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Gotocourt:
From what I know, using the 28days menstrual cycle. You start counting from the first day she starts seeing her period till the 14th day which is her ovulation. If you say after her menses and she did 4 days i.e 4+14= 18th day be her ovulation

ideatoprince18:
Same thing is happening to me with my GF ..... I fear I'm losing my Libido too

There is nothing wrong with either of us and she is still the sweet girl I met but in issues of sex, after the first round I hardly go the second round and this issue just started this year.

NobleDeSage001:
Things you need to know:
Ovulation normally starts 14 days after a woman's menstrual circle. So, if you are conscious of this, engage in regular sexual intercourse over the next 3 - 4 days starting from the 14th day.

The moment you ejaculate, do not withdraw immediately, give a few minutes (at least 5mins).


Meanwhile, the two of you should approache a gynecologist to recommend laboratory tests just to be sure that you are medically ok.

With respect to going just one round, some men are wired to have low libido. Once they ejaculate, that is it for them. This may not be a medical issue.
You can go 2 to 3 rounds if you really want to, but this will take hours. Prepare your mind to always make love to your wife and not just intercourse. Be creative and explore. pre-intimacy is very very essentially.

I was once a novice in the matters of sex, but I had to explore. My wife was equally patient and helpful. Now, we have evolved and we enjoy sex more.

I have some other tips to share, but let me stop here for now.

Goodluck!

leocollins:
Una too dey argue ,Oga it 14days after her menses..

effixxyguy1:
Hello Nairalanders, I'm seeking advice on a sensitive issue.

After the first round of intimacy with my wife, I often lose interest in going for a second round.

I'm 31, and we've been trying for a child, but I'm worried this might be affecting our chances. Is this normal? Are there any underlying issues I should be concerned about? Should I consult a doctor or a relationship counselor? I'd appreciate any guidance or suggestions.

Danchibez:
For women that has normal 28 days menstral cycle, their ovulation start from 14 days after menses. But for women that long menstral cycle of 34-35 days, their ovulation start from 19 days after menses.

Note: their are other women that do have short cycle of 24, 25 days. Therefore ovulation tracking can help for a good timing

Gotocourt:
You are wrong on this

SpencerForbes:
You’re asking if you should consult a doctor or specialist🤔

There are several factors that can contribute to a man losing interest in intimacy with his wife.

- Lack of Emotional Connection: When emotional intimacy wanes, physical intimacy often follows suit. Feeling disconnected or unappreciated can dampen desire.

- Stress and Fatigue: High stress levels and exhaustion can significantly reduce libido. Work pressure, financial struggles, and daily responsibilities can take a toll.

- Communication Issues: Poor communication or unresolved conflicts can lead to emotional distance and decreased intimacy.

- Routine and Boredom: Falling into a predictable pattern can stifle excitement and desire. Novelty and spontaneity can help keep things fresh.

- Lack of Appreciation: Feeling undervalued or unappreciated can diminish interest in intimacy.


- Erectile Dysfunction and Sexual Dysfunctions

- Low testosterone can contribute to decreased libido.

- Porn Addiction

Addressing these factors often requires open communication, empathy, and sometimes professional guidance. 😎
🚶‍♂️

leocollins:
Lol,you know nothing..it okay

maasoap:
You didn't address his specific question.
He loses interest after the first round. Different men have have different refractory periods, simple.

Gotocourt:
Ovulation normally starts 14 days after a woman's menstrual circle.

Abi from the first day of mensuration

effixxyguy1:
Hello Nairalanders, I'm seeking advice on a sensitive issue.

After the first round of intimacy with my wife, I often lose interest in going for a second round.

I'm 31, and we've been trying for a child, but I'm worried this might be affecting our chances. Is this normal? Are there any underlying issues I should be concerned about? Should I consult a doctor or a relationship counselor? I'd appreciate any guidance or suggestions.

SpencerForbes:
You’re asking if you should consult a doctor or specialist🤔

There are several factors that can contribute to a man losing interest in intimacy with his wife.

- Lack of Emotional Connection: When emotional intimacy wanes, physical intimacy often follows suit. Feeling disconnected or unappreciated can dampen desire.

- Stress and Fatigue: High stress levels and exhaustion can significantly reduce libido. Work pressure, financial struggles, and daily responsibilities can take a toll.

