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Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by nurudeen181(m): 9:44pm On Oct 21, 2025
Goo0dHardDick:
Main boyfriend is another name for "mugu".

I prefer being the side guy in a girl's life or relationship (another name for side guy can be term as "bestie"wink. My job is to just do my thing and leave. The main boyfriends carries all the loads on his head, bills, payments, her feeding etc, while the side guy just keeps satisfying her konji on a steady. This is my story with several girls I have met. They all have boyfriends but yet kept coming to my house on a steady. Mind you they'll be at my place and bill their boyfriends for either anything and the guys won't hesitate to make transfer.

I feel main boyfriends are suffering. It is far better to be the side guy than to be the main boyfriend.
No worry, every gy go still be side guy with time
Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Nefort: 9:45pm On Oct 21, 2025
Nairaland is such a trashy site. See the the nonsense making front page.
Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by BATified2023: 9:46pm On Oct 21, 2025
Goo0dHardDick:
Main boyfriend is another name for "mugu".

I prefer being the side guy in a girl's life or relationship (another name for side guy can be term as "bestie"wink. My job is to just do my thing and leave. The main boyfriends carries all the loads on his head, bills, payments, her feeding etc, while the side guy just keeps satisfying her konji on a steady. This is my story with several girls I have met. They all have boyfriends but yet kept coming to my house on a steady. Mind you they'll be at my place and bill their boyfriends for either anything and the guys won't hesitate to make transfer.

I feel main boyfriends are suffering. It is far better to be the side guy than to be the main boyfriend.
what's d madness of guys paying d bills of their girlfriend self?

It's only low self esteem guys who have nothing else to offer aside money that does that, when I was a bachelor the only thing I owe any girl I date is Sunday Sunday flexing in a schedule.


It is all these low self esteem guys who can't control a girl without money that believes they have to pay her bills before she becomes theirs
Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Dukeofotukpo(m): 9:47pm On Oct 21, 2025
Imagination wants to kill this one
Main boyfriend never put bullet for your kneecap dey play
Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Nazgul: 9:49pm On Oct 21, 2025
SpencerForbes:
Never ask a girl to be your girlfriend
This here is what most guys don't understand. Cos the moment you do, her attitude towards you changes. You'd find yourself struggling to satisfy her bottomless apitite.

I can't even remember the year I asked a girl to be my girlfriend, yet...let me stop here.
Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Sonnobax15(m): 9:57pm On Oct 21, 2025
Caaz:
Have you broken up with your Omote?
no...I'm still the main guy tho undecided
Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by kpankpangolo: 9:58pm On Oct 21, 2025
Welcome to Nairaland: anything makes front page. We got rid of trolls only to realize their presence stimulated engagement.
Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Caaz: 9:59pm On Oct 21, 2025
Sonnobax15:
no...I'm still the main guy tho undecided
from your vituperation seems there is a bestie in the CORN NOW.
Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Jamie248: 9:59pm On Oct 21, 2025
Nigerian girls are the definition of the word 'parasite' tongue
Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Sonnobax15(m): 10:00pm On Oct 21, 2025
Caaz:
from your vituperation seems there is a bestie in the CORN NOW.
. Hell no sis......we good cheesy
Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Caaz: 10:03pm On Oct 21, 2025
Sonnobax15:
. Hell no sis......we good cheesy
I dey read your reply with gbejero eyes o
Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Sonnobax15(m): 10:04pm On Oct 21, 2025
Caaz:
I dey read your reply with gbejero eyes o
. Sis calm down cheesy. Everywhere good cheesy
Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Dotherightthing: 10:06pm On Oct 21, 2025
Nefort:
Nairaland is such a trashy site. See the the nonsense making front page.
I tell you angry
Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Ibehchizzy: 10:07pm On Oct 21, 2025
Wait o
Do you intend to be the side guy forever?
Abi u no dey plan to settle down ni
Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by kennisman(m): 10:11pm On Oct 21, 2025
Why everyone dey para for o.p nah abi he dun knack ur o.s
Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by mozona(m): 10:11pm On Oct 21, 2025
Side guy or no side guy, u go still spend money.
Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Caaz: 10:12pm On Oct 21, 2025
Sonnobax15:
. Sis calm down cheesy. Everywhere good cheesy
You sure....say your territory dey well fenced?


Okay oh....

Nor dey follow nairaland boiz empty charade o....majority of them nor know wetin dem dey do o.
Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Sonnobax15(m): 10:16pm On Oct 21, 2025
Caaz:
You sure....say your territory dey well fenced?


Okay oh....

Nor dey follow nairaland boiz empty charade o....majority of them nor know wetin dem dey do o.
. I hear wetin you talk sis cheesy.

No wahala cheesy
Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by cyberstarr(m): 10:17pm On Oct 21, 2025
Goo0dHardDick:
Main boyfriend is another name for "mugu".

I prefer being the side guy in a girl's life or relationship (another name for side guy can be term as "bestie"wink. My job is to just do my thing and leave. The main boyfriends carries all the loads on his head, bills, payments, her feeding etc, while the side guy just keeps satisfying her konji on a steady. This is my story with several girls I have met. They all have boyfriends but yet kept coming to my house on a steady. Mind you they'll be at my place and bill their boyfriends for either anything and the guys won't hesitate to make transfer.

