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Is it cultural? Is it genetic? What is the benefit?

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Some don't, but are afraid to tell them to lose weight because they don't want their women to feel as if they're body shaming them and they know that there'll be world war three in the house... ... Some will still be using pregnancy as an excuse even after years of giving birth.

If you don't want peace in your house, bring up the issue of a woman's weight, we'll immediately misinterpret it as body shaming, hate, emotional and psychological abuse even if your intentions were coming from a good place...

That's my gender for you...

That is in the case where skinny women decide to let themselves go. What I’ve noticed repeatedly is in-shape black men actually going for obese women as their first choice

Samantha125:
Some don't, but are afraid to tell them to lose weight because they don't want their women to feel as if they're body shaming them and they know that there'll be world war three in the house... ... Some will still be using pregnancy as an excuse even after years of giving birth.

If you don't want peace in your house, bring up the issue of a woman's weight, we'll immediately misinterpret it as body shaming, hate, emotional and psychological abuse even if your intentions were coming from a good place...

That's my gender for you...

Appreciate or prefer?

You know how many fertile women the whites(westerners mostly) have pushed to their death with this obsession weiight?

Being fat isn’t equally healthy. Women love doing things in the extreme. I have no idea why. They either get really fat or unhealthily skinny. The ones who manage to stay healthy via gyms are in the minority.

CodeTemplarr:
Appreciate or prefer?

You know how many fertile women the whites(westerners mostly) have pushed to their death with this obsession weiight?

It's just a matter of preference... If some men could prefer skinny ladies, then why is the preference of those who like their women obese questioned?

They like them that way... They prefer their women as fatty boom booms rather than as Misses bones.

meobizy:
That is in the case where skinny women decide to let themselves go. What I’ve noticed repeatedly is in-shape black men actually going for obese women as their first choice

That's the bitter truth about your gender.

Samantha125:
Some don't, but are afraid to tell them to lose weight because they don't want their women to feel as if they're body shaming them and they know that there'll be world war three in the house... ... Some will still be using pregnancy as an excuse even after years of giving birth.

If you don't want peace in your house, bring up the issue of a woman's weight, we'll immediately misinterpret it as body shaming, hate, emotional and psychological abuse even if your intentions were coming from a good place...

That's my gender for you...

Team slime ladies, why will you be going out with a woman that looks like your mom

My own worry is that we prolly more racist than whites. I will never understand how skin color should even be bought to topics like this

If we swapped places with those ones, we would prolly treat them worse. Everytime Black this, Black that

meobizy:
Is it cultural? Is it genetic? What is the benefit?

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If na another person create this kind topic you go go the person thread go dey call am nonsense topic!

I see we have still not caught on to the fact that the major reason for fatness in Africa is stress---high cortisol levels---, and women tend to deal with a whole load of this both from society and in marriage.

We like meat and the kpomo dey soft and swell up

Not all of our mothers are fat, at least my mom isn't... Some Africans tend to embrace chubby to fat ladies than the slim ones.

You know, as the skinniest girl in my class back in high school, I used to get teased for my weight... I remember when my ex and I parted ways, there were rumours that he left me because I was sticking him with my bones and I wasn't even bony...😭😭😭

kelechi50:
That's the bitter truth about your gender. Team slime ladies, why will you be going out with a woman that looks like your mom

Samantha125:
Some don't, but are afraid to tell them to lose weight because they don't want their women to feel as if they're body shaming them and they know that there'll be world war three in the house... ... Some will still be using pregnancy as an excuse even after years of giving birth.

If you don't want peace in your house, bring up the issue of a woman's weight, we'll immediately misinterpret it as body shaming, hate, emotional and psychological abuse even if your intentions were coming from a good place...

That's my gender for you...

And when they start gaining excess weight, they will start feeling depressed and crying and saying they are loosing their confidence. But when they see their fellow women working out, shedding weight in the gym and gaining shape they will feel intimidated.

Which successful or rich black man is with a fat woman? To most guys fat women are easy to get/ nack

Too much of anything is bad,I don't like too much fat in both male & female,have you ever seen som1 that's fat & such person is very old there maybe but few,check if ones fat is too much Wen such person is getting old such person will loose those excess fats.
Many of them as they gets older the weight on their thigh & legs might be too much thereby they might have leg problem.
Dont get fat to extent that to carry your body will be wahala watch ya weight

Kobojunkie:
I see we have still not caught on to the fact that the major reason for fatness in Africa is stress---high cortisol levels---, and women tend to deal with a whole load of this both from society and in marriage.

