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Curious345:
Oh I am very sorry for the issue you face .

But one round is enough .

You can also buy her intimacy gadgets .

Or better still , please use Viagra . Don't go for agbo . It will damage your kidneys . Also make sure you don't have high blood pressure issues and you're not taking any blood thinners .

Or let me ask .. are you obese

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effixxyguy1:
Hello Nairalanders, I'm seeking advice on a sensitive issue.

After the first round of intimacy with my wife, I often lose interest in going for a second round.

I'm 31, and we've been trying for a child, but I'm worried this might be affecting our chances. Is this normal? Are there any underlying issues I should be concerned about? Should I consult a doctor or a relationship counselor? I'd appreciate any guidance or suggestions.

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Seek a Professional help...
There are too much water under d bridge...

effixxyguy1:
Hello Nairalanders, I'm seeking advice on a sensitive issue.

After the first round of intimacy with my wife, I often lose interest in going for a second round.

I'm 31, and we've been trying for a child, but I'm worried this might be affecting our chances. Is this normal? Are there any underlying issues I should be concerned about? Should I consult a doctor or a relationship counselor? I'd appreciate any guidance or suggestions.

Pay her #100k for a night and watch how your brain will force your odogwu to struggle for 2nd and 3rd rounds!

All these one round two rounds three rounds talk sef.
If it's only one round you can go, why not try and make that one round memorable.
Sex is not a competition or achievement to boast of. In my case, if I have a woman overnight. Between that night till morning shouldn't be more than 3 times or rounds as you guys call it. But the quality and timing of each round matters a lot.
My first round doesn't go beyond 20-30min except I take an enhancer which I don't do often.
But before that knacking that will take that 30min, I and my girl make sure we do pre-intimacy and MouthAction that would have taken over an hour or so. In that case, both of you would have almost enjoyed the act to the fullest that the normal penetration will just climax everything.
What's all the meaningless 3,4,5 rounds that you don't last more than 2 or 3 min in any of them.
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And lastly op, it's not by round that your wife will get pregnant

ideatoprince18:
Same thing is happening to me with my GF ..... I fear I'm losing my Libido too

There is nothing wrong with either of us and she is still the sweet girl I met but in issues of sex, after the first round I hardly go the second round and this issue just started this year.

Nothing is wrong with you! Its normal.

I watched a video where someone said, because you love and respect her thats why. I may not necessarily agree with that, but I noticed when I bang my side chicks I go as many as 4 rounds of aggressive knacks.

Sammy101111:
She is your wife she is your priority you are young 1 round no be sex for who they find child .don't you enjoy her or you both don't do romance just bang and bang .May be make you na they romance small small it will turn you on again and on again .no be to they bang bang you will get tired and won't enjoy it at 31 you still have much energy to perform 3 rounds over night don't be lazy or you drink too much sugry drinks

Na quickie I take get my first pikin. Once you sperm is healthy, you no need die on top toto to give woman belle.

Kalulu44:
I didn't care to go thru your other underlisted.
Just the first one is enough for me to discuss,
Lack of emotional connection, but he did first round. The truth is dude is suffering from an internal diseases, too much of sugar and so on. You think he doesn't have the desire to go on and on, but his penis and body system is betraying him in the aspect.
So I disagree totally with your assertion of been emotionally disconnected with his wife

Just a suggestion though but I get you. Maybe he should go check his sugar level. I’ve also observed anytime I have high sugar intake, my sexual urges just turns off. If he’s scared to visit the hospital, he can always patronize that “Agbo lady (iyálágbo) outside his house😁
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First round is perfectly enough... Why would you want to go 2nd or third?

Sex can kill if you force yourself into using all your strength.

Meet with her on her ovulation period, she'll take in

Keep all your strength till her ovulation period.


Most people going 2nd, third round are on drugs, that's not normal.

You don't need help. Second round is a myth. Stay alive Sir...don't be coerced by boreholes.

SpencerForbes:
Just a suggestion though but I get you. Maybe he should go check his sugar level. I’ve also observed anytime I have high sugar intake, my sexual urges just turns off. If he’s scared to visit the hospital, he can always patronize that “Agbo lady (iyálágbo) outside his house😁
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Gbam! That agbo you mentioned is making me to dance Awilo

If 1 round is all you can do, please, it's okay. Conception is not by number of rounds. For how long have you both been trying for a baby? It must have been between 6months to 1year before you can start seeking medical support.
It is not by number of rounds. Consult with your friends that have given birth. Get a good recommendation of a Gynae, keep a positive spirit (don't let people pressure you), your time will come.

effixxyguy1:
Hello Nairalanders, I'm seeking advice on a sensitive issue.

After the first round of intimacy with my wife, I often lose interest in going for a second round.

I'm 31, and we've been trying for a child, but I'm worried this might be affecting our chances. Is this normal? Are there any underlying issues I should be concerned about? Should I consult a doctor or a relationship counselor? I'd appreciate any guidance or suggestions.

I'm sure if you had married tiwa savage or cardi B, na 3 rounds and above you go dey do. The problem is you ain't really attracted to your wife's body. It's in the brain. Try and fix her appearance

Sammy101111:
She is your wife she is your priority you are young 1 round no be sex for who they find child .don't you enjoy her or you both don't do romance just bang and bang .May be make you na they romance small small it will turn you on again and on again .no be to they bang bang you will get tired and won't enjoy it at 31 you still have much energy to perform 3 rounds over night don't be lazy or you drink too much sugry drinks

Na quickie I take get my first pikin. If your sperms dey healthy, you no need die on top toto to give woman belle.

ppogba:
Regular intimacy between husband and wife consistently for a reasonable period without child should be analyised.

