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Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by SAMBARRY: 4:12pm On Oct 06, 2025
correctyourself:
This your decision would only be wise if he met you a virgin.
na them.another of his type that cannot keep it in his pants.
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by correctyourself(m): 4:12pm On Oct 06, 2025
Berankis:
Let's not always be biased in your evaluations. What is bad is bad. She made a good decision. It's not worth it getting married to a traitor! The same way we would condemn her if she pinned another man's child on him.
This lady has made a great decision and her time of joy will definitely still come.
What if she married another man along the line the man is financially down, she wouldn't stay with the man, because she has no endurance.

Unfortunately she's not aware she doesn't have one of the qualities it takes to be parents. She thinks she's wise.
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by correctyourself(m): 4:13pm On Oct 06, 2025
ukaface:
And 11 people liked this comment
Y’all are psycho
What if she married another man along the line the man is financially down, she wouldn't stay with the man, because she has no endurance.

Unfortunately she's not aware she doesn't have one of the qualities it takes to be parents. She thinks she's wise.
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by Onewazobia(m): 4:14pm On Oct 06, 2025
correctyourself:
This your decision would only be wise if he met you a virgin.
Hmmmm, from another angle
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by correctyourself(m): 4:15pm On Oct 06, 2025
ukaface:
Geddifok

Make it make sense
A man can cheat if his partner is not a virgin?
What if she married another man along the line the man is financially down or health issues, she wouldn't stay with the man, because she has no endurance.

Unfortunately she's not aware she doesn't have one of the qualities it takes to be parents. She thinks she's wise.
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by correctyourself(m): 4:15pm On Oct 06, 2025
Onewazobia:
Hmmmm, from another angle
What if she married another man along the line the man is financially down or health issues, she wouldn't stay with the man, because she has no endurance.

Unfortunately she's not aware she doesn't have one of the qualities it takes to be parents. She thinks she's wise.
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by Dreamhans1: 4:16pm On Oct 06, 2025
correctyourself:
This your decision would only be wise if he met you a virgin.
and other dopemus liked your comment
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by Omoawoke(m): 4:17pm On Oct 06, 2025
Why is she wearing agbada? Is she a man

For desecrating our culture and tradition and wearing agbada, she deserves what she got

I advise the young man to marry her best friend
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by Saccharine: 4:17pm On Oct 06, 2025
Good his face is out there, this type will try to sleep with family member.
Good riddance
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by SAMBARRY: 4:19pm On Oct 06, 2025
correctyourself:
What if she married another man along the line the man is financially down, she wouldn't stay with the man, because she has no endurance.

Unfortunately she's not aware she doesn't have one of the qualities it takes to be parents. She thinks she's wise.
another one that will always find a thousand and 1 justification not to keep it in his pants but still have the entitlement to expect women to stay with the commercialised prick.as esabod will say oko federal
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by Omoawoke(m): 4:20pm On Oct 06, 2025
moscobabs:
It's fake. Na AI generated picture. U people should not be gullible like Facebook people
Seriously the pictures looked a bit odd

Thanks for clarifying….
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by SAMBARRY: 4:20pm On Oct 06, 2025
Omoawoke:
Why is she wearing agbada? Is she a man

For desecrating our culture and tradition and wearing agbada, she deserves what she got

I advise the young man to marry her best friend
thank God his face is out there.tbis man deserves his kind and I'm happy this generation has plenty of baddies.las las na baddies he go end up with.tuface is a classic example grin

He don see the peace wey he dey find and he's enjoying the peace very well grin
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by eniteden(m): 4:21pm On Oct 06, 2025
God bless u cheesy

correctyourself:
This your decision would only be wise if he met you a virgin.
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by Belurved1(m): 4:23pm On Oct 06, 2025
Virgin 4 where!!
For her man to prefer her best friend over her, I doubt she has maintained her dignity. I’m quite sure her best friend must have shared her private life with him, which makes it hard for her to cope knowing her past secrets are exposed. She has made the right decision, good luck to her.

correctyourself:
This your decision would only be wise if he met you a virgin.
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by Kobojunkie: 4:25pm On Oct 06, 2025
correctyourself:
➜What if she married another man along the line the man is financially down, she wouldn't stay with the man, because she has no endurance. Unfortunately she's not aware she doesn't have one of the qualities it takes to be parents. She thinks she's wise.
Why should women have endurance if men have no endurance? If one man is financially down, she is free to find herself another who is, or better yet, level herself up to provide herself 100% without a man. 🥱🥱🥱

Stop looking for ways to chain women down in what is pure bullsheet! 🥱🥱🥱
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by correctyourself(m): 4:26pm On Oct 06, 2025
Dreamhans1:
and other dopemus liked your comment
What if she married another man along the line the man is financially down or health issues, she wouldn't stay with the man, because she has no endurance.