- Communication Issues: Poor communication or unresolved conflicts can lead to emotional distance and decreased intimacy.

- Routine and Boredom: Falling into a predictable pattern can stifle excitement and desire. Novelty and spontaneity can help keep things fresh.

- Lack of Appreciation: Feeling undervalued or unappreciated can diminish interest in intimacy.


- Erectile Dysfunction and Sexual Dysfunctions

- Low testosterone can contribute to decreased libido.

- Porn Addiction

Addressing these factors often requires open communication, empathy, and sometimes professional guidance. 😎
🚶‍♂️

Hussein035:
Let your wife go and visit your mother for 7 days

Once you are the one washing plates and clothes, during several things alone by the time it's 4 days your brain will value her again

effixxyguy1:
Hello Nairalanders, I'm seeking advice on a sensitive issue.

After the first round of intimacy with my wife, I often lose interest in going for a second round.

I'm 31, and we've been trying for a child, but I'm worried this might be affecting our chances. Is this normal? Are there any underlying issues I should be concerned about? Should I consult a doctor or a relationship counselor? I'd appreciate any guidance or suggestions.

SpencerForbes:
You’re asking if you should consult a doctor or specialist🤔

There are several factors that can contribute to a man losing interest in intimacy with his wife.

- Lack of Emotional Connection: When emotional intimacy wanes, physical intimacy often follows suit. Feeling disconnected or unappreciated can dampen desire.

- Stress and Fatigue: High stress levels and exhaustion can significantly reduce libido. Work pressure, financial struggles, and daily responsibilities can take a toll.

- Communication Issues: Poor communication or unresolved conflicts can lead to emotional distance and decreased intimacy.

- Routine and Boredom: Falling into a predictable pattern can stifle excitement and desire. Novelty and spontaneity can help keep things fresh.

- Lack of Appreciation: Feeling undervalued or unappreciated can diminish interest in intimacy.


- Erectile Dysfunction and Sexual Dysfunctions

- Low testosterone can contribute to decreased libido.

- Porn Addiction

Addressing these factors often requires open communication, empathy, and sometimes professional guidance. 😎
🚶‍♂️

yahoodetector:
The bolded is totally unnecessary.

After ejaculation, as long as the man has very quality semen, he doesn't need to remain there. It is the semen and not the manhood that is responsible for conception.

If he is sterile, if he likes let him remain there for a week after ejaculation, conception can never take place.

Gotocourt:
Ovulation normally starts 14 days after a woman's menstrual circle.

Abi from the first day of mensuration

Curious345:
Oh I am very sorry for the issue you face .

But one round is enough .

You can also buy her intimacy gadgets .

Or better still , please use Viagra . Don't go for agbo . It will damage your kidneys . Also make sure you don't have high blood pressure issues and you're not taking any blood thinners .

Or let me ask .. are you obese

effixxyguy1:
Hello Nairalanders, I'm seeking advice on a sensitive issue.

After the first round of intimacy with my wife, I often lose interest in going for a second round.

I'm 31, and we've been trying for a child, but I'm worried this might be affecting our chances. Is this normal? Are there any underlying issues I should be concerned about? Should I consult a doctor or a relationship counselor? I'd appreciate any guidance or suggestions.

effixxyguy1:
Hello Nairalanders, I'm seeking advice on a sensitive issue.

After the first round of intimacy with my wife, I often lose interest in going for a second round.

I'm 31, and we've been trying for a child, but I'm worried this might be affecting our chances. Is this normal? Are there any underlying issues I should be concerned about? Should I consult a doctor or a relationship counselor? I'd appreciate any guidance or suggestions.

FarahAideed:
She is definitely not your spec

This is why we say always marry your sexual spec

effixxyguy1:
Hello Nairalanders, I'm seeking advice on a sensitive issue.

After the first round of intimacy with my wife, I often lose interest in going for a second round.

I'm 31, and we've been trying for a child, but I'm worried this might be affecting our chances. Is this normal? Are there any underlying issues I should be concerned about? Should I consult a doctor or a relationship counselor? I'd appreciate any guidance or suggestions.

atandaoriyomi23:
I’m facing the same issue, although we have one kid already and our wedding is just 2 years, i force myself to have sex with her just 1 to 2 times in a month, I don’t even care if she cheats