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Found Out His Girlfriend Begs Men For Money — Should He Walk Away? by ObaKlaz(op): 6:41pm On Oct 17, 2025
Most of my buddies are married. One of my unmarried buddies in Baltimore sought my advice today. He confided in me that he would break up with this girl he used to regard as 'his serious girlfriend' by month end.

Basis is that he went through the girl's phone (she dropped it on the kitchen counter to take clothes out of the washing machine in the laundry, and she prolly set auto screen lock a tad long), checked her WhatsApp and saw that his 'serious girlfriend' habitually demands money from guys on the internet. He said he took his time to read about 12 chats and voice notes with guys - some familiar, some he didn't know. His girl would ask the guys to Cash App her. He said he listened to voice notes of the guys, asking they 'hangout'. According to him, some of the guys explicitly demanded that they fuhkk her. He said though she usually replied things like “never mind” or brushed them off, but she still kept asking for money. It broke him that this girl, whom he supports within his means, could be begging dudes for money and favors in the DM, and she teaches in one of the high schools in Baltimore. He also said he noticed some messages were deleted off some chat history.

He wanted my opinion, and I told him to go ahead and break up with her. To me, it's only a matter of time before she starts getting piped by all sorta ninja deeks (that's if she ain't getting her cheeks clapped for some dollars already).

What y'all think?
Re: Found Out His Girlfriend Begs Men For Money — Should He Walk Away? by LordIsaac(m): 6:41pm On Oct 17, 2025
Yes...she's an olosho....Quote me today, twice when she does it in marriage!
Re: Found Out His Girlfriend Begs Men For Money — Should He Walk Away? by brain54(m): 6:47pm On Oct 17, 2025
Na from clap them dey enter dance o...

She just dey enter the dance floor...she go soon do the wiliwili dance step!
Re: Found Out His Girlfriend Begs Men For Money — Should He Walk Away? by Sonnobax15(m): 6:49pm On Oct 17, 2025
lipsrsealed
Any banny wey dey beg men for money na coded O.S...
Re: Found Out His Girlfriend Begs Men For Money — Should He Walk Away? by Nobody: 7:37pm On Oct 17, 2025
She’ll still cheat. She’s greedy and not contented. So bad majority of them are like that now🤦‍♂️
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Re: Found Out His Girlfriend Begs Men For Money — Should He Walk Away? by Sammy101111(m): 8:21pm On Oct 17, 2025
Na greedy girl she is not pleased and your friend can't please her well so let her go. I h.ate does kind of girls that always beg for urgent money if you give them today before 24 hours they will come up with another lie and ask for money again .that girl na yahoo girl she will use your guy head wella
Re: Found Out His Girlfriend Begs Men For Money — Should He Walk Away? by Jennyclay(f):
Kindly stay away from a relationship, if you’re a broke poverty stricken man undecided

She didn’t put a gun on his broke head when he chose to date her. Probably if he was doing his duties as a boyfriend she’s won’t ask anyone for money undecided

Relationship comes with lots of sacrifices and spending, if you’re not willing to spend on your girlfriend then get lost!! It’s as simple as ABC!
Re: Found Out His Girlfriend Begs Men For Money — Should He Walk Away? by ObaKlaz(op): 9:47pm On Oct 17, 2025
SpencerForbes:
She’ll still cheat. She’s greedy and not contented. So bad majority of them are like that now🤦‍♂️
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I just don't understand how these women think!

She got her own money, and my dawg's been supportive of her too! Beetch ain't contented. I knew she's been getting her thighs stretched already, and I know ma dawg knows that too deep down, but you know, you just gotta lessen the blow by not telling your homie that outright.

Naija women are worse when it comes to this, especially most of the married ones I know.
Re: Found Out His Girlfriend Begs Men For Money — Should He Walk Away? by Nobody: 10:04pm On Oct 17, 2025
ObaKlaz:
I just don't understand how these women think!

