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| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by nurudeen181(m): 9:44pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
Goo0dHardDick:No worry, every gy go still be side guy with time |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Nefort: 9:45pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
Nairaland is such a trashy site. See the the nonsense making front page. |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by BATified2023: 9:46pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
Goo0dHardDick:what's d madness of guys paying d bills of their girlfriend self? It's only low self esteem guys who have nothing else to offer aside money that does that, when I was a bachelor the only thing I owe any girl I date is Sunday Sunday flexing in a schedule. It is all these low self esteem guys who can't control a girl without money that believes they have to pay her bills before she becomes theirs |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Dukeofotukpo(m): 9:47pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
Imagination wants to kill this one Main boyfriend never put bullet for your kneecap dey play |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Nazgul: 9:49pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
SpencerForbes:This here is what most guys don't understand. Cos the moment you do, her attitude towards you changes. You'd find yourself struggling to satisfy her bottomless apitite. I can't even remember the year I asked a girl to be my girlfriend, yet...let me stop here. |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Sonnobax15(m): 9:57pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
Caaz:no...I'm still the main guy tho ![]() |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by kpankpangolo: 9:58pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
Welcome to Nairaland: anything makes front page. We got rid of trolls only to realize their presence stimulated engagement. |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Caaz: 9:59pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
Sonnobax15:from your vituperation seems there is a bestie in the CORN NOW. |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Jamie248: 9:59pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
Nigerian girls are the definition of the word 'parasite' ![]() |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Sonnobax15(m): 10:00pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
Caaz:. Hell no sis......we good ![]() |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Caaz: 10:03pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
Sonnobax15:I dey read your reply with gbejero eyes o |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Sonnobax15(m): 10:04pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Dotherightthing: 10:06pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
Nefort:I tell you ![]() |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Ibehchizzy: 10:07pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
Wait o Do you intend to be the side guy forever? Abi u no dey plan to settle down ni |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by kennisman(m): 10:11pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
Why everyone dey para for o.p nah abi he dun knack ur o.s |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by mozona(m): 10:11pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
Side guy or no side guy, u go still spend money. |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Caaz: 10:12pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
Sonnobax15:You sure....say your territory dey well fenced? Okay oh.... Nor dey follow nairaland boiz empty charade o....majority of them nor know wetin dem dey do o. |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Sonnobax15(m): 10:16pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
Caaz:. I hear wetin you talk sis . No wahala ![]() |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by cyberstarr(m): 10:17pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
Goo0dHardDick:You no get work. Go and find a job and give your life a meaning. It's a shame that at your age, you're only preoccupied with women. |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Karnice600: 10:18pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
AngelSlay:Words with distinction. Best Nairaland contribution ever. |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by ariesbull: 10:28pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
Goo0dHardDick:Clap for yourself May you continue being the second options in people's lives and anything ... May you not be the go to person but the second option or side option |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Hhh4444: 10:28pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
Nazgul:bros you are very correct...being a boyfriend puts you in a tight position. You lose freedom and leverage when you are a boyfriend or husband. I'm saying this from experience. If you truly understand women and how they operate,you wouldn't want to be a husband or boyfriend. Someone said "boyfriend na mumu title" |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by eepeepook: 10:28pm On Oct 21, 2025*. Modified: 11:12am On Oct 22, 2025 |
Every male na Casanova for Nairaland. I dey fold arms look una. Na still the same here una go use alternates dey toast fellow males wey dey pose as females. Comedy in 4K. |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Qunu: 10:43pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
This one pain you. Side guy is sweet and you don't encounter any billing. I enjoyed it those days Sonnobax15: |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Qunu: 10:43pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
This one pain you. Side guy is sweet and you don't encounter any billing. I enjoyed it those days. Sonnobax15: |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by GTsure: 10:49pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
But what happens when some day someone else becomes your wife's bestie. That day may come and hope you'll take it |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by themanderon: 10:52pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
Goo0dHardDick:It will all end in tears for you. Mark my words . That deceitful bread you are feasting on will later turn to gravel in your mouth. Desist while you can before its too late. |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Insectkiller: 11:07pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
SpencerForbes: ![]() Okokobioko...big question, begging for answer |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Insectkiller: 11:11pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
TheFreshVanilla: I don dey hear vibrator since... Wetin be vibrator and the usage..and tell me example of people that use it |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Victoria2022(f): 11:16pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
STD and HIV Dey one corner Dey look you |
| Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by jaszplus12(m): 11:21pm On Oct 21, 2025 |
Yankee101:And probably she's just been had and Mr Side Guy arrives to chop from same pot....lick plate recently "cleared" of male fluid!!! ![]() Shit, what a position! Side guy! Second hand material!! |
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. My job is to just do my thing and leave. The main boyfriends carries all the loads on his head, bills, payments, her feeding etc, while the side guy just keeps satisfying her konji on a steady. This is my story with several girls I have met. They all have boyfriends but yet kept coming to my house on a steady. Mind you they'll be at my place and bill their boyfriends for either anything and the guys won't hesitate to make transfer. 



. I prefer to be a generator than to be the transformer that'd be powering the life of one female cockerel while being taken for a fool