Unfortunately she's not aware she doesn't have one of the qualities it takes to be parents. She thinks she's wise.
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by Kobojunkie: 4:28pm On Oct 06, 2025
correctyourself:
What if she married another man along the line the man is financially down or health issues, she wouldn't stay with the man, because she has no endurance.
Unfortunately she's not aware she doesn't have one of the qualities it takes to be parents. She thinks she's wise.
Why should women be expected to have endurance when men have near no endurance to offer them in return? Why expect to get what you can't give? What is with this nonsensical entitlement mentality that you are attempting to throw around so? 🥱🥱🥱

Also, if one man is financially down, she is free to find herself another who is, or better yet, level herself up to provide herself 100% without a man. She owes no man her life or loyalty. 🥱🥱🥱

Stop looking for ways to chain women down in what is pure bullsheet! 🥱🥱🥱
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by Dreamhans1: 4:31pm On Oct 06, 2025
correctyourself:
What if she married another man along the line the man is financially down or health issues, she wouldn't stay with the man, because she has no endurance.

Unfortunately she's not aware she doesn't have one of the qualities it takes to be parents. She thinks she's wise.
What is that particular quality she needs to " takes to be parents"?
Think deep before answering because your entire rep depend on it
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by 11doubledee: 4:31pm On Oct 06, 2025
Babaibeji2020:
Well.....might be karma at play!
....show me your friend and I will tell you who and what you are.
Maybe she has slept with her best friend's man.....just maybe she had been sleeping with other women's husband.....just maybe!
That she boldly walked away shows she has been in that situation before, though she was the tormentor grin now she's vowing not to be tormented....... grin
....Can't eat your cake and have it,those prayers you made married women to subject themselves to has finally been approved, face it,probably with prayers too......
Maybe not...
You can't be too certain.
Human beings are just wicked.
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by pocohantas(f):
correctyourself:
What if she married another man along the line the man is financially down, she wouldn't stay with the man, because she has no endurance.

Unfortunately she's not aware she doesn't have one of the qualities it takes to be parents. She thinks she's wise.
This is how you guys twist the Bible or definition of marital ENDURANCE for your selfish goals. You are supposed to endure situations life throws at your marriage _sickness, loss of job, life challenges...etc. Not infidelity. Your spouse should be making life easier for you. Not being the primary cause of your endurance over sexual recklessness. No single part of the Bible asked women to endure infidelity.
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by FuckYeyeMods: 4:36pm On Oct 06, 2025
immortalcrown:
Noted. It is not the first and will not be the last.

Things like this will continue to happen until the society admits that marriage comes with commitment and responsibilities. You cannot eat your cake and have it. The freedom you enjoy as a bachelor or spinster does not exist in marriage.
Louder..
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by omotayocaleb(m): 4:36pm On Oct 06, 2025
So sad. I wish you all the best.
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by BabaLawo100: 4:36pm On Oct 06, 2025
Her BEST FRIEND is a reflection of her. There's a high chance they both have unsettled scores when it comes to men - That's one.

Secondly, She might have been cheating lowkey and she wants to leave the guy alone, so she waited for that day - For the sake of drama and sympathy.. She had a planB all along.

Lmao, You dey find truth for inside woman mouth?
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by Wenonawde(m): 4:53pm On Oct 06, 2025
correctyourself:
This your decision would only be wise if he met you a virgin.
As your father meet ur mother virgin.
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by Amarachieze(m): 4:54pm On Oct 06, 2025
It is your personal decision that must be respected. I advise you take full responsibility of your decision and avoid retaliation or vendetta.
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by Kobojunkie: 4:56pm On Oct 06, 2025
Amarachieze:
It is your personal decision that must be respected. I advise you take full responsibility of your decision and avoid retaliation or vendetta.
Interesting view! Avoid retaliation and vendetta, why? huh
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by Berankis: 5:03pm On Oct 06, 2025
correctyourself:
What if she married another man along the line the man is financially down, she wouldn't stay with the man, because she has no endurance.

Unfortunately she's not aware she doesn't have one of the qualities it takes to be parents. She thinks she's wise.
These are two unrelated issues.
The issue here is her fiancé was "sleeping" with her best friend. That's really bad! How would the guy feel is she was sleeping with his best friend or any other man at all.
When we choose to be married, let's always try to stay faithful.
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by Guestmale: 5:05pm On Oct 06, 2025
papiSNEH:
Na you lose
How?
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by Amarachieze(m): 5:08pm On Oct 06, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Interesting view! Avoid retaliation and vendetta, why? huh
The question should rather be WHY NOT?
if you consider your decision to be the best for your future and happiness hence you called it a red line or flag then you should be thankful that you escaped "death"
Vindictiveness in this matter means you regretted your own decision to call off the marriage. Remember it is not your fiance or bestie that call of the wedding. You did for your safety
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by correctyourself(m): 5:09pm On Oct 06, 2025
Wenonawde:
As your father meet ur mother virgin.
See this one trying to sell his few properties and relocate to Ogun.
Re: Nigerian Lady Cancels Wedding After Finding Out Fiance's Affairs With Her Bestie by Light777(f): 5:15pm On Oct 06, 2025
papiSNEH:
Na you lose
she didnt lose..she saved herself from STDS
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