tell from your posts that you are one of the men women need to do everything to avoid. 🙄🙄🙄

3. You don't have to be a genius to know that a Nigerian woman is better off as a side chick than as a wife, given that Nigerian men treat their side chicks like princesses while their wives are treated no better than glorified baby mamas. So, choosing divorce to go out there to date married men instead is technically a promotion, not a demotion, for many of these former wives.

Kobojunkie:
O ni ro oshi le le yi! Which women out there file for divorce, hoping the world would then come take care of them? Nonsense!🙄🙄🙄🙄

2. I can almost tell from your posts that you are one of the men women need to do everything to avoid. 🙄🙄🙄

3. You don't have to be a genius to know that a Nigerian woman is better off as a side chick than as a wife, given that Nigerian men treat their side chicks like princesses while their wives are treated no better than glorified baby mamas. So, choosing divorce to go out there to date married men instead is technically a promotion, not a demotion, for many of these former wives.

alright.

Host78:
alright.

I Neva know whether them use argument swear for that user. Good as you dey dismiss am. Think say na everybody gets time for her shenanigans 😅🤣

Kobojunkie:
Na these useless stories dem use deceive your great-grandmothers, grandmothers, and mothers into engaging endurance mode in marriage instead of escaping for their lives from toxic/unfulfilling and unhappy marriages to embrace instead peace and contentment of being on their own. This is 2025, stop thinking that spewing the same ridiculous tales from delulu-land. Women are finally realizing that their lives are worth more than toxic, unfulfilling, and/or unhappy marriages.

Leave your own too .. and when it's time. For school fees and Oga and spent money on drinks don't come here for advice

Came4amod:
➜Leave your own too .. and when it's time. For school fees and Oga and spent money on drinks don't come here for advice

Are you certain you are doing OK there?

Kobojunkie:
Are you certain you are doing OK there?

But you advised them to leave na madam. Lol 🤣

The grass is not always greener on the other side

Kobojunkie:
O ni ro oshi le le yi! Which women out there file for divorce, hoping the world would then come take care of them? Nonsense!🙄🙄🙄🙄

2. I can almost tell from your posts that you are one of the men women need to do everything to avoid. 🙄🙄🙄

3. You don't have to be a genius to know that a Nigerian woman is better off as a side chick than as a wife, given that Nigerian men treat their side chicks like princesses while their wives are treated no better than glorified baby mamas. So, choosing divorce to go out there to date married men instead is technically a promotion, not a demotion, for many of these former wives.

Kobo, do you have a problem with "making sense" most times? . Cuz I don't just understand you at all..

Kobojunkie:
O ni ro oshi le le yi! Which women out there file for divorce, hoping the world would then come take care of them? Nonsense!🙄🙄🙄🙄

2. I can almost tell from your posts that you are one of the men women need to do everything to avoid. 🙄🙄🙄

3. You don't have to be a genius to know that a Nigerian woman is better off as a side chick than as a wife, given that Nigerian men treat their side chicks like princesses while their wives are treated no better than glorified baby mamas. So, choosing divorce to go out there to date married men instead is technically a promotion, not a demotion, for many of these former wives.

This one na real junkie.

No sense at all

I'm always discouraged from following any thread I see this Kobojunkie guy

She belongs to the street!

Sonnobax15:
Kobo, do you have a problem with "making sense" most times? . Cuz I don't just understand you at all..

People dey ignore am make e for carry e ignorance commot from the thread, una dey mention am. Una dey find e attention abi wetin? Cos that user comments only to sound controversial.. scarcely ever any touch on reality or close to sense

When a man is not paying your bills but getting your attention and sex on a platter, he'll definitely give you every attention.

Wait until you become his responsibility and see if he'll still be the same man.

They don't know. While we won't deny that some men are jackass as as husbands, and some women really do deserve better, but to leave something you "decided to enter when it was all sweet" because you see people wey dey "support" you, it's the height of inability to think for your own self.

Be strategic, if you no longer find value in a union, try to make it work, while also building your own independence, then leave (men or women).

So, for the sake of your kids, marry a woman who is hardworking sha, so that even if the marriage sink, she is still financially self-sufficient without relying on deeek-outs, i mean hand outs.

TheMensch:
I'm always discouraged from following any thread I see this Kobojunkie guy

Lol

Based on your statement, will you remain or allow your sister to become a side chick to a married man for life

Kobojunkie:
O ni ro oshi le le yi! Which women out there file for divorce, hoping the world would then come take care of them? Nonsense!🙄🙄🙄🙄

2. I can almost tell from your posts that you are one of the men women need to do everything to avoid. 🙄🙄🙄

3. You don't have to be a genius to know that a Nigerian woman is better off as a side chick than as a wife, given that Nigerian men treat their side chicks like princesses while their wives are treated no better than glorified baby mamas. So, choosing divorce to go out there to date married men instead is technically a promotion, not a demotion, for many of these former wives.

