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Bukola94:
➜So deep, I understand your point, but I still prefer too good husband or too good wives. And I will try not to cheat on them.

Most people do not go into relationship planning to cheat. They do everything they can to avoid it. However, when those cracks from their past begin rearing their ugly heads while they are in a relationship, it becomes of absolutely no importance whether they are in a relationship with a good wife(s) or a good husband(s). It becomes merely a battle of personal resolve/will.

Kobojunkie:
Most people do not go into relationship planning to cheat. They do everything they can to avoid it. However, when those cracks from their past begin rearing their ugly heads while they are in a relationship, it becomes of absolutely no importance whether they are in a relationship with a good wife(s) or a good husband(s). It becomes merely a battle of personal resolve/will.

You've said it all. Without personal will, a cheating partner will never quit. I learnt this the hard way

jaxxy:
When u understand the laws of love and attraction u will quickly understand it has little to do with being a good man..

2ndly Cheating is a character flaw in the cheater revealed over time when the cheater is exposed to varying pressure situations from both pleasure and pain.

it has very little to do with the supposes good man because everybody can walk away if tired.

You are making sense.....

Fiscus105:
Infact, they cheat on bad man far than good man.

90% of bad guys/men, their wives, rocking different boat outside, gragra doesn't stop Ur woman not to cheat on you.

Leave them make them dey play.

PaNnamdi:
Young man am married for about 13yrs now,my advice to you is to always prepare urself mentally for the he worst thing a woman might do to you and how u can handle it professionally that it won't bring ruins to your life,listen if u haven't done this and u are in a dating game anything bad happens would have a serious toll on ur good.

He should pay attention to this very well.

Bukola94:
Please speak for yourself only, if I see a too good man or too good woman, it will bring out the best in me. And my mind will be at peace

Stop talking nonsense! Everyone likes a good thing but it's the bad ones that's attractive.

That's quite correct. The problem is, how do you even define a good man/woman in this context? The general consensus of a bad man in Nigeria, is when you are care free, look tattered, do dr*gs and other similar vice. But that's not true. Some unassuming fellows with innocent look can be more dangerous. So, the concept of being a good man, or a bad man is subject.

I feel, people cheat, because they want to.

Fiscus105:
Infact, they cheat on bad man far than good man.

90% of bad guys/men, their wives, rocking different boat outside, gragra doesn't stop Ur woman not to cheat on you.

EarthKing:
➜That's quite correct. The problem is, how do you even define a good man/woman in this context? The general consensus of a bad man in Nigeria, is when you are care free, look tattered, do dr*gs and other similar vice. But that's not true. Some unassuming fellows with innocent look can be more dangerous. So, the concept of being a good man, or a bad man is subject.
I feel, people cheat, because they want to.

That is an irrelevant question, given that no matter how good or bad you decide a person is, he/she does not deserve to be cheated on.

Cheating is not a fault on the part of the one being cheated on, but an abuse— emotional and physical abuse(since cheating puts the partner in potential harm)— of that person by the one doing the cheating.

LoneSoldier:
How is it normal?

A woman cannot be eating only one food at all times. She eats eba and ogbono today, tomorrow she eats bread and akara, a day after beans and plantain. Women are polyandrous in nature.

LoneSoldier:
This is a question thrown to all, why do women cheat on good men?

You see them saying they want God fearing, gentle and hardworking men, but the slightest given chance they cheat on the said God fearing man which they once asked for.


So, why do women cheat on good men?

If he's not good in bed, he's not good enough

A woman should be dicknified and dicksteady

femi4:
If he's not good in bed, he's not good enough

A woman should be dicknified and dicksteady

Until they get dickgraced🤨

Gabrielshow24:
Until they get dickgraced🤨

Yinmu...who made you a gatekeeper

femi4:
Yinmu...who made you a gatekeeper

who made you a striker? Why are you probing for ’pu...oals’? Trying to Dickruppt the few good ones we have left?🤨🤦🏾‍♂️

Gabrielshow24:
who made you a striker? Why are you probing for ’pu...oals’? Trying to Dickruppt the few good ones we have left?🤨🤦🏾‍♂️

I m just stating the fact...Okafor's law is real

femi4:
I m just stating the fact...Okafor's law is real

Morality is real🤦🏾‍♂️.

Don't make our ladies ravenously ’s...K’ dick🤨... If you filled the ’missing’ with ’uc’ then your mind needs cleaning, I meant seek👀...
Pls, let's be proponents of self control and try to reduce this pandemic of hook ups🤦🏾‍♂️. Well, I am no longer in the game but I fear for my children😔.

LoneSoldier:
Don't advice me, am not that easy to be pulled down by a woman like that, and for the record am not into any relationship. People like you who are married are the ones to learn from what happened to that lieutenant.

I know more than what you know about marriage, that is why am still a bachelor.

Okay profit
Tanks

YeyeGbami:
➜You've said it all. Without personal will, a cheating partner will never quit. I learnt this the hard way

. Now, I don't particularly agree that a cheating partner will never quit. I cheated on my partner in the past; I never cheated on anyone after that. I believe in the end it all depends on the individual, their reason for cheating, and the resolve they have not to see such vileness emanate from inside of them after that.