You guys should both go for serious medical analysis and bother yourself less about round two or three.

The guy no sabi read calendar. No mind am for that area..

For the other area of one round only. What kind of one round Oga. Is it the one round that takes two hours? Or the one round of two minutes man. Let me not go and advise you the one that will make you shift the womb. Am I communicating?

1 round is ok if u can deliver very well


1 round is more than enough

SpencerForbes:
You’re asking if you should consult a doctor or specialist🤔

There are several factors that can contribute to a man losing interest in intimacy with his wife.

- Lack of Emotional Connection: When emotional intimacy wanes, physical intimacy often follows suit. Feeling disconnected or unappreciated can dampen desire.

- Stress and Fatigue: High stress levels and exhaustion can significantly reduce libido. Work pressure, financial struggles, and daily responsibilities can take a toll.

- Communication Issues: Poor communication or unresolved conflicts can lead to emotional distance and decreased intimacy.

- Routine and Boredom: Falling into a predictable pattern can stifle excitement and desire. Novelty and spontaneity can help keep things fresh.

- Lack of Appreciation: Feeling undervalued or unappreciated can diminish interest in intimacy.


- Erectile Dysfunction and Sexual Dysfunctions

- Low testosterone can contribute to decreased libido.

- Porn Addiction

Addressing these factors often requires open communication, empathy, and sometimes professional guidance. 😎
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You nailed it...I am suspecting porn addiction

NobleDeSage001:
Things you need to know:
Ovulation normally starts 14 days after a woman's menstrual circle. So, if you are conscious of this, engage in regular sexual intercourse over the next 3 - 4 days starting from the 14th day.

The moment you ejaculate, do not withdraw immediately, give a few minutes (at least 5mins).

Meanwhile, the two of you should approache a gynecologist to recommend laboratory tests just to be sure that you are medically ok.

With respect to going just one round, some men are wired to have low libido. Once they ejaculate, that is it for them. This may not be a medical issue.
You can go 2 to 3 rounds if you really want to, but this will take hours. Prepare your mind to always make love to your wife and not just intercourse. Be creative and explore. pre-intimacy is very very essentially.

I was once a novice in the matters of sex, but I had to explore. My wife was equally patient and helpful. Now, we have evolved and we enjoy sex more.

I have some other tips to share, but let me stop here for now.

Goodluck!

Not everyone is privy to this info. Sex is even more enjoyable to the lady at this time, so thank you for sharing this information to the people out there who needs it!

Also to the OP, try to engage in pre intimacy very well before entering the promise land, reason is to get her wet. The more wet she is, the better chance of sperm flowing through! Good luck in your quest!

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dahmie2013:
Please I need clarity, must sex be more than one round? So if you only go one round, it's a problem.

Lol 😂, leave them o, them wan turn themselves to knackademus.

effixxyguy1:
Hello Nairalanders, I'm seeking advice on a sensitive issue.

After the first round of intimacy with my wife, I often lose interest in going for a second round.

I'm 31, and we've been trying for a child, but I'm worried this might be affecting our chances. Is this normal? Are there any underlying issues I should be concerned about? Should I consult a doctor or a relationship counselor? I'd appreciate any guidance or suggestions.

how long have you been trying?
months, years?

Curious345:
Oh I am very sorry for the issue you face .

But one round is enough .

You can also buy her intimacy gadgets .

Or better still , please use Viagra . Don't go for agbo . It will damage your kidneys . Also make sure you don't have high blood pressure issues and you're not taking any blood thinners .

Or let me ask .. are you obese

And Viagra no get side effect abi

I smell lies. Cooked up story.

All these content creators!

conception is not by number of rounds, even two minutes men do father twins

For most men and women in marriage, a good one round is enough to keep everyone going

See a doctor, if need be.

Also, you may need to take things easy; some couples find it hard to conceive until after a while

dododawa1:
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madam rest.

they are married and trying to procreate.

Gotocourt:
Ovulation normally starts 14 days after a woman's menstrual circle.

Abi from the first day of mensuration

For women that has normal 28 days menstral cycle, their ovulation start from 14 days after menses. But for women that long menstral cycle of 34-35 days, their ovulation start from 19 days after menses.

Note: their are other women that do have short cycle of 24, 25 days. Therefore ovulation tracking can help for a good timing

dododawa1:
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Is it not obvious that black africans are different from those you mentioned?

Just check our make-up, reasoning and rate of development.

Many men are making the mistakes of diving to a woman and begin to have sex...why won't she want round 2?

Make serious love with your woman, before ending the love making, she too is already tired especially if she reached orgasm, having sex is just for you the man to be satisfied.

THE ONLY GUIDANCE OR SUGGESTIONS I WILL GIVE TO YOU IS THAT YOU BRING YOUR WIFE TO ME LET ME DOBO HER TO CHECK WHAT YOU COMPLAINING ABOUT

Just one nut is all you need to get a woman pregnant.. if na one round your power carry, make that one round worthwhile for both of you by eating libido boosting foods and fruits.
@31 you should still be able to fire.. guys 40yrs above still dey lash their wives well.

ZombieDredd:
madam rest.

they are married and trying to procreate.

NAIRALAND IS HOSPITAL.

mightyhazel:
1 round is ok if u can deliver very well


1 round is more than enough

1 quality round o!