Kobojunkie:
Na these useless stories dem use deceive your great-grandmothers, grandmothers, and mothers into engaging endurance mode in marriage instead of escaping for their lives from toxic/unfulfilling and unhappy marriages to embrace instead peace and contentment of being on their own. This is 2025, stop thinking that spewing the same ridiculous tales from delulu-land. Women are finally realizing that their lives are worth more than toxic, unfulfilling, and/or unhappy marriages.

Unmarriageable women with tales so other women join them in their singlehood, who told you your singlehood is the best? If you want to be single continue in that light and allow others rest.

Kobojunkie:
Na these useless stories dem use deceive your great-grandmothers, grandmothers, and mothers into engaging endurance mode in marriage instead of escaping for their lives from toxic/unfulfilling and unhappy marriages to embrace instead peace and contentment of being on their own. This is 2025, stop thinking that spewing the same ridiculous tales from delulu-land. Women are finally realizing that their lives are worth more than toxic, unfulfilling, and/or unhappy marriages.

Do you even read the story at all abi, just because you are not in any relationship make you bitter... read again there is no where Toxic or unfulfilled is mentioned ... the poster was not even saying anything about people that choose wrongly .... the poster was just creating awareness on some people that have it all but due to a little issue in the family they quickly find solace in outsider ...

In short the poster explain how it is easy for me and you to buy Data from our favorite Network like 20gb to 1Tb which is easy to do like an outsider but can the outsider own the Network provider

I don laugh tire for this thread...

I laughed tears out of my eyes. I love kobo eh... if you don't understand her na you get problem.

Her posts actually make sense if you aren't distracted and pay attention to what she is saying!

brain54:
I don laugh tire for this thread...

I laughed tears out of my eyes. I love kobo eh... if you don't understand her na you get problem.

Her posts actually make sense if you aren't distracted and pay attention to what she is saying!

it's all růbbish.

Host78:
it's all růbbish.

I don't think it is...

kelechi50:
✓ Based on your statement, will you remain or allow your sister to become a side chick to a married man for life

Look, genius, most women don't give a fork what others really think or seek permission from anyone in order to become a sidechick.

brain54:
I don laugh tire for this thread...

I laughed tears out of my eyes. I love kobo eh... if you don't understand her na you get problem.

Her posts actually make sense if you aren't distracted and pay attention to what she is saying!

Sadly her post are usually trash and irrelevant.

I avoid her abi him like plague. He or she's argument is usually baseless.

I tried engaging her years ago in an intelligent conversation on an important thread here and I discovered she was just saying trash 🗑️. Ever since then I avoided her like plague.

harjay1986:
✓ Do you even read the story at all abi, just because you are not in any relationship make you bitter... read again there is no where Toxic or unfulfilled is mentioned ... the poster was not even saying anything about people that choose wrongly .... the poster was just creating awareness on some people that have it all but due to a little issue in the family they quickly find solace in outsider ...
✓ In short the poster explain how it is easy for me and you to buy Data from our favorite Network like 20gb to 1Tb which is easy to do like an outsider but can the outsider own the Network provider

Report after report have confirmed that the major reason women seek divorce is because they are unhappy in a toxic and/unfulfilling marriage. Also, the vast majority of women who seek divorce do not regret it of ever which to go back to the men they abandoned.

Simply our, OP is a liar and a rage bater! 🥱🥱

2. Again, this brain -dead analogy does not mirror reality of divorce making women as reported by numerous of research at this point in time. So, what exactly are you arguing, abeg! 🥱🥱😘

G0odharddick:
Sadly her post are usually trash and irrelevant.

I avoid her abi him like plague. He or she's argument is usually baseless.

I tried engaging her years ago in an intelligent conversation on an important thread here and I discovered she was just saying trash 🗑️. Ever since then I avoided her like plague.

Well that's your problem...

I understand what she says most times. And it makes sense to me.

Her arguments most times are independent and are not crowded mentality views. Most people have problems with views that usually aren't the norm.

I used to also attack her here but I later grew to understand her and like I said most times if you pay attention to what she is saying you would see that she usually does have a point sometimes in a deep way.

I have no issues with her. I think her views and perspectives are interesting.

Besides what is nl without her posts? We are all diverse with the way we reason.

Live and let live... if you don't understand her move on. People who do would get her!