₦airaland Forum

Kobojunkie:
Let me guess, a more complicated take is telling us that a father has a reason why he should not be expected to directly fund the well-being of his DNA? Na this same mentality make government for developed countries dey encourage single mothers to ensure that they put their baby daddies on child support so the government can go after them and make sure they pay up.

Hopefully, in years to come, the system will become more advanced so that the moment a child is born into the system, their DNA is recorded and automagically, the baby mama & daddy are both put on a leash for at least the next 18 years of the child's life.

No. A more sensible take is recognizing that a woman's can't simply leave her beloved child with ANY man. Because there are men and then there are yeye men who can't even help a child brush her teeth in the morning.

JuanDeDios:
➜No. A more sensible take is recognizing that a woman's can't simply leave her beloved child with ANY man.
➜ Because there are men and then there are yeye men who can't even help a child brush her teeth in the morning.

It may seem that way, but the man in question is the father of the same child, the man whom she chose to have the child with.

2. Well, no matter what, she chose the man as the father of her child. He is her choice. If she cannot cater to her child, then it follows that she give the child over to the man and allow the law to handle him from that point on.

She must be among the " I don't need a man " crew

Too bad.

Just a child yet she can't feed herself and the child but if a man had been taken care of her and the child shouldn't praise the man for that, rather make the man feel like there is nothing special in taking care of her and the kid. The once that are lucky with 2 or 3 children are out there insulting their husbands for not dropping enough money. Many of them will go as far as telling their husbands to look at how better another man is taking care of their family

EmperorIsaac:
Help her now, she will get pregnant for another again.

You'll be shocked to know that she's still sleeping with the father of her child who isn't taking responsibility

alizma:
➜Just a child yet she can't feed herself and the child but if a man had been taken care of her and the child. The once that are lucky with 2 or 3 children are out there insulting their husbands for not dropping enough money. Many of them will go as far as telling their husbands to look at how better another man is taking care of their family

. Why the unnecessary rambling? She can't take care of the child, so what? The father of the child should take over. Simple!

After foolishly getting pregnant for some useless Playboys while ignoring and rejecting advances from responsible guys, they'll now come with sob stories and expect me to waste my sympathy on them..... never!

This is one of the consequences of girls jumping after irresponsible playboys while claiming some useless "love"! Stop throwing yourselves at aszholes and wait for responsible men to find you attractive and come for you so you can dictate the direction of the affair and get the man to marry you first before sex, they'll not listen!

It's 21st century were women think they're now woke and deviate from time-tested ways our forebearers used to get things like marriage to last and avoid problems of single motherhood. They have to suffer the consequences alone and stop seeking pity party!!!

New format don arrive.

Kingzjayzee:
New format don arrive.

If true, then people should try and find her baby daddy and make his face known since the child's face has also been exposed by the woman caring for his child.

Na she know who she go born for, they overlook good guys and choose irresponsible people then come with Thier pity party if it doesn't work out, abeg carry your cross.

While some idiots are building lagos-calabar coastal highway in the poverty capital of the world.

When Peter obi is saying that Nigeria's needs are still very very basic and govt should focus on that instead of vanities, APC animals would make it look as if the guy is still living in the 19th century, and only their political party know what infrastructure means.

Instead of these idiots to focus on poverty alleviation, they are busy wasting money on phantom projects.

dauntless15:
Na she know who she go born for, they overlook good guys and choose irresponsible people then come with Thier pity party if it doesn't work out, abeg carry your cross.

Stop spouting nonsense!🙄🙄🙄

No be many of those same good guys dey get babymama's all over the place even with their own wives and children at home? Abeg, make we hear word, o'jare!

This might sound harsh but I still don't understand women who birth kids they can't cater for in 2025, the year of our lord and Saviour, Jesus Christ.

In this case, she can take the child to his father, I guess.

I really need women to be stingy with their eggs and the choice of omelette chef otherwise you'd cry more than the baby.

Kobojunkie:
Stop spouting nonsense!🙄🙄🙄

No be many of those same good guys dey get babymama's all over the place even with their own wives and children at home? Abeg, make we hear word, o'jare!

Abeg name one, just open mouth wah, a good person wouldn't abandon someone who gave birth to a child for him, if he did he's definitely irresponsible and not good, you don't need to be wise to know this, even children do.

folake4u:
This might sound harsh but I still don't understand women who birth kids they can't cater for in the year of our lord and Saviour, Jesus Christ.

In this case, she can take the child to his father, I guess.

I really need women to be stingy with choice of their eggs and the omelette chef otherwise you'd cry more than the baby.

The country is very poor.
Corruption and consistently high level mis-governance has crippled the standard of living of the populace.

