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Terkula Alukwase Fidelia posted!

Wedding Cancelled!!


Today was meant to be my wedding day, but instead, I stand here making a different announcement.

I just discovered that my ex-fiance has been sleeping with my best friend. This betrayal cuts deeper than words can explain, and it’s a red flag I cannot overlook.

I have choose not to settle for lies. I choose to leave in order to live!

Noted. It is not the first and will not be the last.

Things like this will continue to happen until the society admits that marriage comes with commitment and responsibilities. You cannot eat your cake and have it. The freedom you enjoy as a bachelor or spinster does not exist in marriage.

This your decision would only be wise if he met you a virgin.

If you investigate more you may found out, that's not actually the main reason.

All these borehole people claiming cents, because their secret have not been opened.

Pretty Cool Decision

She should avoid the Man and her best friend.

Chilipepper:
➜Terkula Alukwase Fidelia posted! Wedding Cancelled!! Today was meant to be my wedding day, but instead, I stand here making a different announcement. I just discovered that my ex-fiance has been sleeping with my best friend. This betrayal cuts deeper than words can explain, and it’s a red flag I cannot overlook. I have choose not to settle for lies. I choose to leave in order to live!

Good job! You did a good thing and should be proud of yourself for walking away from that! Only the brave can do what you did here. 🤔🤔🤔

Sonnobax15:
➜ Bestie for life --"When I see bannies saying that statement,I just laugh..... The truth is that bannies are the problems to their fellow bannies....

Nonsense!! Are men not equally the problems to their fellow men? 🙄🙄

Kobojunkie:
Nonsense!! Are men not equally the problems to their fellow men? 🙄🙄

. Kobo, please avoid me . Cuz of you,my other Moniker has been banned unnecessarily

She must do everything to be able to forget and move on, because betrayals like this don't heal easily.

Obaxxx:
. Kobo, please avoid me . Cuz of you,my other Moniker has been banned unnecessarily

Huh?? Who the heck are you?

Omor

I am certain many people asked her to forgive, forget and manage the guy like that because men are scarce and getting married is difficult and considered an achievement. Women are really suffering in this country! Kudos to her for sending the philanderer to hell where he belongs! He should marry the traitor since she is good in bed.

Na you lose

Well.....might be karma at play!
....show me your friend and I will tell you who and what you are.
Maybe she has slept with her best friend's man.....just maybe she had been sleeping with other women's husband.....just maybe!
That she boldly walked away shows she has been in that situation before, though she was the tormentor now she's vowing not to be tormented.......
....Can't eat your cake and have it,those prayers you made married women to subject themselves to has finally been approved, face it,probably with prayers too......

Babaibeji2020:
Well.....might be karma at play!
....show me your friend and I will tell you who and what you are.
Maybe she has slept with her best friend's man.....just maybe she had been sleeping with other women's husband.....just maybe!
That she boldly walked away shows she has been in that situation before, though she was the tormentor now she's vowing not to be tormented.......
....Can't eat your cake and have it,those prayers you made married women to subject themselves to has finally been approved, face it,probably with prayers too......

you have said it all.

Actually,the lady is audacious in the cancellation because she has list of suitors in order of preference,so the reason for her strong will in Marching the celebration to an abattoir without blinking.

In the first image, she said she found love again.... What happened to the earlier love? And now she has jettisoned the present love because of infidelity, what will happen to the coming love?
I hope it's not a pattern that wants to render her single without a marriage?

correctyourself:
This your decision would only be wise if he met you a virgin.

But if it's the other way round, you would have been weeping and gnashing teeth, lamenting how all women are bad and LovePeddler.

Ok Broken relationship is better than .broken marriage..

See mumu comments up there. Maybe because she's a lady...
SMH

Chilipepper:
Terkula Alukwase Fidelia posted!

Wedding Cancelled!!


Today was meant to be my wedding day, but instead, I stand here making a different announcement.

I just discovered that my ex-fiance has been sleeping with my best friend. This betrayal cuts deeper than words can explain, and it’s a red flag I cannot overlook.

I have choose not to settle for lies. I choose to leave in order to live!

Her decision. She is not a child. For a woman like her, it is Her responsibility to determine what she can accept or not accept. She is old enough to face whatever challenges and benefits of her decision(s).

No where is it written than a woman cannot leave a man.

We just hope she took the decision objectively and strong enough NOT TO EVER REGRET!

Nairaland can be a childish and funny place. Some ask if SHE WAS A VIRGIN and that if she is not a virgin she has no moral grounds to demand accountability from the man. Others are deducing that her friend is a reflection of her. That If she make a betrayer a best friend, then she too must have done things like this in the past to another woman’s man. Una well done o, Assistants to the Karmic Diaries. Awon Deputy Supervisors to the Keeper of the Akashic Records. Ndi Supervisors of Dharma Quality Assurance and Enforcement.

The world does not always work like how many of you are thinking and insinuating here. Otherwise we could then deduce that virgins would not have their husbands cheat on them then. Nature will just give them good men. Meanwhile if my experiences are anything, the husbands to virgins usually want to “preserve” their wives and have wild sex with side chics all around, while coming home to their nice, clean, angelic virgin. OR they don’t get the sizzling sex they get from side chics at home, hence to cure the boredom they go out.

I support her decision. If it is clear that they want to remain exclusively monogamous, then he went against this, it is well within her rights m. He didn’t do it with anyone else but her so called “best friend” - (A title I will never give to any human dead,alive to be born).

I mean She demanded it or strongly expected it, and the man accepted it as an expectation and a boundary in the relationship, then so be it.

As for me I won’t marry and don’t intend to. I am monogamous as long as we are together. But I keep my expectations very clear. I shall move on. Peacefully and amicably. That, I am very sure of. I let you know this fact ahead of time. I am NOT DATING TO MARRY ANY WOMAN. Nope, not dating to marry. I am dating for quality experiences.

She was never your friend, but a snake, you get luck probably she for kpai you, come take over.

correctyourself:
This your decision would only be wise if he met you a virgin.

Did she sleep with his bestman or best friend so how is it not wise to leave someone who is sleeping with ur friend?

Nothing much, it is the other of the day in the western part of Nigeria.

To them marriage is just another feather added to your cap, no serious commitment required.



🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

One sided story.

Stories like this always have comma , when you decide to give everyone opportunity to talk

Our Nigerian ladies should learn to share na, there's love in sharing.

Àwon alara gbígboná. 😏

It's fake. Na AI generated picture. U people should not be gullible like Facebook people

Bar man, please two bottles of chilled star for this great man.
Only you na men

correctyourself:
This your decision would only be wise if he met you a virgin.

Kudos to her. It's better that way than pretending and praying for him to change. The marriage wouldn't have lasted