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You had serious misunderstanding with your husband or boyfriend and later he finds out he was at fault. And you're very angry and pissed off with him. Then having realised his mistake, he comes to you and kneels to apologize profusely to you. Is this something you'll love and readily forgive him or is it a turn off that would piss you off the more?
Guys, can you kneel to apologize to your woman or do you consider it "unAfrican" and makes you less a man?
Remember it is a very serious misunderstanding! Perhaps she caught you cheating or something like that.

Kneel to apologise to a woman and her attraction will DIE immediately!

There is NO resuscitating such relationships.

A man who kneels to apologise to a woman will soon be licking off another man's EJACULATES from his woman's vagina during cunilingus.

There is NO 2 ways about it.

Kneeling is for 1 person in a relationship—the WOMAN.

A man who KNEELS to his woman is NO man.

Namaster:
Kneel to apologise to a woman and her attraction will DIE immediately!

This is what I want to confirm from the ladies themselves, but as usual, you who is a guy has assumed the position of the mouthpiece of ladies! You guys like to make up a lot things and claim ladies don't like this or that just to fit into whom you think ladies are! Why not allow real ladies to speak for themselves!

Ladies please, your opinions on this matter are needed.

You want us to get dragged?😑😑😑

pussyphilia:
Ladies please, your opinions on this matter are needed.

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Samantha125:
You want us to get dragged?😑😑😑

You ladies should feel free to air your opinions especially in a faceless forum like this.

I want to know if your man apologizing to you on his knees is something you'll appreciate.

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I'm trying to fathom what the misunderstanding could've been about that he'd even get on his knees.

Give me a scenario.

pussyphilia:
You ladies should feel free to air your opinions especially in a faceless forum like this.

I want to know if your man apologizing to you on his knees is something you'll appreciate.

pussyphilia:
➜You had serious misunderstanding with your husband or boyfriend and later he finds out he was at fault. And you're very angry and pissed off with him. Then having realised his mistake, he comes to you and kneels to apologize profusely to you. Is this something you'll love and readily forgive him or is it a turn off that would piss you off the more? Guys, can you kneel to apologize to your woman or do you consider it "unAfrican" and makes you less a man? Remember it is a very serious misunderstanding! Perhaps she caught you cheating or something like that.

Is it African to insult or hurt a woman, but un-African for a man to kneel to apologize to a woman?

If abuse is involved, I would recommend, they both go their separate ways immediately. We have seen and learned enough to know that people mostly only think to properly process their faults in romantic relationships after an extended period of separation from the ones they hurt.(This is assuming they even care to learn or change their ways.)

Samantha125:
I'm trying to fathom what the misunderstanding could've been about that he'd even get on his knees.

Give me a scenario.

Let's assume he wrongly accused you of cheating with someone and you're very angry with him because you never cheated. Then he later finds out that you never did what he accused you about.

Another scenario is; you caught him flirting with his colleague at the office and got very mad at him... and in order to douse tension, he Kneels to apologize and promise not to repeat what he did.

Narcissistic women feed on energies of weak men so the attraction will not die rather it will grow if their men kneel to apologize to them. A cool headed woman trained well by her father will immediately stop a relationship with any man that kneels down to apologize to her because that's a red flag. The man is a leader and must not show weakness. When he makes mistakes or wrongs his subordinates, he should apologize to them but must not show weakness while at it.

Problem with me is that once I make up my mind about something, no amount of kneeling will change it...So it's best he doesn't kneel because he'll be just wasting his time.

pussyphilia:
Let's assume he wrongly accused you of cheating with someone and you're very angry with him because you never cheated. Then he later finds out that you never did what he accused you about.

Another scenario is; you caught him flirting with his colleague at the office and got very mad at him... and in order to douse tension, he Kneels to apologize and promise not to repeat what he did.

Samantha125:
Problem with me is that once I make up my mind about something, no amount of kneeling will change it...So it's best he doesn't kneel because he'll be just wasting his time.

Hmm but what about if you want to go out somewhere and he said you should not go that he had a bad dream of you not going there and he kneel down to beg you not to go there that is scared of .Will you see him weak or kneeling down

Sammy101111:
Hmm but what about if you want to go out somewhere and he said you should not go that he had a bad dream of you not going there and he kneel down to beg you not to go there that is scared of .Will you see him weak or kneeling down

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I believe a man kneeling to apologize in a new relationship is a powerful display of profound humility—not necessarily naivety—especially if the offense was significant and he holds his partner in the highest esteem. A man who makes such a gesture in the first year may be less likely to do so after three to five years, not because he stops valuing her, but because they should have established a foundation of mutual respect and realistic expectation, acknowledging that both are flawed.
In my experience, this deep level of deference is often reserved for women who exhibit genuine compassion and love, rather than those focused solely on material gain or competitive "masculine" traits.
The act of kneeling is a shocking sacrifice of pride; it implies placing the relationship above one's own ego. While historically, an apology's success depended on the sincere words and subsequent change in behavior, this ultimate gesture can open the door to forgiveness.
If standing and begging hasn't resolved the issue, kneeling may provide the necessary dramatic shift, but if that fails, you must prioritize your own well-being. Therefore, I advise two critical actions:
* Move on after profusely apologizing. This is a necessary act of self-care and respect for your own boundary.
* Submit yourself to God in prayer. Express your deepest desires to Him, but always accept His will.
Ultimately, seize every opportunity to make things right and demonstrate sustained change. The sweetest experiences in life are often found with women who inspire such profound humility, especially when met with considerable empathy on your part.