Most people are aware of the costs of cheating in a relationship, particularly in a marriage. Betrayal can lead to divorce and parental disruption, and infidelity is a predictor of depression, anxiety, and domestic violence. Yet many stray anyway, prompting the question: Why? In surveys of individuals who have cheated, falling out of love, seeking variety, and feeling neglected were the most commonly cited reasons, followed by situational forces, a desire to raise self-esteem, and anger with a partner.

I also believe that once a partner cheats on the other, the relationship should be brought to an abrupt end then. Whether it is a dating relationship or a marriage, the relationship should be terminated immediately to allow the partner cheated on time away from their abuser(the cheater) to heal from the devastating consequences of the cheating. And also give the cheater time to ruminate on the devastation caused by his/her actions against the one he supposedly claimed to love.

Cheating is abuse, and abuse victims should be immediately removed from the presence of their abusers so they can heal completely from the damage done to both their mental and physical health. Having the abuser remain in the same environment as the one who inflicted the abuse only opens them up to more abuse, and I believe this is where the idea that cheaters never stop cheating comes from.

Starboytwo:
Cuz it's normal...

We are just too touchy about the whole matter.

When the Nephilims return
Most Women will cheat on regular male humans with them
It’s that crave for dark triad personalities
Find and keep a kingdom woman, if you ever find one

yinkeys:
➜When the Nephilims return Most Women will cheat on regular male humans with them It’s that crave for dark triad personalities
Find and keep a good kingdom woman, if you ever find one

Nephilims return? This one don drop off planet earth completely! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

Misterone:
Stop talking nonsense! Everyone likes a good thing but it's the bad ones that's attractive.

Bad ones that are attractive to you, speak for yourself . U are the one talking nonsense and attractive to bad ones. Stop attracting rubbish

Kobojunkie:
Most people do not go into relationship planning to cheat. They do everything they can to avoid it. However, when those cracks from their past begin rearing their ugly heads while they are in a relationship, it becomes of absolutely no importance whether they are in a relationship with a good wife(s) or a good husband(s). It becomes merely a battle of personal resolve/will.

I got your point Sir

Kobojunkie:
Nephilims return? This one don drop off planet earth completely! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

You cannot take a joke lol

yinkeys:
You cannot take a joke lol

So that one na joke? I don already imagine you living in astronaut suits while on Earth.

judewrites:
Excuse me, but with what you wrote up there, you are contradicting yourself.

Why would some religions advocate for polygamy, if not the adulterous nature of people?

U don't get , forget about it. Only deep thinker can understand and people who have been inside life. Even an elder pastor that live above 90 years says being a polygamy man Assisted is ministry, don't ask me how. But he said they should point out a genuine Bible verse that said men or husband should not marry 2nd wife or 3rd wife. Till he died, is followers respect him. And he preaches the gospel

Bukola94:
➜U don't get , forget about it. Only deep thinker can understand and people who have been inside life. Even an elder pastor that live above 90 years says being a polygamy man Assisted is ministry, don't ask me how.
➜ But he said they should point out a genuine Bible verse that said men or husband should not marry 2nd wife or 3rd wife. Till he died, is followers respect him. And he preaches the gospel

The elder pastor obviously lied since we have so much more evidence to show that polygamy has never, at any point in the history of humanity, been a cure to adultery, either for the man or the women in the group. There is tons of evidence out there to show that no matter how many wives you allow a man to marry, he will still have his eyes wandering outside of his marriage looking out for others, either to have on the side or replace his current set. (Women in polygamous marriages are also not immune to adultery.) Do we simply keep perpetuating this lie of polygamy as a cure for adultery because religions insist, without evidence, that it is?

2. Nonsense! Even the bible, which is a book about the bloodline of Jacob, does not prescribe polygamy as a cure for adultery. So, again, why do you keep trying to make a connection where none exists? Why does it matter that an old man made false claims? Are you incapable of reasoning things outside of those delusions or something?

Firstcitizen:
On anything

…and every situation.

Kobojunkie:
So that one na joke? I don already imagine you living in astronaut suits while on Earth.

Na survival mechanism
Bug in female mammals

yinkeys:
➜ Na survival mechanism. Bug in female mammals

There is no such thing!

Kobojunkie:
There is no such thing!

Pls where can we find kingdom women

Bukola94:
Bad ones that are attractive to you, speak for yourself . U are the one talking nonsense and attractive to bad ones. Stop attracting rubbish

The nonsense you're talking, is it not attractive to you?

Gabrielshow24:
Morality is real🤦🏾‍♂️.

Don't make our ladies ravenously ’s...K’ dick🤨... If you filled the ’missing’ with ’uc’ then your mind needs cleaning, I meant seek👀...
Pls, let's be proponents of self control and try to reduce this pandemic of hook ups🤦🏾‍♂️. Well, I am no longer in the game but I fear for my children😔.

But when you were in the “game” those you played were someone else’s children. The nature of humans is a selfish one! The jokes just write themselves 😂

Lol