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Re: Sex Outside Marriage Isn't Called Dating by Nobody: 10:31am On Oct 19, 2025
gohf:
there are those who teach UPTIGHTNESS instead of UPRIGHTNESS
Just like the Pharisees and sadducees Jesus warned about.
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Re: Sex Outside Marriage Isn't Called Dating by Xevioso: 10:31am On Oct 19, 2025
Keep you religion to yourself.
Re: Sex Outside Marriage Isn't Called Dating by Dtruthspeaker: 10:41am On Oct 19, 2025
gohf:
my point was based on you mentioning standard and naming three men while misusing the intent of why God mentioned them in the first place so as to elevate your own standard of morality as it relates to sex.

God said do not call unclean what he has made clean, so what exactly have you done now, Mr. Dtruthspeaker?
And all I did was to point out what God called "clean" and the standard He Himself Set.

And a vessel that is not clean on the inside also God als clearly Said that it is not clean.
Re: Sex Outside Marriage Isn't Called Dating by fykes(m): 10:41am On Oct 19, 2025
Ignorance is a terrible thing.
Re: Sex Outside Marriage Isn't Called Dating by pasol4real(m): 10:49am On Oct 19, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
It is the greatest sin for it killed a whole world.

It and Lies carry the first position.

Ok Lies is first, sex is second
Say what you know n stop misinforming ppl
Re: Sex Outside Marriage Isn't Called Dating by almangid(m): 10:51am On Oct 19, 2025
How do you define marriage? Is it the ceremony from the church? Traditional rites? If two people have decided to be together isn't that marriage? Because if we go by today's Christian or Muslim look on it then our ancestors fornicate pieces. The argument about marriage and sex is BS to me sha cos of how we define it. And religious people need to stop their obsession with sex cos y'all do the most
Re: Sex Outside Marriage Isn't Called Dating by Dtruthspeaker: 10:52am On Oct 19, 2025
pasol4real:
Say what you know n stop misinforming ppl
I have said what I know. If you oppose, present it and let all of us see if it shall stand and knock out my own assertion
Re: Sex Outside Marriage Isn't Called Dating by SirJerrie(m): 10:53am On Oct 19, 2025
Rich4god:
There is more to that than meets the eyes.
More to it like what...?
Re: Sex Outside Marriage Isn't Called Dating by Talismann: 11:48am On Oct 19, 2025
so if I wan buy car for showroom i go just pay for car I nor test drive, match am selense first?

Lack of sexual chemistry na Im dey kill many marriages these days
Re: Sex Outside Marriage Isn't Called Dating by jaxxy(m): 1:01pm On Oct 19, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
Adultery- Sex outside marriage while already married.

Fornication- Sex outside marriage between persons who have never been married
jesusjnr2020:
Sex Outside Marriage Isn't Called Dating

Sex outside marriage isn't called dating but fornication.

That's what it is called by God so no matter how anyone tries to paint it, it would never change the fact that sex outside of marriage is fornication which is a sin before God.

So instead of trying to change the name of sex outside marriage, change your sinful ways and get it right with God before it's too late.

God bless.
Totally agree with u on this but can't help but wonder David and Solomon has several wives and even concubines(unmarried mistresses) These were God's men. J would judge them as sinners but God looked beyond certain things at certain times tho he judged them in some ways.

David even killed someone and took his wife. undecided shocked

God is definitely mysterious and wonderful in his ways.
Re: Sex Outside Marriage Isn't Called Dating by Dtruthspeaker: 1:13pm On Oct 19, 2025
jaxxy:
Totally agree with u on this but can't help but wonder David and Solomon has several wives and even concubines(unmarried mistresses) These were God's men. J would judge them as sinners but God looked beyond certain things at certain times tho he judged them in some ways.

David even killed someone and took his wife. undecided shocked

God is definitely mysterious and wonderful in his ways.
Go read closely you would see that God punished David extremely severely and that God declared those later parts of his life very unacceptable to Him.

While for Solomon, you can see that following God's casting him away, God does not count him rather God refers to the "first ways of David".

So, the Judgement is there.
Re: Sex Outside Marriage Isn't Called Dating by jaxxy(m): 1:25pm On Oct 19, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
Go read closely you would see that God punished David extremely severely and that God declared those later parts of his life very unacceptable to Him.

While for Solomon, you can see that following God's casting him away, God does not count him rather God refers to the "first ways of David".