She got her own money, and my dawg's been supportive of her too! Beetch ain't contented. I knew she's been getting her thighs stretched already, and I know ma dawg knows that too deep down, but you know, you just gotta lessen the blow by not telling your homie that outright.

Naija women are worse when it comes to this, especially most of the married ones I know.
They all know the truth but once you tell them, they ask for your head. If you wanted to cheat, then cheat. No one is holding you. If you wanna do hookup, then do your hooking in peace. Why will you give a guy hope of relationships then when he finds out you’re a cheat, you’ll start gaslighting. That’s my problem with them. The ones that wants to do hookup should tell the guys they don’t want relationship so the guys can focus on the ones that want it.

But no, they believe we’re d. U. M. B. And they are smart. Very soon we’ll start playing the games with them. Very very soon😊
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Re: Found Out His Girlfriend Begs Men For Money — Should He Walk Away? by Nobody: 10:06pm On Oct 17, 2025
Jennyclay:
Kindly stay away from a relationship, if you’re a broke poverty stricken man undecided

She didn’t put a gun on his broke head when he chose to date her. Probably if he was doing his duties as a boyfriend she’s won’t ask anyone for money undecided

Relationship comes with lots of sacrifices and spending, if you’re not willing to spend on your girlfriend then get lost!! It’s as simple as ABC!
She should have been honest and told the guy she wasn’t up for relationship that she wanted to be a hookup girl. There’s no crime in that. Seems some of you don’t understand what romantic relationship is.

We can’t even define dating again in Nigeria🤦‍♂️
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Re: Found Out His Girlfriend Begs Men For Money — Should He Walk Away? by PerfectStranger(m): 10:44pm On Oct 17, 2025
Jennyclay:
Kindly stay away from a relationship, if you’re a broke poverty stricken man undecided

She didn’t put a gun on his broke head when he chose to date her. Probably if he was doing his duties as a boyfriend she’s won’t ask anyone for money undecided

Relationship comes with lots of sacrifices and spending, if you’re not willing to spend on your girlfriend then get lost!! It’s as simple as ABC!
Queen of almajiri's have spoken
Re: Found Out His Girlfriend Begs Men For Money — Should He Walk Away? by Helpout12345: 12:22am On Oct 18, 2025
ObaKlaz:
Most of my buddies are married. One of my unmarried buddies in Baltimore sought my advice today. He confided in me that he would break up with this girl he used to regard as 'his serious girlfriend' by month

What y'all think?
As a guy man, if I see that, I will just pretend like I saw nothing.

The game just starts at that point. I will lower her rank totally to "choppings" level. I will chop her so tey, she will eventually run on her own.
Re: Found Out His Girlfriend Begs Men For Money — Should He Walk Away? by DanseMacabre(m): 2:38am On Oct 18, 2025
As a sharp man he should just be collecting his due percentage. When life shows you pepper, cook pepper soup.
Re: Found Out His Girlfriend Begs Men For Money — Should He Walk Away? by Baronthecelebri(m): 4:28am On Oct 18, 2025
He should break up with her
Re: Found Out His Girlfriend Begs Men For Money — Should He Walk Away? by Goodlady(f):
LordIsaac:
Yes...she's an olosho....Quote me today, twice when she does it in marriage!
Can that bf swear that he's also loyal. Seeking financial help from friends isn't a crime. If the bf was rich enough he would v been up to his responsibility so he should be glad others are helping him out.

Re: Found Out His Girlfriend Begs Men For Money — Should He Walk Away? by Goodlady(f): 6:15am On Oct 18, 2025
Helpout12345:
And what do you bring to the relationship? A broke ass lady like you is supposed to be dating fellow broke men. If not for my gender that don't respect themselves.
Pls respect yaself.
Women are rich and automatically becomes the table.

