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| Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Goo0dHardDick(op): 4:13pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
Main boyfriend is another name for "mugu". I prefer being the side guy in a girl's life or relationship (another name for side guy can be term as "bestie"). My job is to just do my thing and leave. The main boyfriends carries all the loads on his head, bills, payments, her feeding etc, while the side guy just keeps satisfying her konji on a steady. This is my story with several girls I have met. They all have boyfriends but yet kept coming to my house on a steady. Mind you they'll be at my place and bill their boyfriends for either anything and the guys won't hesitate to make transfer. I feel main boyfriends are suffering. It is far better to be the side guy than to be the main boyfriend.
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| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Tenrack: 5:40pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
Goo0dHardDick:bro abeg drop more OT with real life examples make we learn ![]() |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Goo0dHardDick(op): 5:44pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Sonnobax15(m): 6:00pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
TheFreshVanilla:. Make e be . I prefer to be a generator than to be the transformer that'd be powering the life of one female cockerel while being taken for a fool . I'm too wise to be foolish in this present economy ![]() |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by TheFreshVanilla: 6:16pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
If you’re really ‘too wise to be foolish,’ then be wise enough to pick women who don’t easily move at the flash of naira. Being the side guy doesn’t make you smart, it just proves you’ve got no game outside of being used. Sonnobax15: |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Tenrack: 6:35pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
Goo0dHardDick:abeg we dey wait. ![]() |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Yankee101: 6:39pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
Be ready for all the diseases, STDs and HIV they will be sharing |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by advanceDNA: 6:47pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
TheFreshVanilla:why u dey let the matter pain you?? |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by TheFreshVanilla: 7:40pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
Lol...never. advanceDNA: |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Goo0dHardDick(op): 8:12pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
TheFreshVanilla:I am so happy being the human vibrator. While you're the main generator |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Goo0dHardDick(op): 8:14pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
TheFreshVanilla:Actually, reverse is the case here. It means the side guy got more games than you who appears to be the main generator getting played on by your beloved girlfriend. |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Englishisamust: 8:30pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
advanceDNA:You know whether one side guy don kpainsh hin babe before . The pain around that comment is too glaring |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by advanceDNA: 8:38pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
Englishisamust:Na woman naaa.... On a normal day woman dey like support each other even if Dem do wrong...so instead make she tackle her fellow woman wey dey cheat....na the guy wey no mind to be side nigga she dey para for |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Nobody: 9:12pm On Oct 21, 2025*. Modified: 9:40pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
Nice piece from op. Never be the main guy. |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Nobody: 9:15pm On Oct 21, 2025*. Modified: 9:41pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
Never ask a girl to be your girlfriend |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by FatherCHRISTMAS: 9:33pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
You are playing with infections |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by lightwind(m): 9:34pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
Goo0dHardDick:$ Please help me🙏 how can i be the side guy ![]() $ |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Nobody: 9:35pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
FatherCHRISTMAS:Rubber is very cheap😂😂😂 that’s why I always have them in my wallet😂 How are you even sure, your girlfriend and princess, the one you’re dying for, doesn’t have infection 🤔 |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by AngelSlay: 9:35pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
You're free to live how you want. But understand: Relationships built on manipulation rarely lead to anything meaningful. Constantly being a “side guy” might seem fun now, but it often leaves people empty in the long run — because there's no trust, no depth, just cycles of use and escape. If that’s all you want — cool. But don't pretend it's something noble or wise. It's just one way to live. It has its pros and cons. You’re not wrong that many “main boyfriends” get played. But being the side guy doesn’t make you immune — it just makes you a different kind of tool in the game. Be real with yourself about what you're offering, what you're getting, and what this lifestyle costs you in the long run. Goo0dHardDick: |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by folake4u: 9:35pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
Then do the side niggar responsibility of knacking in peace. What's all these whinings for? |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Naijaguy12345(m): 9:35pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
You need one or two like that. |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by KiNg0G: 9:36pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
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| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by bluefilm: 9:36pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
Goo0dHardDick:So, OP, una don finally carry AMS come nairaland? These Alfa-mail redpillers no dey taya Tufiakwa |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by udemzyudex(m): 9:37pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
Lol... If main bf no too get, na you wey dey form bestie go carry the load. |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by FatherCHRISTMAS: 9:39pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
SpencerForbes:I haven't died for myself yet you expect me to die for someone ![]() |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by LOVEGINO(m): 9:40pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
Goo0dHardDick:it's my main hubbie now. Stealing sex ![]() |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Caaz: 9:42pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
Sonnobax15:Have you broken up with your Omote? |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Silentgroper(m): 9:42pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
Goo0dHardDick:Gbam!! Una just dey cast format this days ..... This format has gotten to more cunts than anyone can imagine . Funny enough, she gives as much attention she gives boify.. But once once, you go drop something like that Sha but it's not definitely as much as boify not even close too .. |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Arostar2023: 9:43pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
Goo0dHardDick:It is rather better to flee fornication and irresponsible living. Even godless people frowns at such a behavior. See wetin dis generation de reason as an advantage ![]()
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| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by millhouse: 9:43pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
Goo0dHardDick:it’s only a guy who has no game won’t smell the coffee when his girlfriend is habouring a side guy. |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Demigod22: 9:44pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
Girlfriend: He is just a friend. Nobody: just a friend (side guy) eating your babe kpekus.
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. My job is to just do my thing and leave. The main boyfriends carries all the loads on his head, bills, payments, her feeding etc, while the side guy just keeps satisfying her konji on a steady. This is my story with several girls I have met. They all have boyfriends but yet kept coming to my house on a steady. Mind you they'll be at my place and bill their boyfriends for either anything and the guys won't hesitate to make transfer. 
. I'm too wise to be foolish in this present economy 