So, the Judgement is there.
Yes I also mentioned God did judge them to some extent. However David was judged not for his wives and concubines but killing uriah one of his most trusted soldiers and taking his wife.
Re: Sex Outside Marriage Isn't Called Dating by MadamExcellency: 1:45pm On Oct 19, 2025
ReacherSaidNoth:
Why are you Christians so obsessed with sex?
Christianity didn't promise sex after death but some others did just that with plenty virgins.

Maybe you are mocking some other religion in disguise.
Re: Sex Outside Marriage Isn't Called Dating by MadamExcellency: 1:50pm On Oct 19, 2025
jaxxy:
Yes I also mentioned God did judge them to some extent. However David was judged not for his wives and concubines but killing uriah one of his most trusted soldiers and taking his wife.
Jesus Christ explained it better in these verses. This is the Christian doctrine on marriage.

Matthew 19:8 KJV
He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so.


Matthew 19:5-7,9 KJV
And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? [6] Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. [7] They say unto him, Why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement, and to put her away? [8]He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so. [9] And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.
Re: Sex Outside Marriage Isn't Called Dating by jaxxy(m): 1:58pm On Oct 19, 2025
MadamExcellency:
Jesus Christ explained it better in these verses. This is the Christian doctrine on marriage.

Matthew 19:8 KJV
He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so.


Matthew 19:5-7,9 KJV
And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? [6] Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. [7] They say unto him, Why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement, and to put her away? [8]He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so. [9] And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.
I know the Christian doctrine but I was referring to the pre-Christian doctrines hence my quoting David and Solomon in context of God's will, laws and truth.
Re: Sex Outside Marriage Isn't Called Dating by Dtruthspeaker: 2:05pm On Oct 19, 2025
jaxxy:
Yes I also mentioned God did judge them to some extent. However David was judged not for his wives and concubines but killing uriah one of his most trusted soldiers and taking his wife.
He was punished for all of his offences. David almost did not make if not that truly he was the wisest man and that wisdom got him the mercy of resitting the exams he always failed in And this time he now passed it before he died.
That is why God reckoned him.

Go and read carefully with the mind that God does not change, then you would see that I say is True.

Look at how God punished Canaan did you not see that so did He punish Isreal when they did the same? Their own was even hotter
Re: Sex Outside Marriage Isn't Called Dating by jaxxy(m): 2:42pm On Oct 19, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
He was punished for all of his offences. David almost did not make if not that truly he was the wisest man and that wisdom got him the mercy of resitting the exams he always failed in And this time he now passed it before he died.
That is why God reckoned him.

Go and read carefully with the mind that God does not change, then you would see that I say is True.

Look at how God punished Canaan did you not see that so did He punish Isreal when they did the same? Their own was even hotter
I didn't say God changes but he change deal with people and situations differently depending on what ge wants to achieve.

No God didn't judge others how he judge his own people. it varies.
Re: Sex Outside Marriage Isn't Called Dating by DJInfluence: 5:06pm On Oct 19, 2025
It's called flenjor!!
Re: Sex Outside Marriage Isn't Called Dating by MERCHANDISER: 5:24pm On Oct 19, 2025
dollypi:
The clitoris' only function is pleasure.

What do you think God was thinking when he made it?
What you call God is the universe which you're also part of.

The critoris was made so that women will enjoy sex and the only purpose of that sex was to reproduce not for fun.

No one has to teach you the universal law,it's embedded in our soul. Even animals have specific time or season they copulate
Re: Sex Outside Marriage Isn't Called Dating by MERCHANDISER: 5:33pm On Oct 19, 2025
SpencerForbes:
Merchandiser. All this laws were created by man. That’s the Roman Catholic but our new preacher now incorporated it and make it sound divine. If it’s a church doctrine, let’s tell people the truth. Don’t try to blindfold the people with religion. Tell us it was meant to curb barbarism and I’ll understand but don’t lie to me that’s from God cos he didn’t state any in the book of deut.
Bro you don't understand how things work😀,I was once thinking like you.

Sex is a sacred gift designed by the Creator and the universe for the purpose of life — to bring forth new generations, not merely for pleasure. When we misuse what was meant to create life, we upset the natural and spiritual balance. Every action has its consequence; going against divine purpose invites karma or judgment, reminding us that sacred things must be honored.
Re: Sex Outside Marriage Isn't Called Dating by Nobody: 5:36pm On Oct 19, 2025
MERCHANDISER:
Bro you don't understand how things work😀,I was once thinking like you.