I feel main boyfriends are suffering. It is far better to be the side guy than to be the main boyfriend.
You no get work. Go and find a job and give your life a meaning. It's a shame that at your age, you're only preoccupied with women.
Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Karnice600: 10:18pm On Oct 21, 2025
AngelSlay:
You're free to live how you want. But understand:

Relationships built on manipulation rarely lead to anything meaningful.

Constantly being a “side guy” might seem fun now, but it often leaves people empty in the long run — because there's no trust, no depth, just cycles of use and escape.


If that’s all you want — cool. But don't pretend it's something noble or wise. It's just one way to live. It has its pros and cons.

You’re not wrong that many “main boyfriends” get played.
But being the side guy doesn’t make you immune — it just makes you a different kind of tool in the game.

Be real with yourself about what you're offering, what you're getting, and what this lifestyle costs you in the long run.
Words with distinction.
Best Nairaland contribution ever.
Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by ariesbull: 10:28pm On Oct 21, 2025
Goo0dHardDick:
Main boyfriend is another name for "mugu".

I prefer being the side guy in a girl's life or relationship (another name for side guy can be term as "bestie"wink. My job is to just do my thing and leave. The main boyfriends carries all the loads on his head, bills, payments, her feeding etc, while the side guy just keeps satisfying her konji on a steady. This is my story with several girls I have met. They all have boyfriends but yet kept coming to my house on a steady. Mind you they'll be at my place and bill their boyfriends for either anything and the guys won't hesitate to make transfer.

I feel main boyfriends are suffering. It is far better to be the side guy than to be the main boyfriend.
Clap for yourself

May you continue being the second options in people's lives and anything ...

May you not be the go to person but the second option or side option
Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Hhh4444: 10:28pm On Oct 21, 2025
Nazgul:
This here is what most guys don't understand. Cos the moment you do, her attitude towards you changes. You'd find yourself struggling to satisfy her bottomless apitite.

I can't even remember the year I asked a girl to be my girlfriend, yet...let me stop here.
bros you are very correct...being a boyfriend puts you in a tight position. You lose freedom and leverage when you are a boyfriend or husband. I'm saying this from experience. If you truly understand women and how they operate,you wouldn't want to be a husband or boyfriend. Someone said "boyfriend na mumu title"
Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by eepeepook:
Every male na Casanova for Nairaland. I dey fold arms look una. Na still the same here una go use alternates dey toast fellow males wey dey pose as females. Comedy in 4K.
Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Qunu: 10:43pm On Oct 21, 2025
This one pain you. Side guy is sweet and you don't encounter any billing. I enjoyed it those days
Sonnobax15:
. Make e be grin. I prefer to be a generator than to be the transformer that'd be powering the life of one female cockerel while being taken for a fool angry. I'm too wise to be foolish in this present economy angry
Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Qunu: 10:43pm On Oct 21, 2025
This one pain you. Side guy is sweet and you don't encounter any billing. I enjoyed it those days.
Sonnobax15:
. Make e be grin. I prefer to be a generator than to be the transformer that'd be powering the life of one female cockerel while being taken for a fool angry. I'm too wise to be foolish in this present economy angry
Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by GTsure: 10:49pm On Oct 21, 2025
But what happens when some day someone else becomes your wife's bestie. That day may come and hope you'll take it
Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by themanderon: 10:52pm On Oct 21, 2025
Goo0dHardDick:
Main boyfriend is another name for "mugu".

I prefer being the side guy in a girl's life or relationship (another name for side guy can be term as "bestie"wink. My job is to just do my thing and leave. The main boyfriends carries all the loads on his head, bills, payments, her feeding etc, while the side guy just keeps satisfying her konji on a steady. This is my story with several girls I have met. They all have boyfriends but yet kept coming to my house on a steady. Mind you they'll be at my place and bill their boyfriends for either anything and the guys won't hesitate to make transfer.

I feel main boyfriends are suffering. It is far better to be the side guy than to be the main boyfriend.
It will all end in tears for you. Mark my words . That deceitful bread you are feasting on will later turn to gravel in your mouth. Desist while you can before its too late.
Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Insectkiller: 11:07pm On Oct 21, 2025
SpencerForbes:
Rubber is very cheap😂😂😂 that’s why I always have them in my wallet😂
How are you even sure, your girlfriend and princess, the one you’re dying for, doesn’t have infection 🤔
grin grin grin
Okokobioko...big question, begging for answer
Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Insectkiller: 11:11pm On Oct 21, 2025
TheFreshVanilla:
Keep bragging about being the backup generator. You’re not a ‘side guy’, you’re just a human vibrator with no dignity.

I don dey hear vibrator since...

Wetin be vibrator and the usage..and tell me example of people that use it
Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Victoria2022(f): 11:16pm On Oct 21, 2025
grin STD and HIV Dey one corner Dey look you
Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by jaszplus12(m): 11:21pm On Oct 21, 2025
Yankee101:
Be ready for all the diseases, STDs and HIV they will be sharing
And probably she's just been had and Mr Side Guy arrives to chop from same pot....lick plate recently "cleared" of male fluid!!! grin grin grin grin
Shit, what a position! Side guy! Second hand material!!
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