Why are you generalizing, where is the statistics to back up your claim

Black people tend to not prioritise their health, so as they get older alot of them, especially women, tend to be become overweight. What this does is normalise this unhealthy living in the eyes of their offspring. So when a boy child see women around him being fat growing up, he tends to gravitate to and have preference to those features as he grows older. It's also why black women tend to look for providers because that's how they have pictured the family structure to be.

I like skinny women with no arssse and tiny pimples on their chests , i hate anything that looks like a cow

No doubt about it. At least people are giving insight into the situation.

MarkNsukkaBread:
If na another person create this kind topic you go go the person thread go dey call am nonsense topic!

It’s our starchy food, not protein. Nobody works in farms anymore. Our high calorie meals get absorbed and stored as excess fat.

[Update] It took me a while to understand this comment. I get it now.

Oddkashy:
We like meat and the kpomo dey soft and swell up

I strongly believe this.

ednut1:
Which successful or rich black man is with a fat woman? To most guys fat women are easy to get/ nack

Anecdotal. People who’ve taken notice are dropping their opinions.

tnerro1:
Why are you generalizing, where is the statistics to back up your claim

Thank you.

absool:
Black people tend to not prioritise their health, so as they get older alot of them, especially women, tend to be become overweight. What this does is normalise this unhealthy living in the eyes of their offspring. So when a boy child see women around him being fat growing up, he tends to gravitate to and have preference to those features as he grows older. It's also why black women tend to look for providers because that's how they have pictured the family structure to be.

I like fat but not too fat and even if it is slim not too slim . I just like and average body size .

Sammy101111:
I like fat but not too fat and even if it is slim not too slim . I just like and average body size .

You like fat
You slim slim
You like average size

Only you?

Remain small for us na

Samantha125:
Some don't, but are afraid to tell them to lose weight because they don't want their women to feel as if they're body shaming them and they know that there'll be world war three in the house... ... Some will still be using pregnancy as an excuse even after years of giving birth.

If you don't want peace in your house, bring up the issue of a woman's weight, we'll immediately misinterpret it as body shaming, hate, emotional and psychological abuse even if your intentions were coming from a good place...

That's my gender for you...

I like your statement of facts. I don't like fat or overweight male or female especially when it appears to tend towards obesity. It goes with many health challenges from what I have seen

Contraceptives contribute to most African women excessive fatness after marriage. But many are unaware of the plenty negative issues that goes along with contraceptives. Also, unhealthy diets play a role and lack of exercises.

Personally, I made my wife understand the issues with obesity / fat. The risk factors to avoid as well. I also didn't bother to go near fat girls or anyone I thought to have such recessive genes

Samantha125:
Not all of our mothers are fat, at least my mom isn't... Some Africans tend to embrace chubby to fat ladies than the slim ones.

You know, as the skinniest girl in my class back in high school, I used to get teased for my weight... I remember when my ex and I parted ways, there were rumours that he left me because I was sticking him with my bones and I wasn't even bony...😭😭😭

This is the craziest form of bullying I have read about

Ruke1991:
➜I like your statement of facts. I don't like fat or overweight male or female especially when it appears to tend towards obesity. It goes with many health challenges from what I have seen
Contraceptives contribute to most African women excessive fatness after marriage. But many are unaware of the plenty negative issues that goes along with contraceptives. Also, unhealthy diets play a role and lack of exercises.
➜Personally, I made my wife understand the issues with obesity / fat. The risk factors to avoid as well. I also didn't bother to go near fat girls or anyone I thought to have such recessive genes

. There is no direct link between the use of contraceptives and weight gain. The myth that such exists has been around from the beginning, yet not a single study has provided proof or backing to such claims. It is 2025; let's stop spreading misinformation.

2. Also, fat does not happen to women alone. There are so many overweight men out there who are delusionally convinced that their thickness makes them more manly when all it is is kgs of fat that they carry around with them, a ticking time bomb in many cases, given the high risk of heart issues among black/African men.

Generalization

Not "fat". Fleshy is the right word. I despise bony women.🥱

Fleshy women look very appealing to the eyes, those lovely ass jiggling as they move, not forgetting those hips and the juugz. We need to know we are holding something nice.