Sex is a sacred gift designed by the Creator and the universe for the purpose of life — to bring forth new generations, not merely for pleasure. When we misuse what was meant to create life, we upset the natural and spiritual balance. Every action has its consequence; going against divine purpose invites karma or judgment, reminding us that sacred things must be honored.
So we can’t enjoy what God gave us😂😂
But we can eat what makes us happy and not just what gives us energy😂😂😂
Maybe we should stop eating things we love but only eat things tha serves the purpose of “strength” abi🤔
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Re: Sex Outside Marriage Isn't Called Dating by MERCHANDISER: 5:43pm On Oct 19, 2025
SpencerForbes:
So we can’t enjoy what God gave us😂😂
But we can eat what makes us happy and not just what gives us energy😂😂😂
Maybe we should stop eating things we love but only eat things tha serves the purpose of “strength” abi🤔
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Regarding sex, you're only permitted to enjoy it with the intention of bringing another soul to this world not for fun.

Ejaculation is similar to someone planting a seed. Will you plant your seed in a stony ground or soft/fertile land?

When you have sex for fun or mastubate,it's akin to planting on a stony land.
Re: Sex Outside Marriage Isn't Called Dating by Nobody: 5:48pm On Oct 19, 2025
MERCHANDISER:
Regarding sex, you're only permitted to enjoy it with the intention of bringing another soul to this world not for fun.

Ejaculation is similar to someone planting a seed. Will you plant your seed in a stony ground or soft/fertile land?

When you have sex for fun or mastubate,it's akin to planting on a stony land.
Keep adding meaning to what isn’t there. God gave sex to us for pleasure and procreation. If the Jews didn’t know this, Judas wouldn’t have gone to visit a prostitute or wasn’t Judas a follower of God??
Re: Sex Outside Marriage Isn't Called Dating by MERCHANDISER: 5:53pm On Oct 19, 2025
SpencerForbes:
Keep adding meaning to what isn’t there. God gave sex to us for pleasure and procreation. If the Jews didn’t know this, Judas wouldn’t have gone to visit a prostitute or wasn’t Judas a follower of God??
Bro you won't understand this now...but you'll understand better when you're spiritually mature to digest such knowledge...

Have a nice evening bro🫠
Re: Sex Outside Marriage Isn't Called Dating by Nobody: 5:56pm On Oct 19, 2025
MERCHANDISER:
Bro you won't understand this now...but you'll understand better when you're spiritually mature to digest such knowledge...

Have a nice evening bro🫠
If this can’t be explained then I don’t think there’s anything to be matured about. That’s why some converts always want to go back cos we can’t dissect the gospel but just try to make everything divine.
Shalom
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Re: Sex Outside Marriage Isn't Called Dating by Divoc19(f): 6:44pm On Oct 19, 2025
Dating does not mean having intimacy it simply means spending casual or free time with someone you are fond of. Simple.
Re: Sex Outside Marriage Isn't Called Dating by emmaskyblue(m): 7:52pm On Oct 19, 2025
Marriage is different from wedding,
sex outside marriage is still different from sex outside wedding.
MARRIAGE is union between two or more people depending on your religion, while
WEDDING is oath taking between two or more people depending on your religion.
In some religion you need to pay bride price only while some require you do wedding.
Re: Sex Outside Marriage Isn't Called Dating by samfrancis1(m): 9:17pm On Oct 19, 2025
Sorry .. who name am fornication sef ?
Re: Sex Outside Marriage Isn't Called Dating by Mrexcell(m): 8:06am On Oct 20, 2025
orikoku:
Whether before marriage or after marriage na still the same thing.

Any one who wants to be holy should not even try sex at all. Of which I doubt, even those pope have the ways of reliving their selves from the urge.
Not engaging in sex doesn't even make u holy the only thing that will make u holy and acceptable before God is only to accept jesus as ur lord and personal saviour no self righteousness actually matters. God created man and ordered him to go populate and dominate the whole earth man can't achieve such assignment without engaging in sex in a properly Godly accepted union.
Re: Sex Outside Marriage Isn't Called Dating by Mrexcell(m): 8:11am On Oct 20, 2025
ReacherSaidNoth:
Why are you Christians so obsessed with sex?
It's simply because it's spiritually very deadly and destructive.
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