Sammy101111:
Hmm but what about if you want to go out somewhere and he said you should not go that he had a bad dream of you not going there and he kneel down to beg you not to go there that is scared of .Will you see him weak or kneeling down

he really doesn’t have to kneel down to beg you if he’s concerned for your safety and it’s stubbornness on the part of the woman to be told what to do and she refuses but still expects her man to take responsibilities of her action if everything eventually goes south. But ultimately the best thing to do is to warn, advise and move on. There’s no point engaging in what’s beyond you anymore. If you refuses to listen that’s fine, but just be-careful wherever you’re going there’s a bad feeling about it already. This scenario you have mentioned reminds me of an incident in my locality, there was a local fighting by two warring factions and as it escalated, the wife concerned for her husband immediately called him, according to the husband giving the gist he says the wife was like “hey I hear the fighting has escalated, please leave wherever you’re and come home, I’ve a bad feeling about this.” Then he continued, he responded with his ego in his mouth, typical human nature.” He told her, is he child? He can take care of himself.” He says it isn’t up to 5-10minutes after the call, one of the warring factions gut him with a knife, almost took off one of his legs too, now he walks around limping, says he lost lot of blood and almost died, from our conversation i could sense he’s filled with so much regret. Why do i tell this story? When our loved ones have a complaint it is in our interest to listen to them and add whatever they say to our bag of knowledge and use that new perspective to quickly help ourselves for their sake.

pussyphilia:
Remember it is a very serious misunderstanding!.

I can't even remember saying SORRY to anyone in the past 10 years... not to talk of kneeling down to say sorry. eeew.

I'm already from a spiritually gifted background... I'm from a lineage of prophets, prophetesses, spiritualists, and traditional healers... But I've grown so accustomed to them that I hardly take them seriously when they tell me about their visions/dreams about me... Sometimes I'd just pretend as if I'm listening out of respect and still go ahead and do me afterwards... ... The best they could do now is just pray for me...

One of them who's a qualified traditional healer, but works as an engineering specialist in Malaysia once told us how he moves with six spirits in his car which forbid him from giving people lifts... From that day, I started making it my sole duty to make sure that I always come up with a flimsy excuse whenever he's around to get him to give me a lift... ... And if he starts protesting, I'd tell him to appease his spirits for me and then buckle up my seatbelt...

So what makes you think that I'll take my husband's dream seriously when he's not even spiritually gifted? ... I'd just tell him it's just a bad dream and nothing serious, no need for him to get on his knees.

Sammy101111:
Hmm but what about if you want to go out somewhere and he said you should not go that he had a bad dream of you not going there and he kneel down to beg you not to go there that is scared of .Will you see him weak or kneeling down

Me kneel down to apologize to my woman, never!

Anything wey wan happen make e happen!

That's why many men keep having set backs, little things you do and you don't know you keep selling your glory.

Na u go kneel propose, na u go still kneel beg. But when you offend your fellow man, u go rather slit the throat, than to kneel beg.

On top of the world.

Samantha125:
Problem with me is that once I make up my mind about something, no amount of kneeling will change it...So it's best he doesn't kneel because he'll be just wasting his time.

That's too bad! Your man kneeling to apologize to you is a show of complete humility and remorse. Such gesture from a man should melt every woman's heart and bring about total forgiveness. Not every man would be humble enough to kneel for his woman

I did that in 2014 when I slapped my ex.did that in 2015 when I beat up my other ex.in 2025 na .

Nomerci:
I did that in 2014 when I slapped my ex.did that in 2015 when I beat up my other ex.in 2025 na .

Is this real?😂😂😂

Nomerci:
Why not.i dont take shi t from no one .u break my ox fan.the other one broke my laptop screen.na thr i snap.i go break your head

Na WA o, are they having spirits of destruction?

Nomerci:
I did that in 2014 when I slapped my ex.did that in 2015 when I beat up my other ex.in 2025 na .

Who be dis John Cena

pussyphilia:
This is what I want to confirm from the ladies themselves, but as usual, you who is a guy has assumed the position of the mouthpiece of ladies! You guys like to make up a lot things and claim ladies don't like this or that just to fit into whom you think ladies are! Why not allow real ladies to speak for themselves!

He is talking from experience na
How many times have ladies ever been straightforward and honest in conversation

pussyphilia:
You had serious misunderstanding with your husband or boyfriend and later he finds out he was at fault. And you're very angry and pissed off with him. Then having realised his mistake, he comes to you and kneels to apologize profusely to you. Is this something you'll love and readily forgive him or is it a turn off that would piss you off the more?
Guys, can you kneel to apologize to your woman or do you consider it "unAfrican" and makes you less a man?
Remember it is a very serious misunderstanding! Perhaps she caught you cheating or something like that.

While the question was posed to women. Let me do aproko and say that even if you catch me having a party with your sister, mother and grandmother, I won't kneel to apologize. I dont apologize. No.

If you say you dont like something or You say I wronged you and I actually reflect and agree that I wronged you, I will acknowledge and learn and make no further comments, or I will simply tell you what I have done or plan to do to remedy the situation. You won't get an apology.

At least not from me sha. Maybe from other men. Not to talk of kneeling. Anyway na man wey think say him life don spoil without that particular woman sha. And please dont ask me ''what if it is your wife and she is Dangote's daughter''. I was feeding before she met me.