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I noticed when we wanted to go search the car he took some minutes before coming out because I went out before him and was waiting by the car.

PerfectStranger:
Maybe he hasn't seen what you're bringing to the table aside coochie so he tryin discharge u.

But as a female simp you go still go back becoz the guy seems to be okay and living well.

Angiewhite:
Happy Weekend to everyone. Please kindly share your thought about this incident.

My boyfriend did something that up till now I’m still in shock because I don’t understand why he did that and the motive behind it.

I went to visit my boyfriend last week and just when I was about to leave he started shouting that he couldn’t find his second phone, I was surprised because he usually keep this particular phone on charge he doesn’t go anywhere with it and I saw it where he usually keep it when I arrived three hours earlier, I told him we should call the phone maybe it fell somewhere but he said there’s no sim/network on the phone. So we started searching for the phone.

I was confused because none of us had been out of the house since I came and he didn’t receive any visitor, we searched under the bed, under the chair, scattered wardrobe everywhere! I became tired and went to sit and just looking, I don’t understand what’s happening, it was when I saw him going to check kitchen cabinet, trash bins and inside toilet that’s when I started suspecting something fishy, then he came back and told me to check my bag, I couldn’t believe it, anyways I checked my bag and nothing was there, then he said maybe it’s in his car outside I said it’s not possible because I saw the phone myself when I came where he usually keep it. I said we can check the car but I’m not leaving until we find the phone.

We checked the car outside it wasn’t there so we came back inside and he brought out his laptop and did something on it because it’s an iPhone and the phone started vibrating from inside the chair he was sitting. Firstly that’s the chair that he had been sitting throughout that day I never sat on the chair or even go close to that particular chair that day, secondly the way he dipped his hands into the chair to bring it out shows the phone didn’t fall there it was intentionally put there becuase it’s a leather chair so it’s very tight and firm there’s no a way a phone can fall inside it, even if you sit on the phone it can’t go all the way in like the way he had to dipped his hand to bring it out. And when we were searching the whole house he kept saying “This kind of thing has never happened in this house before , even asked me to search my bag”.

I left that day and he didn’t apologize for the embarrassment, but what’s puzzling me is that why would someone intentionally hide their phone and make us to be searching for it? Turning the whole house upside down? Searching kitchen and even toilet , asking me to search my bag and you know exactly where this phone is! I noticed when we wanted to go search the car he took some minutes before coming out because I went out before him and was waiting by the car. What’s the motive behind this ? Why would he do this? I haven’t spoken to him since then. He had done all sort of things to me that I keep forgiving, from verbally insulting me to calling me another woman’s name, but this is it!, I’m done!. I have never been insulted like this before, I just want to know why someone will do this, just for the sake of future relationship /friendship.

Mariangeles:
To be honest, at some point, I was afraid he framed you for the theft of the phone. 😰

Secondly, ruuuuuuuuuuunnnnnn away from him, and never look back. 🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️

The guy does not respect you, neither does he value you, and that is the truth.



Unless you went with your bag, the bolded was kinda careless of you though.
He could've framed you.

Samantha125:
He's probably a broken soul due to previous heartbreaks.

Sonnobax15:

Dude is already fed up with you and just finding every means possible to chase you out of his life . But it seems you're finding it difficult to decode the message he's been trying to convey to you

PerfectStranger:
Maybe he hasn't seen what you're bringing to the table aside coochie so he tryin discharge u.

But as a female simp you go still go back becoz the guy seems to be okay and living well.

Tenrack:
Nigerian females do not care about all that. Just have money. It takes care of your personality automatically. Perhaps she gave him reasons to doubt her loyalty and person...let's wait for the bf to drop his own commentary.

Samantha125:
You're not making any sense... And how does what you just said correlate with the main discussion?

Samantha125:
You're not making any sense... And how does what you just said correlate with the main discussion?

PerfectStranger:
Maybe he hasn't seen what you're bringing to the table aside coochie so he tryin discharge u.

But as a female simp you go still go back becoz the guy seems to be okay and living well.

papiilo:
why are you putting your mouth for Nigerian matter ?

Samantha125:
The same way your people are busy coming to SA and putting their mouths into SA matters.

papiilo:
Nigerians don't put their mouth in SA matter

chatinent:
He's toxic.

The most important thing is that you "are done" and your sanity will be in tact.

Stop being with toxic and stupid people because nobody knows tomorrow.

By the way, how did the phone ring if no sim??

He probably did a Find my iPhone using the laptop.

It means that the phone is probably connected with the house WiFi or hotspotted from his other phone. Either ways, it was connected and your ex boyfriend felt you took the phone to check the chats.

This is my theory tho.

But it shows he's toxic asf, and that your were in an unhealthy relationship. He probably hit you sometimes you don't didn't wanna talk about. Even if he didn't, it's impending.

Mariangeles:
To be honest, at some point, I was afraid he framed you for the theft of the phone. 😰

Secondly, ruuuuuuuuuuunnnnnn away from him, and never look back. 🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️

The guy does not respect you, neither does he value you, and that is the truth.



Unless you went with your bag, the bolded was kinda careless of you though.
He could've framed you.

Sonnobax15:

Dude is already fed up with you and just finding every means possible to chase you out of his life . But it seems you're finding it difficult to decode the message he's been trying to convey to you

PerfectStranger:
Maybe he hasn't seen what you're bringing to the table aside coochie so he tryin discharge u.

But as a female simp you go still go back becoz the guy seems to be okay and living well.

Mariangeles:
To be honest, at some point, I was afraid he framed you for the theft of the phone. 😰

Secondly, ruuuuuuuuuuunnnnnn away from him, and never look back. 🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️

The guy does not respect you, neither does he value you, and that is the truth.


You’re right, when he asked me to check my bag I was thinking or did he put it there, but it wasn’t there.

Unless you went with your bag, the bolded was kinda careless of you though.
He could've framed you.

Tenrack:
Your boyfriend is richer than you. Endure he would eventually change, okay? Better to cry in a car than to cry outside one abi how dem dey put that quote sef. Endure the barrage of insults, it's a very small price to pay, after all you're gonna secure the bag.

Tenrack:
The guy is rich and probably spends or doesn't spend on her but the fact that he is doing well.....e go hard o. Do you want her to lose this opportunity?

Tenrack:
Na the money dey her eye. The comfort wey she no follow the guy build. In her mind she's prolly pictured them married to eachother in the future.