A single mother of one should have more economic options than selling her phone to feed her kid.

Single mothers are everywhere in the world, regardless of their dating choices.
Only in third world countries like Nigeria, do single mothers suffer this much.

dauntless15:
➜Abeg name one, just open mouth wah, a good person wouldn't abandon someone who gave birth to a child for him, if he did he's definitely irresponsible and not good, you don't need to be wise to know this, even children do.

All those married men wey dey cheat, in some cases, with married women, all over the place, no be dem be these good persons you dey regale us with? How many of them are raising the many seeds they have sown through their many escapades? Una go just dey talk like say Nigeria is not literally an open book at this point in time. Abegi!

Look, if mandatory DNA testing were instituted today on all children up to college age, as well as all adults out there in Nigeria, you will be shocked to find that even your GOs would almost not escape being implicated with infidelity.

ChiefOloye:
Don't cry for her for selling her phone, she will get another one anytime fortunes smile on her, again. You rather cry for your people who sold human beings to feed or the carnivores in your region. They deserve your tears more.
https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&opi=89978449&url=https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/more-news/663931-anambra-govt-intercepts-woman-about-selling-her-sons.html&ved=2ahUKEwivj_2KtaSQAxUKT0EAHVdsB_sQFnoECFMQAQ&usg=AOvVaw3dFd8YkOC_YrnHUpSJ_Zh3

this thing pain you chai,you want to give that guy skullarship like this but the guy pass you

Kobojunkie:
All those married men wey dey cheat, in some cases, with married women, all over the place, no be dem be these good persons you dey regale us with? How many of them are raising the many seeds they have sown through their many escapades? Una go just dey talk like say Nigeria is not literally an open book at this point in time. Abegi!

Look, if mandatory DNA testing were instituted today on all children up to college age, as well as all adults out there in Nigeria, you will be shocked to find that even your GOs would almost not escape being implicated with infidelity.

k, I no get time to school any slow person.

dauntless15:
k, I no get time to school any slow person.

Look at this one still trying to sell women the delusion of good persons out in a country that currently boasts of over 8 million children who are abandoned children on its streets, and cannot even boast of even one functioning system in place. 🙄🙄🙄

esnbrutality:
In the Lagos Tinubu built... people are selling phones to survive.

The girl sef na Yoruba woman...will she now say it's IGBOs that made TINUBU not help her situation?

Anyway, God will keep Blessing the IGBOs, while those that prosecute them will keep having lamentations and crying in their enclaves.

Let oluremi Tinubu help her...

Awon sophisticated

Almost intelligent comment

elipheleh:
➜The father too can't take care of the child. So what? He is deadbeat. So what? Is he the 1st to be deadbeat?
➜That's how your gender will keep getting fooled because of your fish brains

What does it matter whether he is the first or last deadbeat? Deadbeat na deadbeat!

2. The one who is fooled is not the gender, since nothing stops this woman from abandoning the child on the road somewhere, like many before her have done. If that child grows up and has to turn to crime to fend for itself, na society go suffer. The fools here are those in the society; they complain of criminal elements in the community without thinking to deal with the problem of individuals having kids, they then leave it to society to have to deal with.

Of course there are no poor people in your wretched area......I learnt the gully errosion state una ancestors built is better than dubai.

I guess you dey send money to all the poor souls in your village filled with beater leaf.....

esnbrutality:
In the Lagos Tinubu built... people are selling phones to survive.

The girl sef na Yoruba woman...will she now say it's IGBOs that made TINUBU not help her situation?

Anyway, God will keep Blessing the IGBOs, while those that prosecute them will keep having lamentations and crying in their enclaves.

Let oluremi Tinubu help her...

Awon sophisticated

Fiscus105:
Many of you, when you are with a man who is doing everything possible to take care of u and kids, you won't be satisfied, until you go out and realised, grass not greaner as you taught.

..the man abandoned her and the child...refused to take responsibility in taking care of the child

Olachase:
During the year 2020 (Corona virus) Yahoo boys (scammers) turn many girls in their 22-27 to single mom with benefit Money

My guy girlfriend even left him and follow one G-guy like that, the girl is single mom now she is back to her father house

With wetin dey tour signature, e sure say you for do her the same thing the G-boy do.

esnbrutality:
In the Lagos Tinubu built... people are selling phones to survive.

The girl sef na Yoruba woman...will she now say it's IGBOs that made TINUBU not help her situation?

Anyway, God will keep Blessing the IGBOs, while those that prosecute them will keep having lamentations and crying in their enclaves.

Let oluremi Tinubu help her...

Awon sophisticated

Yoruba dey rule; yoruba dey run