Re: Found Out His Girlfriend Begs Men For Money — Should He Walk Away? by Nobody: 6:27am On Oct 18, 2025
Goodlady:
Pls respect yaself.
Women are rich and automatically becomes the table.
If that’s the broke ass 👆, then I’ll manage it for STR 🥲 not long term 🙃
Just that those kinda girls when they turn their face, they are the opposite of their back😒
Re: Found Out His Girlfriend Begs Men For Money — Should He Walk Away? by Nobody: 6:35am On Oct 18, 2025
Goodlady:
Am not your type so don't bother. As I dey sniff you, you may but be able to pay my bills.
Goodlady is that you😂😂😂😂
You set sha. I have a tool that can pay all your bills😋
Re: Found Out His Girlfriend Begs Men For Money — Should He Walk Away? by Nobody:
Goodlady:
Am not your type so don't bother. As I dey sniff you, you may but be able to pay my bills.
That place you’re going, does that guy looks like someone that can pay bills😂😂😂 face me I face you😂😂😂 come lemme take you to the mall😂
You want to use my salary to be funding your bf.
Wicked gal😂

Goodlady looking fresh on 2mp cctv camera.
I gave one of your set money to get iPhone 11 in July. No caps. So you saying you’re not my type is still baffling me😂😂😂
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Re: Found Out His Girlfriend Begs Men For Money — Should He Walk Away? by Olachase(m): 8:03am On Oct 18, 2025
Jennyclay:
Kindly stay away from a relationship, if you’re a broke poverty stricken man undecided

She didn’t put a gun on his broke head when he chose to date her. Probably if he was doing his duties as a boyfriend she’s won’t ask anyone for money undecided

Relationship comes with lots of sacrifices and spending, if you’re not willing to spend on your girlfriend then get lost!! It’s as simple as ABC!
No wonder them day turn Una to single mom

I didn't even pity you girls for any reason
Re: Found Out His Girlfriend Begs Men For Money — Should He Walk Away? by G0odharddick: 10:46am On Oct 18, 2025
Oloshos are for the streets. Tell your friend to send her back to the street where she belongs
Re: Found Out His Girlfriend Begs Men For Money — Should He Walk Away? by Nobody: 10:51am On Oct 18, 2025
G0odharddick:
This one is posting her backside for people who are interested in short time her.

See how cheap and low you look.

The joke is on you
Why are you casting update😂😁 una wicked oo😂😂
I’m waiting for that kobo own. Online women leader offline submissive gf.
She still has type sef😂😂😂😂
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Re: Found Out His Girlfriend Begs Men For Money — Should He Walk Away? by Goodlady(f): 11:02am On Oct 18, 2025
G0odharddick:
This one is posting her backside for people who are interested in short time her.

See how cheap and low you look.

The joke is on you
In Lege's voice an irresponsible man!
You're not my type so getat
Re: Found Out His Girlfriend Begs Men For Money — Should He Walk Away? by SenecaTheYonger: 12:34pm On Oct 18, 2025
G0odharddick:
Oloshos are for the streets. Tell your friend to send her back to the street where she belongs
This post brought ur total number of post to 666
Re: Found Out His Girlfriend Begs Men For Money — Should He Walk Away? by Tenrack: 2:53pm On Oct 18, 2025
Goodlady:
Can that bf swear that he's also loyal. Seeking financial help from friends isn't a crime. If the bf was rich enough he would v been up to his responsibility so he should be glad others are hekoing him out.
His responsibility? Is she an orphan? Chai. See entitlement. The way you ladies reason baffles me.
Re: Found Out His Girlfriend Begs Men For Money — Should He Walk Away? by Goodlady(f): 3:49pm On Oct 18, 2025
Tenrack:
His responsibility? Is she an orphan? Chai. See entitlement. The way you ladies reason baffles me.
yenyenyen.

Re: Found Out His Girlfriend Begs Men For Money — Should He Walk Away? by Tenrack: 4:22pm On Oct 18, 2025
Goodlady:
yenyenyen.
ofcourse I wasn't expecting you to say anything else.
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